Flirting with the girl before a punt

[Hobbit]

I have read on a few reviews that some punters exchange flirty texts or emails with the girl leading up to a punt. Is this very common amongst guys? Does this only apply to regulars or new girls also?

I have always kept communication down to the bare minimum i.e. contact for a booking, confirm booking and email any requests. In my experience, I have always thought that girls are inundated with emails and texts and therefore would not like to communicate more than necessary. Am I wrong in thinking that?

[Steve2]

You are spot on LJ

 

[bigmc]

Very much depends on the girl. I see it as an ice breaker.

[Distraction]

I have always kept communication down to the bare minimum i.e. contact for a booking, confirm booking and email any requests. In my experience, I have always thought that girls are inundated with emails and texts and therefore would not like to communicate more than necessary. Am I wrong in thinking that?

Same here - I don't think I'm rude, but I keep the comms brief. I guess most girls would prefer that based on the volume they probably have to deal with.

[James999]

I have read on a few reviews that some punters exchange flirty texts or emails with the girl leading up to a punt.

The reality is they are often flirting with the boyfriend / pimp 

[vw]

Very much depends on the girl. I see it as an ice breaker.

Yes some accept it well and play the game for others is is a mere annoyance.

Have one that loves to hear about my other punts, inspiration I think!

[threechilliman]

Yes some accept it well and play the game for others is is a mere annoyance.

Have one that loves to hear about my other punts, inspiration I think!

I have a couple of regs who want to know who I've fucked since I last saw them. One likes all the gory details - I think it inspries her.

tcm

[vw]

I have a couple of regs who want to know who I've fucked since I last saw them. One likes all the gory details - I think it inspries her.

tcm

Yes my main regular wants me to get one of the others to our next overdayer.

I'm sure between pops we can arrange company !

[willbred]

I haven't generally flirted pre-punt but occasionally the girl has gone down that route....and by hell it has the desired effect, I'm gagging for it when I get there. Always remember once a girl in Worcestershire texted me about 6 times during the afternoon between booking and punt. On arrival, I knocked the door with my bell-end. She did exactly what she had spent all afternoon promising to do to me, and all

[vw]

I haven't generally flirted pre-punt but occasionally the girl has gone down that route....and by hell it has the desired effect, I'm gagging for it when I get there. Always remember once a girl in Worcestershire texted me about 6 times during the afternoon between booking and punt. On arrival, I knocked the door with my bell-end. She did exactly what she had spent all afternoon promising to do to me, and all

Who was that ?  Does she travel south ?

[willbred]

Who was that ?  Does she travel south ?

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Dunno how far she travels

[tonysoprano]

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Dunno how far she travels

Fuck me, the state of that, i'd pay her not to txt me. 

Each to their own though.

[Big Cat]

Like OP I like to keep pre-punt interaction as brief as possible. Very rarely has a WG text me on her own accord but that's the only way I'll ever engage in text talk with them. Otherwise I'd just feel like they were doing it begrudgingly

[wristjob]

I guess it depends on the girl - if I were on the other side of the fence I think after 4 or 5 texts I'd cancel their booking and tell them to eff off. It comes out of their time so it would become a chore, and obviously she can't realistically text while in a booking.

I guess similar with punters. Some guys might like it - and for some it's just more evidence on their phone they have to remember to delete.

[vw]

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Dunno how far she travels

Quite a bit more than I was hoping for, thanks for sharing anyway.

[LoneWolf2020]

from her point of view the texter is a guy thats probably double her age and she has no idea what he looks like. you really think her flirting is meaningfull? 

[vw]

from her point of view the texter is a guy thats probably double her age and she has no idea what he looks like. you really think her flirting is meaningfull? 

The person cumming on her face is also the same age as the one texting.  Different escorts deliver different expereince and some like to build you up if your receptive !!

There is no right way !

[willbred]

from her point of view the texter is a guy thats probably double her age and she has no idea what he looks like. you really think her flirting is meaningfull? 

Well I don't for one, but flirting is flirting....done well, it's an appetiser before the main course

[LoneWolf2020]

you're wasting each others time, just communicate to arrange booking.

[vw]

you're wasting each others time, just communicate to arrange booking.

Wolfcub if both parties are in to it its wasting nobody's time. 

[threechilliman]

The only girl I remember 'sexting' before a punt was Rebecca More, which surprised me (maybe the punter she was with wasn't occupying her fully ). It amused me because my phone kept going off and one of the lads asked who kept texting me. My reply? 'You wouldn't believe me if I told you'.

tcm

[willbred]

you're wasting each others time, just communicate to arrange booking.

Our time, our phones...live with it

[willbred]

The person cumming on her face is also the same age as the one texting.  Different escorts deliver different expereince and some like to build you up if your receptive !!

There is no right way !

Well said that man 

[vw]

The only girl I remember 'sexting' before a punt was Rebecca More, which surprised me (maybe the punter she was with wasn't occupying her fully ). It amused me because my phone kept going off and one of the lads asked who kept texting me. My reply? 'You wouldn't believe me if I told you'.

tcm

Did you keep the text in your scrap book ?

[bristolqwerty]

I set up a punt with a girl, my old AW profile had +15 positive reviews from me, I had 7 reviews back which were all great from reputable escorts might I add.  All booked, everything rosey.  I sent 2 texts over a three day period leading up just to check things like stockings etc... nothing rude but got a reply back saying she'll contact the police if I texted again  I think flirting is obviously a skilled act.  . Needless to say I always phone now and only text once to say I'm on my way, then phone to say I'm here!  I ocassionally pluck up the courage to speak during a punt but keep an eye on where the telephone is. 

[SophieScott]

I don't mind the odd text before a booking....but I would keep them brief, as if you send too many explicit texts you may find she thinks you are a timewaster and cancels your booking.

[vw]

I set up a punt with a girl, my old AW profile had + 15 positive reviews from me, I had 7 reviews which were all great from reputable escorts might I add.  All booked, everything rosey.  I sent 2 texts over a three day period leading up just to check things like stockings etc... nothing rude but got a reply back saying she'll contact the police if I texted again  I think flirting is obviously a skilled act. 

No sounds like a bitch over reacting !  She could have been more business savy about it !

[Cuntminion]

Text for

Booking
Outfit

On the day

Confirm booking

That's it

Unless I'm drunk and play text roulette and pick a random number of my phone to text them I'm attracted to the wombles but generally I hide my phone if I know I'm going on the piss

[threechilliman]

Did you keep the text in your scrap book ?

Funnily enough I did keep them for a few days and kept re-reading them. It was the fact that here is a well-known porn star flirting with me the day before I punted her which I couldn't believe. When I saw her she told me her prices were going up to £350 an hour, so after the punt I deleted them. I also had to use wet wipes to clean my phone......

tcm

[LoneWolf2020]

I don't mind the odd text before a booking....but I would keep them brief, as if you send too many explicit texts you may find she thinks you are a timewaster and cancels your booking.

anyone sensible realises this

[vw]

anyone sensible realises this

Oh the wolfcub has spoken, he got an escort on to hold his hand.  If up to the 2 parties involved are in to it no problem !!!

[willbred]

anyone sensible realises this

Yep totally agree. On the few occasions I've got involved in sexty tennis, it's been triggered by the girl sending something saucy and I think..."hello, game on here"....

When I've had such, and in a few cases, it's lasted a few days, I feel I'm getting a bit longer fun-time included for the price of me punt!

[LoneWolf2020]

its up to you what you do, i just dont piss about with all that as in my opinion its a waste of time and shes probably on the other end thinking what a saddo

[vw]

its up to you what you do.

Yes ! and they usually start it, they know how I would receive the fun. 

But unsolicited text you are right !

[LoneWolf2020]

girls you've seen before im guessing?

[vw]

girls you've seen before im guessing?

Mainly girls from the rotation.  Not new ones with out permission but encourage them to start it !

[LL]

Are you kidding? No way! The girls who send flirty replies back to clients most likely have templates on their phone for this. In the same way they've got a template message with the door number and other information sent immediately before you meet. Alongside that one there are the "I can't wait to meet you, big boy" type messages as well. Maybe she'll just replace a couple of the words (e.g the client's name, name of outfit, role play scenario name, etc), this is to make it appear more personal but of course it is not.

[LoneWolf2020]

Are you kidding? No way! The girls who send flirty replies back to clients most likely have templates on their phone for this. In the same way they've got a template message with the door number and other information sent immediately before you meet. Alongside that one there are the "I can't wait to meet you, big boy" type messages as well. Maybe she'll just replace a couple of the words (e.g the client's name, name of outfit, role play scenario name, etc), this is to make it appear more personal but of course it is not.

+1 agreed

[Bikerboy]

I don't sext pre-punt unless encouraged.

A minority of girls have encouraged. Some very much so...

[vw]

Are you kidding? No way! The girls who send flirty replies back to clients most likely have templates on their phone for this. In the same way they've got a template message with the door number and other information sent immediately before you meet. Alongside that one there are the "I can't wait to meet you, big boy" type messages as well. Maybe she'll just replace a couple of the words (e.g the client's name, name of outfit, role play scenario name, etc), this is to make it appear more personal but of course it is not.

Gutted, how many did she sent this to ? "I wan't to kiss you while your shitting"

[Bikerboy]

Are you kidding? No way! The girls who send flirty replies back to clients most likely have templates on their phone for this. In the same way they've got a template message with the door number and other information sent immediately before you meet. Alongside that one there are the "I can't wait to meet you, big boy" type messages as well. Maybe she'll just replace a couple of the words (e.g the client's name, name of outfit, role play scenario name, etc), this is to make it appear more personal but of course it is not.

Makes sense. Not all girls do it that way though

[lewisjones23]

Just for clarification

The WG isnt flirting - she is playing along to ensure the booking goes ahead

[vw]

Just for clarification

The WG isnt flirting - she is playing along to ensure the booking goes ahead

Very much depends, depends on many factors, to clarify !

[Timmy2]

I love to flirt before seeing a girl, even if I have seen them before.  In the heat of battle you tend to forget to ask for what you really want, and if they know.... well the menu tastes better
Often, flirting has gotten something on the menu which is not on her "likes" list
The more texts, whatapps or AW Emails the better for me, as long as you know when to stop and except it when they are busy you an't going to get a reply 
Waiting for replies now for tomorrow's meeting, going to have to get on with some work instead 

Raddy

[Mansell]

There is one girl in the NE who charges a bit more but does a few chatty messages before and after the meet, it seems to be part of her GFE, and does add something to the meet.

The majority it's keep it short, but occasionally you meet one where for whatever reason you get on the same wavelength and have a great chat backwards and forwards both before & after and no I don;t mean just the standard paste & copy txt. But think that'sa NE girl thing 

[Steely Dan]

I wish I had all the sexy texts I got from woofie35.  She knew it was OK as on my punting phone. She would text me from work that she was not wearing any knickers and so on.  By the time we met up later I was well warmed up!  (I clear my  phone all the time just in case, so they are gone) External Link/Members Only

[lewisjones23]

Very much depends, depends on many factors, to clarify !

Sorry to burst your bubble but take away the prospect of a booking and the ' flirting ' will soon stop

[Ben4454]

I keep my romantic interests and my punting seperate. I flirt with women I meet in my day to day life but keep a very emotional unattachment when punting.

I never had any desire to flirt with a working girl. For me punting is a money for sex transaction. That part of me will always be switched off.

[Bikerboy]

Ben and Lewis Jones

We realise it's play flirting. You are both stating the bleeding obvious.

 

[Smoking joe]

I personally really appreciate some effort by email. I usually send an initial hello introducing myself and include a broad description of who i am when i want to meet and anything in particular im looking for, and its all usually fine.

I quickly learned though that as soon as any attempt at "banter" starts, that the conversation stays polite and business like, which is kinda a shame.

I figure any responses back to me which were flirty / dirty would be much more fun and mean im more likely to go back, but i also understand that if 50 people are emailing 1 girl she wont have the time to respond to them all.