Why do we do it?

[Deviant]

Gourcuff, do not take it to heart. At times with this forum it is like the seasoned veterans who make the forum are all on the blob. They tend to over-react.

[Hawkwind71]

I was talking more on a psychological level, basically op was saying he did it for emotional attachment, i was counter arguing that at a base level there is a big element of power and control, not in a nasty way, more subconscious. Wgs should always be treated with respect and vice versa.

I tend to write my posts whilst on the bog, so done in a reflective mood lol.

No power for me, no control, total respect at all times. I have a need, they have a need, all good.

FOR CHRISTS SAKE its a fuck. End of....     

[Bud$]

Because I'm addicted to it - or not - an addiction is sometimes defined as something someone does which they don't want to do but can't stop doing. So, it's not. Someone on here, this thread, said they liked having sex with different women. Me too. I tried the affair stuff when i was married; messy. And I did the having different girlfriends thing, one after the other, sometimes 2 at the same time (not together) - messy. I don't watch the same film over and over. I don't read the same book. I really enjoy having sex with different women. if I have to pay then so be it as long as I don't go bankrupt.

[Vamp]

Love the control, the power, the unlimited supply of choice and instant gratification. When you are in there what you want and say is law.

No waiting, no baiting, no catering, just full on hardcore or softcore sex at your own choosing when you want it to be, any time of the day.

The only thing that prevents most men from doing it is pride and the stigma surrounding it along with the misconception that it is reserved for old perverts in trench coats holding porno mags.

[Happyjose]

Love the control, the power........    When you are in there what you want and say is law.

another creepy fantasist

[vw]

another creepy fantasist

Think your right there ! 

[daviemac]

another creepy fantasist

Your right there, no wonder the milf from his othe post knocked him back. 

[PLeisure]

another creepy fantasist

What is it with these insecure goons     

[dubs]

Love the control, the power, the unlimited supply of choice and instant gratification. When you are in there what you want and say is law.

Bullshit, you have no more control and power over a WG than you do a checkout assistant at Tesco's.  They are providing a service for money and both are well within their rights to refuse to serve you.

[Silver Birch]

Love the control, the power, the unlimited supply of choice and instant gratification. When you are in there what you want and say is law.

When I visit a wg, no matter what games we might play, I know it is not me who is holding the power and control.

[bronson24]

I am MGTOW so made a decision to never get married or be in a relationship again. This is due to many reasons such as everything a man has to lose when coming out of marriage. The law is in womens favour and many young guys like me do not want to take the risk. Plus there is child maintenance when everything goes tits up. I know many friends/people from work who have been royally fucked over by the system. That will not be me.

Plus women use SEX to get relationships and men use relationships to get SEX. When the woman gets her full commitment relationship it is normal for the woman to draw back on sex which is what many guys here experience. It does not make logical sense to me to commit to a woman who will not even look after me sexually 10 years into the relationship.

For me I mostly do punting because it is no strings fun and easy. Women nowadays (in the 20s-30s range) make the act of courtship extremely difficult. You have the mindgames and the playing hard to get bullshit that has gone out of control. One of the reasons why I believe that punting is becoming even more popular year by year. Many guys are leaving the courtship game. Just look at Japan where they are having a population crises. Guys over there have finally had enough of their shit. All of this is happening in UK due to Online Dating and men becoming bigger saps and white-knights in general. You have every guy looking like a copy of each other hitting the gym, getting the essex hairstyle and tattoos down their arms while women increased their standards. It won't be long until the majority of these guys have had enough and will go down the MGTOW route...

Women are spoilt for choice and actually are becoming total dickheads. The 100s of guys a day messaging them on their tinder/pof and white-knighting them to death are creating this 'super-ego' in women.

Me? Punting IS the cheapest, fastest way or having no strings fun with new people. Why would I waste £100s more dating and more TIME entertaining some broad who thinks she is the shit? My job takes up a lot of my time and I do not have time for it. Punting for me all the way. Which is why nowadays I refuse to chat up any new girls. In the modern age men choose punting. This can be seen by the dramatic increases in memberships and visitors to the site over the years.

gotta agree fully with what you have said there. im 32 year old and as sad as it is ive pretty much given up hope of being in a relationship again after the way my ex treated me.
I find that the majority of women these days are totally stuck up and too much hard work too even make an effort with now.

[Bmc88]

I do it purely for the thrill,I go through lots of phases which are adrenaline based-and punting is by far the most enjoyable thing yet.

I am married-but thankfully I have no regrets at all and never will

[BogBog1]

Because I'm addicted to it - or not - an addiction is sometimes defined as something someone does which they don't want to do but can't stop doing. So, it's not. Someone on here, this thread, said they liked having sex with different women. Me too. I tried the affair stuff when i was married; messy. And I did the having different girlfriends thing, one after the other, sometimes 2 at the same time (not together) - messy. I don't watch the same film over and over. I don't read the same book. I really enjoy having sex with different women. if I have to pay then so be it as long as I don't go bankrupt.

Agree 100% with this. Affairs are mega stressful and made me feel massively more guilty, which is why I haven't had an affair since I started punting 6 years ago. For me it's all about variety, and the thrill of seeing another naked girl, experiencing another variety of blowjob, feeling another pussy.... And, when the stars align, as they did when I saw Naughty Natt last week, to shag a 20-year old girl that could be a model, without even thinking about it.

[steven78]

in a word, variety.

[jimbm55]

Got a long appointment Saturday afternoon with a young hotty. I am going to bed early to sleep the hours away like a kid waiting for xmas. Prepping pills, clean pants, travel plans, cash. Sooooooooooooo exciting 

[Redwoodentransistor]

in a word, variety.

Completely agree......there's something different about it being with a new girl...I wouldn't even see a WG more than once unless I felt I had "more to discover" with her.

I love getting intimate with new girls....that's pretty much my driver

[Hawkwind71]

Got a long appointment Saturday afternoon with a young hotty. I am going to bed early to sleep the hours away like a kid waiting for xmas. Prepping pills, clean pants, travel plans, cash. Sooooooooooooo exciting 

I gotta say there's not another hobby out there that generates this kind of excitement. The most basic carnal instinct is more fun than bloody christmas morning opening presents.

The inner beast is stalking the corridors.......

[jimbm55]

Imagining the skin, hair, lingerie, slow build up, undressing..................fuck, I just wet my pants 

[Hawkwind71]

Imagining the skin, hair, lingerie, slow build up, undressing..................fuck, I just wet my pants 

Clean up crew in aisle five.   

[Rampant Devil]

Agree 100% with this. Affairs are mega stressful and made me feel massively more guilty, which is why I haven't had an affair since I started punting 6 years ago. For me it's all about variety, and the thrill of seeing another naked girl, experiencing another variety of blowjob, feeling another pussy.... And, when the stars align, as they did when I saw Naughty Natt last week, to shag a 20-year old girl that could be a model, without even thinking about it.

+1 :-)

[jankg]

I'm married and love my wife to bits, but she has a very very low sex drive and when we do eventually have sex it's boring and she never lets me do the things I actually want to. I tried hard to improve the situation for a long time and despite many promises the situation never improved.  I started looking at Adult Work in the search for anal if I'm honest, but that seems pretty hard to find in Plymouth with any girls that are actually decent. I've actually been quite surprised by the things that I've enjoyed most from punting. My favourite punts have involved lots of passionate kissing, a girl being really into it (at least to the point that I believe it!) and a good bit of chat with someone whose company I enjoy after.

It's actually made me realise that my sexual confidence was at a very low point and punting has helped me a lot psychologically.  I feel like it has actually helped my marriage and there's less tension between us now.  Sure she might see things differently if he knew though!  I am really enjoying seeing a variety of different women too, and the variety is definitely a big part for me.  Punting is definitely addictive, and probably for the best I don't get many opportunities else I'd be broke!  I would never consider an affair as there is just too much to go wrong.  With punting both sides know there's nowhere it can go.

[Jackofhearts]

Because;

"There's only two things a man needs; pussy, and different pussy"
David Mamet

Wish I could remember which play it's a line from, I heard it about 30 years ago and it feels more and more true with each passing year.

[Donnie69]

I just find it easy seeing regular WGs, they don't mess me about.

Mostly I love the thrill of being inside a nice attractive woman, then spunking in her mouth.  It's more exciting than almost anything else in life to me.  I enjoy being social at times, having a beer or two, going for a curry etc.  But sex with a sexy woman gives me a really massive high when it's good.

Of course a crap punt makes me feel really shit!

[Discoballs]

I love Mrs balls , but she's just not into sex like I am . lovely girl, we have fun and laughs but as far as sex goes she's strictly vanilla , wash first , lights off . no balls deep business  working girls are just easier to say to will you let me .... Etc etc. Don't get me wrong Mrs balls is a proper looker but I've got this thing where I can't just have porn star sex with her. That's why I punt.

[jay0707]

The thrill, no strings and you essentially shop for what you want. Most of the tjme you can garuntee they are experienced. I also find women early to mid 20's as my thing. So obviously, I can find what suits me.

[downwiththesickness]

Meeting civvie girls is a pain in the ass. My current situation makes it awkward to go out clubbing/on the pull. I got bored with using shite like POF to try and get a girlfriend. Then I found punting. It gives me the relief and pleasure I need, along with meeting so many different beautiful girls, similar girls might turn their nose up at me on POF, but not when I book them for a hours fun!

[threechilliman]

Because we love it. Having not punted for a few weeks, all the nerves and excitement are right there for me again this morning.

tcm

[aking23]

Kneeling  no-hands deep throat to CIM and  occasional oily tit wanks with buxom wenches. If you can find that on civvy street regularly you're a better man than I!

[Rockhead]

I can tell you EXACTLY why I do it.

My last girlfriend (probably the last one I'll ever have) wanted nothing to do with my cock. Never even touched it. I'm scrupulously clean and more than averagely endowed etc, but no. I'd go down on her for ages, licking and fingering for what seemed like a bloody eternity while she shouted the bloody house down and did, eventually, cum. After that - NOTHING. It was over. No way was she touching me. Not once in a nine-month relationship did her fingers (or anything else) ever even come into contact with my cock.

I thought "it must be me" and it utterly, utterly destroyed my confidence. Now - seeing working girls occasionally - I figure it's my turn to be indulged and pleasured. This is why I'm not particularly into RO. Been there too long, done that too long. Anything else - bring it on!

[Hawkwind71]

I can tell you EXACTLY why I do it.

My last girlfriend (probably the last one I'll ever have) wanted nothing to do with my cock. Never even touched it. I'm scrupulously clean and more than averagely endowed etc, but no. I'd go down on her for ages, licking and fingering for what seemed like a bloody eternity while she shouted the bloody house down and did, eventually, cum. After that - NOTHING. It was over. No way was she touching me. Not once in a nine-month relationship did her fingers (or anything else) ever even come into contact with my cock.

I thought "it must be me" and it utterly, utterly destroyed my confidence. Now - seeing working girls occasionally - I figure it's my turn to be indulged and pleasured. This is why I'm not particularly into RO. Been there too long, done that too long. Anything else - bring it on!

you're a hard man

I've had a couple girls in RO where they were yanking on my cock at the same time and it has helped them get so aroused they blow their brains out... lots of fun really

[Rockhead]

I've had a couple girls in RO where they were yanking on my cock at the same time

That sounds just fine!

[overdone]

Is there anyone on here (this is mainly just after reading reply on another thread) who is lucky enough that the wife does everything for you & has not stopped yet so you don't need to book escorts.

[DoberManic]

I am MGTOW so made a decision to never get married or be in a relationship again. This is due to many reasons such as everything a man has to lose when coming out of marriage. The law is in womens favour and many young guys like me do not want to take the risk. Plus there is child maintenance when everything goes tits up. I know many friends/people from work who have been royally fucked over by the system. That will not be me.

Plus women use SEX to get relationships and men use relationships to get SEX. When the woman gets her full commitment relationship it is normal for the woman to draw back on sex which is what many guys here experience. It does not make logical sense to me to commit to a woman who will not even look after me sexually 10 years into the relationship.

For me I mostly do punting because it is no strings fun and easy. Women nowadays (in the 20s-30s range) make the act of courtship extremely difficult. You have the mindgames and the playing hard to get bullshit that has gone out of control. One of the reasons why I believe that punting is becoming even more popular year by year. Many guys are leaving the courtship game. Just look at Japan where they are having a population crises. Guys over there have finally had enough of their shit. All of this is happening in UK due to Online Dating and men becoming bigger saps and white-knights in general. You have every guy looking like a copy of each other hitting the gym, getting the essex hairstyle and tattoos down their arms while women increased their standards. It won't be long until the majority of these guys have had enough and will go down the MGTOW route...

Women are spoilt for choice and actually are becoming total dickheads. The 100s of guys a day messaging them on their tinder/pof and white-knighting them to death are creating this 'super-ego' in women.

Me? Punting IS the cheapest, fastest way or having no strings fun with new people. Why would I waste £100s more dating and more TIME entertaining some broad who thinks she is the shit? My job takes up a lot of my time and I do not have time for it. Punting for me all the way. Which is why nowadays I refuse to chat up any new girls. In the modern age men choose punting. This can be seen by the dramatic increases in memberships and visitors to the site over the years.

Amen to that Ben, I couldn't have said it better myself 

[Redwoodentransistor]

Is there anyone on here (this is mainly just after reading reply on another thread) who is lucky enough that the wife does everything for you & has not stopped yet so you don't need to book escorts.

I guess I'm lucky enough to have that...so in theory I don't need to book escorts.....but I do, as I like to experience intimacy with different girls

[uutarn]

Because when i'm in the old peoples home with no family visiting me (i'm the last in my family line, no kids etc) eating through a straw, these memories will keep me going.

Fuck me thats a bit depressing...err... lets go for

YOU ONLY LIVE ONCE 

[np500]

And a long time dead, so after about 6 years of the o h no show, I made a deliberate calculated move to have sex, only realy wanted to have it once to get the shit out of my head, but you guys know what it's like. Once I'd done it I thought I'd have cleared my head and got on with life ! But no, once you've crossed that line there's no going back, young polish girl can't be unfucked and I  couldn't believe how easy it is to go shag girls younger than my daughters . Then you realise you can fuck stunners of any age , colour, size . porn stars, milfs, you can do c I m, anal, 3sums, party's, gang bangs . Holy shit , I've done things in the last 12 months I'd been wanking over for 45 fucking years and have no intention of stopping while my heart beats and I've got the money. But there is a massive downside to all this and that is I can't tell anyone about it and that kills me but still , can't have everything but it truly is the best of times, just wish I'd started years ago.

[Ben4454]

I believe feminism is like a poison that is deep routed in society. When a guy is single he is considered weird/non-commital yet when a girl is single she is considered a 'independent woman'. Women always play the victims and use political correctness wet with manipulation in order to get their own way. If she ever cheats on you she will blame you because you have not been paying enough attention to her lately is another example...

Call me a bit of a conspiracy theorist but I honestly believe the illuminati/government are behind this. If you have a over-population in the world you need to find ways in decreasing the population. Back many hundreds of years ago they wanted to increase the population and get more soldiers. So they had little girls walking around with prams and rubber babies harvesting their dreams of one day being a mother. On the other spectrum you had them thinking being a soldier was cool so they might one day grow up and fight for their country.

Right now women are being told that they're better than men through media, film, magazines and all other forms of social media. I believe they're trying to take courtship out of the bars and nightclubs and have the main base on the internet. They know on these platforms women are more selective and less baby-making will take place.

At some point it all got out of control. Women started ditching a career and education to become a baby making factory. I know way too many girls who have had at least 6-10 kids. Although no one ever tells it to their face you can see the looks on their faces as they walk through the shopping centre. Then they are grabbing benefits that lets them have movie like lifestyles while the hard workers have to do with what they can scrap together.

[np500]

Don't worry about the population going down m8, our governments all over Europe are putting that right as we speak, bring in a shit load of Muslims, good idea because of there arranged marriage system means Evan the ugly ones have an average of six kids or more if thay can, trouble is loads of men but no w g's in that lot so trouble ahead in more ways than one, sorry off topic there a tad .

[bronson24]

Don't worry about the population going down m8, our governments all over Europe are putting that right as we speak, bring in a shit load of Muslims, good idea because of there arranged marriage system means Evan the ugly ones have an average of six kids or more if thay can, trouble is loads of men but no w g's in that lot so trouble ahead in more ways than one, sorry off topic there a tad .

not off topic at all, it was totally spot on