Inconsistent reviews for escorts

[daviemac]

Well obviously I don't know exactly why these 2 punters got such different service. I'm just speculating that looks may be a factor?
I think many are missing what I'm trying to say. I'm not saying that I know for sure that better looks get you better service, obviously no one knows for sure if that is the case. I'm just speculating that it might be the most likely reason why one punter might get much better service than another.

That's just it you are speculating and no matter how many people tell you that looks don't count, including an active escort telling you that looks don't count you keep insisting that they must do. That is troll behaviour.

[pythondan]

In a way you've proved yourself wrong by your comments.

The question is about whether the looks of the punter affects the SP's performance.

You're suspicious that she doesn't want to see you again because of your looks, yet when you saw her she provided a very good service, which I assume resulted in a positive review from you.

Doesn't that prove the point that looks don't necessarily affect the service provided and so the reviews? 

Phoenix you make a good point. I thought we had got on very well and she seemed to enjoy the meeting which made it all the more surprising that she did not want to meet again. It was the first time that I have experienced this from a working girl and it did upset me a little bit at the time and has made me a little paranoid about what girls really think during a meeting with me.

[Trotter671]

I find if I build a bit of rapport I get better service. Like ask them about their summer holiday plans, give a compliment or two etc

+1 - this usually helps, just be a nice person as well as the obvious as said a number of times on this thread- be on time, polite, clean, fee handed over at start, no boundary pushing or taking the piss on time. It's not rocket science this hobby

[lamboman]

Bit naive to think looks don't sometimes have a bearing on a meeting.

[aj91]

I've always found that if you build a rapport with the ones who are open to having a conversation and not just treating it as a wham and bam, you'll get better service. I do ask what WG's clients are like and some seem to imply those clients who just 'fuck and go' are obviously just "whatever" to them.

As someone who needs a little bit of emotional connection to get hard, these are my tips.

1. Keep in contact, find out when their quiet days/evenings are. Offer then to meet up for a cocktail or dinner somewhere, then head back to theirs for some service. Usually 90% of the time they know it's going to lead back to them getting paid if you say something like 'lets go out for a few drinks then go back to yours'. Breaking up the monotonous lifestyle of being inside a flat all day helps.

2. Be nice, wield some intellect and make yourself interesting.

3. And Rarely, on some occasions, if I had a really good fuck and my cock is happy I'll most likely tip them £50-£80, this sometimes means that my texts on the next occasions get answered when im desperate at night.

Some say look's don't matter. I think it's not every case. Obviously if you are fit, good looking, or wealthy then the WG is going to see you in a different light. I used to see WG's with my rolex on, 1970 mustang parked outside and designer garb on like an idiot (I still do if its a regular WG as I'll becoming back from a club unsuccessfully). There's a different between bob the builder in the city and someone who runs businesses in terms of pound signs in their eyes.

Like I said it's not always the case, you need to be able to tactfully and get the signals right. For example if a WG NEVER goes outside with a client and see likes/trusts you enough to pop out with her and spend time, then you know you're building on that relationship, financial or not!

Sometimes I don't know how long I'm staying so I'll take a roll of 1-2k with me in my pocket if I trust my senses that there aint no pimps or gangs involved and it will be an easy time.

[smiths]

Looks have very little to do with it, but there's 100's of other reasons why one punter has a different experience to another.

Plus don't forget we all want slightly different things from a punt.

Spot on.

[aj91]

mistaken post.

[daviemac]

Bit naive to think looks don't sometimes have a bearing on a meeting.

Obviously there will be exceptions, it would be naive to think there wouldn't, but the OP is generalising by saying "Like the Positive reviews tend to be from more attractive clients, and the neutral/negative reviews are from average/ugly clients?" and speaking generally looks have little to do with it. 

[Gordon Bennett]

That's still discriminating based on looks

It doesn't matter the reason

It has to be unjust to be classed as discrimination.

Say, I was horribly abused and maltreated for years when I was little by my freckled redhaired auntie. Today, the mere sight of a redhead induces a panic attack in me.

Therefore, my choice to not book a fair skinned redhead cannot, and would not, in any way be classed as discrimination. Furthermore, it would be entirely unacceptable to expect me to explain or justify myself - my childhood trauma would be nobody's business.

[Punter S Thompson]

Trust me, looks definitely play a part.

[KelvZhan]

Obviously there will be exceptions, it would be naive to think there wouldn't, but the OP is generalising by saying "Like the Positive reviews tend to be from more attractive clients, and the neutral/negative reviews are from average/ugly clients?" and speaking generally looks have little to do with it.

You're right, I shouldn't have generalised like that. I suppose like you say there could be many other factors other than looks such as if the escort thinks you're easy to please or whatever. Looks just came to mind as a possible factor so I wanted to see what everyone thought about it.

[puntingpumping1920]

I don't know why you are trying to turn this into a race issue, maybe you have a chip on your shoulder who knows, feel free to discuss NBA on the NBA thread BTW, but this discussion has nothing to do with escorts who decide not to see blacks, over a particular age, over a certain weight or whatever else they decide on it's about a perceived different level of service provided to punters they are willing to see.

Generally speaking if a punter fits the criteria they have set then looks don't matter and the service will be provided.

A dirty bum quoted me so I responded.

Mi nuh get ah chip pan fi mi shoulder

[daviemac]

A dirty bum quoted me so I responded.

Mi nuh get ah chip pan fi mi shoulder

No, nobody quoted you, your first post on this thread was to bring NBA into it and that is not relevant on this thread.  -

If escorts didn't care about physical looks they wouldn't have NBA policies

[Crockers]

No it's discrimination based on behaviour,  nothing to do with looks.

What emperical evidence do you have that people of Anglo Indian heritage such as me are more likely to be worse punters for SPs than White punters?

[daviemac]

What emperical evidence do you have that people of Anglo Indian heritage such as me are more likely to be worse punters for SPs than White punters?

Read the rules mate.

Apart from not being allowed, race has nothing to do with this thread, if an escort won't see a particular punter in the first place he can't get any service so can't leave a review so there can be no discrepancy.

[Payyourwaymate]

I've always found that if you build a rapport with the ones who are open to having a conversation and not just treating it as a wham and bam, you'll get better service. I do ask what WG's clients are like and some seem to imply those clients who just 'fuck and go' are obviously just "whatever" to them.

As someone who needs a little bit of emotional connection to get hard, these are my tips.

1. Keep in contact, find out when their quiet days/evenings are. Offer then to meet up for a cocktail or dinner somewhere, then head back to theirs for some service. Usually 90% of the time they know it's going to lead back to them getting paid if you say something like 'lets go out for a few drinks then go back to yours'. Breaking up the monotonous lifestyle of being inside a flat all day helps.

2. Be nice, wield some intellect and make yourself interesting.

3. And Rarely, on some occasions, if I had a really good fuck and my cock is happy I'll most likely tip them £50-£80, this sometimes means that my texts on the next occasions get answered when im desperate at night.

Some say look's don't matter. I think it's not every case. Obviously if you are fit, good looking, or wealthy then the WG is going to see you in a different light. I used to see WG's with my rolex on, 1970 mustang parked outside and designer garb on like an idiot (I still do if its a regular WG as I'll becoming back from a club unsuccessfully). There's a different between bob the builder in the city and someone who runs businesses in terms of pound signs in their eyes.

Like I said it's not always the case, you need to be able to tactfully and get the signals right. For example if a WG NEVER goes outside with a client and see likes/trusts you enough to pop out with her and spend time, then you know you're building on that relationship, financial or not!

Sometimes I don't know how long I'm staying so I'll take a roll of 1-2k with me in my pocket if I trust my senses that there aint no pimps or gangs involved and it will be an easy time.

Sorry what? That's too much effort, might aswell jump on a dating site or go on SA.

[puntingpumping1920]

No, nobody quoted you, your first post on this thread was to bring NBA into it and that is not relevant on this thread.  -

I meant some guy quoted my first post and wanted to debate me

Fair enough

I shouldn't have used race as an example in how girls judge punters looks

[RogerHealey]

I've noticed from browsing escort reviews that there can be massive differences in the experience that different clients have with the same escort. There's some positive reviews where the escort treats the client like a god and is proper proactive and everything with the servicing, and then there's neutral or even negative reviews where the service is just standard and lackluster. I wonder, is this based on the client's attractiveness?! Like the Positive reviews tend to be from more attractive clients, and the neutral/negative reviews are from average/ugly clients?

Honestly, are you serious? The average SP would not care if it was Quasimodo, so long as he was clean, respectful and didn't piss about with the money. Of course I can't be certain but I've got a pretty good hunch! 

And don't even ask if they prefer 10" over 5"......

[MissWolf]

I've always found that if you build a rapport with the ones who are open to having a conversation and not just treating it as a wham and bam, you'll get better service. I do ask what WG's clients are like and some seem to imply those clients who just 'fuck and go' are obviously just "whatever" to them.

As someone who needs a little bit of emotional connection to get hard, these are my tips.

1. Keep in contact, find out when their quiet days/evenings are. Offer then to meet up for a cocktail or dinner somewhere, then head back to theirs for some service. Usually 90% of the time they know it's going to lead back to them getting paid if you say something like 'lets go out for a few drinks then go back to yours'. Breaking up the monotonous lifestyle of being inside a flat all day helps.

2. Be nice, wield some intellect and make yourself interesting.

3. And Rarely, on some occasions, if I had a really good fuck and my cock is happy I'll most likely tip them £50-£80, this sometimes means that my texts on the next occasions get answered when im desperate at night.

Some say look's don't matter. I think it's not every case. Obviously if you are fit, good looking, or wealthy then the WG is going to see you in a different light. I used to see WG's with my rolex on, 1970 mustang parked outside and designer garb on like an idiot (I still do if its a regular WG as I'll becoming back from a club unsuccessfully). There's a different between bob the builder in the city and someone who runs businesses in terms of pound signs in their eyes.

Like I said it's not always the case, you need to be able to tactfully and get the signals right. For example if a WG NEVER goes outside with a client and see likes/trusts you enough to pop out with her and spend time, then you know you're building on that relationship, financial or not!

Sometimes I don't know how long I'm staying so I'll take a roll of 1-2k with me in my pocket if I trust my senses that there aint no pimps or gangs involved and it will be an easy time.

I find this whole post rather offensive tbh, it smacks of 'poor prossie,  got no life, I'll be nice, she will be grateful and I will get extra'

Let me give you my thoughts on you wonderful post, its free and you're welcome 

Point......
1. Keep in contact (text pest) find out when their quiet days/evenings are (nosey and creepy). Offer then to meet up for a cocktail or dinner somewhere, then head back to theirs for some service. Usually 90% of the time they know it's going to lead back to them getting paid if you say something like 'lets go out for a few drinks then go back to yours' (boundary pushing asking for unpaid time on the promise of possible paid time). Breaking up the monotonous lifestyle of being inside a flat all day helps. (Seriously beyond rude, poor prossie will be grateful) 

2. Be nice, wield some intellect and make yourself interesting (beware the nice)

3. And Rarely, on some occasions, if I had a really good fuck and my cock is happy I'll most likely tip them £50-£80, this sometimes means that my texts on the next occasions get answered when I'm desperate at night. Only thing that needs highlighting here.....

Some say look's don't matter. (they dont) I think it's not every case. Obviously if you are fit, good looking, or wealthy then the WG is going to see you in a different light (wrong if you are pleasant,  on time, clean and your breath doesn't smell). I used to see WG's with my rolex on, 1970 mustang parked outside and designer garb on like an idiot ( that just puts me right off, total narcissist) (I still do if its a regular WG as I'll becoming back from a club unsuccessfully). There's a different between bob the builder in the city and someone who runs businesses in terms of pound signs in their eyes. (I'd rather see 10 Bob the builders than one narcissistic guy who flashes the cash and expects girls to be grateful)

Sometimes I don't know how long I'm staying so I'll take a roll of 1-2k with me in my pocket (seriously narcissistic) this is 100% the sort of booking I dislikethe most, be a good girl and perform and you might get more money dear

Fuck me if you seriously can't see what is wrong with what you have written then there is no hope, guy do not be like this boundary pushing arse, if you want a good booking just be clear in comms, be on time, be respectful,  be clean and pay the fee without haggling or dangling 🥕

  :dash

[lillythesavage]

I find this whole post rather offensive tbh, it smacks of 'poor prossie,  got no life, I'll be nice, she will be grateful and I will get extra'

Let me give you my thoughts on you wonderful post, its free and you're welcome 

Point......
1. Keep in contact (text pest) find out when their quiet days/evenings are (nosey and creepy). Offer then to meet up for a cocktail or dinner somewhere, then head back to theirs for some service. Usually 90% of the time they know it's going to lead back to them getting paid if you say something like 'lets go out for a few drinks then go back to yours' (boundary pushing asking for unpaid time on the promise of possible paid time). Breaking up the monotonous lifestyle of being inside a flat all day helps. (Seriously beyond rude, poor prossie will be grateful) 

2. Be nice, wield some intellect and make yourself interesting (beware the nice)

3. And Rarely, on some occasions, if I had a really good fuck and my cock is happy I'll most likely tip them £50-£80, this sometimes means that my texts on the next occasions get answered when I'm desperate at night. Only thing that needs highlighting here.....

Some say look's don't matter. (they dont) I think it's not every case. Obviously if you are fit, good looking, or wealthy then the WG is going to see you in a different light (wrong if you are pleasant,  on time, clean and your breath doesn't smell). I used to see WG's with my rolex on, 1970 mustang parked outside and designer garb on like an idiot ( that just puts me right off, total narcissist) (I still do if its a regular WG as I'll becoming back from a club unsuccessfully). There's a different between bob the builder in the city and someone who runs businesses in terms of pound signs in their eyes. (I'd rather see 10 Bob the builders than one narcissistic guy who flashes the cash and expects girls to be grateful)

Sometimes I don't know how long I'm staying so I'll take a roll of 1-2k with me in my pocket (seriously narcissistic) this is 100% the sort of booking I dislikethe most, be a good girl and perform and you might get more money dear

Fuck me if you seriously can't see what is wrong with what you have written then there is no hope, guy do not be like this boundary pushing arse, if you want a good booking just be clear in comms, be on time, be respectful,  be clean and pay the fee without haggling or dangling 🥕

  :dash

Nicely analysed, but time wasted on this clown.  Your post was more interesting though, could not be arsed to read it first time round.

If he lives riverside in Wandsworth, he ain,t got the Mustang no more  , not too many of those in London. 1 less now.

[MissWolf]

Nicely analysed, but time wasted on this clown.  Your post was more interesting though, could not be arsed to read it first time round.

If he lives riverside in Wandsworth, he ain,t got the Mustang no more  , not too many of those in London. 1 less now.

Thanks 

Predator vibes are strong with this one no?

[daviemac]

Nicely analysed, but time wasted on this clown.  Your post was more interesting though, could not be arsed to read it first time round.

If he lives riverside in Wandsworth, he ain,t got the Mustang no more  , not too many of those in London. 1 less now.

Thanks 

Predator vibes are strong with this one no?

Maybe we should sticky his post with the title 'How NOT to behave as a punter'.

[lillythesavage]

Thanks 

Predator vibes are strong with this one no?

Yep, and all sorts of other vibes, not least his alter ego asking himself questions 

[lillythesavage]

Maybe we should sticky his post with the title 'How NOT to behave as a punter'.

There are so many things you could put as not to do from his posts, it is a nice Mustang though 

[KelvZhan]

Yep, and all sorts of other vibes, not least his alter ego asking himself questions 

lol this is hilarious, now you think i'm his alter ego
i asked him those questions to take the piss you do realise right? cuz i find it funny that he keeps on bragging about escorts being attracted to him and shit

[smiths]

On looks playing a part in a punt i am no looker yet at sex parties it never made a difference compared to good looking blokes, i got the same as them.

And at 121 punts i have had countless regulars where i have had great service off them. Now sure some WGs may fancy some punters and not others but a good WG will offer the same good service regardless, it comes down to how professional a WG is in my view. Being clean, arriving on time with the agreed cash and not being an arsehole with good honest WGs are my end of the deal.

[Crockers]

Read the rules mate.

Apart from not being allowed, race has nothing to do with this thread, if an escort won't see a particular punter in the first place he can't get any service so can't leave a review so there can be no discrepancy.

I've read the rules.

I was replying to the poster who said that SPs are more likely to turn down Blacks and Asians because they behave badly.

I simply asked him for his evidence.

He brougt Race into the equation.

He should stop doing so.

I'm just on this forum to meet good quality girls.

[PatMacGroin]

I don't think looks make that much of a difference with a decent WG. I think the way you behave will have a stronger impact on the service you receive. Of course, there will always be exceptions.

Although, I can think of atleast a couple of WG's that gave me a great service and have a good review track record, that were actually short sighted. And didn't wear glasses or contacts during the session. So I may just have looked like a vaguely man shaped pink blob to them. Maybe that helped them? 

Also, punters can be having an off day as much as the WG. I know of times I've made a repeat visit to a WG, found it less enjoyable than previous visits, and been totally aware that actually my mind wasn't really on what I was doing. If it was a first visit, it is possible I would decide the dissatisfaction was due to the WG not giving me her best. Especially if she had a long list of previously glowing reviews. 

[lamboman]

Trust me, looks definitely play a part.

Yes but not always in my experience.

[daviemac]

I've read the rules.

I was replying to the poster who said that SPs are more likely to turn down Blacks and Asians because they behave badly.

I simply asked him for his evidence.

He brougt Race into the equation.

He should stop doing so.

I'm just on this forum to meet good quality girls.

If you've read the rules then there is no excuse for you to bring race into the discussion. You quoted and replied to this post which does not mention race. -

No it's discrimination based on behaviour,  nothing to do with looks.

By posting -

What emperical evidence do you have that people of Anglo Indian heritage such as me are more likely to be worse punters for SPs than White punters?

As far as the NBA goes the member who mentioned that was informed in reply #36 at 8.51 am yesterday that it was irrelevant to this thread and should be discussed on the threads dedicated to the topic, he then accepted he should not have mentioned it and this was long before you posted a direct question regarding race.

It seems an unusual attitude the think because someone else has posted something they shouldn't that it's alright for you to do the same.   

[Jindybandy]

What I find interesting going back to the original question is what we punters’ mindsets are when you see an SP reviews fluctuate between ratings in terms of our own desire to see said girl. Especially when a review mentions YMMV, which I’ve seen a few times.

How many punters think “I bet I could get her to deliver a ‘Positive’ booking” if it’s an SP they had had their eye on.

I know in the past that thought has entered my mind when reading reviews. Not saying I’m of the belief that my way of approaching a punt is better that anyone else’s, or for that matter that I’ve booked anyone on the back of that mindset (can’t think off top of my head of any bookings I’ve made after reading mixed reviews), but just saying I know I’ve had that thought pop into my head.

Just interested to know if others ever think like that, maybe take mixed reviews as a ‘challenge’ in some way? Or does it just make you want to avoid all together?

[JustaPunter]

Well obviously I don't know exactly why these 2 punters got such different service. I'm just speculating that looks may be a factor?
I think many are missing what I'm trying to say. I'm not saying that I know for sure that better looks get you better service, obviously no one knows for sure if that is the case. I'm just speculating that it might be the most likely reason why one punter might get much better service than another.

Not saying it applies in the case you have mentioned.

But have you ever thought some reviewers have an ulterior motive?

It has been known for bad reviews to be made about a SW in order to try and stop other people from seeing them.

There are many variables.

Perhaps some punters get a reputation in the SW community?

If a few find a specific punter is a bit of a tool then word could get round.

Or perhaps the person writing a negative review has missed out some important facts, maybe something he did or tried to do.