Cheating on missus

[MrMatrix]

Whether you see it as cheating is irrelevant... would your wife/gf see it as cheating? I reckon the answer would be a resounding yes.

I think so as well, especially if you're getting the quality of sex you mention. hell If i was getting that at home I would never have started this hobby.

[StevenLiverpool]

I think so as well, especially if you're getting the quality of sex you mention. hell If i was getting that at home I would never have started this hobby.

I can get at home no problem, but the temptation of feeling another pair of tits from someone not as saggy and feeling pussy that's not beared kids is why I would consider punting

[stampjones]

I think you should only be punting if your single. Definitely not if your married and have kids. I'm young and new to this, however if I found out my dad was cheating and punting on the side, I would disown him from my life.

Hi son
Youre fuckin adopted anyway so go for it!

[stampjones]

Thing is everyone punts for their own reasons so what right does anyone have to say someone else's is "wrong". Jeez you may as well get with the daily fail.
Me, Im married but I always punted. I do it cos Im addicted. I did it through lots, medium and zero amounts of sex from the missus and - barring some change in me (which is slways possible I suppose), I'll always do it. Why? Cos I fuckin love it

[stampjones]

A kind of related question (for those that are and want to stay married) - if you got caugh/nearly caught and she said as long as you dont do it again we're ok - would/could you stop?
Recently I dropped a big mistake such that the OH could easily have found out. I thought, stop now and I have deniability but one more slip up and basically Im bang to rights. I stopped for a week. Seven days. Then I was straight back in there. And I really dont want a divorce! Couldnt help myself.

[Sedition]

Do I feel guilty?

Sure, but less than I feel worried that I get caught.

As I'm sure many of you have, I've had conversations germane to this with a couple of whores, both of whom (and I agree with them) believe that a lot of punters go to see them because they love their wives, knowing it's a lot more secure than an affair.
One regular (bless her) told me "you aren't paying me for sex, you are paying for my discretion "
That made me chuckle

[catweazle]

Punting is a business exchange. You're just paying for a service. Think of it as getting your hair cut lmao

Exactly. I pay a barber to cut my hair, the dentist to see to my teeth, the chiropodist to see to my feet........ a prossie to suck my cock  is just one more 'personal service' provider.

[Simmo87]

I totally understand why married men punt, after seeing the bullshit my older brother and a few of my friends have been through with divorce courts,getting access to the kids post seperation and paying stupid amonts of child support.

In this day of equal rights they always get the house, kids and car and you the debts and move back into your parents house.

So everytime a civvy girlfriend mentions moving Im 

[StevenLiverpool]

Exactly. I pay a barber to cut my hair, the dentist to see to my teeth, the chiropodist to see to my feet........ a prossie to suck my cock  is just one more 'personal service' provider.

So if you think like that, if you're married why hide it from her? You'd tell her on a Sunday morning "I'm just going to get my haircut darling"

But would you tell her on a Friday night "I'm just going for a BJ darling"?

[Swansea lad]

I feel a bit nervous sometimes going home afterwards but then it's mainly her fault that I punt anyway.

If 15 years ago our sex life was as it is now, then I wouldn't have married her.

I get the odd month when sex is okay but it never lasts, it doesnt bother her either. Generally sex aside she's nice enough though and probably more attractive than most escorts.

[Pussydoc]

The desire to go with different women is very high and tempting for us guys, but for those in a relationship do you guys feel guilty afterwards?

Is it a case of what she don't know don't hurt? For me personally after I've released the load it's like shit what have I done. Then I'm guilty for a week, then it's like let's go with another one again

But I'm always on edge, when the missus rings my mobile when I'm working my heart misses beats, or if she is pissed off im thinking does she know something?

Just wondering if some of you guys in the same boat?

[Pussydoc]

I am always on edge in case she rings during a punt  although it's rarely ,, I don't answer the later will say I was in a meeting or driving. , but I still feel guilty but am soon over it.

[Jonestown]

There is some universal law in place that means that when ever I take my clothes off my mobile kicks off too.

[webpunter]

I never turn it off - looks iffy.  Better to let this ring out [on silent].  Stuck - again - on the M25 

[Plan R]

Someone once said to me 'if it was good enough for the Greeks and the Romans then it's good enough for me...they fucked whatever they wanted!' 

Yes it seems many Roman towns had numerous brothels. Even the small towns.
It must have been accepted then that; married women go off the boil, and that men (of all ages, and status) want to stick their dicks in euro-vag
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[MrMatrix]

I feel a bit nervous sometimes going home afterwards but then it's mainly her fault that I punt anyway.

If 15 years ago our sex life was as it is now, then I wouldn't have married her.

I get the odd month when sex is okay but it never lasts, it doesnt bother her either. Generally sex aside she's nice enough though and probably more attractive than most escorts.

Any chance of a review of some of your punts please. As they'd be really useful for our colleagues on this forum. 

[tazz]

This idea that your cheating is bollocks, humans are the same as animals why should anyone be confined to only having sex with one person. I shagged a prossie 5 weeks after id started a relationship as could spunk with my partner. She had no issues with guys banging prossies who were in relationships.