"Clicking" with an SP

[marcius2018]

Having just read a review for an SP in the NW, it's made me think....how often have I "clicked" with a service provider, over the years....not often has to be the answer....maybe 1 in 10, at best?!

What about others?

[oddson1970]

l think good SPs give you the illusion that you have clicked.Its their job to make you feel good and give you the impression that they have enjoyed it as much as you have.Some of them are far better at it than others, ie.  better actresses.Maybe your choice of SP is the problem....good research is the key.
     
     

[marcius2018]

l think good SPs give you the illusion that you have clicked.Its their job to make you feel good and give you the impression that they have enjoyed it as much as you have.Some of them are far better at it than others, ie.  better actresses.Maybe your choice of SP is the problem....good research is the key.
     
   

So true....I use this site for that now.
The vast majority I saw before I discovered UKP.

[belamy85]

Having just read a review for an SP in the NW, it's made me think....how often have I "clicked" with a service provider, over the years....not often has to be the answer....maybe 1 in 10, at best?!

What about others?

Depends exactly what you mean by 'clicked'... If you mean some sexual chemistry in the moment, about 1 in 10 sounds right. I always know the difference between a merely good punt and one where I've 'clicked' with the SP. If you're talking something a bit deeper... Only once or twice ever in years of punting.

[Mr_Shins]

I click with mine in a sexual way. That's what matters - every time we meet I get turned on, and is the reason I see her.

[Hobbit]

Every time a hooker swallows my load I click with them. 

[Mr_Shins]

Every time a hooker swallows my load I click with them. 

They do stuff to me that arouses me and I get hard and keep it hard and then we get a happy ending.

Or they don't arouse me enough...

My regular always does. That's why she's my regular.

[Home Alone]

I've always begun a booking with a friendly open attitude. I always book an SP who's at least in her 40s - not necessarily "Stated age"! - with a friendly attitude. We both know why we're there; let's see about enjoying ourselves for the next however long.

Having once been suckered into having EAS for a SP, I've learned my lesson and have returned to my original punting mantra, "I'm here for a shag, not a relationship!" and as a result of that the WGs I see know that I'm no threat to their private lives.

So over the years, I've become friends - nothing more; nothing less - with two or three of my Regulars over the years. I don't want to be part of their Civvy Street lives, just as I'm sure they don't want me to be either.

It hasn't stopped me being invited to the Evening Do after one of them married another of her Regular clients, nor to a packed church in the East Midlands for the funeral service of another: the much-missed Lustylush. Both of whom were invited - with carefully-concocted cover stories, obvs!  - to my 70th birthday party.

[Mr Doodle]

l think good SPs give you the illusion that you have clicked.Its their job to make you feel good and give you the impression that they have enjoyed it as much as you have.Some of them are far better at it than others, ie.  better actresses.Maybe your choice of SP is the problem....good research is the key.
     
   

+1

<edit> There was one who absolutely had me fooled she was into me, and I have to admit, I could see myself into her (beyond the physical)... So I saw her again a few weeks later and share couldn't even remember me..

[hendrix]

l think good SPs give you the illusion that you have clicked.Its their job to make you feel good and give you the impression that they have enjoyed it as much as you have.Some of them are far better at it than others, ie.  better actresses.Maybe your choice of SP is the problem....good research is the key.
     
   

+1

I'm friendly with my regs, but I wouldn't say there's any real "click" It's a business transaction that suits both parties. That's it, and that's a great thing! No complications.

[signy]

I have had a number of escorts with whom I have had a good time, in the sense of an interesting and enjoyable post-fuck chat. However, we have both known that when the time was roughly up, it was up.

The one exception is an escort with whom I had the usual 45 minutes of action in the hour, and after 10 minutes chat she decided to ask if I wanted a cup of tea (which was about leaving time). I said yes, and was there for another 90 minutes after that just chatting around mutual interests. At the end it was me who had to call time on the session. That was the one time that I belive that we genuinely "clicked".

[Moby Dick]

I make an effort to click with every WG starting with the pre punt comms. It’s more fun that way.
Be polite and respectful whilst giving clear direction of what you would like from the punt. There’s nothing more awkward when you leave it to the WG to second guess what type of service you want. Just tell her, be direct and to the point. Give them something they can work with. Don’t be shy they have heard it all before. It has been a while since I met a lass with a bad attitude, but nowadays I tend to stick with established English WGs. Even so they are all being paid to pretend they like you.

It’s when you overstay beyond the paid time, or cross some boundary that you know you haven’t really clicked at all.

Yes some will appear really chatty on pre and post op messages but they just want your repeat business. I have read on here about some WG being cold, and business like. I can understand why they are on the back foot or set boundaries since I imagine there are so many timewasters, boundary pushers, and sad stalkers, out there. These idiots spoil it for the rest of us and make it harder to “click”.

[Hotpocket]

"Clicked" twice...first one still see and have been for 5+ years...second one would see in afternoon/early evening and she would cancel rest of bookings and let me stay the night at no extra cost.

[Elwaz74]

As I posted under another thread on emotional attachment to SP to on this forum recently, if I do not click with a SP then I will not see them again. I already go through a meticulous process of selecting who visits me and need to make it a satisfying experience. Some of my best punts and regulars have been through reverse booking on aw.

[Punterperson1971]

As I posted under another thread on emotional attachment to SP to on this forum recently, if I do not click with a SP then I will not see them again. I already go through a meticulous process of selecting who visits me and need to make it a satisfying experience. Some of my best punts and regulars have been through reverse booking on aw.

You know I could tell you were meticulous after reading your reviews

[alabama1]

You know I could tell you were meticulous after reading your reviews

[lillythesavage]

I always click with SP,s, Usually my knees but sometimes the left hip or my back. 

[Punterperson1971]

I always click with SP,s, Usually my knees but sometimes the left hip or my back. 

With me it’s all my joints clicking now

[Fac51]

I've always begun a booking with a friendly open attitude. I always book an SP who's at least in her 40s - not necessarily "Stated age"! - with a friendly attitude. We both know why we're there; let's see about enjoying ourselves for the next however long

. Both of whom were invited - with carefully-concocted cover stories, obvs!  - to my 70th birthday party.

Did you receive a double BJ from them both as a birthday present in the toilets fella ?!? 

[JontyR]

I think you mean "really clicking", if you aren't able to be on any kind of level then its recipe for a terrible punt.

[The Owl]

I've clicked with one where it's real, not manufactured as part of the job. How do I know? I don't pay her for sex anymore, we don't have a relationship and I don't give her cash or gifts for no reason or bullshit reasons but we do hang out as friends and socialise a lot (before COVID-19 hit). We're just friends, but really good ones. There's no romantic attraction between us and we rarely mention when I was a client and she was a prostitute. It's a fair and balanced friendship, nothing more.

Of course there's always the risk of clicking and then it turns in to this sordid fucking mess that seems to encompass more than one scandal on the forum. https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=307543.0

[Stevelondon]

Yeh I’ve probably clicked with two or three over the years.
I still remain friends with a girl I first met over ten years ago and we still see each other socially whenever she comes to London.

But as others have said. It’s all to easy to think there has been a click...... when the reality is she is just being good at her job.

[Home Alone]

Did you receive a double BJ from them both as a birthday present in the toilets fella ?!? 

You're assuming both turned up, fella!

Read the post properly before you post the - wrong - punchline.

[marcius2018]

I've always begun a booking with a friendly open attitude. I always book an SP who's at least in her 40s - not necessarily "Stated age"! - with a friendly attitude. We both know why we're there; let's see about enjoying ourselves for the next however long.

That's what I'm talking about!

[webpunter]

Quality behaviour:
- reaching 70, punting @ 70 & especially having them over to your b-day party  

I've always begun a booking with a friendly open attitude. I always book an SP who's at least in her 40s - not necessarily "Stated age"! - with a friendly attitude. We both know why we're there; let's see about enjoying ourselves for the next however long.

Having once been suckered into having EAS for a SP, I've learned my lesson and have returned to my original punting mantra, "I'm here for a shag, not a relationship!" and as a result of that the WGs I see know that I'm no threat to their private lives.

So over the years, I've become friends - nothing more; nothing less - with two or three of my Regulars over the years. I don't want to be part of their Civvy Street lives, just as I'm sure they don't want me to be either.

It hasn't stopped me being invited to the Evening Do after one of them married another of her Regular clients, nor to a packed church in the East Midlands for the funeral service of another: the much-missed Lustylush. Both of whom were invited - with carefully-concocted cover stories, obvs!  - to my 70th birthday party.