We almost all like a good HJ at the end of a massage but how many of you feel, like I do, that the massues tends to do fast hand movement so that we guys cum quickly.
There seems to be a massive variety in the way Hjs are performed, granted, every girl has their own style, speed and tightness of grip, and I have asked a few who have performed this on me if they get turned on whilst doing it, Most reply that its just a job to earn extra money, however, some seem to start breathing heavily when they sense you are about to come, and at the same time, tighten their grip.
One Thai who I wont mention said she was new to the spa but had never done a happy ending on an un-cut cock, I told her, just treat it like a cut one that you are used to, so she spent the first 5 minutes, just slowly pulling the foreskin up and down which was actually nice, and a turn on as she had her eyes glued to my cock with an enthusiastic look, as soon as the pre cum came out she quickly moved her head out the way because she thought I was about to shoot
I know we all like a bit of a tease rather than the girl just grab and tug away at full speed, but many only do this.
When the girl says " Do you want this massaging" Its not really a massage, they just fondle your balls and cock and once you are hard they just start a fast HJ., but the worst thing is that many stop stroking after the first spurt of cum and this is so annoying
Just my little input on my various punting experiences
I think more time should be spent on the HE, maybe 10 minutes of massage to the cock and balls, and then do the HJ