Its all part of the journey when you start out. I had some right crap punts that I would walk away now as well as B&S. As a commited punter I now put this down to experience and hopefully learn from it
Pretty close. It just comes down to whether you fancy her or not, and by 'fancying or not fancying her' is included the shit on the bed, the rolled-up fiver on the dresser or the bairn bawling it's head off next door.
Compare: if you've never shagged a civvie half-pissed cos you could smell her fanny across the dance floor and she was clearly available (well you don't know what you're missing) ... it's a tad hypocritical to say you walk cos of the manky pants.
The dilemma with AW etc is you 'fancy' her based on some jumped up video display rather than her actual looks, smell, and so on.
What you're really saying is that you have the hots for clean sheets, perfume, a nice house blahdeblah. -- oh and receptacle for your urges.
On AW best to assume the worst. You might find it's slightly better than that, which is a bonus.