Can’t get hard

[Marmalade]

Bananaman in the Jungle
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An interesting thought. But I think bananas are a side issue. I’ve come to the conclusion that our esteemed member Mr KT possibly has a remarkable unpatented method of removing the stones from mangoes. The resulting gadget not only facilitates sophisticated masturbation methods but elicits high quality colourful hallucinogenic experiences which KT calls “reviews”.

[B4bcock]

Quote from Ali Katt,

"When I was in my late teens I could even suck my own cock. Tried it a few years back and I had pain for days, I could barely stand up!

I thought with your pseudonym you would be able to lick your arse with one leg stuck out in front of you!

[Ali Katt]

An interesting thought. But I think bananas are a side issue. I’ve come to the conclusion that our esteemed member Mr KT possibly has a remarkable unpatented method of removing the stones from mangoes. The resulting gadget not only facilitates sophisticated masturbation methods but elicits high quality colourful hallucinogenic experiences which KT calls “reviews”.

Fucking hell Marms. That's some poetic trolling.

[Ali Katt]

Quote from Ali Katt,

when I was in my late teens I could even suck my own cock. Tried it a few years back and I had pain for days, I could barely stand up!

I thought with your pseudonym you would be able to lick your arse with one leg stuck out in front of you!

Nothing wrong with being ambitious.

[wristjob]

Also what was putting me off was that on her profile pictures on AW there was no tattoos , and in person she had many tattoos so my anxiety kicked in and I thought it was a different woman , so anxiety kicked in . And I associate people with lots of tattoos as being drug users so I assumed there was a higher chance of her carrying diseases lol

Top tip here - go see incalls. I only ever did 1 outcall, when she got to my place and got naked it was just scary, that is much easier to deal with when you go to their place.

I’m not that good looking , I do have trouble communicating (autism ?) and I do have anxiety in certain situations.

Also During the OWO I got hard for about 1 minute and then I started thinking about the gonorrhea / herpes /etc , also I felt her teeth and I just couldn’t remain hard

I used to be super cautious about anything uncovered, always went for OW instead. If this is an issue for you then just go with OW and only change when you feel comfortable with OWO. Reading this forum, the amount of OWO guys got and the fact almost nobody caught anything eventually worked its way into my head but there are still plenty of guys who only go for OW and I doubt many girls will insist on OWO.

There was a guy who used to post on here who had porn related ED, just constantly watching porn normalised it to such a massive extent that real life encounters didn't really do it. I cut back after that so now I do watch porn to masturbate but I get it done and out the way as quick as possible. I'm twice your age, I will masturbate most days and genuinely feel that helps me get it up when I need to (and is healthier) but each to their own. Just be careful about how you do it. I doubt viagra or similar will help, they don't just make you hard, they just solve the physical issues and it sounds like your issue is 100% mental.

Advice I'd give to anybody starting punting is do 3 15 min bookings instead of an hour for a while, just normalise the process and make it so it isn't such a big deal. Once you have things under control go for the pretty girls and long bookings.

[king tarzan]

An interesting thought. But I think bananas are a side issue. I’ve come to the conclusion that our esteemed member Mr KT possibly has a remarkable unpatented method of removing the stones from mangoes. The resulting gadget not only facilitates sophisticated masturbation methods but elicits high quality colourful hallucinogenic experiences which KT calls “reviews”.

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[Ali Katt]

Top tip here - go see incalls. I only ever did 1 outcall, when she got to my place and got naked it was just scary, that is much easier to deal with when you go to their place.


I used to be super cautious about anything uncovered, always went for OW instead. If this is an issue for you then just go with OW and only change when you feel comfortable with OWO. Reading this forum, the amount of OWO guys got and the fact almost nobody caught anything eventually worked its way into my head but there are still plenty of guys who only go for OW and I doubt many girls will insist on OWO.

There was a guy who used to post on here who had porn related ED, just constantly watching porn normalised it to such a massive extent that real life encounters didn't really do it. I cut back after that so now I do watch porn to masturbate but I get it done and out the way as quick as possible. I'm twice your age, I will masturbate most days and genuinely feel that helps me get it up when I need to (and is healthier) but each to their own. Just be careful about how you do it. I doubt viagra or similar will help, they don't just make you hard, they just solve the physical issues and it sounds like your issue is 100% mental.

Advice I'd give to anybody starting punting is do 3 15 min bookings instead of an hour for a while, just normalise the process and make it so it isn't such a big deal. Once you have things under control go for the pretty girls and long bookings.

I don't disagree WJ as you're more experienced than me , but in 15 minutes I would still be telling an escort that she is being a good girl with my precum around her mouth. 

[scutty brown]

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what does dried mango powder smell like when you sniff it?

[wristjob]

I don't disagree WJ as you're more experienced than me , but in 15 minutes I would still be telling an escort that she is being a good girl with my precum around her mouth. 

I've done about 5 15 min punts, they are terrible. If you want to get used to a "scary" situation then it seems doing it more often than once a year (as with the OP) is probably the best way round that. Especially the case if you are going to panic and kick them out after 15 mins.

[Ali Katt]

I've done about 5 15 min punts, they are terrible. If you want to get used to a "scary" situation then it seems doing it more often than once a year (as with the OP) is probably the best way round that. Especially the case if you are going to panic and kick them out after 15 mins.

I don't think he's reviewed in a few years. Must have been preoccupied with yanking the plank. Like I say I never got over my anxiety, but fuck me I don't show it apart from within the first five minutes as I know what I like. I also have a really strong self-belief and know myself without getting too personal when I was 24 or however old badcock is, I knew fuck all.

[Happylad]

He`s simply discovered old age 65 years too soon.

[wristjob]

I don't think he's reviewed in a few years. Must have been preoccupied with yanking the plank. Like I say I never got over my anxiety, but fuck me I don't show it apart from within the first five minutes as I know what I like. I also have a really strong self-belief and know myself without getting too personal when I was 24 or however old badcock is, I knew fuck all.

Didn't he say his 3rd time having sex and last punt was 2 years ago?

Anxiety is funny. I've done mostly parlours and indis for a while and when I saw my first agency girl in years a few months back I had all that anxiety thing again - no clue why. Actually I remember a similar situation with parlours, sitting in a reception with other guys who are about to shag 1 of the girls, maybe even talking to them. There's been a few threads with punters who can't handle that but once you've done it a few times it's gone.

[Ali Katt]

Didn't he say his 3rd time having sex and last punt was 2 years ago?

Anxiety is funny. I've done mostly parlours and indis for a while and when I saw my first agency girl in years a few months back I had all that anxiety thing again - no clue why. Actually I remember a similar situation with parlours, sitting in a reception with other guys who are about to shag 1 of the girls, maybe even talking to them. There's been a few threads with punters who can't handle that but once you've done it a few times it's gone.

The first time I saw a parlour girl I thought I wouldn't be able to come in 30 minutes; I had previously seen indies for 1 hour. It went OK in the end. Agree about reception, I've not been in a parlour for about 2 years and I wasn't embarrassed, nervous maybe and I had a bit of a joke with the girls while waiting. I think it's anticipation and also the feeling that will the girls get pissed off if you choose somebody else. 

[king tarzan]

what does dried mango powder smell like when you sniff it?

I love juicy wet russian mangoes 👅👅👅👅👅😋😋😋😋😋😋😋😋😋😋😋👅👅👅👅👅👅👅 ( at the current moment)

[Littlefoot]

What I've been doing lately

2 lady pink apples
2 oranges
Two bananas
After 15 mins
1 can of sugar free red bull 355ml

And I bet you shit through the eye of a needle the following day. 

[king tarzan]

And I bet you shit through the eye of a needle the following day. 

Nope... It bloody works though!!!
( For me anyways)

[Ali Katt]

I love juicy wet russian mangoes 👅👅👅👅👅😋😋😋😋😋😋😋😋😋😋😋👅👅👅👅👅👅👅 ( at the current moment)

Watch out for her boyfriend he might be a "Red Bull".

[Hobbit]

An interesting thought. But I think bananas are a side issue. I’ve come to the conclusion that our esteemed member Mr KT possibly has a remarkable unpatented method of removing the stones from mangoes. The resulting gadget not only facilitates sophisticated masturbation methods but elicits high quality colourful hallucinogenic experiences which KT calls “reviews”.

He does. He uses his tongue. 

[Marmalade]

I’m gonna see her again tonight and conquer this anxiety

So how did you get on?

Although much sensible advice has been given, much of it is harder to follow in practice if there is deep-seated anxiety. At that age one should just think win-some, lose-some, but try not to spend £250 doing so! And enjoy a dirty little secret, don’t worry too much about intellectualising and even reviewing until you are in the swing of things... .

Think of it as holiday time, squander a little money enjoying oneself as one does on holiday.

If the guy is convinced he has an anxiety problem he might end up taking SSRIs, which cann make it worse, and then probably viagra to compensate. If he’s that stressed, a proven herbal remedy like Ashwagandha is beneficial and also helps with social anxiety.

If there’s no underlying medical problem then I don’t personally think a bluey is outrageous, but as a strengthener for a normal punt, not to fix a problem (and it would be recreational viagra rather than medically advised). Conservatives will probably bemoan otherwise, but I think experimenting carefully when you’re young is usually good for you.

[Hobbit]

My advice regarding this would be to do something selfless like for example help some friends, do some charity work or help out with the homeless. It may sound like a pointless idea but what it will do is take your mind off "Yourself" which at the moment could be the problem. You maybe thinking too much about it which is nothing but a reflection of your thoughts which like most of us tend to be self-centred and this is probably causing you anxiety and pressure to perform.

So doing something else will keep your mind of it but it needs to be something that doesn't involve you.

Good luck. 

[Ali Katt]

It looks like trolling to me.

[Marmalade]

It looks like trolling to me.

Well, yes. Now we’ve all stopped being nice-nicey benefit-of-doubty, a quick look at the OP’s posting history looks pretty conclusive. Probably a polite, gentle hint along the lines of fuck off you trolling cunt would be the gentlemanly thing to do.

[Doc Holliday]

Well, yes. Now we’ve all stopped being nice-nicey benefit-of-doubty, a quick look at the OP’s posting history looks pretty conclusive. Probably a polite, gentle hint along the lines of fuck off you trolling cunt would be the gentlemanly thing to do.

Indeed .. hindsight and all that!

[Doc Holliday]

I should have twigged when he didn't respond to my age discrepancy query either 

[fakeboobslover]

I somewhat agree with the idea of "conquering the anxiety".
The longer you wait, the higher stress and anxiety might build up.

But that doesn't mean doing the exact same thing and seeing the very same girl - especially if you're low on experience. Take it easy and get comfortable, focus on vanilla rather than putting pressure on yourself with your booking "having to do" the kinky stuff.

Going all out on the extras (anal etc., ) after only having had sex twice ever sounds ... odd?

[bardock]

Lol I’m not a troll,
I didn’t end up seeing her as it was my last day in that city  and something came up at the end of the day
But I’ll take all ur advise into account thanks

[bardock]

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[bardock]

I should have twigged when he didn't respond to my age discrepancy query either 

I lowered my age on my first post on purpose cuz I was embarrassed that I was a virgin lol

[Doc Holliday]

I lowered my age on my first post on purpose cuz I was embarrassed that I was a virgin lol

I suspected that may be the reason but wanted to hear it from you.

The reality is though that you received plenty of good advice but then said you were going to do the one thing everyone told you not to?

That's just taking the piss.

[bardock]

I suspected that may be the reason but wanted to hear it from you.

The reality is though that you received plenty of good advice but then said you were going to do the one thing everyone told you not to?

That's just taking the piss.

Yeh I was just embarrassed , but I knew it wasn’t the right thing to do and luckily I didn’t go through with it , I assumed that I was nervous because it was the first time I saw her and that nerves would be a  a bit better the second time round ,
Also the fact that  she knows my situation now , and it would be more embarrassing if I saw someone else and the same thing happened

[Ali Katt]

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Oh trust me darling, experience counts for a lot more than looks.

[scutty brown]

Yeh I was just embarrassed , but I knew it wasn’t the right thing to do and luckily I didn’t go through with it , I assumed that I was nervous because it was the first time I saw her and that nerves would be a  a bit better the second time round ,
Also the fact that  she knows my situation now , and it would be more embarrassing if I saw someone else and the same thing happened

more embarrassing?
bollocks, who is going to know? and who will care?

[cunningman]

I think the OP should seek out hungarian milfs and go for 15 minute blowjobs and then 30 minute fucks until he's more comfortable.

[Lalalaveets]

maybe the OP is gay. I recommend he starts with post op Trans whores then moves on to pre op chicks with dicks before the finale of bumming brute boys with hairy chests. If hes still having ED issues then hes probably not gay. But its worth a try in his quest for ED cures

 

[Jacques Barstarred]

Anxiety.. but...! It might not be performance anxiety as such

I used to get what you describe a lot when I was younger
it was ages till I worked out it was mostly due to fear of wasting 150 quid - not fear of poor performance!

Solution - I started doing much cheaper punts.
Who'd have thought you could be such a tight cunt that you end up with self fulfilling anxiety loop about wasting lots of dosh by not performing ? 

/\This.

I did a lot of £60ph punts. Most were shit, but a few were very good, and it got me over any anxiety and got used to what to expect and know the routine. I spend a bit more now, but much less regularly.  There is no direct correlation between hourly rate and quality of service. Often the sex is the same but the trimmings are better. Primark lingerie vs Victoria's Secret. It all looks pretty much the same when you take it off with your teeth and throw it on the floor

[Jacques Barstarred]

I think the OP should seek out hungarian milfs and go for 15 minute blowjobs and then 30 minute fucks until he's more comfortable.

Good advice. Hungarians are VFM and at least you usually get a smile out of them. Unlike so many trafficked Roms

[Deeplove]

An amazing thread and thank you all for the information.

I found the information here much more informative than a virgin thread.

Thanks again, time for me to look for small punts rather than expensive £200+ ones!