Seeking.com (London)

[massagepuntingfan]

Glad you admit it, bye

My word what an idiot(him not you Iloveoral).

[Iloveoral]

  

[Heph]

Not sure if this thread is the right place to post something like this, but there's something I want to write that I think might help some of the new joiners on Seeking.

[Continues]

As someone who's occasionally written some purple prose himself, I can appreciate the effort this took.

Like you, I've found Seeking can offer some unlooked-for, uplifting and genuinely romantic experiences. It can also be a rather pragmatic and straightforwardly transactional place (which is surely what many of us, on balance, appreciate the virtue of), and we can also come across a good deal of cynicism there - we can't be entirely surprised by that, since a good deal of the time... we ourselves bring a dose of the same.

As one of the other posters said - it's possible to take it all too seriously: I sometimes feel I do myself. Often as not, the gals are happy to be pretty light-hearted and uncomplicated about it. The romantics and, ahem, the vampires, are the yin & yang of the same experience but at higher intensity.

Vive Seeking!

[Tailgate]

As someone who's occasionally written some purple prose himself, I can appreciate the effort this took.

Like you, I've found Seeking can offer some unlooked-for, uplifting and genuinely romantic experiences. It can also be a rather pragmatic and straightforwardly transactional place (which is surely what many of us, on balance, appreciate the virtue of), and we can also come across a good deal of cynicism there - we can't be entirely surprised by that, since a good deal of the time... we ourselves bring a dose of the same.

As one of the other posters said - it's possible to take it all too seriously: I sometimes feel I do myself. Often as not, the gals are happy to be pretty light-hearted and uncomplicated about it. The romantics and, ahem, the vampires, are the yin & yang of the same experience but at higher intensity.

Vive Seeking!

I'm enjoying Seeking, it can be really frustrating at times, but I'm if the generation that was was before 'Ghosting'
Met a few girls from there now, all of their profile photos and selfies pre meeting them were complimentary shall we say, but I've had 2 fantastic filthy meets and one girl that was a bit 'meh'.

It's hard work at times and cost wise, expensive compared to punting imo but to have some Seeking girl whisper "anything you want, Daddy" in your ear is quite the thing.

[southcoastpunter]

I'm enjoying Seeking,
It's hard work at times and cost wise, expensive compared to punting

we all have different wants and requirements  etc but for me to say "i am enjoying Seeking" is an understatement - I'm loving it!!! I have had 4 long term arrangements with 4 fabulous ladies and am currently on my 5th - 6 months in. she is 19, (coming up 20) and body wise is just how i like my ladies! We have (as i have with the previous 4) so much fun together! Yes it is hard work to find a gem these days but if you put the graft in, you can find one.

And yes, especially doing what I do (rather than just hotel meets), it is bloody expensive. Just as well my kids don't know how anything about it and especially much i spend on it!!

[Heph]

I'm enjoying Seeking, it can be really frustrating at times, but I'm if the generation that was was before 'Ghosting'
Met a few girls from there now, all of their profile photos and selfies pre meeting them were complimentary shall we say, but I've had 2 fantastic filthy meets and one girl that was a bit 'meh'.

It's hard work at times and cost wise, expensive compared to punting imo but to have some Seeking girl whisper "anything you want, Daddy" in your ear is quite the thing.

Sure... and as Oracle was suggesting, there's much more scope for something closer to the experience of taking a lover, and the extraordinary intimacy which can be part of that; which does also happen, though far less frequently, with prossies, once rapport is sufficiently good and established. Understandably though, even then they're far less likely to waive additional fees for overruns, overnights and things like holidays vs a Seeking gal.

Equally, as nutty as some prossies can be, on the whole they're more likely to be pragmatic about their profession, whereas the nut-job /cynical Seekers tend to not have quite come to terms with that, and, in consequence, levels of bat-shit crazy/flaky tend to be more extreme.

"i am enjoying Seeking" is an understatement - I'm loving it!!! Yes it is hard work to find a gem these days but if you put the graft in, you can find one.

Ditto.

[Crockers]

Well, that was fun. Date recently  with a late 30s milf, who was bored and horny. Great tits and thighs. Sexy short leather skirt and boots.

Fucked her in the women's toilets, after watching her piss whilst drinking it.

Told her not to wear any knickers next time. She suggested  crotchless.

Wants to try a threesome.

Some nuggets out there but, yep, hard work.

[TheOracle]

Ditto.

And +1, of course: I love Seeking and the absolutely incredible experiences it allowed me to have over time.

I've just taken a look at my spreadsheet to draw a balance. I've had an account twice before now for a total of three months (I just reopened it, but I don't think I'll keep it open long), and got out of it with:
 - 1 loving relationship with the sweetest and most beautiful girl I've ever met, finished too early because of a misunderstanding and never restarted because of a really sad illness that got in the way
 - 1 relationship with another stunner (who told me she didn't want money after the second time we met and said she only tried it once for the thrills), lasted a year and I ended when she became too jealous and possessive. Still great friends.
 - 1 platonic friendship with a darling that in the first few days on Seeking helped me find myself more than a couple of years of psychotherapy
 - 1 friendship with benefits with a girl from France who never asked for a dime and regularly tries to invite me to meet her again somewhere around Europe despite the fact I'm in a relationship
 - 5 repeated arrangements with absolute stunners (8.5/9.5) for moderate ppm amounts (300£/450£) that I met multiple times (and stopped when I got bored). With 1 I'm still good friends.
 - 1 random freebie with a Russian hottie that I met in California expecting to spend a fortune, just to find her fucking my brains out in my hotel for a few hours and then disappearing with a smile
 - 8 one-offs with hotties (7/9.5, 250£/500£) that I didn't click with enough to repeat the experience, but in most cases were great fun
 - a bunch of meet and greets with people I didn't like enough to go through with the thing
 - 3 decent friendships that lasted just a few months, but were fun until they lasted
 - hours and hours of interesting chats

[TheOracle]

A few reports:
 - External Link/Members Only - goddessANNA - very likely picture seller, instantly sends snapchat and kix accounts, blocked immediately without further scrutiny
 - External Link/Members Only - SensualGorgeous - scammer who just sent one message saying that she was stuck in a hotel lobby because the guy she had met had left without paying the bill and asking for free money
 - External Link/Members Only - PenelopePalmer - disappointingly rejected my approach because "we have read your profile and it says that intimacy is essential". YMMV.
 - External Link/Members Only - Louisaxxx - "my last arrangement was 4K for 3-4 meetings a month plus some gifts". Didn't inquire further, but I see some people on the forum report her being available (and disappointing) for 400 in the past
 - External Link/Members Only - KaseyK - 400/450. Lovely girl, cute, smart and funny, with whom I had a really fun dinner. Sadly, I later realised she wasn't enough into me and was exclusively money-motivated, so I didn't go through with the arrangement.
 - External Link/Members Only - Sofia_SAgirl - asks for 500£ but is the kind of girl with whom communication is excruciating (slow and boring), and is probably very hard to catch IRL. We'll see if I manage to bang her.
 - External Link/Members Only - Duchess - not for me for more than one reason. Also too young.
 - Meriochane - profile disappeared but I'm sure she'll pop up again. Ghastly personality, cold, cruel and cynical, incredibly greedy and exclusively money-motivated. Very hot, but IMHO to be avoided at all costs. I didn't get to discuss money because I found her revolting, but from something she said ("most men on Seeking expect me to accept 300 when an attractive escort charges 400/900 per hour) I suspect she expects minimum 800.
 - the piece of shit who stood me up tonight: profile disappeared, and I killed the chat in a fit of rage, but she's a cute 36yo british brunette with a fun profile with a bunch of emojis teasing excessively stuck up people. If she pops up again I'll update.

[JoeFiddleSticks]

- External Link/Members Only - Sofia_SAgirl - asks for 500£ but is the kind of girl with whom communication is excruciating (slow and boring), and is probably very hard to catch IRL. We'll see if I manage to bang her.

Came across her social once and while she was active on seeking, she was showing reels of being in Russia heavily pregnant.  Assumed it was a fake profile but it's been around for quite some time so don't know.

[AffAlchemist]

External Link/Members Only - Duchess - not for me for more than one reason. Also too young

Is also I believe a post op trans -
Or maybe pre op on the “bottom”
But definitely a trans and been mentioned here before for not disclosing this upfront

[TheOracle]

But definitely a trans and been mentioned here before for not disclosing this upfront

I said "more than one reason". Pre. But she was as upfront as possible minus including it on the profile.

[TheOracle]

Came across her social once and while she was active on seeking, she was showing reels of being in Russia heavily pregnant.  Assumed it was a fake profile but it's been around for quite some time so don't know.

Good to know, I'll do some research before wasting more time.

[AffAlchemist]

I said "more than one reason". Pre. But she was as upfront as possible minus including it on the profile.

Be better if she was upfront on her profile
Some people won’t care but what a waste of time if you do and she isn’t declaring this 

[Natwest]

My subscription is due to end in 4 or 5 days and I am being offered 33%  discount to renew. I'm sure that is the first time I have ever been offered that much.

[stampjones]

My subscription is due to end in 4 or 5 days and I am being offered 33%  discount to renew. I'm sure that is the first time I have ever been offered that much.

I got a 33% offer on my dormant account as well. Must be a general push to increase membership

[londonhunter008]

Is also I believe a post op trans -
Or maybe pre op on the “bottom”
But definitely a trans and been mentioned here before for not disclosing this upfront

There is another one who is post op
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I am not saying there is anything wrong with being post or per op, but this one has not mentioned in her profile and also when I spoke her last she did not tell me over chat. She looks very beautiful and talks nicely....also verified profile....but she purposefully hides that fact.

She had profile in past and I recognized her. I do find her very beautiful but I could not get over the fact that she is post op and did not proceed further.

[AffAlchemist]

There is another one who is post op
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I am not saying there is anything wrong with being post or per op, but this one has not mentioned in her profile and also when I spoke her last she did not tell me over chat. She looks very beautiful and talks nicely....also verified profile....but she purposefully hides that fact.

She had profile in past and I recognized her. I do find her very beautiful but I could not get over the fact that she is post op and did not proceed further.

Ah yes I thought I recognised her
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Well reviewed here as a trans not disclosing she's a trans
https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=306754.0

[j4247]

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Any info? Been messaging for a few weeks. Seems legit at £300

I saw her last year. Concur with what the other poster said. She may scam you if she gets a chance. Just a gut feeling.

She was a little nervous when I shagged her. Think she may have been newish to seeking. Good shag though, but I didn’t meet again as I like to spend a bit of social time with the girl too, and to be honest I was embarrassed to be seen with her (bit of a chav)

[Maximi]

I saw her last year. Concur with what the other poster said. She may scam you if she gets a chance. Just a gut feeling.

She was a little nervous when I shagged her. Think she may have been newish to seeking. Good shag though, but I didn’t meet again as I like to spend a bit of social time with the girl too, and to be honest I was embarrassed to be seen with her (bit of a chav)

Cheers bro. Will avoid, she looks a bit estate chic.

[keij]

External Link/Members Only GlamorousMermaid

requires 1st meet at her place, open to intimacy, move directly to Telegram, I suggest a price, she asked a higher price, I declined, then she started to send agressive msgs on telegram, I blocked her on telegram, then she move to SA to send those msgs, blocked. Attitude alert!

[jb238]

External Link/Members Only GlamorousMermaid

requires 1st meet at her place, open to intimacy, move directly to Telegram, I suggest a price, she asked a higher price, I declined, then she started to send agressive msgs on telegram, I blocked her on telegram, then she move to SA to send those msgs, blocked. Attitude alert!

I had a very similar experience, extremely rude and aggressive. Thinks the world of herself too. She might be one of Oracle's vampires i reckon.

[peterpee]

im new on seeking

anyone knows of tatiana External Link/Members Only

wants threesome for £400 - only no go is facial and CIM, all penetration with.

west London - been chasing me to meet

asked who the other party is for the 3 some - no reply

[TheOracle]

There is another one who is post op
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I am not saying there is anything wrong with being post or per op, but this one has not mentioned in her profile and also when I spoke her last she did not tell me over chat. She looks very beautiful and talks nicely....also verified profile....but she purposefully hides that fact.

She had profile in past and I recognized her. I do find her very beautiful but I could not get over the fact that she is post op and did not proceed further.

Thank you, I was about to move to WhatsApp with this one, you saved me from some sure disappointment. I believe it's fine for someone who passes and doesn't want their social circle to know they're trans to mention it on their profile, but it should definitely be the first thing that gets mentioned in chat.

[TheOracle]

I had a very similar experience, extremely rude and aggressive. Thinks the world of herself too. She might be one of Oracle's vampires i reckon.

I was about to say

[paul_tall_]

External Link/Members Only SweetChocolate (Covent Garden)
Presumably a Gift Card Scammer - Only meets in airbnb's and wants a giftcard to be provided so she can book it

[Punter910]

any intel ?
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[lothian111]

any intel ?
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Messaged a couple of times no reply

[anujok]

Just a quick thing…

I am sure I saw a punter today with a brown and black girl both were hot !

 Ivy Chelsea - I was there with my Bumble date but no action  so went punting later. Review up now!

Hope that punter would put the links for those hotties!

I don’t know him nor does he know me So both are still discreet!

[Ravihitch1]

Any luck with thicc/curvy/fake tan birds here? Cast the search to Newcastle, Manchester north ways and Essex thinking there might be more luck but literally even less than London! Where are they hiding??

[JoeFiddleSticks]

Wow, Jamie Knight is on seeking External Link/Members Only

Double wow, she wants 3.5K for an overnight.  Oof

[harryhavanagh]

Lady A - External Link/Members Only

I'm not usually into older ladies, but I do like athletic women.

Anyone spoken to her?

[Teejay]

any intel ?
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Messaged a couple of times no reply

she said 400 for 2hrs, which clearly tells you escort vibes.

[DeanoDeano]

any intel ?
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Messaged a couple of times no reply

Generally
Speaking if they don’t reply, they’re not interested 

[Punting2022]

Just a quick thing…

I am sure I saw a punter today with a brown and black girl both were hot !

 Ivy Chelsea - I was there with my Bumble date but no action  so went punting later. Review up now!

Hope that punter would put the links for those hotties!

I don’t know him nor does he know me So both are still discreet!

Bumble is a waste of time, Most of the time girls just after free meals/drinks
when you say brown, do you say indian/asian.

[lothian111]

Generally
Speaking if they don’t reply, they’re not interested 

true ... but she has now responded wanted £350 for 2 hours in a hotel , i passed

[anujok]

This one looked interesting

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Messaged her and she sent me almost copy paste of her profile. Was too tired to tick all the boxes. All these for just platonic!

[southcoastpunter]

This one looked interesting

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Please please PLEASE put a profile name as well! !!

[southcoastpunter]

Bumble is a waste of time, Most of the time girls just after free meals/drinks.

Bumble is perhaps a waste of time for what you are looking for ( just sex) but it works ok to well for me and what I like doing with ladies! The difference I would say for me between Seeking and Bumble is that Seeking   Provides  me with a much younger lot of ladies but who want some financial support in addition to be taken out to fun and nice places whereas Bumble does the same but with an older age group of ladies ( more 40’s and 50’s) but generally they want taking to nice places (but not an allowance) and if you get on well , it leads to sex! ( not every time of course but often)

[jamiekinkxxx]

Hi gents

QQ.

I have just recently (today) rejoined SA.

Bizzare though it seems quiet compared to a few years ago and also links to girls above do not see to work? Is there something up with my membership? I signed up as a premium member for 30 days @ £14.95+VAT which seems a lot cheaper than a couple of years ago.

Any help welcome

[AffAlchemist]

Hi gents

QQ.

I have just recently (today) rejoined SA.

Bizzare though it seems quiet compared to a few years ago and also links to girls above do not see to work? Is there something up with my membership? I signed up as a premium member for 30 days @ £14.95+VAT which seems a lot cheaper than a couple of years ago.

Any help welcome

You’ve signed up as a woman I would suggest as that’s not the right membership
Or you’ve signed up seeking a sugarmommy and not as seeking a sugarbaby
It’s been mentioned in another seeking post before but not sure which one sorry

[jamiekinkxxx]

You’ve signed up as a woman I would suggest as that’s not the right membership
Or you’ve signed up seeking a sugarmommy and not as seeking a sugarbaby
It’s been mentioned in another seeking post before but not sure which one sorry

Thanks. Not sure I have done any of that though? My profile picture is a man head (I've yet to upload any pictures) and it says I am male looking for female. 

[jamiekinkxxx]

Thanks. Not sure I have done any of that though? My profile picture is a man head (I've yet to upload any pictures) and it says I am male looking for female. 

Think you maybe right! Just joined again and now fee is £107.94!!! Looks like I fucked up!  Schoolboy errors!

[AffAlchemist]

Think you maybe right! Just joined again and now fee is £107.94!!! Looks like I fucked up!  Schoolboy errors!

yeah but use the discount code
there's a few but VW033COM or VWO33COM is 33% off

you prob selected you were looking for "successful members" (AKA Sugarmommys) instead of "attractive members" (AKA Sugarbabies)

[jamiekinkxxx]

yeah but use the discount code
there's a few but VW033COM or VWO33COM is 33% off

you prob selected you were looking for "successful members" (AKA Sugarmommys) instead of "attractive members" (AKA Sugarbabies)

Cheers Aff! :-)

[harryhavanagh]

Chloe - External Link/Members Only

Wants 500 for "a couple of hours of intimacy." Started negotiating at 300 and she got a massive attitude on her. Would have given her 400 but instead she started pricing on £ for hours, 400 for two, 500 for three. I prefer the girls that will hang for the evening and develop a rapport/chemistry.

Looks hot. If 500 is good for you, go for it. Don't think she'd be good company if you said anything that wasn't exactly how she sees things as she seems pretty dogmatic and blunt. A bad combination.

[DeanoDeano]

Not really surprising though, her photos scream escort…

[PLeisure]

Chloe - External Link/Members Only

Wants 500 for "a couple of hours of intimacy." Started negotiating at 300 and she got a massive attitude on her. Would have given her 400 but instead she started pricing on £ for hours, 400 for two, 500 for three. I prefer the girls that will hang for the evening and develop a rapport/chemistry.

Looks hot. If 500 is good for you, go for it. Don't think she'd be good company if you said anything that wasn't exactly how she sees things as she seems pretty dogmatic and blunt. A bad combination.

Also recently discussed here:
https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=259378.msg4029700#msg4029700

[updownandaround]

External Link/Members Only - Christinaflex12xx

I'm trying to figure out why this girl looks so familiar to me, I'm thinking maybe I've seen her on AW or somewhere else? Anyone know her/met her? She appears to be from Milton Keynes.

[finn5555]

External Link/Members Only - Christinaflex12xx

I'm trying to figure out why this girl looks so familiar to me, I'm thinking maybe I've seen her on AW or somewhere else? Anyone know her/met her? She appears to be from Milton Keynes.

As others have said can you add her name (Christinaflex12xx)