Rude Replies to text messages

[Bluelight85]

Just had a very unpleasant reply from an SP from vivastreet saying “fuck off or I report u” after all my text asked was what is their price etc etc, anyone else ever had this sort of response to a perfectly normal text?

[contentguy]

Why not post the details on a regional thread to warn others?

Could be your phone # has a warning against it, could be she’s just a time waster.

Have experienced similar and know that others have had the same experience with the SP as intel was shared here.  Also on AW in this instance.

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[RandomGuy99]

Sounds like you got someone on a bad day or the SP has got your number confused with another texter who has annoyed her.

I once got a similar reply and then a couple of hours later I got an apology from the SP saying she had sent the wrong reply to me and it was intended for someone else, which I thought was very nice of her. We all make mistakes sometimes.

Shit happens. Life goes on. Don't worry about it. Try another SP.

[FLYING BLUE]

I would suggest it's far from normal but, ignore it & move on - sounds like someone who you might not want to give your hard earned

[Munter84]

Without seeing the previous exchange it's impossible to say whether her response was justified!

Bear in mind though that even if you thought you were just making a reasonable request for extra detail, it may have come across as timewasting or would-be sexting. There are apparently a lot of fantasists, voyeurs, phone pests and piss-takers who exist alongside genuine punters. Unable or unwilling to actually go through with a punt, these guys will instead try to get the SPs to send long descriptions of their appearance and services, or angle for free photos "so I can tell you're genuine", presumably so they can have a free wank insted of paying for a punt. Understandably, SPs object to being used as free sex chatlines.

One girl I saw had a particularly strict and onerous system of comms and vetting, and when I brought this up to her post-punt she said that as much as 75% of her incoming comms were from trolls, wankers and general timewasters.

So, assuming you're a good egg, don't take snappy SP comms personally, either just move on or use more precise language setting up a punt to distinguish yourself from the wrong'uns.

[RandomGuy99]

Remember SPs can get a lot of text messages and having to manage multiple conversations in parallel can get a bit tricky and I imagine it's very frustrating especially on Friday afternoon.

Don't worry about it.

Best thing is to send one text saying'

"Hi, I am interested in a 1 hour incall today at 5pm. I am interested in <services>.  Please could you tell me what your prices are and if you are free? Thank you"

That gives the SP everything they need to know in one message.

It shows you are genuine and it keeps the text tennis down to a minimum, which most SPs will appreciate.

[RandomGuy99]

Why not post the details on a regional thread to warn others?

Could be your phone # has a warning against it, could be she’s just a time waster.

Have experienced similar and know that others have had the same experience with the SP as intel was shared here.  Also on AW in this instance.

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Because that would be being a dick and an overreaction to the situation.

We all have our good and bad days. Take it on the chin and move on. There's plenty more SPs out there.

[Bluelight85]

In all fairness the text was “hello what’s your prices and services available, and are you available tomorrow?” So I certainly don’t think the reply was necessary, but all the same as some of you have said “move on” which I have, subsequently blocking the number etc, so done and dusted really, as someone said about posting a warning on here etc, I dont want to do that and make a big deal over it, as there was no real threats or such like, just someone being rude for no reason…lived and learned

[daviemac]

Just had a very unpleasant reply from an SP from vivastreet saying “fuck off or I report u” after all my text asked was what is their price etc etc, anyone else ever had this sort of response to a perfectly normal text?

There could be loads of reasons for it, why worry, forget it and move on to one that is happy to take your money.

[southcoastpunter]

Because that would be being a dick and an overreaction to the situation.

We all have our good and bad days. Take it on the chin and move on. There's plenty more SPs out there.

Although we don't know the full context, but i don't think it would be a dick thing or over-reaction. If he made a polite enquiry (and assuming he is a good guy and is not on any warning list), i want to know about someone who responds in that way.

[RandomGuy99]

Although we don't know the full context, but i don't think it would be a dick thing or over-reaction. If he made a polite enquiry (and assuming he is a good guy and its on any warning list), i want to know about someone who responds in that way.

But what if the SP had made a genuine mistake and sent the wrong reply to the wrong texter?

You'd happily go slagging her off on here?

I prefer to give people the benefit of the doubt. The abuse hasn't caused me a problem.  My life doesn't depend on it and I don't want to go maliciously slagging someone off and negatively impacting their earnings. A reasonable and proportionate response is required. In this case it would be to go find another SP who does want your money.

I have had one troublesome SP who sent me a stream of abusive texts after I left them a well deserved negative review. I did share those interactions on here as she was dangerous. That was a reasonable thing to do.

[RandomGuy99]

It's this kind of thing that wastes police time with "So so and so called me fat on Twitter and you need to speak to them about it and get them to take the post down.". No, you just need to grow up and use the block button so the problematic person has no further interaction with you. Life goes on. Sticks and stones will break my bones, but names will never hurt me and all that.

[Bluelight85]

It's this kind of thing that wastes police time with "So so and so called me fat on Twitter and you need to speak to them about it and get them to take the post down.". No, you just need to grow up and use the block button so the problematic person has no further interaction with you. Life goes on. Sticks and stones will break my bones, but names will never hurt me and all that.

In all fairness the text was “hello what’s your prices and services available, and are you available tomorrow?” So I certainly don’t think the reply was necessary, but all the same as some of you have said “move on” which I have, subsequently blocking the number etc, so done and dusted really, as someone said about posting a warning on here etc, I dont want to do that and make a big deal over it, as there was no real threats or such like, just someone being rude for no reason…lived and learned

[RandomGuy99]

Yes, you have dealt with in the correct way. Well done.

[southcoastpunter]

But what if the SP had made a genuine mistake and sent the wrong reply to the wrong texter?

You'd happily go slagging her off on here?

I prefer to give people the benefit of the doubt. The abuse hasn't caused me a problem.  My life doesn't depend on it and I don't want to go maliciously slagging someone off and negatively impacting their earnings. A reasonable and proportionate response is required. In this case it would be to go find another SP who does want your money.

I have had one troublesome SP who sent me a stream of abusive texts after I left them a well deserved negative review. I did share those interactions on here as she was dangerous. That was a reasonable thing to do.

firstly - i do not slag people off on here (or anywhere come to that!).  Much like one negative review, i would not let just one incident put me off- luckily i have only had to (politely) report facts similar to this once about a (SA) lady and then someone else  said "she has done that to me too" so it wasn't a "one off" or a mistake but imo showed a side of her that i found unpleasant and because of that, i didn't want to meet. for me that would apply to an Escort as much as a SA lady.

[deg_dilemma]

I wonder if the wrong number is on the advert and there's some poor lil ol' granny somewhere getting all these filthy requests for prices and services

[Bluelight85]

I wonder if the wrong number is on the advert and there's some poor lil ol' granny somewhere getting all these filthy requests for prices and services

That actually did cross my mind you know,… I could just imagine, regardless of how polite I was in my text if the recipient had already received a lot of dirty ones or not

[RandomGuy99]

That actually did cross my mind you know,… I could just imagine, regardless of how polite I was in my text if the recipient had already received a lot of dirty ones or not

I always worry about getting the number wrong and sending my text asking for an incall for sex to some random person.

[Bluelight85]

I always worry about getting the number wrong and sending my text asking for an incall for sex to some random person.

Me too , thats why on the first text I never mention sex or massage etc, just “service” and “prices” so if I did get the wrong number I could be like ‘ahhh sorry I thought you were the hairdresser ’ it’s an easy get out in the event of a wrong number…

[jimbobted]

I always worry about getting the number wrong and sending my text asking for an incall for sex to some random person.

I have actually done that  . I never talk about specific acts of get explicit in a first message, but it was clear what I was talking about.
I did get a reply, which was curt if not actually rude, making clear my error.

[bops909]

I always worry about getting the number wrong and sending my text asking for an incall for sex to some random person.

You can eliminate this risk, on AW at least, by using the QR code option where you don't have to type anything into your phone.

On Kommons you can do something similar, which connects you without typing. They even give you the text for your message.

Whatsapp can be quite helpful here as well, where a lot of providers have a photo of themselves, which is handy.

[RandomGuy99]

You can eliminate this risk, on AW at least, by using the QR code option where you don't have to type anything into your phone.

I can't scan QR codes on my punting phone.

[Lou2019]

In all fairness the text was “hello what’s your prices and services available, and are you available tomorrow?” So I certainly don’t think the reply was necessary, but all the same as some of you have said “move on” which I have, subsequently blocking the number etc, so done and dusted really, as someone said about posting a warning on here etc, I dont want to do that and make a big deal over it, as there was no real threats or such like, just someone being rude for no reason…lived and learned

It can get irritating for us SPs at times when the information you have asked for is (usually clearly) available on our profiles. The response was a bit harsh though in my opinion, as PPs have mentioned maybe she mistook you for someone else, or you have misbehaved in the past and your number is on CE. 

[Bluelight85]

It can get irritating for us SPs at times when the information you have asked for is (usually clearly) available on our profiles. The response was a bit harsh though in my opinion, as PPs have mentioned maybe she mistook you for someone else, or you have misbehaved in the past and your number is on CE. 

I’m guessing the SP probably mistook me for someone else as I’m 99.9% certain my number wouldn’t be on CE as I’ve never had any trouble whatsoever with any SP, or indeed it could simply be that the number on the Vivastreet ad was incorrect, I can imagine some random person being bombarded with people requesting a service they would never provide would be the highest of irritation. With regards to asking as to what services are provided I can understand also that it may get irritating if someone asks what services are available, but the only reason I actually ask is because sometimes a service is listed that they don’t actually do, so more or less just confirming things.

Also…..I thank everyone on here for taking the time to reply 

[southcoastpunter]

With regards to asking as to what services are provided I can understand also that it may get irritating if someone asks what services are available, but the only reason I actually ask is because sometimes a service is listed that they don’t actually do, so more or less just confirming things.

yes but by your wording given above you are asking a very open general question when they have already listed what they offer. would it not be better to say something like "i really like x and y, can i just confirm you offer this and its included in your hourly rate of £x?"

[Bluelight85]

yes but by your wording given above you are asking a very open general question when they have already listed what they offer. would it not be better to say something like "i really like x and y, can i just confirm you offer this and its included in your hourly rate of £x?"

That’s true to say I guess, it would be clearer and more specific, but as I said before just in case I put the number in wrong, or of course if the number they put on their page is wrong, I never actually generally mention the exact service, I certainly wouldn’t want some random old dear getting a text saying “is blowjob with CIM included in half hour?” 

[Trpy]

In all fairness the text was “hello what’s your prices and services available, and are you available tomorrow?” So I certainly don’t think the reply was necessary, but all the same as some of you have said “move on” which I have, subsequently blocking the number etc, so done and dusted really, as someone said about posting a warning on here etc, I dont want to do that and make a big deal over it, as there was no real threats or such like, just someone being rude for no reason…lived and learned

A lot of SPs on AW warn about sending texts asking questions, the answers to which are already stated in their profile.  They can be inundated with text that are no more than sexting.

Was the answer to your question already and sufficiently addressed in her ad?

Mind you she sounds like a stupid cow.  Who does she think she is going to report you to, and on what grounds.   

would you really want to shag her - probably done you a favour 

[Bluelight85]

A lot of SPs on AW warn about sending texts asking questions, the answers to which are already stated in their profile.  They can be inundated with text that are no more than sexting.

Was the answer to your question already and sufficiently addressed in her ad?

Mind you she sounds like a stupid cow.  Who does she think she is going to report you to, and on what grounds.   

would you really want to shag her - probably done you a favour

No, the profile itself was a bit ambiguous, the “ Services I offer & don't offer” was saying yes/no to services that were no/yes on the main text of the profile, checked it since and it’s changed now, maybe someone else has been asking? Also the picture on the profile I reverse image searched and it’s a models photo even though the profile says now “ My photos are up to date and 100%” to be honest glad I never furthered anything. Saved myself the agro and money by the looks of things. And that’s a good point too “report” me for what and to who?

[daviemac]

And that’s a good point too “report” me for what and to who?

ClientEye.

[Bluelight85]

ClientEye.

Oh, yeah forgot about that one…. Would have been unfair to report me just for that though  but never mind, I blocked her etc, saved myself a few quid in the process…

[kingmg]

Has anyone tried to search their own number on client eye?
Tried earlier and account is restricted when first setup?
Asking me to buy them a coffee for £10 as its out of hours

[daviemac]

Has anyone tried to search their own number on client eye?
Tried earlier and account is restricted when first setup?
Asking me to buy them a coffee for £10 as its out of hours

Unless you're registered and verified as an SP any number you put in will show as having 1 report.