Interested to know why the OP has to mention your name? Do you have a vested interest?
I have known Leia for a number of years but unfortunately I have no vested interested in her. And as I only play with her at parties it may be sometime before I see her again.
My 'mention my name' is a jokey phrase I sometimes put into posts replying to requests for recommendations. As I have never had an SP thanking me for recommending her then it would seem guys ignore my suggestion or more likely ignore my recommendations.
Although I occasionally get a thanks when a member does take up a recommendation and follows through with a review.
It will be interesting to see if the OP actually follows up. Or more likely the wife decides a threesome is not actually for her. Let us see.
Regards,
davidgood