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Author Topic: Are you ever just "can't be bothered" to punt?  (Read 1916 times)

Offline JoeyRamone

Last punt was back in tail end of August (Michelle Ind) and I've been thinking about lining up a punt for this afternoon, ideally with Michelle again. Sadly she's out of town this weekend, so no can do. Got me looking at the others in my hotlist. One I've seen before but would see again is on "holiday" 'til next week, and although today would be an ideal opportunity to visit Britishbeauty/Lisa, because of where I need to be later on anyway, I'm still undecided on her based on how her reviews have been slipping down recently. There's one popped up not too far from me, same half hour price as both Michelle and Lisa (£70) but by the looks of it, no OWO and her profile was mentioned in the AW scams thread (the content of her mention was "no phone number and accessing from Netherlands" - currently her profile has a phone number and isn't accessing internationally). There's a few "maybe worth a shot" EE girls dotted around either not far from me, or not far from where I need to be later, but most have lack of feedback, and no reviews here. Plus I've got my "regular" (or not so regular anymore, as it's been a while, but still) available........

......and I just get this feeling I simply can't be arsed. I've got nothing better to do 'til later, so it makes sense - but I just can't be bothered!

Anyone else ever feel like that? Maybe if something jumped off the page at me as too good to pass up, or exceptional/renowned service provider, I probably would - likewise if Michelle was available it'd be a no brainer, but with the offerings available today, I just really feel I can't be bothered to pursue it and spend the wedge on what could be a shit/ok/mediocre punt. Granted, one of them could be a GREAT punt, but it could just as easily be a bad punt.

JV547845

  • Guest
Yeah man.  I've just been having too much sex recently myself.  Just save your money for now and do something else.  There'll be loads of WGs crying out for work in the run up to Christmas.

Sparquin

  • Guest
I totally get it. If a punt is worth doing it should be one you want rather simply to empty ones balls. Save the cash and wait. The anticipation should make for a better punt.

Offline Sedlmayer

Yes - having a punt simply out of habit, or just because you can, is unlikely to turn out well.
If you get a bit jaded give it a break for a little while, you'll get your appetite back soon enough in my experience.

Offline socks

Last punt was back in tail end of August (Michelle Ind) and I've been thinking about lining up a punt for this afternoon, ideally with Michelle again. Sadly she's out of town this weekend, so no can do. Got me looking at the others in my hotlist. One I've seen before but would see again is on "holiday" 'til next week, and although today would be an ideal opportunity to visit Britishbeauty/Lisa, because of where I need to be later on anyway, I'm still undecided on her based on how her reviews have been slipping down recently. There's one popped up not too far from me, same half hour price as both Michelle and Lisa (£70) but by the looks of it, no OWO and her profile was mentioned in the AW scams thread (the content of her mention was "no phone number and accessing from Netherlands" - currently her profile has a phone number and isn't accessing internationally). There's a few "maybe worth a shot" EE girls dotted around either not far from me, or not far from where I need to be later, but most have lack of feedback, and no reviews here. Plus I've got my "regular" (or not so regular anymore, as it's been a while, but still) available........

......and I just get this feeling I simply can't be arsed. I've got nothing better to do 'til later, so it makes sense - but I just can't be bothered!

Anyone else ever feel like that? Maybe if something jumped off the page at me as too good to pass up, or exceptional/renowned service provider, I probably would - likewise if Michelle was available it'd be a no brainer, but with the offerings available today, I just really feel I can't be bothered to pursue it and spend the wedge on what could be a shit/ok/mediocre punt. Granted, one of them could be a GREAT punt, but it could just as easily be a bad punt.
100%. I couldn't be arsed for six weeks since summer. Had two in a week now and am back to not being that arsed again!

cjkany2015

  • Guest
I am going through a very long phase of this.  I've been punting for 12 years or so quite often,  including a massive blow out this time last year.   Since then I've just not been able to summon up much enthusiasm.  With the rip offs,  the travel,  the money,  the wasted time on AW it is not without effort.

Offline NIK

I have been like that for quite some time now. Not being able to afford it is partly the reason. However even if I had the money I'm sure I wouldn't punt as regularly as I used to.
Not only is this because of a lowered desire with ageing but also because I realise so many punts I had in the past were an unsatisfying waste of money.

Of course when I said this on Prossynet they said I should have done better research.  :rolleyes:

SirFrank

  • Guest
Often - I fancy a punt but look on AW and usually think meeehhhh. I want to look at a profile and know she's going to rock my fucking world. I usually end up just knocking one out - I mean I love sex but you can't beat the real thing!

The happy one

  • Guest
Hey

Know exactly what you mean. Up in the punting wilderness it can be a month to find someone to punt with

But to be honest

Can't be arsed

Is becoming my plan b now when plan a turns out to be
A. A time waster
B. Bait and switch


jcdmj12

  • Guest
I think the fact you can make a phone call and arrange sex at will takes the urgency out of it, personally. 

Offline Watts.E.Dunn

I think the fact you can make a phone call and arrange sex at will takes the urgency out of it, personally.

Reckon your right there with that coment. Suppose in a way its like taking the Purdys out across the moors and "bagging one" - v -  popping into Fortnum's;!.

Sometimes tho seems that you want  just that bit "more" from a lady rather than just  sex..

But hey!, that notion soon disapears when your out on the prowl next;))..

Diehard

  • Guest
Yes, great thread this, mirrors my position. Today I was free, had planned a punt, ended up stating in, couldn't be bothered at all. In the past I would travel anywhere within 120 miles for a punt with a real hottie, nowadays no chance, I won't go more than 3 miles usually.

The problem I'm finding is that the number of good quality slim English girls is at an all time low so it beginning to kill my enthusiasm. All I see appearing on aw as new girls is foreign girls. I'm not interested in them so it becoming too much hard work

Offline NIK

Yes, great thread this, mirrors my position. Today I was free, had planned a punt, ended up stating in, couldn't be bothered at all. In the past I would travel anywhere within 120 miles for a punt with a real hottie, nowadays no chance, I won't go more than 3 miles usually.

The problem I'm finding is that the number of good quality slim English girls is at an all time low so it beginning to kill my enthusiasm. All I see appearing on aw as new girls is foreign girls. I'm not interested in them so it becoming too much hard work

Excellent post.  :thumbsup: Reflects how I feel exactly!

Offline Jimmyredcab



The problem I'm finding is that the number of good quality slim English girls is at an all time low so it beginning to kill my enthusiasm.

I know exactly how you feel, I rarely punt now and to be truthful I don't miss it, more cash to spend on holidays.  :hi:

richie

  • Guest
I was going to start a thread all about this weekends unmitigated punting failure but this little thread seems to sum my feelings up just fine!

Had a plan a, b, c and d all in place. First plan b falls out of contention as she doesn't work the hours she states on her profile so I modify my route, do 60 miles and plan A) then falls by the way and won't answer her phone. Next I try plan C) who has on the spur of the moment buggered off on holiday!

So I'm on my way home from a piss poor weekend away and I decide "fuck it, plan D, cheap cov whore at random!" Never failed me yet so what could possibly go wrong?... Not a single one that came close to what I was after was contactable :-(

In the end I just gave up, now can't be arsed. Think I'm going to save my cash until Tuesday and drive down to see Malley in highwycham. Not my normal punt, polar opposite infact, but she gives great head, always swallows and only charges 30 quid! Most importantly though she's reliable :-)

Venting session over, sorry if I hijacked the thread a little!

Offline NIK

I was going to start a thread all about this weekends unmitigated punting failure but this little thread seems to sum my feelings up just fine!

Had a plan a, b, c and d all in place. First plan b falls out of contention as she doesn't work the hours she states on her profile so I modify my route, do 60 miles and plan A) then falls by the way and won't answer her phone. Next I try plan C) who has on the spur of the moment buggered off on holiday!

So I'm on my way home from a piss poor weekend away and I decide "fuck it, plan D, cheap cov whore at random!" Never failed me yet so what could possibly go wrong?... Not a single one that came close to what I was after was contactable :-(

In the end I just gave up, now can't be arsed. Think I'm going to save my cash until Tuesday and drive down to see Malley in highwycham. Not my normal punt, polar opposite infact, but she gives great head, always swallows and only charges 30 quid! Most importantly though she's reliable :-)

Venting session over, sorry if I hijacked the thread a little!

This is the reality of the 'treasure trove' that is AW. There might be hundreds and thousands out there, but if you discount the fake profiles that probably halves it for a start. Then you take out the mingers, the ones who are too far away and the ones who don't do this that and the other and you are left with barely half a dozen at the most to choose from.
« Last Edit: October 05, 2014, 10:12:32 am by NIK »

pleasure

  • Guest
This thread sums me up lately. I haven't punted for a couple of months now. I keep reading here, I keep scouring AW every day or two, but I think at this point it would take someone pretty out of the ordinary for me to even bother with the hassle.

I'm under no illusions that I've "given up". If I had, I wouldn't still be looking. It's just that decent girls are thin on the ground at the moment, and I really can't be bothered risking a shit punt.

squeezebox

  • Guest
I think it's okay to feel this way.

When the mojo returns and a hotlisted one or a previously good one re-appears, then decide:

A. Is she easily accessible within travelling distance
B. Affordable
C. Could she potentially tick all your boxes.

An example for me is Platinum Cindy/KDD/Michelle Ind, all in London. A real hike from the South West and there's no reason for them to tour down here. So  A applies. B & C are good. Although if they offer a trio.....don't spare the horses   :hi: :drinks:

I am willing to travel up to 2 hours by car so there has to be good feedback already, ideally from UKP, to be remotely considered. LMP party is also an option, but would be a new experience, so is a gamble.

Overall it's a personal decision and we all have different priorities too.
« Last Edit: October 05, 2014, 09:41:48 am by squeezebox »

Offline Jimmyredcab

This is the reality of the 'treasure trove' that is AW. There might be hundreds and thousands out there, but if you discount the fake profiles that probably halves it for a start. Then you take out the mingers, the ones who are too far away and the ones who don't do this that and the other and you are left with barely half a dozen at the most to choose from.

Take out the one's with headless photos and you might end up with two ------------------ years ago I would have taken a chance with "blind dates", I am no longer prepared to do that, I may be missing some "gems", I can live with that.  :hi:

Offline Sedlmayer

This is the reality of the 'treasure trove' that is AW. There might be hundreds and thousands out there, but if you discount the fake profiles that probably halves it for a start. Then you take out the mingers, the ones who are too far away and the ones who don't do this that and the other and you are left with barely half a dozen at the most to choose from.

Absolutely - very few good ones on there now. It seems to me that AW has greatly deteriorated in terms of quality (not quantity) in the last 3 or 4 years. Or is that my age telling on me?

Offline Jimmyredcab

Absolutely - very few good ones on there now. It seems to me that AW has greatly deteriorated in terms of quality (not quantity) in the last 3 or 4 years. Or is that my age telling on me?

No it's not you age.

3 or 4 years ago Adultwork wasn't full of Romanian lowlife ------------- however that seems to suit a few gentlemen on here.  :rolleyes:

Diehard

  • Guest
No it's not you age.

3 or 4 years ago Adultwork wasn't full of Romanian lowlife ------------- however that seems to suit a few gentlemen on here.  :rolleyes:

Spot on. Romanians, in fact all foreign women should be banned. Ok, I'm sure there are a few who give a good service, but who is going to take the risk when so many are utter complete scamming bitches. It is the foreigners killing aw. I joined aw about 10 years ago, it was very good back then. Lots of attractive English girls.

Perhaps it coincided with the 2008 economic crash but since around then it has been steadily getting worse. It seems free movement if trade within Europe translates to Eastern European women can come to the uk and scam hard working punters. This seems to have had the effect of driving away the decent slim English girls as they saw themselves being undercut re prices so what we get left with in terms of English girls are fat munters. Lots of fat English women on aw.

There also seems to be a link between a booking request and the onset of the period an hour before an arranged punt. I had no idea periods were brought on by preparing for a booking request.

And the lack of child care surely should form part of election manifestos as it seems to me there is a real opportunity for women to get off benefits due to the demand for child care!!!!

Hence why I have been looking for free sex sites like swinging heaven.

Punting is supposed to be relaxing and easy, as we all seem to agree, it is far from that now, and it more hard work than it is worth.

Offline Jimmyredcab

Spot on. Romanians, in fact all foreign women should be banned. 

No, I wouldn't go that far, one of my recent reviews proves that there are some good foreign girls around.   :drinks:

Diehard

  • Guest
No, I wouldn't go that far, one of my recent reviews proves that there are some good foreign girls around.   :drinks:

That is my point, they are so few and far between it would be better if it was a British girl only site.

Offline Jimmyredcab

That is my point, they are so few and far between it would be better if it was a British girl only site.

That is never going to happen, they would lose 90% of their revenue overnight ---------- I don't know where all the British pro$$ies have gone.    :unknown:

Offline Watts.E.Dunn

That is never going to happen, they would lose 90% of their revenue overnight ---------- I don't know where all the British pro$$ies have gone.    :unknown:

Tell you want JRC I was talking to the owner of a large Taxi outfit who told me that he can't get english drivers as they didn't want to work the same shifts as their "imported" brethern did. Don't know if that accords with what you find in your trade.

As to forign women there are good and bad like there are good and bad English women too. Problem is that there are far too few English women around which distorts the impressions..

Remember having a superb time with Alex as was, who ran Blue monday when she used to escort, a cracking lady she was and quite a few other EE girls as well as Spanish and Itailians over time, and yep they to have their share of bad 'un's but you can't judge all with such a broad brush.

And yes I know that the curent crop of Romans leave a lot to be desired in their attiudes, but where are all the good english girls gone that were around?..

Answer me that one!..

JV547845

  • Guest
it would be better if it was a British girl only site.

Some Romanians are already passing themselves off as Spanish or German.  Do you really think making it Brit only will outwit Sergei?

Offline Jimmyredcab

Some Romanians are already passing themselves off as Spanish or German.  Do you really think making it Brit only will outwit Sergei?

It would take me 60 seconds to work out that she was not English, I would have the option of walking.   :hi:

Offline Jimmyredcab

Tell you want JRC I was talking to the owner of a large Taxi outfit who told me that he can't get english drivers as they didn't want to work the same shifts as their "imported" brethern did. Don't know if that accords with what you find in your trade.


I can't comment, I am a self employed owner/driver of a real taxi -------------- I don't work for an "outfit".

Very few foreigners drive London taxis for two reasons, they must be able to speak and understand English to pass the strict tests and the second reason is that it will take them roughly three years to obtain their licence.   :hi:

Diehard

  • Guest
That is never going to happen, they would lose 90% of their revenue overnight ---------- I don't know where all the British pro$$ies have gone.    :unknown:

No, neither do I. Very depressing really!

KayHerts

  • Guest
Very few foreigners drive London taxis for two reasons, they must be able to speak and understand English to pass the strict tests and the second reason is that it will take them roughly three years to obtain their licence.   :hi:

And thank Christ for that! In 30 years I've only ever had two London cabbies not be 100% sure of where they were going, and one was a sort of 'pop-up' theatre so it was perfectly understandable.

Went to NYC and all the cabbies seem to be straight off the boat and clueless - despite a bleeding grid system!

Nearly all my local cabbies are from the Indian sub-continent, aside from one firm who seems to employ only Brits.