I am new to the world of punting - and have resisted taking this step for years (despite being in a sexless marriage for years) etc. My wife is away at the moment, and this weekend I went bananas and thought "fuck it", you only live once.
So I went onto Adultwork, defined my search criteria, and made some bookings. Over the weekend, I had sex with 6 different girls (one twice - more on that later), in half hour sessions. What's my complaint then?, I hear you ask? well the problem is that the reality was FAR different from what I had expected.
I thought I'd come in here to find out from people who are similarly "challenged" and/or have more experience in this particular "peculiar endeavour".
My complaints are based on these two issues
1. Excessive displays of GFE, oil massages (admittedly in my first punt - which in retrospect, was a scam to waste my time)
2. Hmmm, how do I put this ... girls struggling with the size of my "tackle"
I'm a very busy man, and I don't have time for chit chat; when I'm paying a girl for sex, the purpose of our meeting should be quite clear to both of us. I don't mean to be rude (and I'm generally not), but I'm paying to fuck, I just want a girl/woman who will drop her knickers and get on with what she's been paid to do. I'm not there for idle chit chat or to be massaged, or have some girl pretend to be "into" me - I am not bereft of female attention in my life. It's fucking sex I want, for fucks sake! I'm very much a "wham bam, thank you very kindly" kind of man, and I'm not at all impressed with the nonsense attached to what should be a straight forward cash for sex transaction.
The second thing is about the tackle size issue (yes, your guess about my ethnicity is probably correct!) - but jokes aside, this has been the biggest surprise to me. I must make it quite clear that I am not (well, at least by my reckoning) - "overly huge"; when fully erect, my equipment is just a smidgen over 9 inches (as measured by an ex girlfriend).
I work in a high testosterone environment, and sex provides a release for me - so I am quite "enthusiastic" when "going at it", and with the exception of one girl (more about her later) - ALL of the girls have complained that I'm too big, which was fucking annoying to me, because after the first two times that happened, I called before hand and told them my size, my expectations etc, and they have said "no problem, this is what we do", "its our job, we can handle it (which stands to reason - or so I would have thought)". BTW, I'm almost forty, so it's not like I have all the virility of a 20 something year old guy, so I'm frustrated that I can't get a single uninterrupted session, that I can "come", with the girls I've been with so far. I've often had to settle for a handjob, instead of actual sex - because the girls were in pain, or interrupted me, by telling me "don't go too deep", or something like that.
Basically mid coitus, I've had girls start crying or clearly in pain - so I had to stop since I couldn't deliberately hurt anyone doing their job. Girls also refuse to do doggystyle (my favorite) - "because it's too big". One case, a Singaporean girl was clearly in pain begged me to stop but also begged me to take a picture of my dick, because it was "so beautiful", and she wanted to show it to her girlfriends back home .... I saw this as a cunning ploy to "flatter" and distract me, and end up wasting even more time - instead of doing what I was really there to do. Unsurprisingly, I dismissed that ridiculous request outright.
There is only one woman who I have successfully been able to orgasm with - but she is absolutely repugnant in the looks department. She is HUGE (must be over size 20), and her pussy is quite loose, and actually quite disgusting to look at. But at least, she lets me rut away like a "good un", so I can at least be satisfied. But I have to do that with my eyes closed, because seeing the loose folds of flesh of her stomach, her droopy/saggy breasts and her pale, blubbery, ginormous arse is a real "turn off".
So, my question is this - has anyone come across this problem before? - and more importantly, how did you resolve it ?
Does anyone on here know of any girls/women that are CLEAN, HEALTH CONCIOUS who can deal with a slightly larger than normal penis (without having an over used, over stretched pussy), and can engage in energetic sex at a drop of a hat without GFE and all that other superfluous nonsense?
I am in it just for the sex (just like the girls/women are just in it for the money), and since I can't last more than 30 minutes (and that's a gross exaggeration on my part), I would be looking for sessions for no more than half an hour.
Any recommendations?