thanks for replies guys/ladies
I guess its a fantasy I may not pull off,
Someone said about swinging, and I had considered it, but its not a sure thing
I do have a partner and she isn't into it , having said that seen a couple working girls have it in there likes list swinging, and one stated, fees could vary if you want to share her which makes total sense, just not sure the fees
I guess Id rather have a wg, I have an attraction too and pay more.
Its still on my to do list,