She's indicated that her lack in sex drive was down to her SSRI's - but now she's off them and is feeling better. but alas, nothing.
This obviously sparked some alarm bells early on, was she cheating etc? I followed up on my suspicions and investigated with the conclusion that she was being faithful.
What she said may well be true. Women's bodies function a lot differently from men's.
I've known some ladies who have been in their 30s', still virgin, but still are not excited or interested in having sex.
Most of the time, women are just not into sex. Simple as that.
Yes, it's difficult for us men to imagine. The closest state is to imagine you having 2 punts consecutively, at this point, you will probably start hating sex if you are forced to have more, that's exactly how women's bodies are like most of the time. They don't really want / need sex.
Anyway, I find your choice wise and appropriate.
Maintaining a non-physical relationship with your current GF, while going punting every time you feel the need to release something.
That's the way it is, mate. Lots of elder punters are doing the exact same thing with their wives. You just can get used to that lifestyle a lot earlier.
Finally, I, myself, am single all the time. It saves so many troubles and worries.