Got myself in a bit of a bad situation.

[scutty brown]

Isn`t that a bit naughty putting her Facebook profile up?

Same photos, it's a sex work profile, and she's  a scammer.


Assuming the OP's tale is true

[metallica1994]

Do you mean this one?
External Link/Members Only or External Link/Members Only

Reports on *are*unting that she's a crackhead


PS Do you have a relative named "Anth"???

Yes that's the one. Didn't want to name and shame but if it helps other punters.

[metallica1994]

You need some time to heal aswell without naming the woman right? lol. 

EDIT: Oh I see you named her at least. Nevermind then. Good luck with the healing.

I was actually really down and had suicidal feelings.

[metallica1994]

Sounds a familiar story, wonder if it’ll follow the same pattern as the other sob stories that usually aren’t.

It was every story in the book. Kids ill rushed to hospital, going to get kicked out of flat, needed money or going to get locked up etc.

[metallica1994]

Is this for real? come on. Don't get me wrong she's the sort of fuckdoll looking girl I'd book but a blind man on galloping horse could see she's never a keeper.

When did you wake the fuck up?

I was a fool I realise that now.

[metallica1994]

I actually had a relationship with an escort, she never asked for anything, she wouldn't even let me pay for anything. Going out for meal it pissed me off because I didn't want to think I was into her for how much money she made. It was because I was punching, and in awe of how amazing she was.
You got scammed mate. Don't feel bad only, feel bad about your mistake not her. She wasn't genuine.

Yeah. Thanks mate.

[metallica1994]

Have only seen this one escort aswell ?

I was worried about liking an escort to much myself when I first started this hobby, as Iv fallen lustyfully for women from one night stands from being young. So as a rule of thumb when i  started this I said to myself  I wouldn’t make back to back bookings with the same girl for that reason .

You’ve done the right thing, cutting contact as she will just keep at you because your a soft touch.


My advice get back in the saddle and ride a few different ponys in quick succession, write some reviews like your test driving a new car that might help with the EAS, train yourself to see them as objects you pick up and put down .


Good luck 🤞

Thank you.

[metallica1994]

You born in 1994? I'm not much older than you yet I've been punting since I turned 19 pretty much.

She's taking you for a dumb kid with no experience. It's purely business. You even know it yourself so why make this thread? I've had this before in the past in my early days...some of the younger escorts try take advantage of my money because I was seeing her almost on a weekly basis. However I knew it's strictly business and moved on.

Wait until you go to Thailand mate...like I did, you will be having every single girl asking to be your girlfriend. It's all about money.

Really consider if this is for you, otherwise step back and take a breather. Maybe go through official escort agencies only or start of with some nice thai massages with hand relief (my preferred these days).

Just needed to get it off my chest and convince myself to finally let her go. I look like an idiot but got some good advice on here so glad I posted it.

[LLPunting]

How did you get to know her before you met her?

What you described at the top of this thread is not EAS.  You appear to have had a compulsion/obsession before you even had a genuine conversation.

In real life. if you had met anyone else who seemed friendly (male/female) but obviously troubled and kept asking you for money what would you do?

If you are genuinely recounting a mental health issue you are experiencing then you need to spend your savings on counselling not punting.  Sitting alone at home in the glow of a screen and talking into the void to a bunch of sex addicts, serial cheaters and sex-deprived male partners isn't going to sort out your problem.

[Hungarian Lover]

I was a fool I realise that now.

You are human mate, it can happen to certain people, been there and are still there.

[mr.bluesky]

Isn`t that a bit naughty putting her Facebook profile up?

If that is her facebook profile and Metallica has EAS for her I suggest his first port of call should be specsavers   
Not even remotely attractive imo but each to their own 

[daviemac]

Do you mean this one?
External Link/Members Only or External Link/Members Only

Reports on *are*unting that she's a crackhead


PS Do you have a relative named "Anth"???

Don't take the piss, you know the rules about private pictures and that facebook page has pictures of kids on it.

[Blackpool Rock]

So presumably a Barebacking crackhead 

Hope the OP covered up 

Metallica you appear to have answered everyone's posts apart from mine so just in case you missed it -
Given that the girl is a barebacking crack head did you use a condom 

Seriously though i'd say whether you did or didn't you need to get yourself tested at the GUM clinic assuming you don't already

[saymyname]

How did you get to know her before you met her?

What you described at the top of this thread is not EAS.  You appear to have had a compulsion/obsession before you even had a genuine conversation.

In real life. if you had met anyone else who seemed friendly (male/female) but obviously troubled and kept asking you for money what would you do?

If you are genuinely recounting a mental health issue you are experiencing then you need to spend your savings on counselling not punting.  Sitting alone at home in the glow of a screen and talking into the void to a bunch of sex addicts, serial cheaters and sex-deprived male partners isn't going to sort out your problem.

Metallica, I do feel for you. And all I can do is reiterate the post above - fantastic advice.

Upvote for LLPunting if that's possible on this forum.

[Shearer1955]

Looking at the pictures & assuming you are not a troll (but i agree with scutty that you are) ... you need a white stick 
she looks a bit like jocelyn wildenstein ... a few more ops & she might be her twin

[metallica1994]

Metallica you appear to have answered everyone's posts apart from mine so just in case you missed it -
Given that the girl is a barebacking crack head did you use a condom 

Seriously though i'd say whether you did or didn't you need to get yourself tested at the GUM clinic assuming you don't already
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Yes used a condom.

[metallica1994]

How did you get to know her before you met her?

What you described at the top of this thread is not EAS.  You appear to have had a compulsion/obsession before you even had a genuine conversation.

In real life. if you had met anyone else who seemed friendly (male/female) but obviously troubled and kept asking you for money what would you do?

If you are genuinely recounting a mental health issue you are experiencing then you need to spend your savings on counselling not punting.  Sitting alone at home in the glow of a screen and talking into the void to a bunch of sex addicts, serial cheaters and sex-deprived male partners isn't going to sort out your problem.

Saw her profile on Facebook through mutual friends. Saw her posts and that she was a sex worker and always fantastised that I wanted to meet her until I finally did.

[metallica1994]

You are human mate, it can happen to certain people, been there and are still there.

Cheers mate. Good to talk about it.

[metallica1994]

Metallica, I do feel for you. And all I can do is reiterate the post above - fantastic advice.

Upvote for LLPunting if that's possible on this forum.

Thanks I have talked to a Samaratins group online.

[JJDelta]

Hey OP, sorry to hear that this happend to you. Thank you for bringing it up and giving others the chance to reflect on it too. Remind yourself she is a WG, you're paying her and that she see's multiple people per day. Purely a business agreement and nothing else. If you leave feeling all fluffy and good, then she has done an excellent job. You live and you learn OP. Enjoy punting for what it is and don't walk into traps like this. Thank you for showing the profile too.

[Londonpunter30]

Take the money away and see how long your “friendship” lasts

[metallica1994]

Take the money away and see how long your “friendship” lasts

Yeah only hear from her when she wants money.

[metallica1994]

Hey OP, sorry to hear that this happend to you. Thank you for bringing it up and giving others the chance to reflect on it too. Remind yourself she is a WG, you're paying her and that she see's multiple people per day. Purely a business agreement and nothing else. If you leave feeling all fluffy and good, then she has done an excellent job. You live and you learn OP. Enjoy punting for what it is and don't walk into traps like this. Thank you for showing the profile too.

No problem and thanks for the kind words. I actually feel better for getting it all out and receiving good advice on here.

[Londonpunter30]

Yeah only hear from her when she wants money.

This should tell you all you need to know... she’s making crap up for cash, and no doubt doing the same to others.

Block her number and move on

[Subboy1980]

This should tell you all you need to know... she’s making crap up for cash, and no doubt doing the same to others.
Block her number and move o

Totally agree.  Metallica if she wants to be with you as a friend then don't give her money.  A true mate wouldn't treat you like this.  As previously mentioned these woman will think of any old lies to con you out of cash.  Some of them are very good at it and unfortunately some punters give in to their fake lies stories and get sucked in.

She is nothing but a little liar and she will probably be laughing her head off behind your back and her boyfriend will be benefitting from it.  Very deceitful girl just tell her  to bolt and go and get a good escort with good reviews on this forum.

[thundercrackerxx]

She looks and sounds vile. Disgusting that she took advantage of you. I doubt she gave you a second thought outside of being a cash machine for her.

[metallica1994]

She looks and sounds vile. Disgusting that she took advantage of you. I doubt she gave you a second thought outside of being a cash machine for her.

I was a soft touch.

[metallica1994]

This should tell you all you need to know... she’s making crap up for cash, and no doubt doing the same to others.

Block her number and move on

Yeah I am probably not the only one.

[metallica1994]

Totally agree.  Metallica if she wants to be with you as a friend then don't give her money.  A true mate wouldn't treat you like this.  As previously mentioned these woman will think of any old lies to con you out of cash.  Some of them are very good at it and unfortunately some punters give in to their fake lies stories and get sucked in.

She is nothing but a little liar and she will probably be laughing her head off behind your back and her boyfriend will be benefitting from it.  Very deceitful girl just tell her  to bolt and go and get a good escort with good reviews on this forum.

Yeah probably half's the money with her boyfriend.

[lamboman]

Surprised she's real every profile from that lot I've seen is fake.

[Lou2019]

My previous comments may have been a little bit harsh so my apologies.
On a personal level why anyone go out of their way to treat someone like this is beyond me. I hope you find the strength to recover from this bad experience. Furthermore WGs like this are in the minority I hope this bad experience doesn’t put you off from enjoying yourself in the future. Take care

[Blackpool Rock]

Yeah probably half's the money with her boyfriend.

Only if he's also her dealer 

[fakenamehere]

Give your head a wobble lad, have you never had a relationship or something? You paid for a service.

She's seen you coming a mile off, get a grip of yourself man

[Jomoore]

Feel sorry for the OP.  Lots of totally understandable criticism of him, but some in the punting community are more vulnerable than others, particularly those suffering from loneliness.

[metallica1994]

My previous comments may have been a little bit harsh so my apologies.
On a personal level why anyone go out of their way to treat someone like this is beyond me. I hope you find the strength to recover from this bad experience. Furthermore WGs like this are in the minority I hope this bad experience doesn’t put you off from enjoying yourself in the future. Take care

Thank you.

[metallica1994]

Feel sorry for the OP.  Lots of totally understandable criticism of him, but some in the punting community are more vulnerable than others, particularly those suffering from loneliness.

Yes I knew I would get criticism for the post but needed to get it all out there as can't tell my friends or family.

[metallica1994]

Give your head a wobble lad, have you never had a relationship or something? You paid for a service.

She's seen you coming a mile off, get a grip of yourself man

Yes I realise that now. Lesson learned.

[cideruk]

Does she know your real name, job, address etc?

[metallica1994]

Does she know your real name, job, address etc?

No.

[Brumish]

Hi I might sound crazy saying this but here goes. I got to know of a local escort/prostitute and would often look her up on facebook but without taking the plunge. Would message her how much for business but would never follow through and meet her. I then saw she was doing phone chat/vids on vivastreet so I paid for that and loved it. Over the next few months paid her for pics/vids but she was asking me for money all the time and I would give in and give her it. Finally met her a few months back in person for business. It was amazing and fell for her. From there it was a downward spiral. She was constantly asking me for money nearly every day and said she would send nude pics if I did. I would get every sob story and feel sorry for her. It was costing me a fortune. Met her another 4 or 5 times just before Xmas but I've got to the point where I can't do it anymore. It's relentless constantly asking me nearly every day for money. I feel awful but I've cut contact with her. Anyone experienced anything like this?

No

[silverspoon]

In your 1st post you said you met her through mutual friends on Facebook and would message her about business but never went through with it, do you not have your real name on Facebook, if you do so she knows who you are, block her immediately and start your healing, we've all been foolish at onetime or another

[tynetunnel]

Don't take the piss, you know the rules about private pictures and that facebook page has pictures of kids on it.

I only saw pics of her and her dog 

She has nearly 4,800 friends, nice to be popular!

[itk]

To be blunt, the OP comes across as an utter mug. Best bet is to destroy her number and never contact her again, unless you’ve told her where you live and then you’re right up shit creek.

[Deepstroker]

This is your support hub. Its easy for an inexperienced guy to get sucked in. Fucking a girl is an emotional thing and we are all human. Quite a few WGs out there have issues whether its mental health, drugs,whatever.  They will latch on to someone like yourself and slowly drain you dry like a vampire sucking the blood from you every time you meet. They cant help themselves,especially if they have a nasty little heroin habit.

They will have every sob story lined up. They have bills, they are ill, the rent is due, they need a deposit for a new flat etc etc etc...

OK you've taken a hit now but walk away. Cut all contact,block the phone number. Never get emotionally involved.


As the late George Michael sang .."wise guys realise, theres danger in emotional ties".

Get away, Stay away.If you dont, she will financially ruin you and may seriously fuck up your life.

[metallica1994]

To be blunt, the OP comes across as an utter mug. Best bet is to destroy her number and never contact her again, unless you’ve told her where you live and then you’re right up shit creek.

No she doesn't know where I live.

[metallica1994]

In your 1st post you said you met her through mutual friends on Facebook and would message her about business but never went through with it, do you not have your real name on Facebook, if you do so she knows who you are, block her immediately and start your healing, we've all been foolish at onetime or another

Yeah you're right. I can't heal until she is blocked.

[metallica1994]

Does she know your real name, job, address etc?

She doesn't know where I work or anything about my personal life. That's the one thing I wasn't stupid about.

[metallica1994]

This is your support hub. Its easy for an inexperienced guy to get sucked in. Fucking a girl is an emotional thing and we are all human. Quite a few WGs out there have issues whether its mental health, drugs,whatever.  They will latch on to someone like yourself and slowly drain you dry like a vampire sucking the blood from you every time you meet. They cant help themselves,especially if they have a nasty little heroin habit.

They will have every sob story lined up. They have bills, they are ill, the rent is due, they need a deposit for a new flat etc etc etc...

OK you've taken a hit now but walk away. Cut all contact,block the phone number. Never get emotionally involved.


As the late George Michael sang .."wise guys realise, theres danger in emotional ties".

Get away, Stay away.If you dont, she will financially ruin you and may seriously fuck up your life.

Great advice thank you. These posts have been very helpful.

[MilleMiglia]

Someone posted this in another thread. Good advice TBH:

External Link/Members Only

[Jonestown]

Yeah you're right. I can't heal until she is blocked.

So, was sniffing around sexy lexy the barebacker the other day part of your healing process ?