Author Topic: Being a regular (Read 1441 times)

Willowspoke1 · « **on:** August 31, 2019, 01:13:52 pm »

I just wanted your thoughts on being a regular to the same wg. I'm fairly new here but I've been seeing the same wg at least once a week. Sure we know each other well but I'm starting to find the service becoming boring and sometimes when I visit her it's almost like going through the motions. The other day she asked me if I just wanted her naked without wearing anything as like she couldn't be arsed getting ready. However, I bet your bottom dollar if it was a newbie visiting her it would probably be a different story. I almost find the service gets worse rather than better!

Just wanted your opinion on it...

MME · « **Reply #1 on:** August 31, 2019, 01:43:41 pm »

She’s starting to sound like a wife. She’ll be moaning at you next....

Try another WG and see how you get on.

FLYING BLUE · « **Reply #2 on:** August 31, 2019, 01:55:01 pm »

Quote from: Willowspoke1 on August 31, 2019, 01:13:52 pm

I just wanted your thoughts on being a regular to the same wg. I'm fairly new here but I've been seeing the same wg at least once a week. Sure we know each other well but I'm starting to find the service becoming boring and sometimes when I visit her it's almost like going through the motions. The other day she asked me if I just wanted her naked without wearing anything as like she couldn't be arsed getting ready. However, I bet your bottom dollar if it was a newbie visiting her it would probably be a different story. I almost find the service gets worse rather than better!

Just wanted your opinion on it...

Yep - some regulars start to take the piss and see you as easy money - no doubt in my mind

tynetunnel · « **Reply #3 on:** August 31, 2019, 01:58:45 pm »

Agreed. I had one regular who bothered less each time.

daviemac · « **Reply #4 on:** August 31, 2019, 02:20:26 pm »

Quote from: Willowspoke1 on August 31, 2019, 01:13:52 pm

Just wanted your opinion on it...

As long as you stick to asking opinions on regulars you'll be OK. No Dear Deidre type posts.

Willowspoke1 · « **Reply #5 on:** August 31, 2019, 02:32:38 pm »

Totally agree with you all, she just sees me as easy money. Each week I see her she will say "oh Ill see you next tues and wednesday" I sometimes buy her gifts so yes there is no loyalty in this game. It is also nice to hear a WG on here keep me right so thank you.

Yes Im going to ditch her next week and have a rest maybe even try a new WG. No doubt though she will start texting asking where I am. Cheer

nerascal · « **Reply #6 on:** August 31, 2019, 02:34:05 pm »

It really depends the girl. I see one person fairly regularly and have done for years and she gets better with every visit.

It's more like an affair with a properly filthy lass than a paid service now.

She is the total exception and asks for the same amount regardless of how long I'm there.

Sounds like you need to cast your net and try someone new.

Willowspoke1 · « **Reply #7 on:** August 31, 2019, 02:52:04 pm »

Quote from: nerascal on August 31, 2019, 02:34:05 pm

It really depends the girl. I see one person fairly regularly and have done for years and she gets better with every visit.

It's more like an affair with a properly filthy lass than a paid service now.

She is the total exception and asks for the same amount regardless of how long I'm there.
Sounds like you need to cast your net and try someone new.

Yes thanks for your opinion. I normally go for 1 hour and sometimes Ive been there for 2 hours no extra charge but I see her as you mention like a filthy affair. But lately Ive been going for half an hour and after all the money and gifts Ive gave her she says "oh you will need to stick to your time Ive got a guy coming". Fucking cheecky if you ask me. But yes Im going to have a rest from her and see another girl.

waynekerr600 · « **Reply #8 on:** August 31, 2019, 02:55:06 pm »

Quote from: Willowspoke1 on August 31, 2019, 02:52:04 pm

Yes thanks for your opinion. I normally go for 1 hour and sometimes Ive been there for 2 hours no extra charge but I see her as you mention like a filthy affair. But lately Ive been going for half an hour and after all the money and gifts Ive gave her she says "oh you will need to stick to your time Ive got a guy coming". Fucking cheecky if you ask me. But yes Im going to have a rest from her and see another girl.

I think sticking to your time is the best way. Avoids any crossed wires or expectations in the future.

datwabbit · « **Reply #9 on:** August 31, 2019, 03:02:39 pm »

Quote from: Willowspoke1 on August 31, 2019, 02:52:04 pm

Yes thanks for your opinion. I normally go for 1 hour and sometimes Ive been there for 2 hours no extra charge but I see her as you mention like a filthy affair. But lately Ive been going for half an hour and after all the money and gifts Ive gave her she says "oh you will need to stick to your time Ive got a guy coming". Fucking cheecky if you ask me. But yes Im going to have a rest from her and see another girl.

That might be due to her not you. Realised what's happening and wants to reign it in. Pity about the gifts as it's punting money in another form.

You could always try a few massages to break from escorts while you go looking again.

Sar-Major · « **Reply #10 on:** August 31, 2019, 03:26:40 pm »

Quote from: MME on August 31, 2019, 01:43:41 pm

She’s starting to sound like a wife. She’ll be moaning at you next....

Try another WG and see how you get on.

Try being "Regular" every 4-6 weeks that way neither of you should get complacent.

Sar-Major · « **Reply #11 on:** August 31, 2019, 03:27:57 pm »

Quote from: daviemac on August 31, 2019, 02:20:26 pm

As long as you stick to asking opinions on regulars you'll be OK. No Dear Deidre type posts.

Dear Uncle Davy,

I've been seeing this girl for a while.................................

captainblack1776 · « **Reply #12 on:** August 31, 2019, 03:58:58 pm »

Quote from: MME on August 31, 2019, 01:43:41 pm

She’s starting to sound like a wife. She’ll be moaning at you next....

Try another WG and see how you get on.

Happened to me too - saw her regular then sometimes no sex - no money either - don’t know if that was chicken and egg syndrome - just became a habit; like a mate as such - we both gave up eventually - she retired; I moved on.

Willowspoke1 · « **Reply #13 on:** August 31, 2019, 04:28:15 pm »

Quote from: captainblack1776 on August 31, 2019, 03:58:58 pm

Happened to me too - saw her regular then sometimes no sex - no money either - don’t know if that was chicken and egg syndrome - just became a habit; like a mate as such - we both gave up eventually - she retired; I moved on.

Yes I agree with you except I don't get it free. Its the sex is becoming boring she just lies there tickling my balls whilst I wank off and it always has to be me who initiates anything. Im thinking I could have stayed at home with the old palm and five sisters and save myself £80 for half an hour.

But I do feel like shes more a friend as we have close relationship which I do like but the money is expensive. And I know shes just using me for easy money. Some of these WGS are good at drawing us punters in for more.

The Outsider · « **Reply #14 on:** August 31, 2019, 04:33:55 pm »

Sometimes familiarity breeds contempt. I'd give her a miss for a while and see if the break "resets" the parameters. Or you may simply realise there's no desire to go back.

I'd also stop buying gifts and stick to paying for time. Keep things simple.

waynekerr600 · « **Reply #15 on:** August 31, 2019, 04:39:43 pm »

Quote from: Willowspoke1 on August 31, 2019, 04:28:15 pm

But I do feel like shes more a friend as we have close relationship which I do like but the money is expensive.

Friends don't do it for money. Paid sex is a business transaction.

Sounds like you have a touch of EAS to me.

waynekerr600 · « **Reply #16 on:** August 31, 2019, 04:41:18 pm »

Does anyone else draw a blank when trying to read the OPs review?

enitram · « **Reply #17 on:** August 31, 2019, 04:46:00 pm »

Quote from: waynekerr600 on August 31, 2019, 04:41:18 pm

Does anyone else draw a blank when trying to read the OPs review?

+1

Willowspoke1 · « **Reply #18 on:** August 31, 2019, 04:47:13 pm »

Quote from: The Outsider on August 31, 2019, 04:33:55 pm

Sometimes familiarity breeds contempt. I'd give her a miss for a while and see if the break "resets" the parameters. Or you may simply realise there's no desire to go back.

I'd also stop buying gifts and stick to paying for time. Keep things simple.

Good post thanks for advice. Yes Im going to stop the shopping trips and have a break. When I do back Ill pay for time and leave.

daviemac · « **Reply #19 on:** August 31, 2019, 04:59:41 pm »

Quote from: waynekerr600 on August 31, 2019, 04:41:18 pm

Does anyone else draw a blank when trying to read the OPs review?

No, not everyone.

Kev3773 · « **Reply #20 on:** August 31, 2019, 05:02:55 pm »

Quote from: Willowspoke1 on August 31, 2019, 02:32:38 pm

Totally agree with you all, she just sees me as easy money. Each week I see her she will say "oh Ill see you next tues and wednesday" I sometimes buy her gifts so yes there is no loyalty in this game. It is also nice to hear a WG on here keep me right so thank you.

Which WG

daviemac · « **Reply #21 on:** August 31, 2019, 05:08:42 pm »

Quote from: alfie2013 on August 31, 2019, 05:02:55 pm

Which WG

You'll be very lucky to get an answer to that.

Moby Dick · « **Reply #22 on:** August 31, 2019, 05:15:50 pm »

Quote from: Willowspoke1 on August 31, 2019, 01:13:52 pm

I just wanted your thoughts on being a regular to the same wg. I'm fairly new here but I've been seeing the same wg at least once a week. Sure we know each other well but I'm starting to find the service becoming boring and sometimes when I visit her it's almost like going through the motions. The other day she asked me if I just wanted her naked without wearing anything as like she couldn't be arsed getting ready. However, I bet your bottom dollar if it was a newbie visiting her it would probably be a different story. I almost find the service gets worse rather than better !

Just wanted your opinion on it...

datwabbit · « **Reply #23 on:** August 31, 2019, 05:38:43 pm »

Quote from: Willowspoke1 on August 31, 2019, 04:28:15 pm

Yes I agree with you except I don't get it free. Its the sex is becoming boring she just lies there tickling my balls whilst I wank off and it always has to be me who initiates anything. Im thinking I could have stayed at home with the old palm and five sisters and save myself £80 for half an hour.

Hang on, you have a wank yourself for £80 while she tickles your balls. You could wear a furry glove and save yourself the money.

Time to move on. She's taking you for a ride now. I think you realise that yourself. We've confirmed it. Use ukp and pick your next one.

Moresomes · « **Reply #24 on:** August 31, 2019, 07:10:23 pm »

Quote from: Sar-Major on August 31, 2019, 03:27:57 pm

I've been seeing this girl for a while.................................

Wouldn't like to book this one.
Be like chucking a chipolata into the tyne tunnel.

AnthG · « **Reply #25 on:** August 31, 2019, 07:17:56 pm »

Quote from: FLYING BLUE on August 31, 2019, 01:55:01 pm

Yep - some regulars start to take the piss and see you as easy money - no doubt in my mind

Flying Blue has perfectly explained the issue in one sentence.

If you keep seeing the same girl, and are lacking in confidence and are nice. You get seen as a softtouch and a pushover and the level of service drops off a cliff.

I have called it third punt phenomena as this is how many times it usually takes for it to happen to me.

No matter how many times you keep booking her, you are not going to get it back to how it was. Its only the unprofessional girls who will do this, and thus, you are not going to get it back.

So you have a choice, keep seeing her knowing the punts are going to be a fraction of what you'd get with someone else. Or just book someone else.

There are some bloody amazing girls in the north east. So whoever this girl is, she is not alone in the NE to think to yourself that you have to put up with it.

tynetunnel · « **Reply #26 on:** August 31, 2019, 07:33:21 pm »

Quote from: Moresomes on August 31, 2019, 07:10:23 pm

Wouldn't like to book this one.
Be like chucking a chipolata into the tyne tunnel.

Oi !

winkywanky · « **Reply #27 on:** August 31, 2019, 07:39:10 pm »

Quote from: nerascal on August 31, 2019, 02:34:05 pm

It really depends the girl. I see one person fairly regularly and have done for years and she gets better with every visit.

It's more like an affair with a properly filthy lass than a paid service now.

She is the total exception and asks for the same amount regardless of how long I'm there.

Sounds like you need to cast your net and try someone new.

I think you need to tell Willowspoke who it is so he can try her

The Outsider · « **Reply #28 on:** August 31, 2019, 07:58:47 pm »

Quote from: AnthG on August 31, 2019, 07:17:56 pm

I have called it third punt phenomena as this is how many times it usually takes for it to happen to me.

I've thought and said the same - if punt number 3 is as good as the first two, you've probably cracked it. For a while at least!

daviemac · « **Reply #29 on:** August 31, 2019, 08:01:38 pm »

Quote from: Willowspoke1 on August 31, 2019, 02:32:38 pm

Yes Im going to ditch her next week and have a rest maybe even try a new WG. No doubt though she will start texting asking where I am. Cheer

I'm going to give you the best advice you will ever get, don't even think about seeing another girl, stop punting all together. Do yourself a real favour and take that advice.

Edit

Make sure you ditch this one as well.

Sar-Major · « **Reply #30 on:** August 31, 2019, 08:05:55 pm »

Quote from: Moresomes on August 31, 2019, 07:10:23 pm

Wouldn't like to book this one.
Be like chucking a chipolata into the tyne tunnel.

Oi, "Fucking Bollock Chops" what do you mean by the comment like........................

AnthG · « **Reply #31 on:** August 31, 2019, 08:09:14 pm »

Quote from: Willowspoke1 on August 31, 2019, 02:32:38 pm

Yes Im going to ditch her next week and have a rest maybe even try a new WG. No doubt though she will start texting asking where I am. Cheer

Get a Pay as you Go sim from Three and use this. If you cannot do that then get a cheap second punting phone from CEX and use that with the new sim.

I am not sure what you mean by "ditch" as she is a working girl so just don't contact her and use your new phone/sim and forget the old sim exists (just chuck it in a drawer somehwere incase you ever need it).

Then book one of the really popular girls in the region. I say this as they are popular for a reason; they are good looking, fun to be around and are most of all professional. Hence why they are popular.

Colston36 · « **Reply #32 on:** August 31, 2019, 10:34:38 pm »

The advantages: she knows what you like - and vice versa.

The disadvantages: having discovered them it's easy to keep giving you what you want. So you both get bored.

The solutions: tell her you want to try something new and discuss it. And try someone new.

On that basis I've built up a roster, and am very happy.

AnthG · « **Reply #33 on:** August 31, 2019, 11:20:06 pm »

Quote from: Colston36 on August 31, 2019, 10:34:38 pm

The advantages: she knows what you like - and vice versa.
The disadvantages: having discovered them it's easy to keep giving you what you want. So you both get bored.
The solutions: tell her you want to try something new and discuss it. And try someone new.

I don't think it's that to be honest. I think the OP is complaining that his regular is taking the mick and seen him for a mug.

I will give you some examples of what happened to me to get an idea of this phenomena; Spending almost the entire punt texting her boyfriend back and forth right infront of me, then kicking me out the second the time was up.

Or saying she doesn't feel like sex today as she is not feeling very well. Or doesn't feel like oral either. Or anything else. But she is working a full day with the agency and you can bet your last dollar she is not saying it to anyone else.

If you show you are a soft touch, you get treat as one and its pretty much impossible to get over that.

Book a different girl is my advice. There are much better girls than whoever she is in the north east.

tynetunnel · « **Reply #34 on:** September 01, 2019, 11:12:53 am »

I’m with Anth on this, totally. She’s milking him for everything she can, while she can

Mansell · « **Reply #35 on:** September 01, 2019, 02:33:17 pm »

Quote from: tynetunnel on September 01, 2019, 11:12:53 am

I’m with Anth on this, totally. She’s milking him for everything she can, while she can

Yep, so am I. A decent regular would never behave in the way he has described. It would be a hell of a lot of fun and you'd be really looking forward to the next meeting. Mind they are a rare find.

Disco dave · « **Reply #36 on:** September 01, 2019, 03:19:25 pm »

Agree with the above.

Getting milked like a cat.

waynekerr600 · « **Reply #37 on:** September 01, 2019, 04:04:02 pm »

Quote from: Disco dave on September 01, 2019, 03:19:25 pm

Agree with the above.

Getting milked like a cat.

You drink cats milk?

FLYING BLUE · « **Reply #38 on:** September 02, 2019, 11:09:35 am »

Quote from: FLYING BLUE on August 31, 2019, 01:55:01 pm

Yep - some regulars start to take the piss and see you as easy money - no doubt in my mind

Adding in the fact that (in my own experiences) there have been a couple of very notable exceptions to this

Sar-Major · « **Reply #39 on:** September 02, 2019, 12:55:27 pm »

Quote from: FLYING BLUE on September 02, 2019, 11:09:35 am

Adding in the fact that (in my own experiences) there have been a couple of very notable exceptions to this

Seconded.

dave_59 · « **Reply #40 on:** September 02, 2019, 03:53:59 pm »

I've pretty much quit now but my rule was I never saw anyone more than 3 times.

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