Having enjoyed many of your posts, winky, I can't help but think some who know you may be just a little surprised if the full depths of your delicious depravity get revealed!
It's funny, I actually had an in-depth discussion about 'the other side' with my last and very wonderful punt (very wonderful lady, too), and it has made me wonder what my reaction would be from that other side.
Another thing that occurred to me after an inquisitive/curiosity meet with a Medium around 20yrs ago, was that if they knew all this stuff about me from talking to a specific ex-family member across the ether (the amount of detail was frankly scary and absolutely incontrovertible) then absolutely all my grandparents, x1, x2, x3, ad infinitum, know about the shit I get up to.
I rationalise, temper and self-justify this in my own mind by always being nice to WGs (which is hopefully reciprocated), and depending on the type of punt, always try to give the WG as much fun and pleasure as I'm getting.
Call it
punting karma, if you will
.