What makes a girl choose escorting?

[big-al93]

Damn, banned while I typed that.

[LipLover]

Ovs, If a WG won the lottery do you think they would do the job.
NOPE. They could go anywhere and prob pay a male escort for sex if they won

I don't think that is necessarily true. I asked a regular a couple of weeks ago whether she would still escort if she won the lottery and she said probably as she enjoys it so much.

[Doc Holliday]

I don't think that is necessarily true. I asked a regular a couple of weeks ago whether she would still escort if she won the lottery and she said probably as she enjoys it so much.

But it's a loaded question. She could equally have said "Don't be silly, why would I do this difficult job agreeing to have sex with people like yourself, if I was to win the lottery" (jackpot) ... but that isn't what you would want to hear 

[Strawberry]

I don't think that is necessarily true. I asked a regular a couple of weeks ago whether she would still escort if she won the lottery and she said probably as she enjoys it so much.

Oh the lottery question, the answer depends.

For me depends on the amount, depends on life situation. I may not know until it happens.

[NightKid]

But it's a loaded question. She could equally have said "Don't be silly, why would I do this difficult job agreeing to have sex with people like yourself, if I was to win the lottery" (jackpot) ... but that isn't what you would want to hear 

Not really, it's easy enough to come up with a polite answer even if that answer's no and you've simply exaggerated it.

Speaking of answers, re the topic of this thread we all have different motivations and money doesn't always have to play a part in it - I'm personally happy to take less pay myself on condition that the work is absolutely right for me 

[Strawberry]

Oh the lottery question, the answer depends.

For me depends on the amount, depends on life situation. I may not know until it happens.

Having thought, probably but that depends on how much is won, how much is used to help family. Could I be comfortable enough to follow my other pursuits, interests, and another 3 years at university.

Quite a few punters, clients, regulars do ask (some regularly) will I quit, do I have plans to stop. This has been asked for many, many years, at least 10 and likely before that. It has not happened yet. They seem concerned I won't be around, I have given the conditions by which I would stop these conditions are unlikely to happen (but not totally impossible). Of course some then say "Will you make an exception for me?". The conditions I gave make a situation in which seeing any client would put the whole situation and 'quit' at risk, which is interesting.

[alabama1]

Not really, it's easy enough to come up with a polite answer even if that answer's no and you've simply exaggerated it.

Speaking of answers, re the topic of this thread we all have different motivations and money doesn't always have to play a part in it - I'm personally happy to take less pay myself on condition that the work is absolutely right for me 

Really ! So, (in your world), a WG, on getting up out of bed, on the morning after winning the Euro millions... Mmm, what shall i do today, fly off to The Bahamas, Maldives, Hawaii ? No, i think i will put my green 'available today' light on AW, and hang around all day, in the hope that fat smelly, boundary pushing Dave books me for an hour. 

[JonasG]

But it's a loaded question. She could equally have said "Don't be silly, why would I do this difficult job agreeing to have sex with people like yourself, if I was to win the lottery" (jackpot) ... but that isn't what you would want to hear 

Indeed.

It keeps the illusion going, I wouldn't take direct quotes from WGs that seriously. Always take it with a pinch of salt.

[Cceon]

Re: What makes a girl choose escorting?

Dare I say because childhood trauma = need to feel powerful and in control of one's life = need for money cause money is power ?

[KatieEdinburgh]

Re: What makes a girl choose escorting?

Dare I say because childhood trauma = need to feel powerful and in control of one's life = need for money cause money is power ?

Why would you say that? 🤨 Plus, one specific reason is never going to apply to all SPs ! Lol

Edit: I only say this because ‘all escorts have been abused as kids’ is such a tired and boring narrative I’m fed up of hearing it so often

[Bonker]

Re: What makes a girl choose escorting?

Dare I say because childhood trauma = need to feel powerful and in control of one's life = need for money cause money is power ?

I've read a lot of crap but this takes the prize.

[sensualencounter]

Re: What makes a girl choose escorting?

Dare I say because childhood trauma = need to feel powerful and in control of one's life = need for money cause money is power ?

Some escorts have had child trauma, some haven’t. Same as the rest of the female (and male population).

Similarly, some people judge money as power, some don’t.

Some people who have had trauma focus on other things as goals, such as happiness. Does money buy happiness? It can help sometimes but can also corrupt albeit the money itself is inert. It’s how you view it and how you act with it that matters.

When someone is inherently greedy (which is very similar to selfish) or has been brainwashed to think a certain way about money being a status symbol or as power then that can cause very real issues. Why should power be a desirable quality? If it means you have control of your own life and that makes you happy then that sounds good to me. But if it means you can control and manipulate then that doesn’t sound so appealing to me.

[sensualencounter]

Katie and Bonker, I completely agree with both of you. 

[Cceon]

Why would you say that? 🤨 Plus, one specific reason is never going to apply to all SPs ! Lol

Edit: I only say this because ‘all escorts have been abused as kids’ is such a tired and boring narrative I’m fed up of hearing it so often

Note It is a question I asked not a statement I made.

 I never said  ‘all escorts have been abused as kids’. nor did I say ' one specific reason is going to apply to all SPs'.

But let's be honest Childhood emotional trauma is never good and needs to be dealt with, I am supporting those who have been through this not condemning them. Also first need to define what trauma is ? It means different things to different people. 

[MissWolf]

Note It is a question I asked not a statement I made.

 I never said  ‘all escorts have been abused as kids’. nor did I say ' one specific reason is going to apply to all SPs'.

But let's be honest Childhood emotional trauma is never good and needs to be dealt with, I am supporting those who have been through this not condemning them. Also first need to define what trauma is ? It means different things to different people.

I never knew bicycles could pedal backwards 

[Cceon]

I never knew bicycles could pedal backwards 

I never knew monkeys could do handstands whilst holding their gonads   

[daviemac]

Note It is a question I asked not a statement I made.

Your first sentence repeated the question in the OP, your second was your statement of why you say it is.

[Cceon]

Your first sentence repeated the question in the OP, your second was your statement of why you say it is.

The first is the topic, it is a question. The second finishes with a question mark

Dare I say because childhood trauma = need to feel powerful and in control of one's life = need for money cause money is power ?

[daviemac]

The first is the topic, it is a question. The second finishes with a question mark

Dare I say because childhood trauma = need to feel powerful and in control of one's life = need for money cause money is power ?

Not the way it comes across. BTW no need to use bold, it doesn't make you look clever.

[Cceon]

Anyway, won't be posting anymore, off to bed, have fun all, Happy bonking 

[Cceon]

Not the way it comes across. BTW no need to use bold, it doesn't make you look clever.

We'll have to agree to disagree. goodnight

[daviemac]

We'll have to agree to disagree. goodnight

Had you started with "could it be" that makes it a question. "Dare I say it is" is a statement with the question mark at the end asking if others agree with your opinion.

[Colston36]

Note It is a question I asked not a statement I made.

 I never said  ‘all escorts have been abused as kids’. nor did I say ' one specific reason is going to apply to all SPs'.

But let's be honest Childhood emotional trauma is never good and needs to be dealt with, I am supporting those who have been through this not condemning them. Also first need to define what trauma is ? It means different things to different people.

"There are more things on heaven and earth, Horatio
Than are dreamt of in your philosophy" - Hamlet.

I had a wonderful relationship for years with a very successful woman who had been abused by her father when a child. She told me she enjoyed it. Her great pleasure was being pissed on.

[Thephoenix]

Re: What makes a girl choose escorting?

Dare I say because childhood trauma = need to feel powerful and in control of one's life = need for money cause money is power ?

I experienced childhood trauma.
None of the above apply to me.

[Doc Holliday]

I experienced childhood trauma.
None of the above apply to me.

I didn't experience childhood trauma, so perhaps that is why I am not a prostitute?

[Watts.E.Dunn]

"There are more things on heaven and earth, Horatio
Than are dreamt of in your philosophy" - Hamlet.

I had a wonderful relationship for years with a very successful woman who had been abused by her father when a child. She told me she enjoyed it. Her great pleasure was being pissed on.

I do know of a woman who was raped most every night of the week by her "Father" if you can a call hin  that! Happened  over her teen years after he did her he'd do her sister later on.

Mother knew it was going on but did nothing. This was some years ago now. It ended when the monster was killed in a car crash,  for sometime the Two girls who he swore to secrecy thought it was "normal" poor souls!

[Strawberry]

Yes some do find the abuse pleasurable also confusing and conflicting. Lubrication can also be the body's way of protecting itself, the person can still be traumatised.

Many addicts have trauma in their history and from addiction itself, but all people who experience trauma do not become addicts.