Paying before or after - is the service different?

[tantraman]

Gentleman,

I was just reminiscing back through my punts to date, thinking whom I'd like to revisit soon ... and it came to my realisation that most of my bestest sexperiences appear to have happened with WGs that haven't asked for money upfront, but remind me after the event. It makes me think that these WGs are confident about their services, knowing that their client will no doubt be happy to pay after delivery ... and I myself have been each and every time. In fact, now, if a WG doesn't stash the cash at the start, I know I'm in for a good time.

Do others find that there is generally better service from WGs that don't request payment upfront?

[GingerNuts]

I favour the full body sensual massage.

Almost universally the massage is paid for up front but the extras later.  Being asked to get up with a raging hard on to hand over the price of a happy ending does tend to spoil the mood a little.

In general I find Chinese ladies want the money up front and Thai ladies will wait until the end.  Either way they make sure they get paid!

There are exceptions where I pay for everyting at the end if I'm a trusted regular.

[hw189]

Not necessarily. I've had one encounter where the lady didn't request the money at the start of the punt and got straight down to playing with me. Paid at the end of the punt though, even though it was far from the best encounter I had (it actually was a relatively poor to neutral experience for me).

In most other cases however, I agree with you. Especially, in cases where you have become a regular visitor to the lady and they trust you will pay at the end.

[whiskyfan]

Keep reading about these ladies who allow you to pay at the end of the punt, but have yet to actually meet one. All those I've seen have asked for the cash within a few minutes of entering.

[vw]

Don't think it is important either way, some cash addicted prossies may get withdrawal and physically need to touch the cash at the beginning though, withholding until the end could be detrimental.

For me though i prefer to get  the business dealt with first and out of the way.

[Jimmyredcab]

Never paid after the event ---------------- not including Thailand obviously.   

[hw189]

Keep reading about these ladies who allow you to pay at the end of the punt, but have yet to actually meet one. All those I've seen have asked for the cash within a few minutes of entering.

It may be worth becoming a regular visitor to one lady and build a rapport with them. Once they start trusting you I'm sure they won't request money up front (that's my experience anyway).

Very rarely have I had a lady trust me to pay at the end of my punt, especially on my first visit to them.

[whiskyfan]

It may be worth becoming a regular visitor to one lady and build a rapport with them. Once they start trusting you I'm sure they won't request money up front (that's my experience anyway).

Very rarely have I had a lady trust me to pay at the end of my punt, especially on my first visit to them.

True, though even on return visits, I still usually hand over the cash then jump in the shower. Don't think I'd trust myself not to forget in a post punt haze, which might prove awkward.

[Jeff_withpetersen]

If it's someone I've not seen before I make a point of 'sorting out the paperwork' first thing just to show them they can trust me, help relax them and me and get it over with while I'm thinking about it. I think that is always the best policy.

With WGs I've seen multiple times I still try to do this but they're invariably cool with asking at the end. But if I was a WG I have to admit I'd want the cash first with a new punter as what difference does it really make to us, we're paying either way?

[hw189]

True, though even on return visits, I still usually hand over the cash then jump in the shower. Don't think I'd trust myself not to forget in a post punt haze, which might prove awkward.

It all depends on how the WG prefers to operate. I don't try and force the issue of paying at the end of the punt, especially if the WG insists on wanting to be paid at the start.

Likewise with regards to shower, again, the regulars that I have seen have trusted me to have taken one before setting out to visit them. Therefore, have never forced me into taking one at the beginning (especially the case after like the second, third, or fourth visit with them)

I have to agree with OP though, the punts tend to be far superior if I pay at the end of the punt (psychologically), ie. Knowing that a WG trusts me, shows that she missed me like a genuine GF and wants to get down with me (before payment) etc.

[Horizontal pleasures]

I hand over the cash first and usually with a small offering such as a bag of cherries or a bar of Green&Black dark chocolate with the ££ tucked into the wrapper or some European style cheesecake if visiting a EE lady and I planned it ahead.

This usually sets up or enhances a positive welcoming atmosphere and a good start with a kiss.

[tantraman]

I hand over the cash first and usually with a small offering such as a bag of cherries or a bar of Green&Black dark chocolate with the ££ tucked into the wrapper or some European style cheesecake if visiting a EE lady and I planned it ahead.

This usually sets up or enhances a positive welcoming atmosphere and a good start with a kiss.

You are a real smoothie, sir!

[bigmanbigman]

Yes hp thats before you bare back them sure the choco
Makes up for whst comes after.

[vw]

Yes hp thats before you bare back them sure the choco
Makes up for whst comes after.

Makes up for what ?

[Drayki]

I usually pay as soon as ive entered the door, although I have forgot once and payed at the end of the service, don't think it makes any difference to what service you get, if its with a regular then I suppose its about them trusting you, with a new sp I should imagine then they would want the cash up front, nothing worse of them trying to embarrassing you and having to ask 

[Zimbaman]

Never paid after the event ---------------- not including Thailand obviously.   

I'm being ignorant here, and no doubt the answer is available elsewhere on the site. But you pay afterwards in Thailand?

[Jimmyredcab]

I'm being ignorant here, and no doubt the answer is available elsewhere on the site. But you pay afterwards in Thailand?

That is just the way it is in Thailand ---------------- in over 30 visits I only ever paid upfront once, that was a huge mistake.

Once they have your money there is no incentive to provide a decent service, some may even attempt to cut the booking short.

[Brazilian Martian]

That is just the way it is in Thailand ---------------- in over 30 visits I only ever paid upfront once, that was a huge mistake.

Once they have your money there is no incentive to provide a decent service, some may even attempt to cut the booking short.

Surely not,thai women are the most honest & decent about infact i could imagine the excuse they would use, sorry baby my mother has been rushed to hospital i will come back i promise Big Boy i love you long time 

[tantraman]

Keep reading about these ladies who allow you to pay at the end of the punt, but have yet to actually meet one. All those I've seen have asked for the cash within a few minutes of entering.

Of the WGs I've reviewed to date, the ones that only asked me for payment after cracking punts were Arabella_AW, Ameera, Khloe Sexy Girl and Suzy Cortez. And these were all first-time meetings; I've not seen any of them a second time yet, but surely will do soon enough.

In retrospect, it does appear to me that these four WGs were and remain supremely confident of their services, knowing that they'll make you happy ... knowing there'll never be an argument to pay up at the end, which is why they don't have to stash the cash upfront.

[Horizontal pleasures]

Makes up for what ?

We usually both come after ...

[puntingpumping1920]

Of the WGs I've reviewed to date, the ones that only asked me for payment after cracking punts were Arabella_AW, Ameera, Khloe Sexy Girl and Suzy Cortez. And these were all first-time meetings; I've not seen any of them a second time yet, but surely will do soon enough.

In retrospect, it does appear to me that these four WGs were and remain supremely confident of their services, knowing that they'll make you happy ... knowing there'll never be an argument to pay up at the end, which is why they don't have to stash the cash upfront.

 
I find it hard to believe that a Brazilian(Suzy Cortez) will allow you to pay after sex. 
 

[Brazilian Martian]

 
I find it hard to believe that a Brazilian(Suzy Cortez) will allow you to pay after sex.

Im sure members of her fan club will be able to clear this up
 

[bigmanbigman]

Of the WGs I've reviewed to date, the ones that only asked me for payment after cracking punts were Arabella_AW, Ameera, Khloe Sexy Girl and Suzy Cortez. And these were all first-time meetings; I've not seen any of them a second time yet, but surely will do soon enough.

In retrospect, it does appear to me that these four WGs were and remain supremely confident of their services, knowing that they'll make you happy ... knowing there'll never be an argument to pay up at the end, which is why they don't have to stash the cash upfront.

and what if you came with £10 only ??

[YorkshireGuy]

They expect you to pay before and mostly always ask for it if not offered it I've found. Unless your a cheeky twat I expect all of us hand money over before?

Once I've not paid before with a regular, don't think if made any difference in the service although at the end it definitely felt awkward for us both when she had to ask for the money from me.

[bigmanbigman]

A better way for punter and wg is wg takes money and leaves on the side . Shows some trust all around .

[tantric talents]

A better way for punter and wg is wg takes money and leaves on the side . Shows some trust all around .

Yes I know a few who do that.
Madlin Moon did for example.

[Stalinator]

It is only regulars that tend to allow payment after the deed.

When I was in Hong Kong, payment was always at the end. Seemed better to me that way.

[YidArmy]

I agree paying at the end is preferable and don't think I've had any complaints with girls who have done this.

The problem is there are too many dodgy cunts who will take the piss and try to barter or haggle after the event. King Tarzan for example I could imagine being an absolute nightmare if he had to pay after a punt.
So most WG's will just avoid any hassle and ask for payment up front.

[snaitram99]

Once I've not paid before with a regular, don't think if made any difference in the service although at the end it definitely felt awkward for us both when she had to ask for the money from me.

Have had a couple of regulars where enough trust built up to pay at the end, but paid before they asked, except once when one thought I'd forgotten. I hadn't, the money was in my pocket and I was about to hand it over.

+What someone said above about Chinese/Thai massage, yes Chinese more likely than Thai to want extras money when agreed rather than at end, but depending also on whether already seen a few times.

[5th Musketeer]

I am not a frequent punter but I must have a very trustworthy personality or an honest face, because I have only very rarely paid up front.  I have nearly always paid afterwards.  However, if I were to punt more frequently I would probably come across situations where I would need to pay beforehand.

[Love2taste]

I wouldn't know , as soon as she arrives and sits down i say business out the way and give her the cash so we can move forward into as natural a GFE as possible.

[shagmore]

Some of my punts I pay up front, others after the act, usually the profile will say to pay up front, but the ones that haven't asked i feel are more confident with their services.

[Romney]

Most of the SP's I've seen either ask for the cash upfront or I give it to them upfront without them asking.  I have forgotten till the end on occasion, but I've never noticed a difference in service either way.

I had one reg that I'd always pay at the end and she always gave a great service, and in fact didn't want the cash till we were done.

[YorkshireGuy]

What about an overnight?
Paying it all at the start makes me worry TBH, would prefer to show them the cash and given 50% now and the rest in the morning or something similar.

[BlueRock]

Found regulars stop asking for money upfront. In fact I've been half out the door with one before I remembered to pay, she'd kissed me goodbye too. Whether or not I'd of got to my car is another matter though! Had 2 ladies on first visit not ask for the cash until after but we had chatted a fair bit beforehand and my feedback is pretty strong so I guess it's all about trust.

[Redbull4]

I've only ever had the one WG wait till the end to take the money. I visited her fairly regularly and the mural trust was there, she knew I wouldn't take the piss and she would of been right.
I found her service to be unbelievable and unrivalled by anyone else I've meet so far.

[myothernameis]

Massage Parlours:  Pay at door £10, and then pay the girl at the end
Escorts: Money payable as you arrive

Chinese Massage: Pay at door £35, if extras required, pay before she wanks you of

Regular girl, paid her upfront £250, and in return I need not pay for my next 5 1hr visits

Service I got wasn't any different

[myothernameis]

What about an overnight?
Paying it all at the start makes me worry TBH, would prefer to show them the cash and given 50% now and the rest in the morning or something similar.

My last overnight the room had a safe, which we used, me putting in 2 digits, and the escort 2, so both of us were required to open the safe in the morning....Money safe overnight

[tonytonytony]

It's true. I've seen a few that got straight down to business and they were the best. I could have taken advantage at the end but I didn't. One I struggled t o make repeat bookings with because she is always fully booked.

[bearcat69]

I have done the payments afterwards with two WG's. It did surprise me a bit thinking about it afterwards. I always thought that you have to pay a prossie beforehand or they'd get angry with you and not even let you touch them. But both are very well reviewed girls who obviously must get a lot of business and regulars, so I just took it like they are used to seeing regulars and leaving the payment until afterwards and I just got the same treatment that they probably give to most punters. The service was very good from both of them, but again, I just looked at it like, they are both experienced prossies that know what they are doing and are confident in it, and that they are like that with the majority of punters that come through their door.

It was a nice touch in a way, but not a specific thing I was looking for or expecting. I'm always happy to pay at the start of the punt. In fact, I quite enjoy the payment part and looking at the WG as she takes the money. It's always entertaining for me, and often quite a turn on. I remember one Polish WG standing in front of me in her stockings, high heels, knickers and bra, counting out the notes individually, looking excited whilst posing in a really sexy way, fucking hell, it really turned me on. It was then followed by a very exciting dirty fuck.

[The Owl]

I had an escort who didn't bother to ask for the money after I'd visited her previously, I gave her the money after I'd got dressed to leave (she was about to ask anyway). With this one escort there was no difference in the excellent service she delivered.

However beyond this one escort I have always paid on arrival or shortly after.

[Dipper]

Probably prefer before, feel less likely to be ripped off than after the deed when some may try and add extra for things not agreed on.

[mr.bluesky]

It may be worth becoming a regular visitor to one lady and build a rapport with them. Once they start trusting you I'm sure they won't request money up front (that's my experience anyway). As I mainly see regular girls they are happy to be paid after

Very rarely have I had a lady trust me to pay at the end of my punt, especially on my first visit to them.

Usually when you see someone on a regular basis they will take the money after the deed has been done. If you are a newbie they ask for it up front. Just a matter of trust. As I mainly see  regular girls they  have no problem in being paid after

[dsr]

Paying afterwards?  What madness is this?  Suppose this is what I get for not having any regulars.  Seconded on the Thailand method though, wouldn't even consider giving them a dime beforehand, ladydrinks and barfine aside.