Escort trying to blackmail me! HELP!!

[JamesDucad]

Hi
I have texted an escort on friday, who I didnt even see in the end as I cancelled last minute as I felt guilty. Never even seen one before...
Last night she found my name / job / and even my FB profile and my wife's FB profile through my phone number.
Now, she s texting me there will be complains, that she s gonna publish all over the social medias, that she s gonna call my wife, she actually did tried to message her on FB already!!! She said if I dont get in touch she ll set up a meeting with my wife and her boss. She said she's got evidences...
I dont know what to do!?! Its happening right now! HELP!!!

[Robyorks1981]

Is this genuine???

[SeekingtheTruth]

Is this genuine???

Unlikely.

[JamesDucad]

No it really is, unfortunately!

[Derrick101]

If this is genuine, I'm surprised that you haven't caught on that you need a punting phone in the year that you've been lurking. ( I assume she got all of this info from knowing your mobile number)
The least you could do is post a review of this low life to warn others.

[GingerNuts]

If you'd thought ahead you would have used a punting phone and not the phone linked to your social media accounts.

Not much use to you now but maybe for the future and a warning to others.

[Moby Dick]

Should’ve used a punting phone, especially if you are in a relationship.


Which is the worst option?
Ignore her : she could expose you on facebook, you could pass her off as a random nutter. What evidence does she have?
Meet her / continue any dialogue: adding more fuel to the fire.
Report her to the police. Visiting an escort is not illegal, extortion/black mail is. Find out as much as you can about her.

[BigBoi1955]

Hi
I have texted an escort on friday, who I didnt even see in the end as I cancelled last minute as I felt guilty. Never even seen one before...

Never even see an escort before yet has registered on a punting website.

Do you really think anyone is going to believe this story. Blackmail is highly unlikely but if it ever happened it would be because the bloke had actually fucked someone.
Blackmail over a cancelled appointment, WTF would the threat be?

[wonko88]

If, this is genuine, and it seems a bit unlikely for her to go after every single person who calls/texts her, then it's a police matter.

What have you actually done, contacted an escort, from what you've posted you haven't even met her, so nothing has gone on.

If this is happening, and you give her anything, then it won't stop, once she's got you to do that then she has you, she knows you will give in.

Once that happens it's only a matter of time until it comes out, by which time you would have given her something, indicating you see you did something you felt that much need to hide.

Police.

[OakTree]

Although I agree it's advisable to use a punting phone I think it's highly unlikely the OPs story is true. I didn't use one for years and never had any comeback. This tool claims it's his first foray into fucking for cash and he's hit a landmine straight off. Either he's trolling or so stupid, no advise from here will help him.

[Waterhouse]

If this is genuine, then it's terrible form on her part.  However I'm a bit hard pushed to believe she is threatening blackmail because you cancelled a booking at short notice.  Is there something you're not telling us here?  What did you say? How did you cancel? What is she asking for in return for staying quiet?

At the end of the day, and if this is even true, then 1) you have done nothing wrong, and 2) she is breaking the law and could be charged.

If you want to take it further you could tell her that you're going to report her to the police and see what she syas. As for the home front  you could simply say to your wife that in a weak moment you just felt the need to make a booking with an escort due to something missing at home... I don't know your personal circumstances with your wife, but who knows, it could possibly make things better for you with your wife.

It seems to me that this life is not for you.

[James999]

Now, she s texting me there will be complains, that she s gonna publish all over the social medias, that she s gonna call my wife,

Best you hope her English is as bad as yours and your wife has no fucking idea what she's on about, other than that looks like you're fucked, remember to pop back and tell us what your wife says 

[JamesDucad]

I literally texted her, asked if she was available in 15min, she said yes, I said I was on my way and at the time of meeting I basically messaged her politely saying I couldn't make it anymore.
She hasnt asked for anything! Just threatened to post about it online, come to where I work, phone my wife, etc......

[OakTree]

I literally texted her, asked if she was available in 15min, she said yes, I said I was on my way and at the time of meeting I basically messaged her politely saying I couldn't make it anymore.
She hasnt asked for anything! Just threatened to post about it online, come to where I work, phone my wife, etc......

who is this escort you texted?

If this is her MO when cancelled on she needs exposing on here.

[JamesDucad]

Its her. Should have checked her reviews first.......

https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?action=serviceprovider;id=6391

External Link/Members Only

[hermanmunster]

I would start concocting an elaborate story about identity theft?

[wonko88]

If she hasn't asked for anything then it's not blackmail.

She be crazy, stay well clear, she may be doing it for amusement, as retaliation for some imagined slight, doesn't matter.

Don't engage.

Whether she does contact anyone is not in your control regardless, don't dig any possible hole any deeper.

[OakTree]

Its her. Should have checked her reviews first.......

https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?action=serviceprovider;id=6391

External Link/Members Only

The first time you feel like paying for it and you pick one thats got one of the worst track records I've seen and also from her verification photo looks like a man.

As I previously said I doubt any advise from here will help you. You're too thick.

[Waterhouse]

Looks like a right old bruiser.

Poor judgment on many levels, OP.

Edit:
Actually, I can't beleive this is on the level.  You've been a member here for well over year so you know how the site works.  You must have checked her rap-sheet here before even thinking about seeing her.

This all smells to me like attention seeking BS.

[stevedave]

If this is legit, then you just go to the Police. You have evidence of blackmail.

However, the stench of bullshit is very, very strong here 

[Moby Dick]

Its her. Should have checked her reviews first.......

https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?action=serviceprovider;id=6391

External Link/Members Only

Also hidden feedback on AW should have raised concern.
Just ignore her, if she persists threaten her with the police.

[hullad]

Oh dear lessons for every newbie punter to learn.

The most important thing is don't give in whatever you do, to threats. You will just dig a bigger hole for yourself, its just about  deniable as it is.

Find another hobby, bird watching or anything but punting 

[myothernameis]

Last night she found my name / job / and even my FB profile and my wife's FB profile through my phone number.

How dis she find out your name, surely you havent used your real name when booking

[daviemac]

Its happening right now! HELP!!!

What kind of help do you want / are expecting??

[Belgarion]

I literally texted her, asked if she was available in 15min, she said yes, I said I was on my way and at the time of meeting I basically messaged her politely saying I couldn't make it anymore.
She hasnt asked for anything! Just threatened to post about it online, come to where I work, phone my wife, etc......

I haven't used Facebook for almost a decade but can't you block her? That way she cannot message your wife.

After all she tried to do that so you know her profile.

Yeah

Reads like bullshit to me

[myothernameis]

who is this escort you texted?

If this is her MO when cancelled on she needs exposing on here.

To add more credence to the OP story, he should post the texts from this escort, but remove his person details

Now however, if he claims, he no longer has these messages, or cant post them, is he hiding something, like another member has said, has he said something to cause the threats

So think the OP needs to come clean, what really happened

[Moresomes]

As for the home front  you could simply say to your wife that in a weak moment you just felt the need to make a booking with an escort due to something missing at home...

If I went down this road, the only things that would be missing at home would be the O/H, and my bollocks.

[Ali Katt]

Hi
I have texted an escort on friday, who I didnt even see in the end as I cancelled last minute as I felt guilty. Never even seen one before...
Last night she found my name / job / and even my FB profile and my wife's FB profile through my phone number.
Now, she s texting me there will be complains, that she s gonna publish all over the social medias, that she s gonna call my wife, she actually did tried to message her on FB already!!! She said if I dont get in touch she ll set up a meeting with my wife and her boss. She said she's got evidences...
I dont know what to do!?! Its happening right now! HELP!!!

Post her AW profile and text messages as proof.

[myothernameis]

Post her AW profile and text messages as proof.

He all ready posted her profile, and reading the reviews, if what the op has said, he has had a lucky escape.  One review mention the escort might be a TS, and looking at the verification photo, could be true

Its her. Should have checked her reviews first.......

https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?action=serviceprovider;id=6391

External Link/Members Only

[webpunter]

Easy to miss the Awank link posted
Text messages - good call

Post her AW profile and text messages as proof.

I is smellin booshit too
If not a schoolboy error & OP needs a lesson in communication etiquette

A salient reminder to us all on 'comms'

[myothernameis]

I is smellin booshit too
If not a schoolboy error & OP needs a lesson in communication etiquette

A salient reminder to us all on 'comms'

The op been a member since Jan 2018, and the reviews of the escort have been up for the last 12 months, now the op could have easily read the reviews, all mostly negative, and clear warnings, she is a nutcase.  But would the op use these reviews, to to say, Im being black mailed

One reviews mention the escort, threatening to black-mail a punter

[hungrypunt]

I can smell it , it stinks...

[Ali Katt]

He all ready posted her profile, and reading the reviews, if what the op has said, he has had a lucky escape.  One review mention the escort might be a TS, and looking at the verification photo, could be true

Irony is I bet anal isn't available.

[TTGR]

Although I agree it's advisable to use a punting phone I think it's highly unlikely the OPs story is true. I didn't use one for years and never had any comeback. This tool claims it's his first foray into fucking for cash and he's hit a landmine straight off. Either he's trolling or so stupid, no advise from here will help him.

I dismissed the need for a punting phone when I started, literally within a couple of months got a text based attempt to extort money, threatening to tell my OH.

2 days of texting revealed all he/she actually knew was my AW and UKP profile names and details of AW reviews.

I narrowed it down to one of 2 SPs but it could have been a pimp, maid etc. too. (Both SPs long disappeared now).

Lesson learned, I bought a punting phone that very week 

[webpunter]

+1

Not havin a punting phone, even if you are single, defies logic

I can only assume that punters who use their [only] personal mobile must have diddly squat perception of risks they open themselves up to

Like their job for starters

Unless they happen to be independently wealthy, so they don't need to work.  As if.  This would bring on a whole load of other problems

I can only figure that they secretly want the attention / excitement of potentially being caught

Bizarre - some people just won't take things on board

At least it makes for some fun on here now & again

Lesson learned, I bought a punting phone that very week 

[kingmg]

Block her on your Mrs facebook

[David1970]

She is a man.


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[Ali Katt]

She is a man.


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Is that David Lee Roth from the 80s?

[David1970]

Is that David Lee Roth from the 80s?

Think you are being a bit harsh on David Lee Roth.

[oinki]

This thread just reminds me to google my phone number and punting number! No hits, phew.

[Dax]

I thought Facebook no longer does Phone Number search?  noticed it has not worked for the last year.

[CheeseBoard]

She is a man.


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It's the dude from Wayne's World without his glasses on

[webpunter]

Never !

Call it Clive not Chloe 

She is a man.

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It is gonna go off at the deep end if it realises it is on here    

[ik8133]

I thought you couldn't now search for a profile on FB using a phone number, and it's been like that for a while now.

[Doc Holliday]

I thought you couldn't now search for a profile on FB using a phone number, and it's been like that for a while now.

Yes correct in the wake of the Cambridge Analytica scandal.... but note what he said and the order he put it in.

Last night she found my name / job / and even my FB profile and my wife's FB profile through my phone number.

I would suggest she found his name and job first from a google search or similar of just the phone number. If the phone is used for business you have the job/company etc. From there you search facebook by name using the occupation/location to cross match etc and from there find his wife amongst his friends.

There are so many lapses of security in the above sequence all of which can be avoided.

[Doc Holliday]

It is gonna go off at the deep end if it realises it is on here    

  Out of the frying pan and into ...............

[OakTree]

Yes correct in the wake of the Cambridge Analytica scandal.... but note what he said and the order he put it in.

I would suggest she found his name and job first from a google search or similar of just the phone number. If the phone is used for business you have the job/company etc. From there you search facebook by name using the occupation/location to cross match etc and from there find his wife amongst his friends.

There are so many lapses of security in the above sequence all of which can be avoided.

You have to wonder what did he actually text her if indeed this sorry tale is true. It seems a lot of effort by her just for a cancellation. It would be interesting if the OP was to put up the texts as proof.

[GreyDave]

   If true she is a cow

Here is a True recount of some thing similar:

Two of the younger lads in my work place took the mobile phone of one of the other guys a straight nice married guy who was what seemed to be placied and calm, they rang and booked an escort and waited to see what would happen said escort rang after phone was found again knowing all guys detail via the FB and number told him not to wast her time booking and not showing up then told him ....If your gonna keep punting get a burner phone....No threats or shitty stuff happened I am not saying it dos`ent .. My Guvenor who is both a family guy and "Gezzer man of world guy" stopped employing the two muppets (they were used regulary as self employed fttters  ) and explained what had happened to the guys wife over phone and that Pizzas cabs and other silly things might  happen as a result of these pratts behaviour...No realtionships where harmed luckly and I now have surprisingly respect for my boss as a man of honoure so to speak (not just cause he pays me but way he handled a tricky worker problem  (we are a small firm no HR dept).

Guard your smart phone and get a burner

[Doc Holliday]

You have to wonder what did he actually text her if indeed this sorry tale is true. It seems a lot of effort by her just for a cancellation. It would be interesting if the OP was to put up the texts as proof.

I would agree.

[The Owl]

Its her. Should have checked her reviews first.......

https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?action=serviceprovider;id=6391

External Link/Members Only

You've been on this forum since January 2018 and yet you manage to book an escort with a really shit review history.

 

What did you join the forum for if you weren't going to use it to make sensible bookings with well reviewed escorts or learning about punter security? 

You've got lots of genuine advice on here. Use it for the first time since you joined.