Do you warn an escort before CIM?

[smellychip]

Might have been asked before, I looked but I couldn't find anything. Apologies if so. My question is on etiquette basically, where escorts offer CIM do you warn them before popping ("I'm going to cum"...) or do you just do it? I've always warned as consider it good manners but the downside is they might be a cum dodger and then stop sucking or "prepare" themselves to stop doing so and you don't get as strong an orgasm or as good memories for the wank bank

[Adoniron]

Yes unless its been agreed on in advance. I suspect most of them know when you're getting near that point of cumming anyway.

[Duncy]

Yes unless its been agreed on in advance. I suspect most of them know when you're getting near that point of cumming anyway.

  I ways agree this before hand and ask if they want to told some do some dont.

[Dipper]

Always have done out of politeness.

[Shel1234]

Yes, I learned my lesson. I’ve had a girl choke on my cum and spit it out, because I came in her mouth whilst she was deepthroating me. She apologised and said she only spat because  she wasn’t expecting it.

So that’s why I always warn the girl beforehand.

[MrMatrix]

  I ways agree this before hand and ask if they want to told some do some dont.

Likewise. 

[king tarzan]

100%.. I have even pushed there head away..
I fully respect they told me no they don't do cim..
I'm not a cunt that will disrespect there wish for my own selfish gratification

[The Owl]

I'm one of those blokes that tells a woman when I'm about to cum (perhaps I unconsciously want her to give me marks out of 10) so it's not really a problem if an escort does CIM. If she doesn't do CIM and she's getting me a bit too close for comfort then I'll warn her. I don't cut easily from a BJ so it's pretty easy to stay within the agreed boundaries.

[myothernameis]

My holidays, so was at lap dancing club, some of the girls, went further than other girls.   One of these girls, gave me a blow job, and had to stop her, as I was about to cum

[Lou2019]

  I ways agree this before hand and ask if they want to told some do some dont.

this 

[Duncy]

this 

Hi Lou2019 why say this and what do you mean?

[MissWolf]

Hi Lou2019 why say this and what do you mean?

She means agreeing beforehand is good or thats how I read it, sorry if I'm wrong Lou

In similar words, its polite to ask the sp if she would like you to tell her when you are going to cum when doing cim, some SP's will say yes please warn me, others will say no it's fine just go for it 

[KerachiDope]

I warn her before she swallows my kids.

[Lou2019]

She means agreeing beforehand is good or thats how I read it, sorry if I'm wrong Lou

In similar words, its polite to ask the sp if she would like you to tell her when you are going to cum when doing cim, some SP's will say yes please warn me, others will say no it's fine just go for it 

no exactly that MissWolf  I'm a bit of a stickler for agreeing services beforehand to avoid any disappointment and confusion

[Johnbean]

I always say before I finish CIM as being a shooter it hits the back of the throat, but to be honest as I’m very verbal anyway she will know I’m close when she hits the spot.

[Ben1983]

Yeah always.

If CIM isn’t allowed, I’ll warn them, so they stop and finish me with their hand.

If CIM is allowed, I’ll still warn them, so that they can “prepare” and it’s less of a shock

Just being polite, really.

[Duncy]

no exactly that MissWolf  I'm a bit of a stickler for agreeing services beforehand to avoid any disappointment and confusion

That is what I was saying I did, what was confusing me was your emoji  as though you disapproved of what I said.

[StingRay]

At Uni they taught us 2 important lessons in life:

1. Always tell a girl before you cum in her mouth
2. Always knock on the wall before you cum if in a glory hole

 

[Stevelondon]

At Uni they taught us 2 important lessons in life:

1. Always tell a girl before you cum in her mouth
2. Always knock on the wall before you cum if in a glory hole

 

I recall the old jokes about the two most common lies ever used/told.

“No…… I will not cum in your mouth”

AND

“Your cheques in the post”

[smellychip]

LOL@some of the replies. To be clear I wasn't suggesting CIM when that's not offered/not been agreed. I was asking specifically about when it's been agreed in advance, do you warn when you're about to pop and here it seems the consensus is yes which is cool. I like the idea though of asking them if they want the warning, I'll try that next time...

[boardyhell]

best to warn them if you want to return

[Colston36]

I recall the old jokes about the two most common lies ever used/told.

“No…… I will not cum in your mouth”

AND

“Your cheques in the post”

Shows how sex has changed since my innocent (unprotected, stupid) youth.

In those days it was "keep going, I won't cum." But I did.

And so began marriage number one.

[hamchang]

Shows how sex has changed since my innocent (unprotected, stupid) youth.

In those days it was "keep going, I won't cum." But I did.

And so began marriage number one.

   it's funny cos its true

Must say the only time I deliberately did not warn a WG I was about to cum was on a dreadful punt with a Rom who was within about 3 seconds of me taking my strides off was saying "cum for me baby" using every trick in the book to milk me out the door before. Tried ever so hard not to give any clue it was coming and convinced her to put it in her mouth as she was doing the wank wank fake BJ. Just as she did I unleashed. Was only surprised that the back of her head didn't blow out! She wasn't that miffed and just happy I had finished and would be gone soon. Even laughed at the amount that had flew out.

Other than that, I find a few "I'm coming" are welcome.

[Stevelondon]

best to warn them if you want to return

Can you imagine if the SP was hard of hearing.

YOU:   "I'm cumming"

HER:  "Sorry, what did you say"...................as she gets an eyefull.

[Adoniron]

In a similar vein, would you tell a civilian (a casual encounter rather than a wife or GF) if you were about to CIM?

[winkywanky]

Personally I'm quite vocal so never any surprise with me. Normally along the lines of oh fuck I'm cumming  .

As for whether the girl has specified in her Enjoys whether she does CIM or not, I find that from experience, in the moment things may change. So I won't necessarily pull out, but equally I'm not forcing it in at all. So it won't come as a surprise to her, and she doesn't have to get an unwanted mouthful either. No coercion.

And I apply this 'rule' in general, to both Civvies and WGs. I'm also mindful that a girl shouldn't in any way feel forced, so I'm aware of any body language which might betray that. If I feel any such discomfort then I withdraw as a gentleman should.

[jlike]

When seeing a new wg I always ask, before any action starts, do the have any does and don'ts. This should set out limits, likes or dislikes right at the start.

[Bonker]

My wife insists that I give her fair warning.
Stupid twat, how am I going to phone her during a punt?

[MrMatrix]

My wife insists that I give her fair warning.
Stupid twat, how am I going to phone her during a punt?

[Home Alone]

 

+ at least 1. Brilliant, Bonker!

[finn5555]

My wife insists that I give her fair warning.
Stupid twat, how am I going to phone her during a punt?

 

[Whiteknight]

Yes I will give her some warning, so that she keeps her mouth wide open unless she want a facial 

Everything should be agreed beforehand for the services I am after in a booking.

[winkywanky]

My wife insists that I give her fair warning.
Stupid twat, how am I going to phone her during a punt?

  

[Rick2468]

I also say when I am about to cum from blowjob either with partners or WG just so they are prepared. I remember Divine_Anna was giving me awesome head and I said I was about to cum as I wasn't sure if she would take it and instead of moving away and wrapped her lips firmly around my cock to take it in her mouth. Good girl.

[OREOLOVER]

yeah I am way to polite and nervous to simply cum in their gob without permission! 

[tesla]

yeah I am way to polite and nervous to simply cum in their gob without permission! 

do you punt?  I cant seem to find your reviews

[Fuzzyduck]

do you punt?  I cant seem to find your reviews

[tynetunnel]

do you punt?  I cant seem to find your reviews

As if by magic, less than 15 minutes later, a review has appeared!

[alabama1]

As if by magic, less than 15 minutes later, a review has appeared!

Seems more like a fictional story, (after two and a half years), more so than a factual review.

[MrMatrix]

As if by magic, less than 15 minutes later, a review has appeared!

And the reference is bollox

[Bonker]

What's more... I've got a sneaking suspicion that he hasn't had an oreo for some time.

[thundercrackerxx]

No I never tell them. Never know if they'll use it as a chance to pull away first.

[bigboy96]

I always say when I'm going to cum, except once, as she spoke zero English, and the bj wasn't that brilliant anyway. But it didn't seem to worry her, and the fuck later was great!

[finn5555]

Depends on her attitude really 

[Buttplug]

Going back a long time to Manchester’s  red light district I used to have a £15 punt for a BJ.  Always told to tell them when I was about to shoot. But in the moment never did. They ended up complaining sometimes and one spat it down my trousers but I thought it was part of the fun. There were some risqué encounters. I wouldn’t chance it now.