Unwanted violence in sex

[tynetunnel]

There an escort in Glasgow, has taken some guys by surprise, by stick her finger up your backside, and aims for your prostate while wanking you off 

Since I have an unpredictable bowel disease, if she did this to me it could be her with the biggest surprise! 

[hungrypunt]

it was agreed she would leave her front door open, and the punter turns up, at a set time

Done this a few times with an SA girl from Liverpool at her request. Roped and gagged, both other holes used then leave after untying.

We had only spoke on the phone a couple of times prior to the first instance. I still see her now, shes cute. I do wonder and have spoke to her about doing it with random idiots who could be dangerous. She swears it was only ever with me but I have my doubts.

[hungrypunt]

There an escort in Glasgow, has taken some guys by surprise, by stick her finger up your backside, and aims for your prostate while wanking you off 

Rhinda massage does a good job of this.

[hockogrockle]

I have no doubt porn has made it 'fashionable', with the impressionable feeling they have to indulge, or be left out.

I do think it has always gone on though. It's just dangerous that constant exposure of it via porn will make it seem like the norm. It isn't.

I'm another one who agrees entirely with this. There's a huge difference between vigorous sex (which I enjoy from time to time) and violent sex which I think is most unpleasant. I know a minority of people, both male and female, like it. But I'm most certainly not one of them. I wouldn't, for example, even think of having anal sex with a woman who wasn't entirely happy with the idea, and if she told me to take it out, I would, immediately and without question. And that rule is one I apply in all cases, irrespective of whether I'm getting it for free or paying for it.

[paper7]

It's (anything) got to be consensual or you have nothing.
Another point is that NOBODY goes to work to experience unwanted violence in their job.

[ulstersubbie]

Consensual being the right word. It would be interesting to know how many women really enjoy rough sex, not many I suspect.

[winkywanky]

I actually think there's two types of rough sex.

There's the hammer and tongs frantic fuck where both parties want a very physical experience, hard and fast, getting up a bit of a sweat. That could be after a slow and steady foreplay build-up, or it could be a heightened anticipation scenario, perhaps meeting someone in a bar for a couple of hours, the 'signals' going back and forth which tells both parties there's going to be a hell of a fuck at the end of the evening.

The other is actual physical blows, ranging from hard arse-slapping, hard hairpulling in doggy and forcefully holding the girl down by the shoulders in issionary, to slapping around the face, spitting in the face and generally roughly 'using' the other person.

Of course it should ALL be consensual, and the participants should be level-headed and mature enough to read the signals properly

[HGWells]

I find that most girls I've been with tend to prefer it a bit rough. The one that didn't later became a lesbian, so there you go.

As for the actual technicalities of it - I'll generally start of very slowly, for example running a hand over her throat. If she smiles I might give it a gentle squeeze and see how she reacts etc, building until we're both having a blast.

Like others have said, it's all about reading the signals and going slow.

[hungrypunt]

Me to her, after filling in the online kink quizzes.

So how do you want to get down etc, you say rough but what turns you on from the start, how far do we go.

HER...anything goes, rougher the better as long as no bruises that will show when wearing clothes and no broken bones 

Ive had a few variations of this. Mental issues I assume.

[the_exile]

Rough stuff doesn't interest me I haven't gone in for it, so don't really know how many women would like it. I don't like porn where there's choking or spitting but there seems to quite a bit of that in scenes you can find now. Lots of things in porn don't really work in real life - just look at some of the positions used!

I've met plenty of women who enjoyed energetic sex with some hard fucking, but even then I'd build up to it and take it slowly to begin with.

[neil_williams]

I used to have a friend with benifits how was into some kinky shit. She had me choke her once until she turned purple, I felt really uncomfortable doing it and I wouldn't do it again but she fucking loved it.

[myothernameis]

Me to her, after filling in the online kink quizzes.

So how do you want to get down etc, you say rough but what turns you on from the start, how far do we go.

HER...anything goes, rougher the better as long as no bruises that will show when wearing clothes and no broken bones 

Ive had a few variations of this. Mental issues I assume.

A few bruises, and then she of to the police, claiming she was assaulted, obviously not by you