Warning - TS Subject - Considering being topped

[19jammy]

So I’ve done the fuck the ladyboy, suck the ladyboy, although it’s only 1 ladyboy I’ve seen, which I really enjoyed. But now I’m considering 3 things.
1, Going with a TS who isn’t Thai, although I’d prefer Thai, unfortunately they’re few & far between at the moment in Manchester.
2, I want to make a TS cum, preferably CIM with snowball finish, mutual CIM would be even better.
3, Considering being topped by a TS. This one, I’m really not convinced I’m looking for ultimately, but thought I’d ask what recommendations there were, so I can at least look into it, also the do’s & don’ts.

[A Decent Fist]

Considering being topped by a TS. This one, I’m really not convinced I’m looking for ultimately, but thought I’d ask what recommendations there were, so I can at least look into it, also the do’s & don’ts.

If you mean escort recommendations, just read the TV/TS reviews on here until you find someone local you like the sound of.

As for anal do's and don'ts, it depends on your circumstances at home. If there's no one to get suspicious you should get yourself two sizes of dildo (or vibrator), some lube and a device for douching yourself. I use a plastic attachment which fits in place of the shower head, and you can also gets things will bulbs to squeeze.

The idea is to get yourself clean inside, then to accustom your virgin arse to being penetrated, first with the smaller dildo, then the larger one. At this stage you can also work out whether you like the sensation, though obviously it's much better when it's a real cock with a gorgeous looking trans attached to the other end.

If you live with a partner, it's very unlikely you'll be able to get away with any of that. In which case find an escort with not too big a tool and just go for it. And hope there's no too much mess afterwards!

Make sure that being topped isn't going to mess up your head as well. There are endless circular discussions on here about whether it makes you gay or not. I couldn't care less either way.

[bdyno]

To add to the advice already given, instead of buying yourself dildos, start incorporating a bit of anal play into your sessions with CIS girls.  A finger at first for a bit of a prostrate massage.

Then maybe find a girl with a range of strap ons.  Get then to start small and build up until you find your limit.  Doing it this way will ease you into it - remember a TS only has one cock, but a well stocked female SP will be able to train you up gradually!

Then find a well reviewed TS SP with a cock you're confident you can handle.  It will be 10x better than the dildo.

Make sure that being topped isn't going to mess up your head as well. There are endless circular discussions on here about whether it makes you gay or not. I couldn't care less either way.

To add to this, it doesn't.  Being gay is about being attracted to men.  TS Girls do not identify as men. 
So long as you're comfortable with that, who gives a shit what some of the more ignorant people on here think?

[Iceman90]

First time I tried it, it felt weird and didn’t do much for me. I should have followed the above advice and douched before because the rubber was a little bit messy when the girl pulled out. She just laughed and said that it’s normal. Last time I got topped, it was mind blowing. I didn’t douche that time either, just stuck a finger up there and cleaned in the shower but it was totally clean even after an absolute pounding. It felt amazing and I’ll try it again on my next TS punt.

[lamboman]

Being topped is something I'm considering also,I would have done last time but I found myself paranoid about not being clean.
This despite using one of those shower attachments so I'm pretty certain I was clean,I guess it's normal to feel worried about this?

[bdyno]

I just use one of the squeezy ball things. Usually spotless, but it's never impossible that a bit gets through whilst you're being fucked.

The part of the anus that gets penetrated isn't a 'storage' area (couldn't think of another way to put it!!) so as long as you don't 'go' again after douching it should be fine.

At the end of the day though a small amount of mess can happen occasionally and the SP will have seen it before.

[lamboman]

 

[Gethin_Thomas]

Practice, being relaxed and lots of proper lube. The second of these is not always possible given the nature of these meets. Building a rapport is also difficult as SPs are often in another town the next week. As others have said, anal play with cis female escorts is a low pressure introduction.

[Suffolk TS Lover]

I had limited experience of being penetrated before I started seeing TS escorts. A little anal play by the partner was fun, with some finger insertion which I enjoyed. When I started seeing escorts, one was keen on pegging (strap-on dildo) and I enjoyed first time, but not second.

As I moved on (I only started seeing escorts after my wife died some 5 years ago, so my experience in only last 4-years) and experienced TS escorts for the first time, I avoided being topped initially. First time I did experience it was a reasonably well-endowed Brazilian who surprisingly did me 3-times in the session and came each time. However, I was quite drunk at the time (blame that on the friend I had their as well) so can't say I remembered much of the sensation. Since then I have sometimes requested "topping" with mixed results. Initially, I was not that enamoured of the process, sometimes uncomfortable and when not, I did not get a lot of enjoyment out of it.

Recently however I had a session with a Thai girl I see often who is reasonably endowed (6" at least - many of them ) and she topped me and for the first time I really enjoyed it. I followed this up with one who was well-endowed (over 7 anyway) and uncomfortable at first, then enjoyable. I'm now on the quest for bigger

As for preperation, I have one of those bulb plastic thing and I try to clean well beforehand as it does make it better. Looking at one of the shower attachment ones next.

The one warning I would give is for those TS escorts with little or no English. When you try to ensure lots of lube and the request they "go slowly" that is often lost in translation and they go for it! I've struggled a few times but the more you do it, the more you get used ot it.

[19jammy]

Thanks for the advice.
It’s certainly something to be thinking about in the meantime.
So does anyone have any recommendations for a T girl who’s going to cum? I’m assuming it’ll have to be early in the day, but I’ve seen some who say they can cum more than once, so that’d be good too.

[redveee]

I've been looking for a TS to top me too but trying to find a small one for my first time has been a pain in the ass

[JontyR]

The one thing I'd say about  TS escorts is that if you have a clear idea about what you are after then you have to be explicit on the phone in advance. Taking things as read just doesn't cut it.

So if you want her to cum, ask if its likely. Ask if it is a one pop service (yours or hers). Ask if she will take both top and bottom roles in a session if you want her to.

Don't be shy about your lack of experience in a particular role, if they don't like the idea of popping an arse then they wouldn't be a good choice.

Ask about their expectations about internal cleanliness and manscaping.

There are plenty of excuses why TS SPs won't deliver to your expectations, some potential positive encounters will be negative if you haven't done your due diligence.

My first TS punt was massively underwhelming. I then went for as close to a sure thing as possible for my second experience. I am glad I did. I've been looking for the right tourer to visit for a good while but am glad I have kept my powder dry rather than risk a punt that will undoubtedly leave me with regrets.

I'd say this though in answer to your initial point, Manchester has some of the best English girls about. Most of the encounters where the girl has cum (its not that important for me) has been with English girls. They can be a bit flighty and will invariably mess around with appointment times but that's par for the course.

Also on the profile pics....is it a wig?....can you see tits?....is that cock theirs?...are all the photos from strange angles?

[texaswheelman]

It's also worth checking on this forum for reviews as some TSs like a bit of bareback. You may end up with a surprised bareback!

[Iceman90]

Which British girls in Manchester? I’ve been looking and haven’t found much. Tamzin and Shaffire are not available, Kimber Kelly has quit, Roxy is off her rocker and Demi has some terrible reviews on here. Who would you recommend in Manchester?

[Ben10]

Which British girls in Manchester? I’ve been looking and haven’t found much. Tamzin and Shaffire are not available, Kimber Kelly has quit, Roxy is off her rocker and Demi has some terrible reviews on here. Who would you recommend in Manchester?

Wait until Rhian is working again. She usually pops up every couple of weeks for a few days. Deffo worth it

[TomTank]

Which British girls in Manchester? I’ve been looking and haven’t found much. Tamzin and Shaffire are not available, Kimber Kelly has quit, Roxy is off her rocker and Demi has some terrible reviews on here. Who would you recommend in Manchester?

that's a good point, I often think of British T-girls in Manchester being the go-2 option, but you're right, it possibly doesn't apply any more .... Shaffire was amazing and a great loss

There are some:

Rhian - fantastic
Dakota - decent when I saw her but mixed reviews here
Exotic Persia - not bad service, good at topping, not bad looking, but maybe slightly masculine and very controlling
Evain Diamond - good looking, not very large or active
Raven DuBarry - was great, but never responds

Not seen, but potential:
Mia Mookie
Taboo Goddess
Charli Grace
Khaleesi

[Ben10]

that's a good point, I often think of British T-girls in Manchester being the go-2 option, but you're right, it possibly doesn't apply any more .... Shaffire was amazing and a great loss

There are some:

Rhian - fantastic
Dakota - decent when I saw her but mixed reviews here
Exotic Persia - not bad service, good at topping, not bad looking, but maybe slightly masculine and very controlling
Evain Diamond - good looking, not very large or active
Raven DuBarry - was great, but never responds

Not seen, but potential:
Mia Mookie
Taboo Goddess
Charli Grace
Khaleesi

I agree that Taboo Goddess is a potential but an absolute nightmare to get hold of. Always responds hours or sometimes even days later so discretion is an issue with Morgan for those without a separate punting number or phone