Building up Sperm for WG

[intheshadow]

Before I visit a SP I usually won’t ejaculate for over a week. So when it’s time for action I’m very hard and very excited.    The problem I have is after round one I find it difficult to cum again.  I can get hard without difficulties but my pipes feel disconnected.The last time I visited a SP I decided not to build up so much, but still had the same problem.  Just wondering how much you guys build up before a meet?

[lewis666]

I wouldn’t put so much planning into it, go with the flow and if she’s hot and your enjoying what your after then you’ll have no problem getting hard or producing a load. Over thinking will sometimes ruin your experience and it’s not like the SP will offer a certificate for your large load so just enjoy yourself

[Purple_Bariquade]

Being able to cum a second time is less to do with how much you've got in your balls and more of a mental thing, one I've not fixed yet. The more you think about needing to cum the harder it is to actually happen

[Happiness]

I wouldn’t put so much planning into it, go with the flow and if she’s hot and your enjoying what your after then you’ll have no problem getting hard or producing a load. Over thinking will sometimes ruin your experience and it’s not like the SP will offer a certificate for your large load so just enjoy yourself

Agree with Lewis. I only plan ahead if the SP is seriously attractive with great reviews. Otherwise I like to book on the day. I don't cum more than once very often either. I've never really felt the need to cum more than once with partners (girlfriends), so rare I want to with Sps. Don't put pressure on yourself.

[the_exile]

Yes, what the others have said, don't over-think it and put pressure on yourself to perform. Id say 2-3 days without cumming is enough so that you are ready for it with an SP.

[pa5151]

I've never been able to cum a second time in an hour even when I was 18, don't know how you guys do it.

[bob the knob]

most times i cant even cum once these days, doesn't stop me enjoying myself with the ladies.  honestly guys do you really think the ladies give a dam.    about how many times you cum and how big your load is.  your'e paying them,  they only want your money.

[Purple_Bariquade]

most times i cant even cum once these days, doesn't stop me enjoying myself with the ladies.  honestly guys do you really think the ladies give a dam.    about how many times you cum and how big your load is.  your'e paying them,  they only want your money.

Last one I saw seemed to be kinda annoyed when I couldn't cum a second time and stopped me as I was trying to wank to a finish. It was an overnight and 1-2 hours into round two at midnight

[Yorkshirefatrascal]

I don't even try to come twice.

I just like to make it last as long as possible. When I do come its more powerful.

Quality before quantity

[MysteryManNo.7]

Yeah even though I like to make sure i've not unloaded for a week or two before a booking I find I'm usually able to only cum once and after that I'm done.

In my last booking with Jamiee in MK I saw her for 90 mins and whilst I did manage to cum twice the 2nd time was only after quite a lot of self love by me and Jamiee helping with a great show of her pussy and ass and even then it was a far weaker orgasm.

[notcalledchris]

I think that there is some scientific evidence that volume increases with abstention, but that the optimum time is 4 or 5 days.  If you wait for longer than that, you are unlikely to get any benefit (although you may be different).  I try and leave at least 24 hrs, but struggle with longer due to temptations of the OH/hand.

[PepeMAGA]

It's going to be a combination of biology and psychology. You might be better not saving it up, but being satisfied with one long session, instead of multiple ones.
If not you could try chemical interventions, Trt, L dopa, vasodilator etc.

[GingerNuts]

I wouldn’t put so much planning into it, go with the flow and if she’s hot and your enjoying what your after then you’ll have no problem getting hard or producing a load. Over thinking will sometimes ruin your experience and it’s not like the SP will offer a certificate for your large load so just enjoy yourself

A four year build up, going to be quite the cum shot when you finally let go.

[notcalledchris]

A four year build up, going to be quite the cum shot when you finally let go.

You'd be turning up the the punt with a wheelbarrow like Busta Gonad.

[itslavish]

I've never been able to cum a second time in an hour even when I was 18, don't know how you guys do it.

 This, just turned 21 and it takes me around 30 to 45 minutes to finish the first time and like another 45 to cum a second time

[WARSZAWA16]

I try not to come for around 2 days before a punt. Not too bothered about a second coming. I'm just happy and grateful enough for just the one at my age. 

[WelshClipper]

I've never been able to cum a second time in an hour even when I was 18, don't know how you guys do it.

  +1

Its always been about achieving orgasm once for me. I was a one time guy when 18 and a one time guy now, maybe take a little longer thats all. I prefer to invest in the single orgasm, not cumming at all would be a bit of a downer for me but its rarely a problem.

So yeah, takes the pressure off the meet IMV.

[Jacobs]

its not a problem, if you are punting for an hour then be happy cumin once, but if you're going for a 2/3 hour session and cumin just once then you are wasting your money.

[horn e. devil]

its not a problem, if you are punting for an hour then be happy cumin once, but if you're going for a 2/3 hour session and cumin just once then you are wasting your money.

Disagree strongly with this.
I love a two hour session with one big cum at the end.
Making it last so long makes the orgasm much stronger, and anyway, it’s not all about that. The journey is the best part, not necessarily the destination! A two, three, or once even a four hour build up is great fun and can be really intense.

As to the original question, yes I do abstain for at least a few days beforehand to guarantee a good load.
But that’s not for her benefit, I just want to see her with as much cum on her face as possible!
As I get older, the abstention does seem to be getting longer though 😂

[GingerNuts]

its not a problem, if you are punting for an hour then be happy cumin once, but if you're going for a 2/3 hour session and cumin just once then you are wasting your money.

If all you're bothered about is cumming once why waste money on an hour? 15 minutes would do.

[Jacobs]

Disagree strongly with this.
I love a two hour session with one big cum at the end.
Making it last so long makes the orgasm much stronger, and anyway, it’s not all about that. The journey is the best part, not necessarily the destination! A two, three, or once even a four hour build up is great fun and can be really intense.

As to the original question, yes I do abstain for at least a few days beforehand to guarantee a good load.
But that’s not for her benefit, I just want to see her with as much cum on her face as possible!
As I get older, the abstention does seem to be getting longer though 😂

My hats off to you, I wish I had that self control.

[Gordy555]

5 to 7 days does it for me before I see a WG. I also stick to a max of a one hour session, and cum only once.

[bandit650sak6]

I saved up for my last meet as I knew she loved me cumming on her tits. She even commented on the fact it was a big load which added to it for me! Generally though I can get going easily and can orgasm 2 times in 30mins or 3/4 in an hour but the load will be very little

[lewis666]

A four year build up, going to be quite the cum shot when you finally let go.

Yup because the only way we are all classed as a contributor is to put a review on….you’ve no idea why I haven’t and why I have contributed in other ways but 

[GingerNuts]

Yup because the only way we are all classed as a contributor is to put a review on….you’ve no idea why I haven’t and why I have contributed in other ways but 

I didn't mention anything about you not posting reviews. You must have a guilty conscience...

[senordingdongs]

Quite gifted as I seem to be able to produce a double load within around 10 minutes of the first of equal quantity which according to the woman was something they’ve never seen before.

[Jayjay1]

I always had the ability to get it up few times during a punt.

This 1 time i visited a badly attitude WG with unappealing looks I saved up 3 weeks of cum and loaded her mouth with it then struggled to get it hard for the next 30/40 mins (1 hour booking) she told me it was normal after a big load.

I partly believed her as I rarely go 3 weeks without cumming but same time I knew I wasn't enjoying it.

Another time I saved up few weeks of cum and kept cumming throughout as the girl was very good.

If you young/fit you should't have an issue. If you can't get it hard its the girl.

[Andywb]

I like to wait 3 or 4 days between massage and happy endings - not so much because of the volume of cum but cos otherwise I don't experience the same level of arousal. But also a happy ending the day after an ejaculation definitely results in a much smaller volume plus it is thinner and more watery.

My regular thai masseuse will ask me what I have been up to if I produce a smaller volume of cum than usual  Like "did you have a wank or see another girl before coming to see me"   Of course, it's her job to keep me entertained but I am pretty sure she likes to see a big load

I am almost 60 by the way

[lillythesavage]

I've never been able to cum a second time in an hour even when I was 18, don't know how you guys do it.

Lol, neither have I.

I have often wondered if it is a macho thing, some post they cum twice and many follow, or the head has convinced the cock of a second coming.

 I am sure some can but reading reviews with a break in the middle always seems strange to me, I prefer sex to flow to a natural conclusion, knocking one out in 20 minutes or so, having a break, then chasing another one does not appeal at all.

Do it once and do it right 

[lillythesavage]

I like to wait 3 or 4 days between massage and happy endings - not so much because of the volume of cum but cos otherwise I don't experience the same level of arousal. But also a happy ending the day after an ejaculation definitely results in a much smaller volume plus it is thinner and more watery.

My regular thai masseuse will ask me what I have been up to if I produce a smaller volume of cum than usual  Like "did you have a wank or see another girl before coming to see me"   Of course, it's her job to keep me entertained but I am pretty sure she likes to see a big load

I am almost 60 by the way

I do not think how often dictates the quality of the load, it is a factor but not the dictator, the length of time you spend aroused, on foreplay or being played with and edged makes all the difference.
Short meets and massage shop wanks do not give the balls a chance to refill properly. I can manage a big healthy load day after day, sometimes same day on longer meets providing the long arousal is there. 

I am very nearly 60 too.

[lewis666]

I didn't mention anything about you not posting reviews. You must have a guilty conscience...

 

[Steely Dan]

There are few, if any, scientific papers on second orgasm semen volume.  The consensus from the medical profession is that abstinence has no effect on this.  For the second ejaculation, this is only about production rate which is related to age, fitness and several other variables.  So go work out and lose some weight.  Some suggest orgasaming a lot helps but I can find no peer reviewed papers to confirm this. About the best you can do on the day is drink a fair of bit of water so production is not slowed.  Here is a paper which describes:

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For first cum, this paper has a nice graph.  So it is NOT urban legend that abstaining has an effect on your first shot:


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Personally, I don't care about my volume.  As long as I am hard enough to fuck her. To each his own.

[Buttons]

Once met an escort who said she knew a guy threat could cum loads of times, which sounded fun. Until she explained it was more a case of he suffered from repeating premature ejaculation. Don’t know if it was a bull shit story, but she said the guy would continually pop at the slightest provocation. Unzip his jeans, boom. Touch his cock, boom. Rub his cock, boob. Try and give him a blowjob, boom. The poor guy couldn’t get a condom on without making a mess.

Apparently it made the session problematic and he seemed to get frustrated because he couldn’t settle into things and enjoy himself properly.

I’d echo the advice above and go with the flow. Don’t worry if you can’t cum more than once and you are squirting like a fire hose.

[winkywanky]

It's not all about how often you can cum, although the visual aspect can appear impressive. It's about the quality of your orgasm.

I discovered Betamax porn when I was around 20, in those days I could cum twice in around 15mins (and three times in an hour). A real, full-on wanking sesh. I was fully turned on and could get hard again and cum again.

40yrs on, I can manage a second cum in an hour if I'm lucky.

But...and there is a but...ejaculation was fast, very fast, and no good with a woman.

These days I can fuck for well over an hour, full-on fucking with changes of position making small gaps in the action. All that time spent fucking is pleasurable, being able to last that long. When I cum at the end of that time, my orgasm is ten times what it used to be.

I guess I would say it, because I have no say in the matter, I'm now an old git. But hey, I know which version of me I prefer  .

[winkywanky]

I guess what I'm saying is this: whatever stage of life you're at, so long as you can keep getting hard then embrace whatever sexual skills and capability you have, and use them fully for your own enjoyment.

And unless you're stupidly selfish, if you're having a good time, then the woman (or whoever    ) is on the other end of your cock, is having a good time too  .

[lillythesavage]

It's not all about how often you can cum, although the visual aspect can appear impressive. It's about the quality of your orgasm.

I discovered Betamax porn when I was around 20, in those days I could cum twice in around 15mins (and three times in an hour). A real, full-on wanking sesh. I was fully turned on and could get hard again and cum again.

40yrs on, I can manage a second cum in an hour if I'm lucky.

But...and there is a but...ejaculation was fast, very fast, and no good with a woman.

These days I can fuck for well over an hour, full-on fucking with changes of position making small gaps in the action. All that time spent fucking is pleasurable, being able to last that long. When I cum at the end of that time, my orgasm is ten times what it used to be.

I guess I would say it, because I have no say in the matter, I'm now an old git. But hey, I know which version of me I prefer  .

Sort of what I was saying, the longer you are aroused and your dick is in use the better the orgasm and better the load, going days with out arousal does not mean a better load. Just your mind wanting it more

[simping]

Before I visit a SP I usually won’t ejaculate for over a week.

Sidetrack: a SP recently told me eating peanut butter makes your sperm tastes sweeter, or at least easier to swallow. So if you go a week building up the ol' sperm bank try eating some peanut butter
Drink lots of fluids, it'll help also. I usually drink an hour prior to the punt, helps with round two 

[winkywanky]

Sidetrack: a SP recently told me eating peanut butter makes your sperm tastes sweeter, or at least easier to swallow. So if you go a week building up the ol' sperm bank try eating some peanut butter
Drink lots of fluids, it'll help also. I usually drink an hour prior to the punt, helps with round two 

I've always wonderd where the verb: To NUT came from, now I know. Thanks 

[Malvolio]

Question for the OP - what happens when you've got hard for the second time and you're shagging?  For me I lose sensitivity once I've come, but can get it up again after about ten minutes.  The sensitivity gradually returns for me during the second bout and I can come again towards the end of the hour.   

However, I did have a spell three to four years ago when I would punt after a day's work, and find myself tiring and unable to come twice.  I worked out that the physical strain of going to the office, then heading out for the punt had a negative effect on my performance levels.  Now I either punt at the weekend or after a day spent working from home.

[winkywanky]

Sidetrack: a SP recently told me eating peanut butter makes your sperm tastes sweeter, or at least easier to swallow. So if you go a week building up the ol' sperm bank try eating some peanut butter
Drink lots of fluids, it'll help also. I usually drink an hour prior to the punt, helps with round two 

I'm thinking of starting my own health-drink brand for lusty young women, I shall eat nothing but peanut sandwiches (crusts off), with pineapple and yogurt for dessert. Then I shall bottle my snowy nectar (organic, unpasteurised) and get Tesco to sell it from the same chilled shelf as Actimel and Yakult      .

Unfortunately the bottles will be necessarily very small (it's the age you see) but if anyone else here with an entrepreneurial bent would like to join in my venture, please PM me  .

[intheshadow]

Question for the OP - what happens when you've got hard for the second time and you're shagging?  For me I lose sensitivity once I've come, but can get it up again after about ten minutes.  The sensitivity gradually returns for me during the second bout and I can come again towards the end of the hour.   

However, I did have a spell three to four years ago when I would punt after a day's work, and find myself tiring and unable to come twice.  I worked out that the physical strain of going to the office, then heading out for the punt had a negative effect on my performance levels.  Now I either punt at the weekend or after a day spent working from home.

I have no problems getting hard a second time as I usually spend two hours with an SP, But the feeling of wanting to cum disappears and I’m just pumping away thinking this ain’t happening.  It’s now becoming a mental thing.  Not physical.

[Buttons]

I have no problems getting hard a second time as I usually spend two hours with an SP, But the feeling of wanting to cum disappears and I’m just pumping away thinking this ain’t happening.  It’s now becoming a mental thing.  Not physical.

That’s the other thing with sex, over thinking it. Setting mental goals for yourself that if you don’t cum 2, 3 times etc then it was crap sex and wasted money. Just go with the flow and judge success on how you feel overall after the punt. Not what boxes you ticket off.

[Whiteknight]

Saving a week's worth is my preference, to maximise my sensitivity in sex and ego boost for cumming just a little more for CIM or facial.

[Whiteknight]

I saved up for my last meet as I knew she loved me cumming on her tits. She even commented on the fact it was a big load which added to it for me! Generally though I can get going easily and can orgasm 2 times in 30mins or 3/4 in an hour but the load will be very little

Do you often do 3 and 4 times in a 1 hour booking?

It's hard work for the SP 

[workinallweek]

 i dry cum once in a 2 hour session  so i make it a good one have a couple of regulars who are patient and work hard to get the result  .for that i thank them   2 in sheffield and one in Norfolk  all reviewded

would i like more than one yes of course but the quality i get is  bloody brilliant

 i do try and give as good as i get though 

[funfungoodguy]

I'm no doctor but;
Most of the ejaculate ('Cum') is liquid from your Prostate gland where the sperm are mixed into the carrying fluid made in the Prostate. The 'VAS' brings the little swimmers up to the prostate just under your bladder where they mix with the fluid made in the prostate, and then when the orgasm happens you shoot it out. You can orgasm even if you don't cum for example men who have had their prostate removed altogether for prostate cancer. its a state of mind thing. The idea that swelling balls full of thick juicy cum await the porn film belting out of your cock in hot heavy jets is erm -.. bollocks... because not very much of the ejaculate or spunk originates in the balls in fact.

That's also why men who have had a vasectomy can still spunk - nothing comes from the balls at all 'cos the tube is cut or sewn up, but the cum is made in the Prostate so you still spunk.
FF

[Dipper]

Probably one of the worst things I could do pre punt would be to build up a load over a week.

If I don’t unload say at least one or two days pre punt the chances are that five minutes in I’ll be struggling to hold on IF I find the WG attractive and She’s giving a good service.

Things can also go the other way, if the WG is below par looks and service wise I’ve been known not to be able to spurt. Or end up finishing manually. 

[Jeffe]

What does wind me up is when a girl takes it as a personal affront if you don’t cum. I’ve always only ever been a 1 pop guy but some days it just doesn’t happen. Someone mentioned a dry cum but if the girl doesn’t see a big load she sometimes presumes you’re not having a good time (which makes you feel worse when they express this). I guess what I’m saying is we’re not all machines!

[intheshadow]

What does wind me up is when a girl takes it as a personal affront if you don’t cum. I’ve always only ever been a 1 pop guy but some days it just doesn’t happen. Someone mentioned a dry cum but if the girl doesn’t see a big load she sometimes presumes you’re not having a good time (which makes you feel worse when they express this). I guess what I’m saying is we’re not all machines!

I was with a Romanian SP and because I hadn’t cum within 10 minutes she said what’s wrong with your dick.  That was the last time I’ll ever visit a SP from that country. Complete  Bitch

[winkywanky]

I'm no doctor but;
Most of the ejaculate ('Cum') is liquid from your Prostate gland where the sperm are mixed into the carrying fluid made in the Prostate. The 'VAS' brings the little swimmers up to the prostate just under your bladder where they mix with the fluid made in the prostate, and then when the orgasm happens you shoot it out. You can orgasm even if you don't cum for example men who have had their prostate removed altogether for prostate cancer. its a state of mind thing. The idea that swelling balls full of thick juicy cum await the porn film belting out of your cock in hot heavy jets is erm -.. bollocks... because not very much of the ejaculate or spunk originates in the balls in fact.

That's also why men who have had a vasectomy can still spunk - nothing comes from the balls at all 'cos the tube is cut or sewn up, but the cum is made in the Prostate so you still spunk.
FF

You're pretty well 100% correct. Around 10% of ejaculate is direct from the balls, the other 90% is as you correcltly say, from the prostate.

As for the state of mind thing, hmmmm. Guys who have had their prostate removed are lucky if they can still have the sensation of orgasm, it's very hard for the surgeon to remove all the prostate tissue without wrecking the nerves involved in the male orgasm.

And you are right about vasectomised guys losing only a little of their cum, as above, about 10%

I only know all this because I was vasectomised 20yrs ago, and recently had prostate reduction surgery (not removal, thankfully).

The other thing to add is that even if you have 'successful' prostate reduction surgery, afterwards ejaculation can 'backfire' into the bladder, leaving you with a somewhat disappointing display of spurty spunk. It basically becomes easier for your ejaculate to go into the bladder than down your urethra. Then the next time you pee, all the diverted spunk comes out then.

This happens to me most of the time, however my orgasms are totally insane and can last a whole minute now. I think this is because fresh nerve endings have now appeared near the surface, who knows? But when you hear women boasting about their juddering, 'whole body orgasms', that's me that is  .