Sounds like a well-rehearsed scam; you’re probably not the first to get robbed
She looks like a right skank, what an utter cunt
The threats are most likely hot air, don’t worry too much, easier said than done I know but…….
Just be aware on who’s around where you live, any strangers hanging around etc., make sure your property is secured & so on
Compile ALL information on her, ready to either pass on to plod, if the threats/harassment becomes real
And possibly pass it on to the punting community so she can be black listed
Also learn from your mistakes