Funny. You're quick to jump on her defence and that makes you a white knight. The OP is a weirdo out of question and his behaviour is unacceptable. But that doesn't change facts, and all i was stating were facts so that anyone reading it can make informed decisions. You're bending the facts to her favour and that's white knighting.
Incorrect..: read my posts... I’ve always stated that it’s down to individuals to make informed decisions. I’m not jumping to her defence at all, I’m pointing out the OP it’s one pork pie short of a picnic... one could say you’re white knighting the OP?
The facts are - communication was bad on both part. We do not know what was said in the phone call after the texts as we aren’t party to them.
The OP went into the SPs place uninvited
The OP continued to be clearly obsessive, when there’s so many other SPs out there (and possibly better)
The SP was clearly freaked out
The SP stupidly didn’t lock the door
The SP didn’t confirm the change in time to the OP on text (whether this was communicated on the phone or not we don’t know for sure either way)
Lastly, I’m not defending the SP, I’m defending myself and your assumptions. I’m not her lover, her pimp, her tout, and as specified, I’ve seen her once as there are plenty of other women to experience.
I’m also human. And see absolutely no legitimacy for the OPs behaviour... which in my mind is a lot worse than double booking/postponing a punt. When and if I’m bumped by an SP, I’d report it and move on as they’d clearly not be worth the aggro or effort. Inconvenient? Yes, but fuck em if they don’t communicate or if they don’t show up.