EAS from me .. but possibly reciprocated from her ?

[PUNTY43]

If she values you so highly ask yourself these questions:

Has she stopped seeing other punters? (ie random blokes off the street that she fucks for money).

Why is she still charging you to fuck her?

Do you know anything about her outside of punting? (not just some bullshit she might have fed you, but something concrete you can validate)

Have you ever had a row with her? (real people in real relationships have rows all the time, people in the service industry do not generally row with their customers)

How much have you got to lose if this goes tits up?

If (and it's a fucking enormous if) these feelings from her are genuine, would you be happy in a 'proper' relationship with a prostitute?

[milkman10]

, would you be happy in a 'proper' relationship with a prostitute?
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could you handle being with her while she still escorts (she might give it up at first but when the bad times come she will go back to it easy money)

[Marmalade]

I know this is all a bit fluffy for UKP but seriously, any suggestions ?

How about,

Quit while you're ahead?


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[webpunter]

Quality Sir 
If mates of the bride to be then they could well be on the game too
But as a special day then hopefully no charge

And the bridesmaids

I'm wondering if there is going to be the pitter patter of tiny feet ? 

[Jacques Barstarred]

You've forgotten the cardinal rule of punting.
Find 'em, fuck 'em, forget 'em.

And the other golden rule: You not only pay to fuck her, but you pay her to fuck off afterwards, too.

[BDiONU]

If you were single/unattached I’d say ride this one as far as it goes, but As you say you are married my suggestion would be to have a close friend take a length of 4x2 and knock some sense into you, these extra hours you are getting for free could work out very expensive in the long run.

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[king tarzan]

A whore is a Queen Cobra she will bite and suck every penny out of you... leave you to rot...

[king tarzan]

And the other golden rule: You not only pay to fuck her, but you pay her to fuck off afterwards, too.

+1

[Brazilian Martian]

A whore is a Queen Cobra she will bite and suck every penny out of you... leave you to rot...

I actually like this saying 

[paper7]

If she values you so highly ask yourself these questions:

Has she stopped seeing other punters? (ie random blokes off the street that she fucks for money).

Why is she still charging you to fuck her?

Do you know anything about her outside of punting? (not just some bullshit she might have fed you, but something concrete you can validate)

Have you ever had a row with her? (real people in real relationships have rows all the time, people in the service industry do not generally row with their customers)

How much have you got to lose if this goes tits up?

If (and it's a fucking enormous if) these feelings from her are genuine, would you be happy in a 'proper' relationship with a prostitute?

Agreed. To summarize your post, 'Think with your brain and not your dick.'

[paper7]

I actually like this saying 

+1 

[RadioKid]

Avoid and move on. Like everybody else is saying and it's a no-brainer.


Nearly all the people on here spend most if not all of their cash on Prostitutes. These Prossies are making decent money and by all accounts, wasting it on shite. You're just surplus income to her.

If, by some slim one-in-a-million chance she is genuine... Do you really think a relationship with a punter and prostitute can last more than a few months knowing her history.

[captainarcher]

Just think about all the fat greasy smelly foreigners bunging their squalid, rancid meat into her fuckholeflaps, pounding away, oozing 10-day unwashed kebab-sweat, and coughing flem all over her manhandled tits —  on her way to meet you for “drinkies”. 

This had me in stitches 

[workinallweek]

She is your fantasy ,dresses how you want , treats you well ,and fucks how you want .
Doesnt mind some social time with you so you get on well .
But are you really seeing the real person ??

Been there done that and got the T Shirt  (and it still grates)

[Avg_Joe]

Sounds to me (without wading through all 3 pages of replies) like a very slippery slope 

[fantasticmrfox]

He doesn't make clear whether there's any passion, intimacy and romance on these drinkies. For instance, if you're doing your stuff for 90 mins and then for two hrs later its just friendly chit chat at the bar, then take the hint, especially after numerous occasions. If you're going to the bar and you've got your arms around eachother or snuggled up and whispering sweet nothings to eachother and the occasional stolen kiss even. I can see why that would be slightly intoxicating and set the pulse racing.

But either way, just put it down as a positive experience. He met someone nice had some drinks and company and let it be... otherwise, I agree it could spell trouble esp if she has a fella and he has a wife. For example, the fella may not know about her job and being caught could let the cat out the bag (during a heated argument perhaps), the fella isn't going to be of calm and logical mind to protect the OPs privacy. Then again he may know what she does, but still wouldn't approve of her spending "civilian" time with another dude.

[Bogof60]

Avoid and move on. Like everybody else is saying and it's a no-brainer.


Nearly all the people on here spend most if not all of their cash on Prostitutes. These Prossies are making decent money and by all accounts, wasting it on shite. You're just surplus income to her.

If, by some slim one-in-a-million chance she is genuine... Do you really think a relationship with a punter and prostitute can last more than a few months knowing her history.

EH?

I don't know anyone else on here but I am fairly certain that Nearly All  DONT spend most if not all their cash on Prostitutes 
I certainly don't
If I was spending nearly all my cash on any hobby I would have to get a different hobby

There have been various threads in the past about how much folk spend on punting and MOST seem to be completely rational and in control of their spending

[king tarzan]

EH?

I don't know anyone else on here but I am fairly certain that Nearly All  DONT spend most if not all their cash on Prostitutes 
I certainly don't
If I was spending nearly all my cash on any hobby I would have to get a different hobby

There have been various threads in the past about how much folk spend on punting and MOST seem to be completely rational and in control of their spending

+1

[king tarzan]

I started seeing a WG as a client about 6 months ago. I immediately fell for her personality as well as her service so started seeing her every week regularly. She would always let me stay half an hour or so longer than I paid. A few months ago she gave me her private phone number and we text each other most days since, just random chatty stuff. Then she starts letting me stay an hour or so longer than I paid. At this point I started dropping big hints that I really liked her and was getting attached to her, etc. She has a boyfriend and she knows I have a wife but she seems to like the "romantic" attention I pay her and never discourages it.

About a month ago after we'd finished our session, I asked her if she wanted to go for a drink and she said yes. So we spent about 90 minutes in a bar (and obviously I wasn't paying for her time). Since then, because I told her how much I liked it, this has happened every time I've seen her, to the point where I'm paying for 90 minutes and spending almost 3 hours naked and a couple of hours outside. One time her accomodation fell through so we just went to a cafe for a few hours instead and again I didn't pay anything for her time !

Now, I'll be the first to admit I do get attached easily (in general) but WTF is going on here ?  In the past month alone she's spent something like 7-8 hours with me unpaid (although admittedly more than half was social, not sexual) and then there's all the time messaging. Cynically you could say she wants to keep seeing my money every week so is being nice to me, but there was a period when I didn't see her for about 6 weeks and the messaging and everything still continued even though I told her I wasn't punting for the foreseeable future.

I really feel like I need to just ask her if she has any sexual/romantic feelings for me but I don't want to fuck up what is a very enjoyable and VFM situation. She is a very private person and very difficult to read what she's actually thinking. The most she's ever said about her feelings is that she really enjoys our time together, which is admittedly pretty bland and vague.

I know this is all a bit fluffy for UKP but seriously, any suggestions ?

What is this nonsense! !

You
Your wife
The queen cobra whore
The boyfriend
The punters

What bollox!!

Stay with your wife!!

She has a boyfriend/ gets fucked by punters/ your just the attention giving surplus dick soon to be like the rest surplus to dick requirements. .

Get a life and stay with your WIFE!!

[Richthescouser]

EH?

I don't know anyone else on here but I am fairly certain that Nearly All  DONT spend most if not all their cash on Prostitutes 
I certainly don't
If I was spending nearly all my cash on any hobby I would have to get a different hobby

There have been various threads in the past about how much folk spend on punting and MOST seem to be completely rational and in control of their spending

Dunno what this poster was thinking - I’d say the vast majority in here use punting as an expensive hobby and stay within their limits, spending what they are able to easily hide. Anyone not single spending all their cash would quickly get caught out by the other half if nothing else.

[Marmalade]

Dunno what this poster was thinking - I’d say the vast majority in here use punting as an expensive hobby and stay within their limits, spending what they are able to easily hide. Anyone not single spending all their cash would quickly get caught out by the other half if nothing else.

I thought it was maybe a typo in an otherwise sensible post.

It’d be a bit like saying you spend most of your money on a single supermarket item — drain cleaner, for instance.

[babatamagotchi]

Not endorsing, and not for everyone, but relationships between SP and married clients can work well. Younger single guys are less financially stable and won't put up with SP job in a primary relationship. Married clients go home at night so SP can work. As with any relationship with OH/girlfriend/SP money is requisite - pay for dates or whatever...  Just agree time, money and relationship boundaries - which is actually easier with a SP than Civvie - and it can work really well and be mutually beneficial.   

[switftjake]

your both adults your both human you both have brains and feelings. Sometimes things click and you get more out of each other company than pay by hour sex

Don’t overthink it enjoy the extra freebie time but warn her you don’t plan to take it any more serious or have stupid notions of taking her away from this “hell”. Also watch out for the bf

an don forget she probably has to servide all the fat ugly fucks on this forum and maybe your a little easier to swallow than them

[Shearer1955]

I doubt EAS happens very often with a WG; more likely the punter who mistakes affection within a PAID meet but even if it does then it would remain between the 2 parties involved - they wouldn't be advertising it on a forum where it is subsequently dissected by everyone

In my opinion the thread created by the OP is bogus

[Ali Katt]

I doubt EAS happens very often with a WG; more likely the punter who mistakes affection within a PAID meet but even if it does then it would remain between the 2 parties involved - they wouldn't be advertising it on a forum where it is subsequently dissected by everyone

In my opinion the thread created by the OP is bogus

I wondered this at first, seems a bit pointless if it is a trolling thread.