Failure to perform

[Matium]

Do you feel ashamed when you fail to perform in front of a woman?

That's it's a reflection of a loss f manhood?

Failing to perform in front of a woman you have paid for, a WG, must be worse because of the feeling that inwardly she is sniggering at you and is full of contempt.

[sushi]

She'd be thinking Hey I've got some easy money without getting fucked and tell you you can come back anytime.

[Watts.E.Dunn]

Had it happen from time to time. Once went to see a girl I thought should be really good in London and she did look good too but for some reason Mr happy became Mr floppy and i felt -very- pissed off:(

However had a plan B in the back pocket phoned another London agency and went to see a young Jap girl in Chelsea Cloisters not that much to look at but had a fantastic session. Just one of those things.


Many years ago pulled a very attractive civvie girl couldn't  believe I'd managed it and took her home and that poxy dick just was not interested! soo pissed off it was untrue!.

These days usually works OK but due to age needs some solid state boosters to help make it lift off:-)

Otherwise not embarrassed as such more pissed off at the money wasted!.

Wonder what any girls might think on here?. Bet it does happen quite a bit..

[Jeremy]

For me most of the frustration comes from it feeling like a waste of money - why punt if you can't pop? Might as well not have bothered.

As for shame - if you're going to start using that logic then one could argue paying for sex rather than 'earning' it isn't manly or respectable either. I don't give a fuck in that regard

[pianodave]

Happened to me once, no idea why. Didn't get pissed off, just enjoyed some RO, DFK and a nice floppy handjob 

[Two tone]

Do you feel ashamed when you fail to perform in front of a woman?

That's it's a reflection of a loss f manhood?

Failing to perform in front of a woman you have paid for, a WG, must be worse because of the feeling that inwardly she is sniggering at you and is full of contempt.

Not ashamed, as others have said its more pissed off due to waste of money.

Most of my failure to perform has been anxiety related as I have no problem getting a stiffy when I'm at home. It's been a long time since it's happened as I now use cialis & it's working well for me.

I don't think that the WG's I've seen when I've had the problem are full of contempt, more frustrated that they haven't been able to do anything to help & also it's easy money for them.

At the end of the day we aren't robots & a lot of things can effect our performance. There are plenty of other things to do with a naked attractive women so try to make the best of it 

[smiths]

Do you feel ashamed when you fail to perform in front of a woman?

That's it's a reflection of a loss f manhood?

Failing to perform in front of a woman you have paid for, a WG, must be worse because of the feeling that inwardly she is sniggering at you and is full of contempt.

No i dont.

[Third Man]

happened to  me 3 times last year. I never have  a prob getting hard, but once the girl was like a stick insect, another like two ton tess and the other just so heavily made up and full of herself, I didnt find her at all attractive i made the excuse i was on tabs and had  probs getting an erection. basically sick at the money wasted, thats all.

[cueball]

If you get it up when on a good punt then failing to do so is usually  a sign of a shit punt to me, it's happened a couple of times, I don't over think it, either she's been rubbish or not attractive to me, I just think hey ho, that one weren't for me, next.

If you get a good service from a sexy girl it's keeping it down after that's the problem

[Wilson85]

I get this with a regular that I find attractive and sexy. I'll be going at it in mish then things start to deflate. It is very frustrating even though I don't show it at the time. I move on to other things.

I don't have a problem with other wgs, I can fire off two pops in less than an hour with an unenthusiastic wg who is IMHO less attractive. I have a theory that it might be lots of OW that desensitises my cock or a tight condom or both. Maybe it's all in my head (cranium not glans). Will try something new next time like less oral at the start.

It does bother me, but with a good reg I can get up to other sexy things and still have a good time. So all is not lost.

[Deepstroker]

I think one or two failures for whatever reason can sow the seed and then in similar situations with other girls it can auto trigger and the problem just repeats. Having said that, i think any girl skilled in the art of relaxed prostate massage could have you hard and ready to go in no time.

[JamesKW]

Do you feel ashamed when you fail to perform in front of a woman?

That's it's a reflection of a loss f manhood?

Failing to perform in front of a woman you have paid for, a WG, must be worse because of the feeling that inwardly she is sniggering at you and is full of contempt.

Not at all she is probably quite grateful especially if she has had a lot of bookings that day.Most WGs like an easy booking not someone whom is going to pound them from here to kingdom come.

[Trevor12]

I think one or two failures for whatever reason can sow the seed and then in similar situations with other girls it can auto trigger and the problem just repeats.

100% agree with this from my pre-slidenafil punting.

[walking dead]

I think I sometimes get in a vicious circle.
I used to come quicker than I wanted so focusing on not coming  generally meant I would lose my boner.  I think that just gets worse in your head.
A blue pill helps no end. No concern about losing it, and I last for ages. I just need my fitness to catch up

[Toshiba]

The  girl wint give a fuck, as long as shes paid

[robbie54321]

The  girl wint give a fuck, as long as shes paid
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In my experience most girls prefer the cock hard because it's an easier job. If you can't get it up that means  she has to earn her money. I been there before when things are a bit deflated and the girls tend to take a bit of pride in what they do and work the old fella until something happens. Much easier to suck a hard cock, condom goes on easy and within a few minutes its all done.
I reckon working a soft cock for an hour isn't easy.

[akauya]

Do you feel ashamed when you fail to perform in front of a woman?

That's it's a reflection of a loss f manhood?

Failing to perform in front of a woman you have paid for, a WG, must be worse because of the feeling that inwardly she is sniggering at you and is full of contempt.

Why would she have contempt for you if you didn't perform? She would probably consider you an ideal customer, easy money for no or little sex. She would probably want you as a regular.

[Sparquin]

It is her job to get you to cum, not least because she might value the possibility of you becoming a reg. Therefore it is not your resposibility to make sure the goods are delivered, so to speak.

Sometimes I elect not to 'perform' as there is a lot of other fun to be had along the way. Punting for me involves a number of gratifying activities, not just lightening my load.