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Mrbeee

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this is really helpful thanks. I am frustrated by reading about premature ejaculation issues all over the Internet when I have the opposite issue.
I can stay hard for a long enough time but never done, however as soon as I madturbate I can cum in just a few minutes.
I am sure it's a combination of death grip wanking and too much porn for too long, your post totally resonated so I will give the abstention a go.. although 3 weeks feels like a lifetime!

Offline Jay72

Lot of useful advice in this thread. I noticed a very strong correlation between my porn usage and general sexual arousal - hardly used any porn this summer and felt in great shape sexually and even managed it 3 times one night (unusual for me). Anyway this week had a disappointing punt where mr floppy was coming - time to kick the porn into touch then once again (was using it too much recently).

Got to say i wouldnt be surprised if porn is partly behind lower birth-rates these days.

Offline threechilliman

Always good to see a fellow cast member from Father Ted on here! Hopefully you'll be fine for the big Five-Aside Priests Over-75 match, Father Sensini - sadly we can't field Father Jack anymore due to rigor mortis and decomposition.

On a serious note, yes, that nofap site is worth a look. There are various ways of going about this - you might choose to avoid wanking altogether, or you might choose to allow yourself some stimulation but stopping short of orgasm, with or without porn / visual stimulation. Whatever you do, I recommend the lightest of touches - it's the 'death grip' scenario that is the real killer, and I think it takes time - sometimes quite a long time - to deprogramme the brain and re-engage sensitivity where it counts.

Some say a 'reboot' can take a total of 90 days. That sounds scary but it feels fairly accurate in my experience. Everyone's different though. The Nofap site has a worthwhile glossary of terms, and this section - about the Reboot process - is a lengthy but interesting read: External Link/Members Only

I'm doing Hard Mode - the only exception is that any orgasms must be brought about by a woman.

nofap is a good read.

tcm

Offline AgedCases

I find that I feel nothing from oral sex and the only things that get me erect during a punt are kissing and me wanking. Have read that it's a subconscious block for those of us that have been alone for too long. For me, it's also nerves and medication.

I'm joining in on the wank ban so I'm horny as fuck for my next punt!

Thanks for all the information, gents.


Offline MoTToM

Important thread - thank you for this. Been on the NoFap/NoPorn bandwagon for about three weeks now, due to concerns about desensitization from deathgrip. Fucking murder at first, and still no picnic, but seem to have flatlined somewhat over the last few days. Funnily enough, wouldn't have bothered even trying to quit porn before trying punting - there wouldn't be much point, since I'm not particularly optimistic about my chances of any civvy relationships any time soon. That said, the prospect of not having a GF doesn't bother me nearly as much as it did before, either.

Other than that, I wouldn't say that the experience, so far, has been hugely transformative - the urge to get laid is still there, as it's always been since adolescence, as a kind of constant background noise, so I'm sorely tempted to arrange a booking for next week to get some temporary relief, but at the same time, I'm fairly curious to see how long I can last. Never gone more than about a week, at most, without having to crack one off, so I'm already setting some kind of record, and I want to stick with it to find out if any more tangible benefits turn up. Interesting experiment, and something different, anyway.

Offline mrdiamond77

I have two days off work in a couple of weeks so I am planning on having 2 punts on successive days.  Currently on a porn and wanking ban, but don't know if I can last another 2 weeks.  Not wanking over a long period does make a big difference to me in my performance with the ladies.

Offline MrMatrix

Well its been 2 weeks since my last shag and incidentally last wank as Mrs Palm had to come to my rescue yet again. So today saw a SP and after some serious humping I unloaded in cowgirl. Fuck me, 2 weeks of jizz. So this wanking ban is something I'm going to stay with over the next couple of months with a punt every two weeks if I can get one in. Its clearly the way forward - just need to avoid the porn, which is now doable.... :thumbsup:

Offline Rockhead

Important thread - thank you for this. Been on the NoFap/NoPorn bandwagon for about three weeks now, due to concerns about desensitization from deathgrip. Fucking murder at first, and still no picnic, but seem to have flatlined somewhat over the last few days. Funnily enough, wouldn't have bothered even trying to quit porn before trying punting - there wouldn't be much point, since I'm not particularly optimistic about my chances of any civvy relationships any time soon. That said, the prospect of not having a GF doesn't bother me nearly as much as it did before, either.

Other than that, I wouldn't say that the experience, so far, has been hugely transformative - the urge to get laid is still there, as it's always been since adolescence, as a kind of constant background noise, so I'm sorely tempted to arrange a booking for next week to get some temporary relief, but at the same time, I'm fairly curious to see how long I can last. Never gone more than about a week, at most, without having to crack one off, so I'm already setting some kind of record, and I want to stick with it to find out if any more tangible benefits turn up. Interesting experiment, and something different, anyway.

You and I are in the same boat, it seems. I am some way into this experiment and am finding it helpful. Like threechilliman, my rule now is that I will deny myself orgasm unless brought on by a woman. It is tough, but what is nice - in a weird, wrenching kind of way - is feeling SO incredibly horny at various times of the day. Frequent erections, often almost uncomfortable, like being a teenager again (well, not quite, but a vast improvement!). It has been about four weeks, and I am now almost counting down the hours until Tuesday when I can take it all out on this lucky lady: External Link/Members Only  :wacko:

Well its been 2 weeks since my last shag and incidentally last wank as Mrs Palm had to come to my rescue yet again. So today saw a SP and after some serious humping I unloaded in cowgirl. Fuck me, 2 weeks of jizz. So this wanking ban is something I'm going to stay with over the next couple of months with a punt every two weeks if I can get one in. Its clearly the way forward - just need to avoid the porn, which is now doable.... :thumbsup:

Great to hear you're having success with this - I plan to do pretty much the same.

Offline threechilliman

my rule now is that I will deny myself orgasm unless brought on by a woman.

And I've had some success with it. Not saying exactly, but I'm going to continue with the 'no porn, no wanking' experiment.

tcm

Offline hungrypunt

Im restricting mine to just sex (my SA Girl) and the odd punt. Quitting porn is doing wonders for my motivation for everything else too, and I have tried to stop the wanking but sinned the odd time. Death grip is defo on the wane though so overall the advice is correct quit porn, quit over wanking, and youll get some youth back.

Like any vice (pun intended) it takes effort to quit, but the rewards are there.

Offline AVGscot

Trying this whole wanking ban myself for similar r3asons to everyone else; deathgrip, taking for ever to cum with a woman, lack of sensation from oral etc. And it worked for a bit. Had a week ban and then saw a regular, it was great, got 3 pops in an hour which I haven't managed in ages.

However for me it's sticking to the wanking ban and no porn that's the hard part. After a couple of days I'm horny as fuck and desperate for either a shag/wank. Honestly the other day I woke with a hard on trying to dry humping the mattress  :dash: . Do you guys think a complete wank ban is best or maybe ration it like twice a week to try and get the best of both worlds?

Offline uncle jessie

Trying this whole wanking ban myself for similar r3asons to everyone else; deathgrip, taking for ever to cum with a woman, lack of sensation from oral etc. And it worked for a bit. Had a week ban and then saw a regular, it was great, got 3 pops in an hour which I haven't managed in ages.

However for me it's sticking to the wanking ban and no porn that's the hard part. After a couple of days I'm horny as fuck and desperate for either a shag/wank. Honestly the other day I woke with a hard on trying to dry humping the mattress  :dash: . Do you guys think a complete wank ban is best or maybe ration it like twice a week to try and get the best of both worlds?

If you do need to crack one off, its far better to use a fleshlight IMO, certainly one of my best investments gives a good wank without the dreaded deathgrip.

Offline hungrypunt

However for me it's sticking to the wanking ban and no porn that's the hard part.

join the club mate
Do you guys think a complete wank ban is best or maybe ration it like twice a week to try and get the best of both worlds?

I eased off wanking myself completely and left it to shagging and if she wanked me fine, defo works.

ALSO a big plus is leaving the porn alone, its fucks your pleasure sensors in the brain, you will notice a big difference if you just pack in the porn , not just of getting more excited about sex, but about things in general life too.
Im not back at the stage like in my youth where I almost cum in my pants as she lets out the tits  :lol: but Im gettin there
Long video but is 100% true
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« Last Edit: October 29, 2016, 04:02:13 pm by hungrypunt »

Offline Rockhead

Do you guys think a complete wank ban is best or maybe ration it like twice a week to try and get the best of both worlds?

I agree 100% with everything hungrypunt says above. Wanking / watching porn twice a week would be fatal for me - the former would ensure sensitivity would never return and the latter, as hungrypunt says, is probably just gonna mess with you (some disagree with this, but it makes total sense to me that porn would fuck your mind up). I know what you mean about those morning hard-ons though - I've been virtually groaning with frustration on occasion, lol. The answer is simply to get out of bed and get on with your day - even the most urgent stiffie soon passes.

Mind you, if you're capable of cumming three times in an hour with a WG, it doesn't sound like you have a problem compared to some of us. I wanna sing Rule Britannia if I manage it once :)

Offline AVGscot

Mind you, if you're capable of cumming three times in an hour with a WG, it doesn't sound like you have a problem compared to some of us.

Trust me mate I hadn't came close to that in months, and haven't since with my fwb thing. Guess it has to be the complete porn ban route which is a bit shite, maybe with a fleshlight wank once a week to take the edge off. Seems obvious since I've been wanking 2/3 times a day since I was a teen.

Offline Dicky

I once tried no wank/porn for 2 weeks and came as soon as the WG at the end of it had me in ner mouth. Was quite disappointing. So I now wank atleast twice a week if am not pullng/whoring...for me that keeps the juices flowing without getting desperate to unload.

Punter115

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Hi Guys,
Good information ....I am in my sixties been married for me ver thirty years O/H ceased any kind of sexual activities over ten years ago ......I stated punting in June this year mainly because I thought I don't want to finish it all like this ,although I find it difficult to stay hard ....I have now started to use viagra so that helps but still cannot cum inside the female ...I m on my 5th escort and they have all been very nice ....I don't know why I am unable to finish as I have no problem wanking myself off........maybe It is guilt? Any advice would be very grateful.

Offline Rockhead

Hi Guys,
Good information ....I am in my sixties been married for me ver thirty years O/H ceased any kind of sexual activities over ten years ago ......I stated punting in June this year mainly because I thought I don't want to finish it all like this ,although I find it difficult to stay hard ....I have now started to use viagra so that helps but still cannot cum inside the female ...I m on my 5th escort and they have all been very nice ....I don't know why I am unable to finish as I have no problem wanking myself off........maybe It is guilt? Any advice would be very grateful.

Hello and welcome to the forum. There's loads of good advice on this thread, so if I were you, I'd make yourself a brew and trawl through it.

You say that you stopped having sex over 10 years ago, but you have no problem wanking off. It's probably the combination of those things that has created the problem - by wanking you have reduced your sensitivity and therefore can no longer feel much when actually having sex. This is pretty much the biggest issue for us all. Try a wank ban for an entire month and see if it makes any difference when you next see an escort.

Offline MrMatrix

Hi Guys,
Good information ....I am in my sixties been married for me ver thirty years O/H ceased any kind of sexual activities over ten years ago ......I stated punting in June this year mainly because I thought I don't want to finish it all like this ,although I find it difficult to stay hard ....I have now started to use viagra so that helps but still cannot cum inside the female ...I m on my 5th escort and they have all been very nice ....I don't know why I am unable to finish as I have no problem wanking myself off........maybe It is guilt? Any advice would be very grateful.
Welcome to the forum, Good advice by Rockhead as WE ARE all in the same boat. Not by choice either as majority of us only want to be with our OH's. Forget the guilt put yourself first for probably the first time in 10 years and enjoy yourself. The advice on this thread is sound- give it a go and let us know how you get on. Also can we have a couple of reviews on the SP's you've seen recently. Best of luck. :thumbsup:

Punter115

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Thanks guys for the advice.....great information and after I have knocked one out today will go on a sebatical from porn/wanking until my next visit to an Escort in around 2 weeks time.
I have done one review on a Escort seen previous in Scotland area.

Offline hungrypunt

Hi Guys,
I have now started to use viagra so that helps but still cannot cum inside the female
Try spedra instead of viagra, works better for me in the cum inside stakes

Punter115

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Thanks for the advice ..I have just ordered pack of 4 tabs from Lloyds Pharmacy..fingers crossed.

Offline nervous1

Pretty crap punt today.  Should never have went through with it as I was very tired.  69 position and I wasn't totally sure I was receiving oral  :unknown:  Finished by hand.

Been thinking that the thrill of punting has gone for me.  I don't even get nervous as much as I used to and I even miss that for some reason.  Think I'll give that seeking arrangement site a try and see how I get on.  There's a very limited psychological stimulation with WGs & I wonder how much of that contributes to the problem.

Offline threechilliman

There's a very limited psychological stimulation with WGs & I wonder how much of that contributes to the problem.

Or as someone once said to me 'there's no thrill of the chase!'

tcm

Offline nervous1

Or as someone once said to me 'there's no thrill of the chase!'

tcm

I can see why some guys think like that now.  Like anything else if you constantly take shortcuts/the easy route then satisfaction is only going to last so long.

Offline hungrypunt

diminished reward..like any continued activity

Monsieur69

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Pretty crap punt today.  Should never have went through with it as I was very tired.  69 position and I wasn't totally sure I was receiving oral  :unknown:  Finished by hand.

Been thinking that the thrill of punting has gone for me.  I don't even get nervous as much as I used to and I even miss that for some reason.  Think I'll give that seeking arrangement site a try and see how I get on.  There's a very limited psychological stimulation with WGs & I wonder how much of that contributes to the problem.
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Sometimes I too wonder why I punt. The problem for me is that I don't necessarily feel very horny at 2.30 next Friday. You have to make appointments to see the ladies and it's not spontaneous or mutual as it was when dating or shagging a gf.
 So I do it and increasingly it's disappointing. I don't think Sugar Daddy or SA is the answer as you may well be swopping a professional gold digger for an amateur. Affairs are messy but ultimately they can be best sex experience if you are lucky.



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Offline MattG92

Definitely gonna try this, I struggle with erections all the time the only thing that helps is a lot of DFK which is why I can rarely ever book 30 minutes, it takes me that amount of time to stay hard.
After a punt it's hard not to have a little cheeky wank though from my experience, I just keep replaying in my head what just happened and it makes me want to blow a load :lol:

Offline hungrypunt


After a punt it's hard not to have a little cheeky wank though from my experience, I just keep replaying in my head what just happened and it makes me want to blow a load :lol:

Same

Offline Tony_Red

Absolutely no stimulation for 6 weeks+ and now i've lost the will to punt. What the fuck is happening? Lol

Still get hard but have no interest in punting. I'm hoping this will pass. On the upside, getting loadsa housework done as well as exercise. I never thought i'd go this long without a wank or watching porn. Quite shocked really.

I hope this passes soon as I have a punt booked in Dec.


Offline BarryProudfoot

Absolutely no stimulation for 6 weeks+ and now i've lost the will to punt. What the fuck is happening? Lol

Still get hard but have no interest in punting. I'm hoping this will pass. On the upside, getting loadsa housework done as well as exercise. I never thought i'd go this long without a wank or watching porn. Quite shocked really.

I hope this passes soon as I have a punt booked in Dec.

I'm 28 and quit porn and tommy tanking 3 months ago to see if the benefits hype was real. The answer is yes and would recommend you all give it a try. In answer to your question, I lost interest in activities I once enjoyed and this put me on the path of wanting to take up a new hobby. In this case, punting. I want to meet the unattainable glamour/babestation type girl. I've yet to start as I can't get my head around going or being comfortable doing an incall. I'm jealous of those of you who are fearless in that department. Reading reviews such as Yeboahsleftfoot definitely inspire/motivate me :cool:       

Offline MattG92

I'm 28 and quit porn and tommy tanking 3 months ago to see if the benefits hype was real. The answer is yes and would recommend you all give it a try. In answer to your question, I lost interest in activities I once enjoyed and this put me on the path of wanting to take up a new hobby. In this case, punting. I want to meet the unattainable glamour/babestation type girl. I've yet to start as I can't get my head around going or being comfortable doing an incall. I'm jealous of those of you who are fearless in that department. Reading reviews such as Yeboahsleftfoot definitely inspire/motivate me :cool:     

Weird personal question but do you get stronger and longer lasting erections from going that long without porn/masturbating? I definitely masturbate too much(especially after a punt)and when I do see an escort I can never stay hard for long durations and it sucks, takes me like 15 minutes just to get hard sometimes but when I masturbate to porn I can get hard instantly  :lol: btw I'm 23.

Offline threechilliman

Weird personal question but do you get stronger and longer lasting erections from going that long without porn/masturbating? I definitely masturbate too much(especially after a punt)and when I do see an escort I can never stay hard for long durations and it sucks, takes me like 15 minutes just to get hard sometimes but when I masturbate to porn I can get hard instantly  :lol: btw I'm 23.

That, I suspect, is because your brain is now wired for porn. I'm being rewired atm, and it appears to be working. Later this month I'm going to try a half hour punt without 'substance abuse'.

tcm

Offline hungrypunt

Weird personal question but do you get stronger and longer lasting erections from going that long without porn/masturbating? I definitely masturbate too much(especially after a punt)and when I do see an escort I can never stay hard for long durations and it sucks, takes me like 15 minutes just to get hard sometimes but when I masturbate to porn I can get hard instantly  :lol: btw I'm 23.

Leave the porn alone you will be surprised, and also the wankin..it works

Offline BarryProudfoot

Weird personal question but do you get stronger and longer lasting erections from going that long without porn/masturbating? I definitely masturbate too much(especially after a punt)and when I do see an escort I can never stay hard for long durations and it sucks, takes me like 15 minutes just to get hard sometimes but when I masturbate to porn I can get hard instantly  :lol: btw I'm 23.

Yes. The information you provided in red is also your answer :thumbsup:

Offline PleadInsanity

I have sort of followed this process for few weeks, from a wanking/porn point of view anyway and decided i would only unload my man-fat with a woman involved.

It has worked out ok having good erections and plenty of cum which exits with at speed  :D, but, it almost feels as my sex drive is diminishing in between sex sessions? I'm not thinking about sex all of the time either. I used to watch porn with the accompanying wank once or twice a day, since this has ceased (after the first 10 days or so) i now don't crave it at all and getting a little worried.
Will see how it pans out over the next few weeks as it must just be a mental thing as physically everything is fine.

Offline MattG92

It doesn't help that I work online too so I've got porn only a few fingertips away but I'm definitely going to try this, starting now. No punting for a few weeks either.. maybe.

Offline threechilliman

Well after a month of no porn and no wanking (OK, OK, the odd little lapse), I have to say there are signs of improvement. In a recent meet I came from penetrative for the first time in about 18 months and today completed a half hour punt without a tablet - and didn't need one nor thought about it during the punt. My cock was rock-solid from start to finish.

I'll continue with the experiment and let you guys know how I get on.

tcm

Offline MrMatrix

Well after a month of no porn and no wanking (OK, OK, the odd little lapse), I have to say there are signs of improvement. In a recent meet I came from penetrative for the first time in about 18 months and today completed a half hour punt without a tablet - and didn't need one nor thought about it during the punt. My cock was rock-solid from start to finish.

I'll continue with the experiment and let you guys know how I get on.

tcm
Great news TCM. My last punt 10 days ago I too unloaded and I've got one booked up with an SP next week, who looks as hot as fuck. I just hope the little man doesn't let me down. I will report back at the end of the week. Again great news TCM.  :hi:

Offline BarryProudfoot

Heres a video I watched before I tried it for myself External Link/Members Only

Offline Rockhead

Great news TCM. My last punt 10 days ago I too unloaded and I've got one booked up with an SP next week, who looks as hot as fuck. I just hope the little man doesn't let me down. I will report back at the end of the week. Again great news TCM.  :hi:

Same here. Massive climax in missionary - orgasm seemed to last for ages too. I'm planning ahead now with slightly more confidence.

To those who posted about experiencing a relative loss of sex drive - what you are experiencing is commonly called 'flatlining' and it's a normal thing. Best advice is don't worry about it. Chances are it means your todger is going to work better when it is supposed to work better, and less so due to artificial stimulus like porn etc.

Offline Shearer1955

Bought some l-tyrosine today at Holland & Barretts - £4.99 for 50 capsules but 1p for another bottle bought at the same time = £5 for 100 capsules

I was going to buy some of the ZMA but seemed pricey so might buy online as there seems to be some better priced products of the same

Offline BarryProudfoot

Bought some l-tyrosine today at Holland & Barretts - £4.99 for 50 capsules but 1p for another bottle bought at the same time = £5 for 100 capsules

I was going to buy some of the ZMA but seemed pricey so might buy online as there seems to be some better priced products of the same

Whats your thinking behind buying these products? I thought l-tyrosine was for thyroid? ZMA for a deeper sleep?

Offline MattG92

I'm on day 4, it's harder than it looks.. especially when you work on a computer!  :dash:

Offline Shearer1955

One of the articles earlier in the thread (around page 9 or 10) suggested that these products might help libido somewhat - I'm willing to try anyway

Offline BarryProudfoot

One of the articles earlier in the thread (around page 9 or 10) suggested that these products might help libido somewhat - I'm willing to try anyway

The only product you need is willpower :thumbsup:

Offline BarryProudfoot

I'm on day 4, it's harder than it looks.. especially when you work on a computer!  :dash:

Why?

Offline MattG92

Why?

Just when I'm waiting for a task to do I get the urge to go onto Pornhub and have a quickie. I am determined though to keep going, I can do it.

Offline Shearer1955

Just remember the quote "I can resist everything except temptation" :wackogirl:

Offline BarryProudfoot

Just when I'm waiting for a task to do I get the urge to go onto Pornhub and have a quickie. I am determined though to keep going, I can do it.

You will do it :cool: