I got scammed by a girl from Seeking - what are my options

[LoneWolf2020]

If you're not physically imposing and if you're vulnerable after surgery for christ sake just stick to well reviewed girls from UKPunting.

She came up to your room, sussed you out then loverboy came up because you were a soft touch.

Do you think he would have still thrown his weight around if he thought it was tyson fury in bed with his misses? No, he would have probably come up to tuck him in.

[RAJEC]

All very sensible suggestions - I would leave it too, it’s not worth the repercussions.

However...

If you are feeling like you want to give the cunt her comeuppance, you could try and out her anonymously 

There’s no reason she would have to know it’s you and it doesn't need to be an elaborate plan.

I would still caution you to leave it well alone though 

[dieseldriver]

Lesson learnt hopefully. Do what I do next time. Watch from your car outside to see who's meeting you. Looks dodgy or not what ordered, don't answer phone. Just wait patiently until gives up and leaves......

However, be careful checking out. Might be mad enough to come back for you   

[RAJEC]

Lesson learnt hopefully. Do what I do next time. Watch from your car outside to see who's meeting you. Looks dodgy or not what ordered, don't answer phone. Just wait patiently until gives up and leaves......

However, be careful checking out. Might be mad enough to come back for you   

That’s if they know what you look like, but if they’ve never seen you then... 

[datwabbit]

Dunno what the police will do.
It ain’t blackmail or assault
You agreed to meet for £150.
She met you, took £150, “had a chat etc” and left.
If the BF assaulted you or they stole something other than the agreed £150 for meeting then you may have a case.
What else did you agree, and are the police really going to tell her she should have stayed x amount of time, or do such n such sexual services, even if you have evidence agreeing this.
Stick to parlours or reliable WG, or your hand.

Yes

She agreed to meet him for money.

Then she felt uncomfortable and called someone to take her away.

Is it theft?
It's not assault on him.
You don't want her telling the police about tales of molesting.

[jeanphillipe]

Yes

She agreed to meet him for money.

Then she felt uncomfortable and called someone to take her away.

Is it theft?
It's not assault on him.
You don't want her telling the police about tales of molesting.

sound like the perfect crime eh

[king tarzan]

Well if your hell bent on meeting her then please do.
As she is coming up to your hotel room make sure the door is open whilst you pull your pants down bend over a table and open your arse cheeks wide as you can for her and her accomplice to come in and BHUNDHMAAR YOU TO THE HEAVENS!!
how stupidly jolly!!

[DeanoDeano]

Report the profile to the admin on SA.
Don’t expect much to be done about it.
Share it as widely as you can on here.
Hope that no one else suffers the same fate.
Learn a valuable lesson.

[webpunter]

 

Leaving a trail of notes on the floor as the 150 payment for them to collect

So they don't get lost on the way

Well if your hell bent on meeting her then please do.
As she is coming up to your hotel room make sure the door is open whilst you pull your pants down bend over a table and open your arse cheeks wide as you can for her and her accomplice to come in and BHUNDHMAAR YOU TO THE HEAVENS!!
how stupidly jolly!!

[MrMatrix]

You try to book her again, you will either end up with a beating, or worse..
you can't do fuck all anyway because of being outed, or matter going to police and you make everything transparent.. the loser will be you because your hands are tied because of confidentiality.. just let go and move on..
Don't end up stupidly putting your family through a trauma because of some low life losers of society..

Op , I too have been scamed out of money in the past. You leave irritated and slightly shaken. You've just lost £150, I lost a bit more, but I walked. I licked my wounds for a couple of days and after a week thought could have been a lot worse. To which I wouldnt have been able to explain things away.
Put it down to experience and move on. Your identity being kept secret is more important.

Suggest you give her some false bookings if you can

[G.Raff]

Op , I too have been scamed out of money in the past. You leave irritated and slightly shaken. You've just lost £150, I lost a bit more, but I walked. I licked my wounds for a couple of days and after a week thought could have been a lot worse. To which I wouldnt have been able to explain things away.
Put it down to experience and move on. Your identity being kept secret is more important.

Suggest you give her some false bookings if you can

I was about to post a reply along the same lines as this.
I've also been scammed before, for a similar amount, but hey, this is part and parcel of the roller coaster ride, you should embrace it, put it down to experience and move on.
Don't your ego cloud your judgement, life is too short.

You're reported it here so in a way you've taken some revenge already, but I bet you'll be a lot wiser next time round and, when you'll have success with another SB, it will be even more enjoyable 

[dieseldriver]

When I was in Hong Kong April, brought a street girl to my hotel. Unable to speak English, showed me $HK 300  on her phone. On way gesticulated OWO for 400. OK, thinks I. That's £40. Not a bad price. But when we got to my room and undressed wanted more. In fact grabbed my bumbag where my wallet was.

So grabbed it back, told her to get dressed (gesticulated) and kicked her out. £40 not a great deal. But rather than demand it back and a potential scene,  put it down to experience. Never show a WG where you keep your money.

Easiest $HK400 she probabely made that day! 

[RAJEC]

When I was in Hong Kong April, brought a street girl to my hotel. Unable to speak English, showed me $HK 300  on her phone. On way gesticulated OWO for 400. OK, thinks I. That's £40. Not a bad price. But when we got to my room and undressed wanted more. In fact grabbed my bumbag where my wallet was.

So grabbed it back, told her to get dressed (gesticulated) and kicked her out. £40 not a great deal. But rather than demand it back and a potential scene,  put it down to experience. Never show a WG where you keep your money.

Easiest $HK400 she probabely made that day!

I think it’s more worrying that you have a bumbag! 

[webpunter]

Quality 

I think it’s more worrying that you have a bumbag! 

Lesson here is have cash stashes [multiple] in the room for outcall
So you don't have to open the safe for folding
I have one stash in the bathroom so easy to go for a jimmy riddle & transfer to your pocket
The burd is none the wiser
This approach is also good for extending the time, so you don't dither coz you are thinking about opening the safe etc
Coz you don't have enuf wedge on you 
And put every fucking thing of value in the safe !

[MrMatrix]

Quality 

Lesson here is have cash stashes [multiple] in the room for outcall
So you don't have to open the safe for folding
I have one stash in the bathroom so easy to go for a jimmy riddle & transfer to your pocket
The burd is none the wiser
This approach is also good for extending the time, so you don't dither coz you are thinking about opening the safe etc
Coz you don't have enuf wedge on you 
And put every fucking thing of value in the safe !

I too split my money up. If I lose one lot for what ever reason theres probably another 3 places where I have additional money. Never carry it all in a wallet

[RAJEC]

Quality 

Lesson here is have cash stashes [multiple] in the room for outcall
So you don't have to open the safe for folding
I have one stash in the bathroom so easy to go for a jimmy riddle & transfer to your pocket
The burd is none the wiser
This approach is also good for extending the time, so you don't dither coz you are thinking about opening the safe etc
Coz you don't have enuf wedge on you 
And put every fucking thing of value in the safe !

Punting 101 mate.

Have you done this before!?   

[Murray Mint]

It's only £150. You could easily have spent that on a bad punt and felt equally miserable! Don't let it dwell on you mind - it's only your pride that's been hurt.

They say if you fall off a horse, get straight back on. If you can afford to, I think that's what I'd do!

[magnetico]

This would be such an easy catch for even a slightly motivated police force

😂 The police isn't even slightly motivated, where did you get that idea...

[datwabbit]

Op , I too have been scamed out of money in the past. You leave irritated and slightly shaken. You've just lost £150, I lost a bit more, but I walked. I licked my wounds for a couple of days and after a week thought could have been a lot worse. To which I wouldnt have been able to explain things away.
Put it down to experience and move on. Your identity being kept secret is more important.

Suggest you give her some false bookings if you can

Yes. Let fellow punters send her to all the hotels in the area. It's not as good as getting your money but it's revenge.

[Crackpot11]

I’m not sure what the point of seeking is if all they are after is money? Surely that is prostitution?  Better to have an escort and more discretion. Seeking looks like a can of worms best left alone unless you are a Sugar daddy and can splash the cash and like to pretend you have a young girlfriend. Pointless.

[James]

I’m not sure what the point of seeking is if all they are after is money? Surely that is prostitution?  Better to have an escort and more discretion. Seeking looks like a can of worms best left alone unless you are a Sugar daddy and can splash the cash and like to pretend you have a young girlfriend. Pointless.

i said in another thread they are just glorified escorts. anyone who accepts money in exchange for company is an escort/companion. the only reason you get sex from girls on aw/agencies is that is what is expected of them being escorts on there.

Seeking offers a different thing for girls. they are still escorts but not expected to have sex to get their money, like they are in other places.
Just gotta find a good escort that give good service, reasonable price and is a honey

At the moment the honey on seeking

[webpunter]

I'll take that as a compliment
Just the odd time maybe 
Have picked things up along the way
From doing it myself & from speaking with mates *
Being on here helps

* the various cash stashes in the hotel was suggested by a [real life] mate
He was in vegas to celebrate
He spent the evening with a couple of girls he met in a bar, who said they liked to party & have 3 way sex etc etc
But that they also liked some $$ to be able to go shopping the next day
That the amount was up to him
He said they seemed very plausible
He is well experienced shagging both hookers & civvies
A few hours out drinking lots of fun & then loads of sex
They wanted to stay longer they said & only an extra couple of hundred $
He'd gone thru a bundle & had to open the safe
That was the last he remembered until he woke up the following afternoon
Minus his wallet with cards / cash, mobile phone, laptop & passport
He said he spent ages cancelling the cards / getting new ones & had to stay two extra days to sort his passport 
Rohypnol 

Punting 101 mate.

Have you done this before!?   

[RAJEC]

I'll take that as a compliment
Just the odd time maybe 
Have picked things up along the way
From doing it myself & from speaking with mates *
Being on here helps

* the various cash stashes in the hotel was suggested by a [real life] mate
He was in vegas to celebrate
He spent the evening with a couple of girls he met in a bar, who said they liked to party & have 3 way sex etc etc
But that they also liked some $$ to be able to go shopping the next day
That the amount was up to him
He said they seemed very plausible
He is well experienced shagging both hookers & civvies
A few hours out drinking lots of fun & then loads of sex
They wanted to stay longer they said & only an extra couple of hundred $
He'd gone thru a bundle & had to open the safe
That was the last he remembered until he woke up the following afternoon
Minus his wallet with cards / cash, mobile phone, laptop & passport
He said he spent ages cancelling the cards / getting new ones & had to stay two extra days to sort his passport 
Rohypnol 

Priceless information from your mate, and yes again, this place!   

[dieseldriver]

I think it’s more worrying that you have a bumbag! 

Hot evening, tee shirt & jeans. Not enough pockets for hotel room card, phone, loose cash and wallet. Was out shopping. However, concealed under tee shirt. On next jaunt abroad (if there is one) will be more careful and not use a street girl. Like here in UK, only use incalls minus personal belongings. 

[Home Alone]

I’m not sure what the point of seeking is if all they are after is money? Surely that is prostitution?  Better to have an escort and more discretion. Seeking looks like a can of worms best left alone unless you are a Sugar daddy and can splash the cash and like to pretend you have a young girlfriend. Pointless.

You and me both, Crackpot. If the best chances of pulling on Seeking are to describe yourself as 'Wealthy' - rather than 'Attractive' - then you wouldn't stay wealthy very long, imo.

[Squire Haggard]

Long ago, in the days of street pick ups, the same happened to me. A guy came to the door after I paid her. After that, I made life difficult for her by parking with her sight at her beat. She felt uncomfortable, and soon stopped appearing in the red light district streets.

IMO, what happened to the OP was a crime, 'obtaining money by deception.'  If he does not want the police involved, the next best thing is to out her. At least her photo is now on this site.

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[Payyourwaymate]

I’m not sure what the point of seeking is if all they are after is money? Surely that is prostitution?  Better to have an escort and more discretion. Seeking looks like a can of worms best left alone unless you are a Sugar daddy and can splash the cash and like to pretend you have a young girlfriend. Pointless.

I personally would not do it. However, I do get the allure for the girls to allow their cognitive dissonance to be balanced through the avenue of SA where they can sell sex but pretend that they are not a prostitute, whilst the guys can have a better chance of getting a high quality GFE,  with potentially added kinky sex with a young hot girl; without dealing with the brute coldness or easy to spot fake GFE of a hardened WG. I guess it would seem more genuine. A very tight rope to walk on for sure but worth the hassle for some I would assume.   

[stampjones]

This shit is an occupational hazard tbh. It happened to me a couple of months ago and I think Im reasonably switched on. Met a girl from craigslist in a nice house in a nice area. She asked if she could have the money beforehand which I just kind of take as normal from prossies etc. Then she goes to the toilet leaving the money on a table in the room I am in so no warning signs. Two minutes later some dude walks in and says I should leave.

And this is the weird bit. You never know how you’ll react in these situations but I was thinking with complete clarity. This guy was about 5 foot 2 and Im pretty sure I couldve taken him out with one swipe but I remember thinking no, fuck it, its not worth it. Did I really want to expose myself there. And thats what they were relying on. If I’d fucked him up they could have reported me to the police and suddenly there’s questions about why Im there etc. So I just thought fuck it. Its just like a tax you have to pay. I just walked out. In all honesty my only regret was that I didnt have a grope of her tits before the midget arrived when I had the chance

[RAJEC]

This shit is an occupational hazard tbh. It happened to me a couple of months ago and I think Im reasonably switched on. Met a girl from craigslist in a nice house in a nice area. She asked if she could have the money beforehand which I just kind of take as normal from Sex Workers etc. Then she goes to the toilet leaving the money on a table in the room I am in so no warning signs. Two minutes later some dude walks in and says I should leave.

And this is the weird bit. You never know how you’ll react in these situations but I was thinking with complete clarity. This guy was about 5 foot 2 and Im pretty sure I couldve taken him out with one swipe but I remember thinking no, fuck it, its not worth it. Did I really want to expose myself there. And thats what they were relying on. If I’d fucked him up they could have reported me to the police and suddenly there’s questions about why Im there etc. So I just thought fuck it. Its just like a tax you have to pay. I just walked out. In all honesty my only regret was that I didnt have a grope of her tits before the midget arrived when I had the chance

Name and shame the cunts (with full address, I say)! 

[stampjones]

Name and shame the cunts (with full address, I say)! 

I would normally but it was a reply to my ad and tbh Ive lost the contact details. The place was in finsbury park up behind the bamboo massage joint. I was on a break from ukp at the time otherwise I’d have mentioned it at the time

[RAJEC]

I would normally but it was a reply to my ad and tbh Ive lost the contact details. The place was in finsbury park up behind the bamboo massage joint. I was on a break from ukp at the time otherwise I’d have mentioned it at the time

Fair play, and sorry to hear it happened to you too sj.

Vile vermin cunts - hope they get their dues 

[MrMatrix]

This shit is an occupational hazard tbh. It happened to me a couple of months ago and I think Im reasonably switched on. Met a girl from craigslist in a nice house in a nice area. She asked if she could have the money beforehand which I just kind of take as normal from Sex Workers etc. Then she goes to the toilet leaving the money on a table in the room I am in so no warning signs. Two minutes later some dude walks in and says I should leave.

And this is the weird bit. You never know how you’ll react in these situations but I was thinking with complete clarity. This guy was about 5 foot 2 and Im pretty sure I couldve taken him out with one swipe but I remember thinking no, fuck it, its not worth it. Did I really want to expose myself there. And thats what they were relying on. If I’d fucked him up they could have reported me to the police and suddenly there’s questions about why Im there etc. So I just thought fuck it. Its just like a tax you have to pay. I just walked out. In all honesty my only regret was that I didnt have a grope of her tits before the midget arrived when I had the chance

You walked without trying to get the money back?

[stampjones]

You walked without trying to get the money back?

Yeah thats kind of my point. I probably could have. The guy was a foot shorter than me and a few stone lighter and Im not exactly a stranger to looking after myself. But I just thought in that moment just dont be involved. It was more important to me to not have all the shit that might come from doing something than the cash I would lose. Weird I admit and I never thought thats how I’d react but it was so clear to me at that moment.

[MrMatrix]

Yeah thats kind of my point. I probably could have. The guy was a foot shorter than me and a few stone lighter and Im not exactly a stranger to looking after myself. But I just thought in that moment just dont be involved. It was more important to me to not have all the shit that might come from doing something than the cash I would lose. Weird I admit and I never thought thats how I’d react but it was so clear to me at that moment.

Sounds like I'm similar to you. Got tucked up some years ago for £180 odd. And I was surprised how I too, just walked out- Figured it just wasnt worth the effort and as it happened it wasn't . A week later I was back to my old self punting. Like you I always thought I'd take the cunt on. My protaganist was female and slapping her probably wouldnt acheived much and there were 2 women as well......
I did think about nicking one of her leather boots on the way out and I didnt even do that.

Its all part of our punting journey as I see it and I'm safe. However could have done without it

[dieseldriver]

I would normally but it was a reply to my ad and tbh Ive lost the contact details. The place was in finsbury park up behind the bamboo massage joint. I was on a break from ukp at the time otherwise I’d have mentioned it at the time

If you can find the address again, note where it is postcode included. Then send her shit. I done that a few times in the past to girls promising a good time but didn't get one after paying up front. Put freshly are wiped arse paper in envelope, typed address on it and posted. But not straight away. Waited a few weeks as others might have also been caught? Typed a letter with it to say you gave me a shit time so have some back! Oh, but not posted my area. Out of town so different post-stamp on envelope to where I was living.

Last time done that was a WG in Brighton who gave me wrong postcode, so couldn't find where she was? Called couldn't find her as satnav taking me somewhere else. Same wrong postcode texted back. So when got home done postcode search for the address she gave me, and the last part of it was wrong. By then I was getting lots of insulting texts of letting her down. So gave her shit a few times. Kept punting phone off so her insults never received. Must be 9/10 years ago? Not had reason to do that since.

[RAJEC]

If you can find the address again, note where it is postcode included. Then send her shit. I done that a few times in the past to girls promising a good time but didn't get one after paying up front. Put freshly are wiped arse paper in envelope, typed address on it and posted. But not straight away. Waited a few weeks as others might have also been caught? Typed a letter with it to say you gave me a shit time so have some back! Oh, but not posted my area. Out of town so different post-stamp on envelope to where I was living.

Last time done that was a WG in Brighton who gave me wrong postcode, so couldn't find where she was? Called couldn't find her as satnav taking me somewhere else. Same wrong postcode texted back. So when got home done postcode search for the address she gave me, and the last part of it was wrong. By then I was getting lots of insulting texts of letting her down. So gave her shit a few times. Kept punting phone off so her insults never received. Must be 9/10 years ago? Not had reason to do that since.

Genius!

Although cunts like these are most deserving of dog (or any other animal) shit 

[Flunt]

I think it's a matter of mindset. We turn up, as a punter, with a checklist for having a good time, they turn up with dishonest intentions. By the time you realise you're in a shit situation it's too late.

All the through the build up, we're waiting for the bombshell, the scam, then the meeting is on. The next part is will she or won't she turn up, will she fulfill the promise, will she stay? So many questions!

Finally, you're alone together, you want her to be relaxed and to have a good time, repay the trust she has shown in you. Ultimately, it's the price of being a gullible fool! If she's alone, I'm not sure she has committed a crime, it's more of a civil case, like paying a deposit to a builder who is, subsequently, never available.

Learn from your mistakes, and the mistakes of others, make it clear from the outset that the money will be paid after the event. If they don't like it, move on. If they have some sob story, then it's equally likely to be part of a confidence trick as being genuine. Either way, it's unlikely to be a comfortable time, without trust, move on.

For the purists, my attitude is wrong but I don't care. I'm paying for a shag with an attractive semi-pro, I'm not paying for a con. They're selling, I'm buying, if their attitude is wrong then I'll look somewhere else. They are a non-essential in my life, I can live without. If there are no benefits coming my way then there are none going there way.

[stampjones]

Sounds like I'm similar to you. Got tucked up some years ago for £180 odd. And I was surprised how I too, just walked out- Figured it just wasnt worth the effort and as it happened it wasn't . A week later I was back to my old self punting. Like you I always thought I'd take the cunt on. My protaganist was female and slapping her probably wouldnt acheived much and there were 2 women as well......
I did think about nicking one of her leather boots on the way out and I didnt even do that.

Its all part of our punting journey as I see it and I'm safe. However could have done without it

Yeah thats pretty much my thoughts. I was annoyed with myself for a day then I pretty much forgot about it. Taking a boot would have been funny. Especially if you’d bumped into someone you knew. Try coming up with a story to explain that 

[sparkus]

This shit is an occupational hazard tbh. It happened to me a couple of months ago and I think Im reasonably switched on. Met a girl from craigslist in a nice house in a nice area. She asked if she could have the money beforehand which I just kind of take as normal from Sex Workers etc. Then she goes to the toilet leaving the money on a table in the room I am in so no warning signs. Two minutes later some dude walks in and says I should leave.

And this is the weird bit. You never know how you’ll react in these situations but I was thinking with complete clarity. This guy was about 5 foot 2 and Im pretty sure I couldve taken him out with one swipe but I remember thinking no, fuck it, its not worth it. Did I really want to expose myself there. And thats what they were relying on. If I’d fucked him up they could have reported me to the police and suddenly there’s questions about why Im there etc. So I just thought fuck it. Its just like a tax you have to pay. I just walked out. In all honesty my only regret was that I didnt have a grope of her tits before the midget arrived when I had the chance

This is largely what I feared when we had those discussions about CL shags on here.  It could actually be much worse, imagine it happened when you were in a state of undress.

I pretty much keep my wits about me on Tinder dates of that sort e.g. pre-arranged meet for sex at their place or in a hotel, but I have nodded off a few times in a post-coital haze and suddenly jolted when realising I'm laid next to a complete stranger who could be off with my wallet etc.  Can't believe I once woke up at 7am naked in a random bed, with my jeans and jacket discarded in their living room in a flatshare either!

[stampjones]

This is largely what I feared when we had those discussions about CL shags on here.  It could actually be much worse, imagine it happened when you were in a state of undress.

I pretty much keep my wits about me on Tinder dates of that sort e.g. pre-arranged meet for sex at their place or in a hotel, but I have nodded off a few times in a post-coital haze and suddenly jolted when realising I'm laid next to a complete stranger who could be off with my wallet etc.  Can't believe I once woke up at 7am naked in a random bed, with my jeans and jacket discarded in their living room in a flatshare either!

Yeah I guess there’s a risk whatever you do. In this case it was mostly my own fault for going to her place. I usually meet in hotels but when she suggested I went to hers, Im like 60 quid saved and I dont need to go through the painful experience of checking in to a day room (yes sir and which girl will you be bringing today)! I certainly didnt feel threatened at any point - not like the punter last year who turned up for a punt and got two guys and a meat cleaver or whatever it was (sorry for my shit memory)

[Doc Holliday]

It's a shame there has been such a demise of the parlour scene (certainly in the North West) which largely eliminates any risks of this nature

[dieseldriver]

Yeah I guess there’s a risk whatever you do. In this case it was mostly my own fault for going to her place. I usually meet in hotels but when she suggested I went to hers, Im like 60 quid saved and I dont need to go through the painful experience of checking in to a day room (yes sir and which girl will you be bringing today)! I certainly didnt feel threatened at any point - not like the punter last year who turned up for a punt and got two guys and a meat cleaver or whatever it was (sorry for my shit memory)

Few of my punts have been to the girls house/flat with MistressMusclePP being the latest. But have always left personal belongings in car. With the increasing scamming going on as read on this site think I'll stick to the massage shops.

[Trenlover]

OP you need to accept the loss and move on.

in future with SA girls always give money at end regardless of whatever she says,  if she threatens to walk out because your not handing over the money first it would of been a shit punt anyway.

there are plenty of SA girls who will give you a good time and accept money at the end.

[king tarzan]

OP you need to accept the loss and move on.

in future with SA girls always give money at end regardless of whatever she says,  if she threatens to walk out because your not handing over the money first it would of been a shit punt anyway.

there are plenty of SA girls who will give you a good time and accept money at the end.

Hookers you pay at the end or in gifts etc
Still a whore