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Type_O_Negative

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Hate to say it, but non working girls can be just or more ruthless and cruel... Once money or lack of it becomes an issue in a relationship you find out quickly who's in it for the money or love!

I faced this recently...

Offline Brazilian Martian

Funny enough ive found myself in this situation, after recently finishing off a tattoo on a escort, she started sending me pics of how the tattoo is healing then she sent me a few nudes and asked for opinion :cool:. One thing led to another and she invited me round once at 11 pm and we have been spending a few days of the week together. In the past i have always said i would never date a prossie or get into a relationship with one, but now maybe as im getting older my outlook on life has changed. But i really do enjoy her company its not just the sex but we sit down and talk for hours at a time.

Offline RegionalAndy

Funny enough ive found myself in this situation, after recently finishing off a tattoo on a escort, she started sending me pics of how the tattoo is healing then she sent me a few nudes and asked for opinion :cool:. One thing led to another and she invited me round once at 11 pm and we have been spending a few days of the week together. In the past i have always said i would never date a prossie or get into a relationship with one, but now maybe as im getting older my outlook on life has changed. But i really do enjoy her company its not just the sex but we sit down and talk for hours at a time.

If things went well say 6 months down he line could you see yourself with her, occupation aside ?

niftyfiftydave

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Good on you mate, nothing wrong as far as i can see, she told you she was a Wg you didn,t find out in a punt, no idea why she would tell you and not my worry, They are human beings after all and can meet someone they like just as anyone can.
Only you and her can decide how far you want to go and how many people have, met/dated/married a girl who has worked at some point in her life and have no idea.
We often review them as meat on a plate and make no allowances for them not actually liking the look of us and not feeling they want to have sex with us and slam a big red negative and slag them without thinking was there a reason. Enjoy.

Offline PilotMan

Funny enough ive found myself in this situation, after recently finishing off a tattoo on a escort, she started sending me pics of how the tattoo is healing then she sent me a few nudes and asked for opinion :cool:. One thing led to another and she invited me round once at 11 pm and we have been spending a few days of the week together. In the past i have always said i would never date a prossie or get into a relationship with one, but now maybe as im getting older my outlook on life has changed. But i really do enjoy her company its not just the sex but we sit down and talk for hours at a time.

People are people when everything is said and done, what's in the past is done. In a country where we have great freedom (of all types) and enterprise anybody can change their future.

Lest we not judge others for what they have done but for what they will do.

Online elnukky

Funny enough ive found myself in this situation, after recently finishing off a tattoo on a escort, she started sending me pics of how the tattoo is healing then she sent me a few nudes and asked for opinion :cool:. One thing led to another and she invited me round once at 11 pm and we have been spending a few days of the week together. In the past i have always said i would never date a prossie or get into a relationship with one, but now maybe as im getting older my outlook on life has changed. But i really do enjoy her company its not just the sex but we sit down and talk for hours at a time.

Did it change your view on kissing and RO with SPs?

Offline Nevillec

People are people when everything is said and done, what's in the past is done. In a country where we have great freedom (of all types) and enterprise anybody can change their future.

Lest we not judge others for what they have done but for what they will do.

+1

Offline Brazilian Martian

If things went well say 6 months down he line could you see yourself with her, occupation aside ?

That's the thing i dont know, we had a discussion about where its going and I've made it clear im not in a rush lets just keep it how it is, i never ask her about work since ive been seeing her as im not interested in that side of her life. But it still plays on my mind when we are chilling, that she's probably been fucked and had spunk sprayed on her face earlier in the day.

Offline Brazilian Martian

Did it change your view on kissing and RO with SPs?

Good point, yes i do kiss her and Eat her pussy  :blush: :blush:

Offline portaluser1991

Walked into an establishment once and went to room with this nice english girl.

We started chatting and she talked about life outside work etc. She got a bit cuddly and then asked if I would like to see her some time for a drink etc..

I thought that she was looking for a bit of extra work but it turned out that she really wanted to meet for a date.

I met her in London a couple of times and we used to have some drinks in her local pubs.

But it was always a bit awkward getting in contact with her when she working and things were sometimes chaotic.

We were young and it was a strange thing at that time.

Nice girl though.

Offline Brazilian Martian

Good on you mate, nothing wrong as far as i can see, she told you she was a Wg you didn,t find out in a punt, no idea why she would tell you and not my worry, They are human beings after all and can meet someone they like just as anyone can.
Only you and her can decide how far you want to go and how many people have, met/dated/married a girl who has worked at some point in her life and have no idea.
We often review them as meat on a plate and make no allowances for them not actually liking the look of us and not feeling they want to have sex with us and slam a big red negative and slag them without thinking was there a reason. Enjoy.

She told me when i was tattooing her, she's not british she's from thailand not sure what their culture is like but i liked her directness at the time of first meeting. She started things off when she sent me a nude pic as i did not think i was her type.

Offline RegionalAndy

That's the thing i dont know, we had a discussion about where its going and I've made it clear im not in a rush lets just keep it how it is, i never ask her about work since ive been seeing her as im not interested in that side of her life. But it still plays on my mind when we are chilling, that she's probably been fucked and had spunk sprayed on her face earlier in the day.

Makes sense, if a connection is real who’s to judge

Offline Brazilian Martian

Makes sense, if a connection is real who’s to judge

But nothing serious can come of it, imagine explaining to friends and family what she does or has done for work, i dont know it seemed so clear before i was in this situation. I used to think guys that dated prossies were suckers to go through that and here i am in the same situation. :dash: :dash: :dash:

Offline Cuntminion

Funny enough ive found myself in this situation, after recently finishing off a tattoo on a escort, she started sending me pics of how the tattoo is healing then she sent me a few nudes and asked for opinion :cool:. One thing led to another and she invited me round once at 11 pm and we have been spending a few days of the week together. In the past i have always said i would never date a prossie or get into a relationship with one, but now maybe as im getting older my outlook on life has changed. But i really do enjoy her company its not just the sex but we sit down and talk for hours at a time.

AW link?



Offline DOUGLAS56

Yep I am in a casual relationship currently with a mixed race one. We both know that it wont go further than that well from my side anyway. We kind of clicked from my first visit. she gave her personal number after a few visits and would just talk randomly. I used to go over my bookings most of the time.

She moved it from punter wg relationship to a casual one

Always try to make sure she initiates the first move when it comes to linking up, Slept over at her apartment a few times. just like the BM scenario we just talk about life and know things about each other. She even suggested a threesome but for some reason I feel like it is off the table. shes said things that make feel shes might be catching feelings which I feel like the threesome is off the table when i try to probe about it.

Its perfect scenario for me feel like i hit the jackpot, because I truly am not ready for a relationship with anyone. Shes flames too.



Offline Cuntminion

Nice attempt but Nawwwwwww  :hi:

 :D

Just pulling your leg

Hope it goes well

 :thumbsup:

niftyfiftydave

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But nothing serious can come of it, imagine explaining to friends and family what she does or has done for work, i dont know it seemed so clear before i was in this situation. I used to think guys that dated prossies were suckers to go through that and here i am in the same situation. :dash: :dash: :dash:

Why have you got to tell anyone anything,if she did not tell you would you have known?  2 of my friends married thai girls, one lives outside Bangkok now, handy for visits lol, and 1 here and both are very happy, both had triple by pass ops though, don,t think it is connected lol. Who knows what they got up to or didn,t before meeting the fellas. Both decided, one after the death of his wife , that did not want to live alone and off they went, the first own just decided while we were chatting on a beach in Goa to not come home and fly to Thailand, the other decided just to go and try his luck.
And how many of us are cheats and scoundrels lol or done things to make ends meet over the years. Good company and good sex together is a hard thing to find, you have your head screwed on the right way and not afraid to discuss the situation. Play it by ear and keep your wits about you.
i have done it before, in my younger driving days in London but back then i was only in it for the sex, said the right things to get my wicked way, and i have regular chats with a wg half my age, that is what brought me to this thread lol, you know what after reading this thread i am going to ask her to dinner and drinks, can feel a big knock back coming on but big enough to take it on the chin lol.

niftyfiftydave

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Very true.

I found this out last year lol, Got into a relationship with a Pakastini Muslim women 20 years my junior. i rarely work from mid November and make sure i got enough to see me through. Money wasn,t the problem though, going back to work in January was, i am no 9 to 5 fella and my work is varied and i often take off abroad for a few days. got a Spain road trip coming up, She just could not handle me not being around, got spoiled for 6 weeks i suppose and thought my xmas overdraft could clear itself lol, She drove me bonkers, i could deal with the culture differences but not with the mis trust and demands for my time. I was gutted lol, she was one passionate willing women and not shy at making the first move.

pervertpunter

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I'll try keep this short as I need to sleep but ask questions if you have any.

I never used to punt before and I actually found out about it's legitimacy via my ex girlfriend. She was Romanian gypsy, very attractive and I met her in a club, we got together whilst she was still working but most of our time spent together was clubbing and drinking (and fucking of course) in my mind I knew I only wanted her around for sex. However things got serious and about 7 months after meeting she quit working as a prossie and went back to hairdressing job.

After she quit things were okay and she was a really nice girl, homely values etc she also had a daughter which her mother was looking after and which is why she was doing the job, she said she hated doing it and we did have a lot of arguments not because of the job as I accepted it but just she had other issues too lets put it that way. Our relationship lasted about 2.5 years, however beautiful she is I couldn't be with her, we had some great times together and I guess she was really fun and quirky.

Offline penisilin

After punting a WG back in 2014 she asked me if I could drop her off from hotel and offered to pay £20. I agreed and decided to wait for her at the bar for around 2 hours til she finished work. After dropping her I told her to forget about paying me and she gave me a DFK and then asked if I were in a hurry. I said no and she asked me if I'd like to have dinner with her at Nandos as a way of paying for the drop-off. She then asked me wait for her while she went in (to drop off the money she made I guess). We then had dinner, exchanged numbers and from then on I became her Cabbie and was paid with free fuck each day I drove her.

I got bored of her and felt the free fuck wasn't really free as I spent a lot of time and petrol for her. So, I decided to stop taking her calls and that was it. One highlight was when she arranged for a threesome FFM for me, her and any WG of my choice. She did this one a day she made a lot of money I guess. Miss her a bit but I knew the relationship wasn't sustainable.

Offline PilotMan

Why have you got to tell anyone anything,if she did not tell you would you have known?  2 of my friends married thai girls, one lives outside Bangkok now, handy for visits lol, and 1 here and both are very happy, both had triple by pass ops though, don,t think it is connected lol. Who knows what they got up to or didn,t before meeting the fellas. Both decided, one after the death of his wife , that did not want to live alone and off they went, the first own just decided while we were chatting on a beach in Goa to not come home and fly to Thailand, the other decided just to go and try his luck.
And how many of us are cheats and scoundrels lol or done things to make ends meet over the years. Good company and good sex together is a hard thing to find, you have your head screwed on the right way and not afraid to discuss the situation. Play it by ear and keep your wits about you.
i have done it before, in my younger driving days in London but back then i was only in it for the sex, said the right things to get my wicked way, and i have regular chats with a wg half my age, that is what brought me to this thread lol, you know what after reading this thread i am going to ask her to dinner and drinks, can feel a big knock back coming on but big enough to take it on the chin lol.

+1

Exactly, why do you need to explain any of your decisions to anybody BM? It's your life and you decide what makes you happy.

@niftyfiftydave

Nothing ventured nothing gained - could be the greatest thing you ever do. If you don't ask you'll never know.

Offline BillGoldberg

Yeah, very casual, once with one of my favourite regulars at the time, I got a few freebies and free overnighters and she even took me out to dinner a few times (she paid).

I never intended nor expected anything serious from it but I sure as Hell enjoyed the VERY good occasional unpaid sex sessions.

I never felt I was taken advantage of, not that I'd let that happen, and the only thing I did as a favour was help her set up an AW profile, which took about half an hour of my time at most.

It all lasted maybe a year or so, can't remember exactly, I was in a long term relationship at the time and for me it was nothing more than punting, but without having to pay for it.

Most wgs that I got to know to any degree at all came across as extremely materialistic and extremely calculating and mercenary so it wouldnt be the place I'd go looking for a long term partner, although as with anything there are exceptions.

Offline Paris69

« Last Edit: March 08, 2019, 03:20:00 pm by Paris69 »
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Offline RegionalAndy

But nothing serious can come of it, imagine explaining to friends and family what she does or has done for work, i dont know it seemed so clear before i was in this situation. I used to think guys that dated prossies were suckers to go through that and here i am in the same situation. :dash: :dash: :dash:

Life comes at you fast. Enjoy it for what it is

Offline Punterperson1971

I had one 2 years ago first and only time I saw her,we hit it off and she even suggested meeting up sometime for a drink and maybe something else as well but I never followed it through to risky for me.
Nice attractive girl though.

niftyfiftydave

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+1

Exactly, why do you need to explain any of your decisions to anybody BM? It's your life and you decide what makes you happy.

@niftyfiftydave

Nothing ventured nothing gained - could be the greatest thing you ever do. If you don't ask you'll never know.

My thoughts on both subjects and to quote the other fella, Life does come at you way to fast, i have been lucky approaching the second big milestone birthday, 5 years of serious illness i am out the other end,Got as much energy as i probably have ever had. Learned a lot of lessons from that illness and not only the looking after yourself ones. . My whole outlook changed, no more long hours for someone else, if i don,t think i will enjoy any job i just say no, got loads of work of the type i enjoy and have time off when i want or need it.

Been thinking about that question today, think i will make a booking and have a face to face rather than asking on the phone, might seem like i am after a freebie lol.

Offline lebon121

I had one 2 years ago first and only time I saw her,we hit it off and she even suggested meeting up sometime for a drink and maybe something else as well but I never followed it through to risky for me.
Nice attractive girl though.
Who was she ? Any link ?
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Offline peter jb

Yeah, very casual, once with one of my favourite regulars at the time, I got a few freebies and free overnighters and she even took me out to dinner a few times (she paid).

I never intended nor expected anything serious from it but I sure as Hell enjoyed the VERY good occasional unpaid sex sessions.

I never felt I was taken advantage of, not that I'd let that happen, and the only thing I did as a favour was help her set up an AW profile, which took about half an hour of my time at most.

It all lasted maybe a year or so, can't remember exactly, I was in a long term relationship at the time and for me it was nothing more than punting, but without having to pay for it.

Most wgs that I got to know to any degree at all came across as extremely materialistic and extremely calculating and mercenary so it wouldnt be the place I'd go looking for a long term partner, although as with anything there are exceptions.


This wasn’t Maria by any chance 😋😋

Offline Brazilian Martian


niftyfiftydave

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Why do you want to know who she is ?

Because like anywhere this place is full of nosey lurkers lol..

Offline Brazilian Martian


niftyfiftydave

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Well i got in early from work and thought i would try a booking with the flirty one and maybe ask the question, now she is not that local to me and not around for the weekend but is still in contact and says we will meet next week. lol never punted the same girl twice, until last night. thought she would be the first lol.

The usual flirty texts and phone chat had left me feeling horny, so i think for the first time ever, as far as my old head can remember anyway, i booked a latish night punt with a girl i enjoyed before.

I can,t review and as i have had a couple of warnings from admin for replying to those that want to blame the ills of the punting world on the b word. Can,t get banned for b word surely, don,t discuss it either or you will get banned. I am not even going to link or mention names or details to avoid the wrath of admin.

Suffice to say i thought at the time the very enthusiastic young lady would be better on subsequent meets and that i would probably book again and i was proved right.
I cant go into detail because first review was less than a week ago and not clear of all the rules yet. Don,t want to get banned and use a very useful source of information.

Offline Punterperson1971

I say to One lady I see regular that I could lick her pussy all day conversation is in mid-lick( she does have a fantastic pussy),and she does drop the odd hint that maybe I can pop to see her more often just to lick her pussy,no money been mentioned although I do think I’d be sounding cheeky if I bought it up.
« Last Edit: March 09, 2019, 01:24:37 pm by Punterperson1971 »

Offline Yellowman18

I got along really well with a Romanian lady in her mid 30s once. Lovely personality and we exchanged numbers secretly (as she was working with other girls in the apartment and didn’t want them to know as it was strictly against policy or some crap).

We met for dinner a week later and ended up renting a hotel room in a London to fuck and it was bloody spectacular. She actually did a lot more crazy things than what I paid for the first time with her  :lol: but after another  week when I didn’t reply cos of work she started spam messaging me non stop and I ended up blocking her... amazing how a nice normal girl transforms into a psycho bunny boiler as soon as they sniff out possibility of a relationship.

niftyfiftydave

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I got along really well with a Romanian lady in her mid 30s once. Lovely personality and we exchanged numbers secretly (as she was working with other girls in the apartment and didn’t want them to know as it was strictly against policy or some crap).

We met for dinner a week later and ended up renting a hotel room in a London to fuck and it was bloody spectacular. She actually did a lot more crazy things than what I paid for the first time with her  :lol: but after another  week when I didn’t reply cos of work she started spam messaging me non stop and I ended up blocking her... amazing how a nice normal girl transforms into a psycho bunny boiler as soon as they sniff out possibility of a relationship.

Exactly what happened to me but not with a Wg, civvie street women was great for first couple of weeks, even better when i had 6 weeks off over Xmas, Drove me bonkers when i went back to work in January. I mean absolutely bonkers until i had to do what you did.

Online Colston36

When I was very young I lived with a retired for two and a half years. Strangely enough one of the most jealous women I have ever known. After her I lived with a stripper. More recently I saw one twice after which she told me (to my amazement) that she thought I was "handsome". Blind as a bat obviously. We still see each other; she has given up the game and started a legit business.

On the matter of lending money, I don't think WGs any different from others I've dealt with; have been ripped off once, been repaid £500 I had actually forgotten about. Am still owed some money which I get in the way of services rendered. One girl I helped is in no position to pay me back; I know her circumstances very well so understand.

Joepeeps

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I think some men are particularly drawn toward trying to start casual relationships with WG's. Like moths to a flame. No good will ever come of it but still the chance of fucking a WG for free seems to be a strange sort of allure.



Online sparkus

Only the once, but was more of a fling/FWB and I think she got annoyed at my just turning up whenever I wanted to unload or alternatively wanting a day in bed with her when I had days off.  Still, good while it lasted and we'd always kissed/RO'd.

Offline Paris69

Not all but 99% are money grabbing WG's. To think anything different is  :wacko:

Ive posted on my experiences of moving in with a WG, in the past.... My thoughts now, in hindsight, haven't changed on some of the statements/thoughts i had...... but HappyandLucky is pretty spot on.
Most (not all, but most) WG's have some character flaw (Mental Health, Substance abuse, Personality Disorder etc.) and deep down recognise their only financially positive trait is to sell their body while they look decent/are able to and before violence and/or substance abuse or age stops them.
Most, again not all but most are unable to hold down a job as they are unreliable (as we on here regularly find out when a booking doesn't happen).
As for relationships, they are simply unable to make one work long term and they use and are used in equal measure... Hence, Happy's point that they grab money (and waste it) as often and as easily as they can.
« Last Edit: March 09, 2019, 05:13:50 pm by Paris69 »
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Offline Paris69

Ive posted on my experiences of moving in with a WG, in the past.... My thoughts now, in hindsight, haven't changed on some of the statements/thoughts i had...... but HappyandLucky is pretty spot on.
Most (not all, but most) WG's have some character flaw (Mental Health, Substance abuse, Personality Disorder etc.) and deep down recognise their only financially positive trait is to sell their body while they look decent/are able to and before violence and/or substance abuse or age stops them.
Most, again not all but most are unable to hold down a job as they are unreliable (as we on here regularly find out when a booking doesn't happen).
As for relationships, they are simply unable to make one work long term and they use and are used in equal measure... Hence, Happy's point that they grab money (and waste it) as often and as easily as they can.
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niftyfiftydave

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Ive posted on my experiences of moving in with a WG, in the past.... My thoughts now, in hindsight, haven't changed on some of the statements/thoughts i had...... but HappyandLucky is pretty spot on.
Most (not all, but most) WG's have some character flaw (Mental Health, Substance abuse, Personality Disorder etc.) and deep down recognise their only financially positive trait is to sell their body while they look decent/are able to and before violence and/or substance abuse or age stops them.
Most, again not all but most are unable to hold down a job as they are unreliable (as we on here regularly find out when a booking doesn't happen).
As for relationships, they are simply unable to make one work long term and they use and are used in equal measure... Hence, Happy's point that they grab money (and waste it) as often and as easily as they can.

None of us would probably class ourselves as perfect lol, why are we here? to find good sex with strangers and pay for it for one reason or another and could that not be classed as a personality disorder? . Substance abuse as far as i am concerned is a no go, signs of sniffing, smell of weed, dead looking or yellow eyes and i am out of there. that is one of the reasons this site is so helpful, soon as i read on the gear it,s on the blacklist. The yellow eyes could be down to tiredness so you know you have an overworked girl and service will be jaded usually. Bright eyes or no play for me however good the reviews.
We all live a lifestyle to suit our income, easy money is always going to mean a fair bit wasted on extravagance, Does not have to be on drugs. My thoughts are if there on drugs there is probably a pimp behind pushing them.

Offline BarryProudfoot

Ive posted on my experiences of moving in with a WG, in the past.... My thoughts now, in hindsight, haven't changed on some of the statements/thoughts i had...... but HappyandLucky is pretty spot on.
Most (not all, but most) WG's have some character flaw (Mental Health, Substance abuse, Personality Disorder etc.) and deep down recognise their only financially positive trait is to sell their body while they look decent/are able to and before violence and/or substance abuse or age stops them.
Most, again not all but most are unable to hold down a job as they are unreliable (as we on here regularly find out when a booking doesn't happen).
Quote
As for relationships, they are simply unable to make one work long term and they use and are used in equal measure... Hence, Happy's point that they grab money (and waste it) as often and as easily as they can.

What about the actual "boyfriend" or "husband" playing the role of the pimp?

Offline jack_hackett

Hmm, saw I posted here 3 years ago... I should have read my own advice. Since I posted (this happened in Ireland), I offered a wg a bed if she fancied it ever in between moving between cities. She took me up on it and it went from that to me spending a lot of weekends with her wherever she was, usually Dublin.  Didn't have much "free" sex but slept together every night, held hands at the shopping centre, pretty much couple stuff. I'm on ok money not great so she wasn't making money off me.
That lasted on and off for 3 years until I was meant to visit her after this Christmas. She went silent and I went from being great to a "psychopath" for planning to visit after she invited me.
I'm now stuck with her on a shared phone bill which will be a pain to remove her off so lesson learnt, thankfully without too much grief. Other than it's put me off all women!
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Offline KorbenDallas

It certainly does happen.  I met a WG a number of years back when I was younger and better looking.  We had a 1hour booking that turned into 4 hours of hanging out and going for dinner.  Eventually turned into a 6-month relationship that ended when she moved back to Poland.

Offline DipsyDoodle

Funny enough ive found myself in this situation, after recently finishing off a tattoo on a escort, she started sending me pics of how the tattoo is healing then she sent me a few nudes and asked for opinion :cool:. One thing led to another and she invited me round once at 11 pm and we have been spending a few days of the week together. In the past i have always said i would never date a prossie or get into a relationship with one, but now maybe as im getting older my outlook on life has changed. But i really do enjoy her company its not just the sex but we sit down and talk for hours at a time.

I can identify with this.  I was a regular with a well reviewed lady on this site.  As a regular, barriers naturally come down as trust develops but we kept things professional.  After about six months, we ended up going out some evenings on a non-professional basis.  Then it turned into us just being a couple.  We did normal things.  Her family and friends knew about me, but obviously not how we met.  We had a blast together for over a year.  We did long weekends away together and even took two holidays together abroad for some sun on the beach.  It was really a good time and thoroughly enjoyable, but it was becoming emotional.  After a year, we had reached that point of something more serious and we opted to stop.

I didn't think I would do that again but I find myself in the same situation.  Been seeing another well reviewed lady on this site for almost nine months.  She is not from the UK.  I visited her back in the summer in her home country where we had a complete blast, then flew back to London together.  We often have dinner together and again, just do normal couple kinds of things.  She has even joined me for dinner with a work colleague where we disguised her occupation.  We did a winter holiday in the Caribbean last month, again having a really good time.  It won't last, but as someone already said nothing ventured nothing gained.

My advice based on my experience is to just take things slowly and be very open and transparent.  Know going in that it won't last and just enjoy yourself.  Don't let it become emotional.  I haven't regretted either time that I've ventured into this.

DD

niftyfiftydave

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I can identify with this.  I was a regular with a well reviewed lady on this site.  As a regular, barriers naturally come down as trust develops but we kept things professional.  After about six months, we ended up going out some evenings on a non-professional basis.  Then it turned into us just being a couple.  We did normal things.  Her family and friends knew about me, but obviously not how we met.  We had a blast together for over a year.  We did long weekends away together and even took two holidays together abroad for some sun on the beach.  It was really a good time and thoroughly enjoyable, but it was becoming emotional.  After a year, we had reached that point of something more serious and we opted to stop.

I didn't think I would do that again but I find myself in the same situation.  Been seeing another well reviewed lady on this site for almost nine months.  She is not from the UK.  I visited her back in the summer in her home country where we had a complete blast, then flew back to London together.  We often have dinner together and again, just do normal couple kinds of things.  She has even joined me for dinner with a work colleague where we disguised her occupation.  We did a winter holiday in the Caribbean last month, again having a really good time.  It won't last, but as someone already said nothing ventured nothing gained.

My advice based on my experience is to just take things slowly and be very open and transparent.  Know going in that it won't last and just enjoy yourself.  Don't let it become emotional.  I haven't regretted either time that I've ventured into this.

DD

Thanks for that information, been married twice and not wanting to do it again so good company and some fun without the emotional ties sounds good to me.
Already made my mind up on the basis of the contact we have to ask the date night question lol, this just makes it easier to get clear in my head. might still get a knock back lol.
First signs of wanting loans, getting emotional or addictions and time to get out of there, but as you have repeated nothing ventured nothing gained. My last civvie street relationship turned into a bunny boiler, it can,t be worse than that lol.
We will see what happens.

Offline Paris69

None of us would probably class ourselves as perfect lol, why are we here? to find good sex with strangers and pay for it for one reason or another and could that not be classed as a personality disorder? . Substance abuse as far as i am concerned is a no go, signs of sniffing, smell of weed, dead looking or yellow eyes and i am out of there. that is one of the reasons this site is so helpful, soon as i read on the gear it,s on the blacklist. The yellow eyes could be down to tiredness so you know you have an overworked girl and service will be jaded usually. Bright eyes or no play for me however good the reviews.
We all live a lifestyle to suit our income, easy money is always going to mean a fair bit wasted on extravagance, Does not have to be on drugs. My thoughts are if there on drugs there is probably a pimp behind pushing them.


No.

A person with borderline personality disorder (one of the most common types) tends to have disturbed ways of thinking, impulsive behaviour and problems controlling their emotions. They may have intense but unstable relationships and worry about people abandoning them.
Banned reason: Idiot fantasist
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Offline Brazilian Martian

I can identify with this.  I was a regular with a well reviewed lady on this site.  As a regular, barriers naturally come down as trust develops but we kept things professional.  After about six months, we ended up going out some evenings on a non-professional basis.  Then it turned into us just being a couple.  We did normal things.  Her family and friends knew about me, but obviously not how we met.  We had a blast together for over a year.  We did long weekends away together and even took two holidays together abroad for some sun on the beach.  It was really a good time and thoroughly enjoyable, but it was becoming emotional.  After a year, we had reached that point of something more serious and we opted to stop.

I didn't think I would do that again but I find myself in the same situation.  Been seeing another well reviewed lady on this site for almost nine months.  She is not from the UK.  I visited her back in the summer in her home country where we had a complete blast, then flew back to London together.  We often have dinner together and again, just do normal couple kinds of things.  She has even joined me for dinner with a work colleague where we disguised her occupation.  We did a winter holiday in the Caribbean last month, again having a really good time.  It won't last, but as someone already said nothing ventured nothing gained.

My advice based on my experience is to just take things slowly and be very open and transparent.  Know going in that it won't last and just enjoy yourself.  Don't let it become emotional.  I haven't regretted either time that I've ventured into this.

DD

The good thing for me is that i met her outside of punting but when we had a convo while i was tattooing her she told me she's an escort. I don't think i could see a prossie that i used to pay to fuck in my mind it would seem like im crossing the line there. But yeah we are just taking things as they come we spend a lot of time together when we are both not working, and i really do enjoy her company as she honestly makes me laugh most of the time with her outlook on the world.