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BeesKnees

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OP seems to be looking for 2 answers for 2 questions.

Not all wgs are damaged I wouldn't think.

As the EAS OP, you've had 22 reviews so you're no rookie, you know you have to name her to start getting over her.

It's like giving up addiction. First you admit you have a problem, then you take steps to remove yourself from it. Like telling your friends you're giving up smoking and then enforcing it by getting your mates to help.

Offline MrSmiley

After a heavy drink testosterone plummets. Some feel soft an emotional as a result, but don't see what it is. Might be worth keeping in mind

you hit the nail on the head stealthshagger. i was finished physically and emotionally after several nights out on various sauces. a good sleep and plenty of water re calibrated me and woke up the next morning feeling fine. I do not have EAS. I actually like the fact this one's a slut and often ask her how many cocks she sucked that day when giving her a good bash!

I needn't have mentioned the background behind why I was curious to know what people thought about prossies being damaged goods. i've got my answer thank you. i respect all (the honest ones) the prostitutes i've seen. they are doing me a great service and thoroughly enjoy my relatively new 'hobby'. i believe being a prossie does not mean they're damaged. somebody said it's how they and others deal with the fact they are sex workers which is the tricky bit. however i would never want to date a prossie or ex prossie. As to me being damaged goods; the answer is absolutely. i've been through some interesting things in my life and have come out the other side fine, however a lot of behaviour is quite self destructive.

Out of curiosity i did ask this girl out last night over the phone. she said fuck it why not, i'm sure it will be fun. as long as you know its not free fuck and you must promise to come back and pay me to fuck me. fair enough! wether it wil happen is another thing. i don't really mind either way. as to putting a link up there's absolutley no reason to as this thread was about prossies being damaged goods - not about a specific prossie. those who want it are just nosey fuckers. i've written a few reviews so not 'scared' of posting about the girls. thanks for your comments.

Sylvester

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So you definitely don't have EAS, but you have just asked her out??

I hope it goes well for you, but you may be kidding yourself on a bit.  It is easily done.

Offline starman555

I am sorry for flouting my ignorance here but what exactly does EAS stand for?

Offline cueball

I am sorry for flouting my ignorance here but what exactly does EAS stand for?

Emotional attachment syndrome

Offline MrSmiley

So you definitely don't have EAS, but you have just asked her out??

I hope it goes well for you, but you may be kidding yourself on a bit.  It is easily done.

i'm under no pretence that it'a anything more than a drink. as I said we get on very well - she's fucking cool. so see know reason why i can't enjoy a night out with somebody i enjoy the company of. i'm not single so not looking for a relationship. she is a good fuck and now perhaps a good laugh out on the town. no biggie.  yet!


Sylvester

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I think it's just about remaining clear about the nature of the relationship.  My natural instinct is to try to be friendly / friends with the girls I like, but I am still pretty new to this lark and think I got blindsided by the fact that they were letting me fuck them, which in the cubby world is a pretty good indicator that they like you.

Cash is the key differentiator, and I now think it's useful to view them as a type of physiotherapist / masseuse / provider of services.  I've never tried to be friends with any of them, or asked any out for drinks, so I think the sex thing clouds our judgement.  A lot in some cases...


BeesKnees

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You're the client, she's the supplier so you're mixing business with pleasure.

Although it is her job to give you pleasure, you're turning a business relationship into a social/personal one

StPunt

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always dodgy to blur these lines, after you go out for this drink things are about to get a whole lot more complicated  :scare:

Offline Marmalade

I had a prossie who asked me out during the first fuck at some shite parlour where she was standing in for a friend. Ended up civvy-dating her for two years. Worked for an agency that gave her about three bookings a week which paid for her lifestyle, rent and penchant for books and arty stuff. Used to blow people away at company dinners with intelligent chat.

Had another one on a civvy booking from online chat, gorgeous shag one-night stand when she travelled up here to see me, but had a neurotic side so no repeat. She left escorting a few months later.

One abroad who was a shite shag at the brothel but pestered me for a few weeks so I said ok platonic. Shagged her and she went mental when I tried to slip her some money. Dated her a few weeks and was the a good shag. Another one, same country, rescued her at a nightclub after an expensive booking had blown her off in favour of her pal at the last minute. Cute girl, wonderful shag for a few weeks then left.

It sounds a lot to some people, but those are out of 100s and 100s of punts and it has always been the prossie that initiated. I've missed one out that was a friendly shag and we pretended it had never happened afterwards of course, and a prossie regular who became a mate but that doesn't count. It happens, or has happened with me, but is so rare that is best ignored for practical punting.

As for the OP I'd say if you simply have a nice night out, especially if she buys her rounds, thats worth it for that.  ;)

Offline starman555

https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=16474.0

Thanks everyone for enlightening me I have been caught once or twice by EAS I now know that all prossies are cunts when it comes to reeling you in and taking your money if you are stupid enough to think they like you.

Lynx

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I think they're all damaged, just some are more damaged then others, and thus show that damage more than others.

I've fucked a few, and dated a few. IMO, when you really get to know them, and know their background (not just their upbringing, but also their interactions with guys along the way), i can understand why they prostitute, and why they sometimes act the way they do.


Bigboy69

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I had a good read of SAAFE when feeling weak last year. This thread is a recent good eye opener: External Link/Members Only  Shows the mercenary, cold, businesslike attitude of prossies. Including, I'm sure, the prossie you are sweet on.

Wish I'd found this post sooner as your right it offers excellent advice in the mind set of escorts. I too have been suffering with the dreaded EAS with a lady I have been seeing for the last three years and I rarely see anyone else as they don't make me feel as she does ! I know how the game is played as I have been punting for years but I still against my better judgement developed feelings for her and deep down I no it's all an act but "male ego" likes to think otherwise and you end up believing if of course she's good at her job that you really are in the midst of something special !!! Really foolish have got to the stage that I'm spending money I no longer have to see her but after advice from a close friend and the help of this thread I think I have finally seen the light ! Loneliness can be a expensive !!!

306

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no it's all an act but "male ego" likes to think otherwise and you end up believing if of course she's good at her job that you really are in the midst of something special !!! Really foolish have got to the stage that I'm spending money I no longer have to see her but after advice from a close friend and the help of this thread I think I have finally seen the light ! Loneliness can be a expensive !!!

too true

Offline cueball

My advice is enjoy the podging, enjoy the banter and the compliments but remember without the money none of it would be happening.

As I've said before, I'll ride the fantasy wave with the best of em but when the door close behind you it's done with until the next time.

unclesweetheart

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My advice is enjoy the podging, enjoy the banter and the compliments but remember without the money none of it would be happening.


That's absolutely right. It's easy to get confused when you meet someone who's genuinely into the sex, likes your company, doesn't clockwatch, you go for drinks etc etc. All that is bloody marvellous, but the evelope stuffed with £20s defines the extent of the reality in the situation. Which is absolutely as it should be: when boundaries get confused, both WG and punter can find themselves in an embarrassing situation, or worse.

Offline Turtle Z

Not at all, most prostitutes are just like Julia Roberts in Pretty Woman and that's why that film is so popular cos it's real! So if you take a prossie out she'll look good in any designer item you care to buy her and all your mates will be really envious of how sexy she is and she'll be really intelligent so you can take her to business functions and she'll chip in with the occasional insightful comment that makes your clients wonder how it's possible to have such beauty and brains in one package. Also she won't fuck about once she has you cos she never really wanted to be a Prossie in the first place, she was just waiting for the man of her dreams (you) so she could give it all up and make your life complete.

Offline Deepstroker

There is so much bullshit around. Truth is most prossies are fucked in the head in some way or another or a drunk or an addict on the quiet. They will tell you the same old shite about how rich their family are, how they had a good education, blah blah blah but when they slop off home they know the truth and its all a fantasy for the mug punters because the real truth is that many of them are useless,fooked in the head and no one would ever employ them. They are hooked on easy cash from mug punters willing to pay them £100/£150 an hour which might be 10 hours work for many of them and what for? just so you can shoot your load. Well you can do that for free and take as long as you like with some lube and a laptop with xhamster. At least then your not wasting money and degrading yourself.

Offline sticko

Not at all, most prostitutes are just like Julia Roberts in Pretty Woman and that's why that film is so popular cos it's real! So if you take a prossie out she'll look good in any designer item you care to buy her and all your mates will be really envious of how sexy she is and she'll be really intelligent so you can take her to business functions and she'll chip in with the occasional insightful comment that makes your clients wonder how it's possible to have such beauty and brains in one package. Also she won't fuck about once she has you cos she never really wanted to be a Prossie in the first place, she was just waiting for the man of her dreams (you) so she could give it all up and make your life complete.

I'm glad I'm not the only one who isn't deluded into thinking that the vast majority of WGs are in it for the money and don't enjoy the work much of the time.

I don't know what you lot are smoking; Turtle got it dead right.

;)

willmo1

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Reckon theyre damaged before they start and are totaly fucked up when theyre finished.

Offline Marmalade

They're still not "goods" even if a pimp thinks he or she "owns" them. Just fucked up. "Damaged bad" would be better. Admitting you are fubar, if that's what you are, suggests a possibility of brighter future.

Offline Deepstroker

I'm glad I'm not the only one who isn't deluded into thinking that the vast majority of WGs are in it for the money and don't enjoy the work much of the time.

I don't know what you lot are smoking; Turtle got it dead right.

;)

I thought he was just serving up a huge spoonful of irony..

spkmstr48

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I thought he was just serving up a huge spoonful of irony..

He was, so was Sticko.  :lol:

Offline Daffodil

Prossies are definitely damaged in my opinion, usually beforehand, but always afterwards.

Who wants to marry a girl who has been jizzed on by half the town?

And it must fuck the girl up somewhat. She sees, first hand, all the cheating us men do. It must taint your perspective of men, so how could she ever fully trust her partner?

Offline Deepstroker

Why would i want a relationship with/marry a prossie when there are plenty of untainted women out there who are normal, have jobs and are not fucked in the head and havent been fucked by half the male populace? Wouldnt you be inadequate if you dated /married a prossie?

Offline thefoxman

Why would i want a relationship with/marry a prossie when there are plenty of untainted women out there who  havent been fucked by half the male populace?

You're assuming non-prossie women don't fuck around.

Many women nowadays have had many many sexual partners  - they just won't tell you (and its better that way !)

Knowing she's an (ex) prossie just means you're more aware of it...


Offline Trevor12

You're assuming non-prossie women don't fuck around.

Many women nowadays have had many many sexual partners  - they just won't tell you (and its better that way !)

Knowing she's an (ex) prossie just means you're more aware of it...

True, but not many civvies fuck up to 10 men per day, every day, who they don't even find attractive.

Offline jay0707

Commiserations mate.

I don't think all prossies are damaged goods, the same question could be asked about punters. I think you have to be fairly resilient and robust to last in this game as both prossie and punter. 

I had a good read of SAAFE when feeling weak last year. This thread is a recent good eye opener: External Link/Members Only  Shows the mercenary, cold, businesslike attitude of prossies. Including, I'm sure, the prossie you are sweet on.

It almost makes me want to cancel my next punt!

You'll get over her with time if nothing else works.

I don't see anything wrong personally with what they have said there. Seems like the punters they were describing were getting clingy and wanting more than just a paid service. It's for their safety and the punters.

Offline Turtle Z

Why would i want a relationship with/marry a prossie when there are plenty of untainted women out there who are normal, have jobs and are not fucked in the head and havent been fucked by half the male populace? Wouldnt you be inadequate if you dated /married a prossie?

+1,  I'd never have a relationship with a prossie though I'd love one with my masseur. She only gives hand jobs for money, does that mean I'm inadequate?   :D

Offline Roth

Why would i want a relationship with/marry a prossie when there are plenty of untainted women out there who are normal, have jobs and are not fucked in the head and havent been fucked by half the male populace? Wouldnt you be inadequate if you dated /married a prossie?

+1 fucking right.   :thumbsup:  There's a big difference being a punter and paying to fuck a prossie and then dating/marrying one.  Sadly there are a few inadequate saps who do want to date or marry them.  :dash: :dash:

Quesadilla

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Hilarious thread. Like all prostitutes are somehow the same. Just like all punters are the same. Might just as well start a thread "are all punters damaged goods!" :lol:

If all WG's are fucked up in some way then by definition all punters are basically taking advantage of psychologically damaged women - which probably qualifies as psychological and / or sexual abuse.  Nice.  You all must be very proud.  :wacko: :lol: :lol:

Offline Daffodil

Hilarious thread. Like all prostitutes are somehow the same. Just like all punters are the same. Might just as well start a thread "are all punters damaged goods!" :lol:

If all WG's are fucked up in some way then by definition all punters are basically taking advantage of psychologically damaged women - which probably qualifies as psychological and / or sexual abuse.  Nice.  You all must be very proud.  :wacko: :lol: :lol:

Ah ha, in gallops the White Knight  :rolleyes:

Obviously it depends on your definition of "damaged goods". Merriam-Webster define it as "a person considered to be flawed or spoiled in character, efficiency, or worth" or "a person whose reputation is damaged". Only the fluffiest of white knights won't be able to see that fucking half the town for cash damages a woman's reputation, whether you agree with it or not.

You can tell yourself as much as you want that not all prossies are damaged before getting into it, and some may not be, but you are deluded to think they're all strong, independent women who aren't fucked up in one way or another. Most women do not let random strangers, who they are not attracted to, fuck them for £50.

If you want to equate fucking a fucked up prossie as being the same thing as psychological/sexual abuse then you're a fool  :hi:

Offline Roth

Ah ha, in gallops the White Knight  :rolleyes:

Obviously it depends on your definition of "damaged goods". Merriam-Webster define it as "a person considered to be flawed or spoiled in character, efficiency, or worth" or "a person whose reputation is damaged". Only the fluffiest of white knights won't be able to see that fucking half the town for cash damages a woman's reputation, whether you agree with it or not.

You can tell yourself as much as you want that not all prossies are damaged before getting into it, and some may not be, but you are deluded to think they're all strong, independent women who aren't fucked up in one way or another. Most women do not let random strangers, who they are not attracted to, fuck them for £50.

If you want to equate fucking a fucked up prossie as being the same thing as psychological/sexual abuse then you're a fool  :hi:

+1 Well said. :thumbsup:

spkmstr48

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Hilarious thread. Like all prostitutes are somehow the same. Just like all punters are the same. Might just as well start a thread "are all punters damaged goods!" :lol:

If all WG's are fucked up in some way then by definition all punters are basically taking advantage of psychologically damaged women - which probably qualifies as psychological and / or sexual abuse.  Nice.  You all must be very proud.  :wacko: :lol: :lol:

In my personal quest for self-gratification, I find it interesting to discuss with girls what they will and won't do and for how much.

Another thread recently discussed propositioning civvies and there was some speculation about the kind of crazy prices they might ask for. So as I was in a lap-dancing club on Wednesday night I brought the subject up with a few girls, having first shown shown them AW on my phone and the reality of pricing. Still the offers I got were between £500 and £3000ph.

We know that high price WGs does not necessarily mean great service,  so is there some relationship between price and attitude / "damagedness"?

Requires more research methinks.

Offline CupidStunt

Hilarious thread. Like all prostitutes are somehow the same. Just like all punters are the same. Might just as well start a thread "are all punters damaged goods!" :lol:
If all WG's are fucked up in some way then by definition all punters are basically taking advantage of psychologically damaged women - which probably qualifies as psychological and / or sexual abuse.  Nice.  You all must be very proud.  :wacko: :lol: :lol:

Ah ha, in gallops the White Knight  :rolleyes:
... fluffiest of white knights won't be able to see that fucking half the town for cash damages a woman's reputation, whether you agree with it or not... etc

@Quesadilla please don't piss on our circle-jerk of misogyny with your reason and logic  :thumbsdown:

Offline Daffodil

@Quesadilla please don't piss on our circle-jerk of misogyny with your reason and logic  :thumbsdown:

Do you even know what the word misogyny means? Because your post suggests you don't.

Perhaps you like to use big words to look clever? Would be helpful if you use them appropriately  :hi:

Offline akauya

I'm trying to think of all the reasons to make me realise I'm mad and must knock it on the head. One of those reasons is to remember she is fucking hundreds of men a month and is just a sperm receptacle! A bit mean but just need to make myself realise who I'm dealing with. I've read all the threads about EAS - but this one has just crept up on me without me realising! need to spend more time with my mates rather than these gorgeous, dirty women every night!

that's too nice a way to put it! need something stronger!

Little late to the party (and I haven't read all the pages yet) but first thing that comes to my head is remember next time you kiss her and start sucking her tonsils; she must have been slurping the previous punter's cum, swallowing it and telling him how great he tastes...

Just saying ;)



Quesadilla

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Ah ha, in gallops the White Knight  :rolleyes:
Not sure how being rational qualifies as white knighting but you know best eh Daff?  :sarcastic:
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Obviously it depends on your definition of "damaged goods". Merriam-Webster define it as "a person considered to be flawed or spoiled in character, efficiency, or worth" or "a person whose reputation is damaged". Only the fluffiest of white knights won't be able to see that fucking half the town for cash damages a woman's reputation, whether you agree with it or not.

Pathetic. Find a definition that has nothing to do with the context of the thread to try and make a tenuous defense.

Nobody here is talking about reputation, and if we were I'd be happy to discuss hypocritical social mores, historical views of prostitution in other cultures etc - but its utterly irrelevant to the thread.

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You can tell yourself as much as you want that not all prossies are damaged before getting into it, and some may not be, but you are deluded to think they're all strong, independent women who aren't fucked up in one way or another. Most women do not let random strangers, who they are not attracted to, fuck them for £50.
I'm not making any claims about "all" escorts Daff, this thread is and I absolutely refute that claim. Only a moron would claim to know the psychology of all escorts. I've personally met some who were not fucked up (at least no more than most people) which is enough for me to not agree with this ridiculous generalisation.

And to be clear I have met a few that were definitely fucked up like PsychoSummer89 but those have been a small minority.

No question there are some fucked up WG's just like there are some fucked up mysoginistic abusive punters.

I am just disagreeing with the generalisation not saying all WG's are something they are not.
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If you want to equate fucking a fucked up prossie as being the same thing as psychological/sexual abuse then you're a fool  :hi:
If someone falls into postitution because they are psychologically damaged and you knowingly fuck them then yes, it is abuse. I say you can't know if they are damaged. The claim that they are ALL damaged however means you can't say you didn't know doesn't it?

So by all means continue to argue that you knowingly take advantage of those that are prostituting themselves because they are damaged.  :unknown:

306

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here one to thing about , look closely at wg arms and
 if you see fine white lines they have been self harming ie cutting them self with razor blade,
that is done for a reason  , a big reason !

Offline sticko

here one to thing about , look closely at wg arms and
 if you see fine white lines they have been self harming ie cutting them self with razor blade,
that is done for a reason  , a big reason !

And in 10+ years of punting I have spotted signs of self-harm like this precisely three times.  There may have been more, but still only a small proportion of my total tally.  So either the damagedness of the rest of them shows up in different ways, or, and this is what I choose to believe, not every WG is damaged goods. 

It may be the fluffy POV but I'm with Quesadilla here.  There's probably a higher incidence of 'damage' among WGs - it's a bloody tough job - but every single woman who chooses to sell sex?  Not a chance.

Offline Hobbit

I don't think all escorts are damaged in any way. We all have personal issues in life and some find it harder than others. EAS is something that happens to a lot of us punters and some of us have been there.

However, the fact that we have, means that we learn from it and become aware of it and realise what's really happening. You have to sometimes remind yourself that whatever the experience you pay for is only during the session and when the session is over then that's it.

Regarding paying for sex and not paying for sex - well, as far as I'm concerned, every guy pays for it in one form or the another, whether you have a wife, girlfriend whoever. We all pay in some way!  :dash:(sorry if I went slightly off topic).

Offline Roth


Regarding paying for sex and not paying for sex - well, as far as I'm concerned, every guy pays for it in one form or the another, whether you have a wife, girlfriend whoever. We all pay in some way!  :dash:(sorry if I went slightly off topic).

+1 True.  Every woman charges for sex in some way.   :wackogirl: :wackogirl:

With civvies you end up paying for it (meals,  clothes, drinks, presents, listening to their drivel etc) but not always getting it (too tired, headache and other such bollocks)   :wackogirl: :wackogirl:

At least with a decent prossie, if you pay for it you get it!  :rose: :thumbsup:
« Last Edit: May 01, 2015, 04:07:07 pm by Roth »

Offline Hobbit

+1 True.  Every woman charges for sex in some way.   :wackogirl: :wackogirl:

With civvies you end up paying for it (meals,  clothes, drinks, presents, listening to their drivel etc) but not always getting it (too tired, headache and other such bollocks)   :wackogirl: :wackogirl:

At least with a decent prossie, if you pay for it you get it!  :rose: :thumbsup:

Don't forget the mortgage, kids and holiday's also. :D

Offline Daffodil

Not sure how being rational qualifies as white knighting but you know best eh Daff?  :sarcastic:Pathetic. Find a definition that has nothing to do with the context of the thread to try and make a tenuous defense.

Nobody here is talking about reputation, and if we were I'd be happy to discuss hypocritical social mores, historical views of prostitution in other cultures etc - but its utterly irrelevant to the thread.
I'm not making any claims about "all" escorts Daff, this thread is and I absolutely refute that claim. Only a moron would claim to know the psychology of all escorts. I've personally met some who were not fucked up (at least no more than most people) which is enough for me to not agree with this ridiculous generalisation.

And to be clear I have met a few that were definitely fucked up like PsychoSummer89 but those have been a small minority.

No question there are some fucked up WG's just like there are some fucked up mysoginistic abusive punters.

I am just disagreeing with the generalisation not saying all WG's are something they are not.If someone falls into postitution because they are psychologically damaged and you knowingly fuck them then yes, it is abuse. I say you can't know if they are damaged. The claim that they are ALL damaged however means you can't say you didn't know doesn't it?

So by all means continue to argue that you knowingly take advantage of those that are prostituting themselves because they are damaged.  :unknown:

"Find a definition"? It happened to be the first result that I got when I googled "damaged goods definition" (other than Urban Dictionary). Trying it now and Google itself gives me a definition: "a person who is regarded as inadequate or impaired in some way".

Just because you haven read the thread in a certain manner doesn't mean that you are able to tell the rest of us what context the thread has taken. Or how we should take it.

My first post, as an example, says that the prossie being jizzed on by half the town is one way in which she is damaged goods.

The fucking OP's reference (in his first post) to how she is "damaged" is by saying, "One of those reasons is to remember she is fucking hundreds of men a month and is just a sperm receptacle!"

Seems to me that it's you who is picking and choosing  :rolleyes:

You claim that fucking a prossie who is fucked up is tantamount to sexual and/or psychological abuse. You also claim that you have met some who you don't believe are fucked up (and, of course, you can be 100% sure of that) and have met others who are definitely fucked up and don't question the fact that some others are fucked up, perhaps without outwardly expressing it.

I call that burying your head in the sand. Like other fluffies you create a fantasy world to justify your actions.

You are undoubtedly worse. You claim that those who fuck fucked up prossies are inflicting sexual/psychological abuse. This is an opinion few of us would agree with, but it's your opinion nonetheless. You then knowingly fuck fucked up prossies. You justify it to yourself by believing you've met one or two who are not fucked up, therefore some exist, and you couldn't possibly know if girl x is damaged or not, so what's the harm in fucking her?

You know there are psychologically damaged girls whoreing themselves and you believe fucking them is tantamount to sexual/psychological abuse, but you fuck them anyway. Tut tut  :music:

Siadwel

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We're all 'Damaged Goods'.

Prossies, punters, strippers, massage girls who don't quite go as far as FS, pimps, lurkers on this site who want to punt but can't quite get the bottle, posters who don't punt at all and adopt some sort of moral high ground for not doing so yet still visit a paid-sex consumer site, scammmers, cam girls, semi-retired punters (with whom I have no particular problem, just means they don't punt as frequently as others, which I don't either).......all of us.

We all have our own personal justifications for paying for (or selling) sex, that we use to tell ourselves we're not 'damaged'. From being in  sexless marriages to being skinny/ugly/fat/balding/toothless old fucks that still want to fuck fit young bodies. Justifications for selling sex are different, obviously, but WG's still use whatever reasons they can to justify it, so they don't have to perceive themselves as being 'damaged'.

We're all 'Damaged Goods'. That's why we're here.

That's my opinion, and as such, is no more nor less, valid, than anyone else's and should not be taken personally by anyone.  :hi:

Offline Daffodil

We're all 'Damaged Goods'.

Completely agree, and have said so before. This is, of course, not a thread about "damaged punters" of though  ;)

However, on that subject I've no doubt that I'm "damaged" by being a punter. I may not have been before getting into punting, but I'd be surprised if punting hasn't led me to objectify women more than I did pre-punting as well as other undesirable traits.

Also I have no illusions that being a punter (current or past) would make me less desirable to future partners and I have no problem with that. Part of the reason why I keep it a secret part of my life  :hi:

Offline cueball

Completely agree, and have said so before. This is, of course, not a thread about "damaged punters" of though  ;)

However, on that subject I've no doubt that I'm "damaged" by being a punter. I may not have been before getting into punting, but I'd be surprised if punting hasn't led me to objectify women more than I did pre-punting as well as other undesirable traits.

Also I have no illusions that being a punter (current or past) would make me less desirable to future partners and I have no problem with that. Part of the reason why I keep it a secret part of my life  :hi:

That's quite a good post daf, as is the previous one, I too think we're damaged too but I'm happily damaged. You're right in thinking punting changes our view of women, I don't know about you but I walk along eyeing lasses up and putting an hourly rate on them (in a laughable way though).




Offline Roth

That's quite a good post daf, as is the previous one, I too think we're damaged too but I'm happily damaged. You're right in thinking punting changes our view of women, I don't know about you but I walk along eyeing lasses up and putting an hourly rate on them (in a laughable way though).

I'm happily damaged in a hobby which I do for pleasure.  We can usually get to choose which prossie we see based on AW and UKP research, feedback pics and such like.  :thumbsup: :thumbsup:

A lot of prossies are damaged in a profession which they do for cash.  A lot of them fuck or suck any old punter that walks through the door based on just a text or a phone call and not always on a AW booking where the punter has some feedback already.   :unknown: :unknown:

I think that makes a big difference IMHO.  :unknown: