Servicing Unattractive People

[Pie Eater]

I am willing to accept I am a 5/10 in the looks department, but through this past time I have been lucky enough to meet some women who are eights and nines. I am sure I am not alone in wondering what the SP thinks when she sees me rock up. If the boot was on the other foot and women wanted to pay me for services (yeah right) with so many of the women I see about these days I couldn't do it for £1,600 never mind £160. So, does this require a particular mindset or certain attitude, and is it something women find easier than men?

[willie loman]

only a tiny percentage of men are truly unattractive, usually due to an accident, medical condition, birth defect, these clients are difficult for certain girls, but generally speaking the girls object more to poor hygiene and pain. if it was genuinely difficult girls wouldnt do it.

[daviemac]

It's basic biology, men need to be aroused women don't. Men can try sildenafil but women just need lube.

[Moby Dick]

Women don’t have to be turned on to have sex.
Lube and money works for them.

If you aren’t a pushy, smelly, rude, stalker then most would be grateful for your repeat biz regardless of your looks.

[hendrix]

Women don’t have to be turned on to have sex.
Lube and money works for them.

If you aren’t a pushy, smelly, rude, stalker then most would be grateful for your repeat biz regardless of your looks.

+1

I'm easily a 3/10 in the looks/body department, but I smell good and spend a lot of money on prossies. They seem delighted 

[sparkus]

I think it's a very 'male' thing to imagine that WGs are just sat around between clients, waiting for someone as handsome/hung as them to rock up.

I'm reliably told it's all just cock at the end of the day and it doesn't matter what's above looks-wise it if you're not in a relationship with it.

[SamOmar]

only a tiny percentage of men are truly unattractive, usually due to an accident, medical condition, birth defect, these clients are difficult for certain girls, but generally speaking the girls object more to poor hygiene and pain. if it was genuinely difficult girls wouldnt do it.

+1 , The best service providers have seen it all people with such conditions and disabilities that make me thankful for what I am and have. Since wearing a colostomy bag on my stomach I have given extra attention to being clean / groomed and smelling nice for punts and only 1 in about 100 had a problem with me. The best service providers such as Anna are so professional that despite my condition still took me into a shared shower without me even asking.

I've found that the less confident you are about yourself that will rub off onto your punt. You need to go in with a mindset that you are going to pay some money to have some serious fun and not let any insecurity get in the way of that.

[PatMacGroin]

+1 , The best service providers have seen it all people with such conditions and disabilities that make me thankful for what I am and have. Since wearing a colostomy bag on my stomach I have given extra attention to being clean / groomed and smelling nice for punts and only 1 in about 100 had a problem with me. The best service providers such as Anna are so professional that despite my condition still took me into a shared shower without me even asking.

I've found that the less confident you are about yourself that will rub off onto your punt. You need to go in with a mindset that you are going to pay some money to have some serious fun and not let any insecurity get in the way of that.

I'm coming to realise that more and more.

I've found that doing a bit of role play helps a lot. Play a character, get her to play a character. Allows both sides to get out of their own head space and just have fun with it.

[alabama1]

I'm coming to realise that more and more.

I've found that doing a bit of role play helps a lot. Play a character, get her to play a character. Allows both sides to get out of their own head space and just have fun with it.

That is interesting. Reminds me of a documentary i once watched on David Bowie in which he says because of his own insecurities he came up with the character Iggy Pop, who he could hide behind should the critics give him a hard time. That way they would be criticising the character and not him.

[Bangers and Gash]

It's basic biology, men need to be aroused women don't. Men can try sildenafil but women just need lube cash

 

[mr.bluesky]

I am willing to accept I am a 5/10 in the looks department, but through this past time I have been lucky enough to meet some women who are eights and nines. I am sure I am not alone in wondering what the SP thinks when she sees me rock up. If the boot was on the other foot and women wanted to pay me for services (yeah right) with so many of the women I see about these days I couldn't do it for £1,600 never mind £160. So, does this require a particular mindset or certain attitude, and is it something women find easier than men?

It's your wad women find attractive. 

[teddyking]

As OP said , you only need to be insanely ugly to put a WG off. Just make sure your clean and don’t look like a tramp and you will mostly get a better service than someone who is handsome but stinks of shit.

Most SPs see sex as a job. After reading the SAAFE page , most SPs prefer to meet with a guy that is below average looking because it makes the job easier for them

[GorillaWarfare]

It's why the job isn't for everyone. Girls have to know that anyone could turn up. David Beckham, The Elephant Man and everyone in between.

Hygiene is the biggest factor. Most girls would rather fuck a 5/10 who is clean and is well groomed than an 8/10 who doesn't bathe from my experience.

[alabama1]

It's why the job isn't for everyone. Girls have to know that anyone could turn up. David Beckham, The Elephant Man and everyone in between.

Hygiene is the biggest factor. Most girls would rather fuck a 5/10 who is clean and is well groomed than an 8/10 who doesn't bathe from my experience.

Very true. I have been told the same several times by wg,s . Fat, thin, old, young, the majority of them do not care. All they want is the punter to be clean, polite, and punctual. It's a job to them, they are not seeking to go on a date with you.

[Vice Admiral]

A couple of girls I got to know very well told me that age, looks, excess weight, lack of hair etc didn't bother them.  The only thing they hated was weird-shaped penises. 

[alabama1]

A couple of girls I got to know very well told me that age, looks, excess weight, lack of hair etc didn't bother them.  The only thing they hated was weird-shaped penises.

 Those girls would be ok seeing me then if i stank, was rude, late, and pushed boundaries, as long as i had a normal looking penis ? 

[JontyR]

That is interesting. Reminds me of a documentary i once watched on David Bowie in which he says because of his own insecurities he came up with the character Iggy Pop, who he could hide behind should the critics give him a hard time. That way they would be criticising the character and not him.

Ah yes, Iggy Pop and the Crabs from Uranus

[tynetunnel]

+1 , The best service providers have seen it all people with such conditions and disabilities that make me thankful for what I am and have. Since wearing a colostomy bag on my stomach I have given extra attention to being clean / groomed and smelling nice for punts and only 1 in about 100 had a problem with me. The best service providers such as Anna are so professional that despite my condition still took me into a shared shower without me even asking.

I've found that the less confident you are about yourself that will rub off onto your punt. You need to go in with a mindset that you are going to pay some money to have some serious fun and not let any insecurity get in the way of that.

I think it’s amazing Sam that (a) you feel confident enough to punt with a colostomy bag (I’m not sure I could to be honest) and (b) that for 99% of the time there was no problem for you. You have a great attitude despite your own difficulties, and I’m sure that helps you. I have a disability and it’s never been commented on, nor any indication given that it’s an issue, all the ladies I’ve met have ignored it completely. Like your I try not to let my insecurities get in my way, I’d actually say that my confidence has increased considerably since I started punting 

[Mr Doodle]

I once got chatting to an SP after a punt where this very topic came up. She said she tries to find something nice/attractive about all her clients no matter how much her personal tastes are offended. But she did say there were times where she spent the whole session watching the minutes tick by.. slowly.. And yes, personal hygiene and manners were very important.

[alabama1]

I think it’s amazing Sam that (a) you feel confident enough to punt with a colostomy bag (I’m not sure I could to be honest) and (b) that for 99% of the time there was no problem for you. You have a great attitude despite your own difficulties, and I’m sure that helps you. I have a disability and it’s never been commented on, nor any indication given that it’s an issue, all the ladies I’ve met have ignored it completely. Like your I try not to let my insecurities get in my way, I’d actually say that my confidence has increased considerably since I started punting 

[/b]

Good for you mate. I think my health has improved too. I try not to "let myself go" too much in order to appear half decent to the unfortunate lass. 

[magnetico]

I am willing to accept I am a 5/10 in the looks department

5/10 = average man

So you're probably quite good looking compared to the average of UK punters.

[mr.bluesky]

A couple of girls I got to know very well told me that age, looks, excess weight, lack of hair etc didn't bother them.  The only thing they hated was weird-shaped penises.

Like male porn stars. Why do their penises always seem to bend upward 

[mr.bluesky]

5/10 = average man

So you're probably quite good looking compared to the average of UK punters.

A face like a bulldog chewing a wasp only a mother could love 

[sparkus]

A WG told me that she'd seen a morbidly obese client that week and she was surprised that he was able to get it up at all* and penetrate her and he also managed to not "crush" her.  I asked if such clients bothered her and she said not at all as regardless of the client you just zone out and concentrate on providing the best possible service, not least because of AW feedback.

* I've heard from several WGs that a fair few men rock up but can't perform

[Kelgon85]

As others have said, I believe your personality and general attitude is more important to the WG than whether or not you look like Brad Pitt.

He could look like an Adonis, but if he's a vile, rude, nasty piece of shit I very much doubt the WG is going to want to see him again.

[SamOmar]

I think it’s amazing Sam that (a) you feel confident enough to punt with a colostomy bag (I’m not sure I could to be honest) and (b) that for 99% of the time there was no problem for you. You have a great attitude despite your own difficulties, and I’m sure that helps you. I have a disability and it’s never been commented on, nor any indication given that it’s an issue, all the ladies I’ve met have ignored it completely. Like your I try not to let my insecurities get in my way, I’d actually say that my confidence has increased considerably since I started punting 

Thanks mate for the wonderful comments, for the first few months after my operation I was reluctant to punt but eventually I got myself together and remembered that this hobby is awesome most of the time and went back at it.

[Hotdogboy88]

That is interesting. Reminds me of a documentary i once watched on David Bowie in which he says because of his own insecurities he came up with the character Iggy Pop, who he could hide behind should the critics give him a hard time. That way they would be criticising the character and not him.

Do you mean ziggy stardust? 

[Fac51]

I think it’s amazing Sam that (a) you feel confident enough to punt with a colostomy bag (I’m not sure I could to be honest) and (b) that for 99% of the time there was no problem for you. You have a great attitude despite your own difficulties, and I’m sure that helps you. I have a disability and it’s never been commented on, nor any indication given that it’s an issue, all the ladies I’ve met have ignored it completely. Like your I try not to let my insecurities get in my way, I’d actually say that my confidence has increased considerably since I started punting 

All this     

Good on yer Sam - keep up the good punting fella 

[Stevelondon]

I suppose I looked about average in my youth and have gradually deteriorated as time passes by 

But I’ve always been confident in myself.
Sure there are much better looking blokes around (My two kids got all the pussy they wanted before they settled down)    I always had to rely on a sense of humour and charm to be honest.
Did a bit of amateur boxing and stuff so my face is a bit weathered (I’m being kind to myself........ I’ve got a face like a cobblers thumb) 

More than one SP has asked me why don’t I get my nose fixed but hey........ who gives a fuck anymore..... it’s me.

Confidence is the key if you have a concern about your looks/body.
I bet SP’s prefer ugly blokes who are clean and huge box to some handsome types with BO

[Home Alone]

I am willing to accept I am a 5/10 in the looks department, but through this past time I have been lucky enough to meet some women who are eights and nines. I am sure I am not alone in wondering what the SP thinks when she sees me rock up. If the boot was on the other foot and women wanted to pay me for services (yeah right) with so many of the women I see about these days I couldn't do it for £1,600 never mind £160. So, does this require a particular mindset or certain attitude, and is it something women find easier than men?

And wi' a Wigan accent, too; Pie Eater? You have had the odds stacked against you, haven't you?!

And kudos from me too, Sam; if I'd had to have a colostomy, I think it would have ended my punting days.

As it is, I was born with spina bifida which left an ugly scar on my back. Then, since a schoolyard accident when I was aged 12, I've not been able to bend my left leg, limiting the positions I can 'do the deed' in. And ten years after that, I had to have the four smaller toes amputated from my left foot. So all in all I, too, am a fairly unprepossessing chap.

I used to make a point of describing all these negatives to any lass I was booking. And, you know what - it hasn't mattered a toss to any of 'em. So now I don't bother with any of that; I turn up clean, polite and with the correct amount of money. And that's all that matters.

[JJwyatts]

What SP said to me (i hadn't asked btw) she prefers people who aren't conventionally attractive as she finds they tend to treat her better. Ones who she has found to be very attractive treated her with a lack of respect, almost as if she should be grateful! Although she did then go onto say when she gets the combo of very attractive, well mannered and clean she was very excited at the fact she was getting paid to sleep with people she'd love to pull on a night out for free aha.

This actually reminds me of a quick story. I remember turning up to see a new SP i hadn't seen before. Opened the door, all was good etc very friendly. Then her face slowly changed. I asked is everything alright?! she said "you look very similar to my ex". I wasn't really sure how to respond so there was a little pause then she followed it up by saying "As long as you fuck better than him were going to have a great time" ahha. Talk about putting the pressure on me! anyway we did have a great time. She was full of good banter too. At end of round 2 said "easily better", i can't remember what i responded with, but she followed it up in a joking manner with "mind you he was really shit, so not hard to be better" followed by a some laughter from both. Love a bit of good banter. Will actually put up a full comprehensive review when i get the chance!

[JamesKW]

with so many of the women I see about these days I couldn't do it for £1,600 never mind £160. So, does this require a particular mindset or certain attitude, and is it something women find easier than men?

At swingers parties I have seen men have a go at some truely undesireable women,even young chaps,and for free,I am not that choosy myself.One will be forever engraved on my mind,a obese woman that took up the whole bed and just layed there like a corpse and still there was one young chap trying to build himself up to have a crack.
Most girls on the party scene like someone easy after about half way through, especially if they have been heavily pounded by young bucks for the first part of the party.

[patdavies]

Had one brazilian sp who I saw a couple of times told that she only slept with attractive men and didnt answer the door to unattractive men and she said she still made a fair whack.

[lillythesavage]

A WG told me that she'd seen a morbidly obese client that week and she was surprised that he was able to get it up at all* and penetrate her and he also managed to not "crush" her.  I asked if such clients bothered her and she said not at all as regardless of the client you just zone out and concentrate on providing the best possible service, not least because of AW feedback.

* I've heard from several WGs that a fair few men rock up but can't perform

Maybe they will start performing again now feedback is available again , been some dire reviews since it was not there.

[scutty brown]

That is interesting. Reminds me of a documentary i once watched on David Bowie in which he says because of his own insecurities he came up with the character Iggy Pop, who he could hide behind should the critics give him a hard time. That way they would be criticising the character and not him.

I think James Newell Osterberg Jr. would be very surprised to be told he was a facet of Bowie's imagination

[lamboman]

I can't see what different sexes arousal has to do with this,it's a mindset which women are more able to deal with.

[sparkus]

I think James Newell Osterberg Jr. would be very surprised to be told he was a facet of Bowie's imagination

Ziggy and The Stooges was a great LP

[willie loman]

I can't see what different sexes arousal has to do with this,it's a mindset which women are more able to deal with.

with all respect thats a very daft post, men cannot perform without being aroused woman can, how many men could service half a dozen woman a day?

[lamboman]

with all respect thats a very daft post, men cannot perform without being aroused woman can, how many men could service half a dozen woman a day?

You need to read the original post properly.

[willie loman]

You need to read the original post properly.

well i was the first to have replied to the original post, and the consensus is that men have to fuck, and woman are fucked, what am i missing?

[alabama1]

I think James Newell Osterberg Jr. would be very surprised to be told he was a facet of Bowie's imagination

Apologies, what a fucking plonker I am. Meant to say Ziggy Stardust not Iggy Pop. 

[Rochelle]

5/10 = average man

So you're probably quite good looking compared to the average of UK punters.

Ah, the old stereotype that most punters are ugly.

[willie loman]

Ah, the old stereotype that most punters are ugly.

an awful lot of punters have actually never seen another punter, they are like most men pretty banal, sort of vince cable look to them.

[sparkus]

Ah, the old stereotype that most punters are ugly.

In my experience most punters are quite young Asian lads.

The past two I've bumped into in East London at least.

[alabama1]

In my experience most punters are quite young Asian lads.

The past two I've bumped into in East London at least.

 You can hardly class two as "most". 

[Moby Dick]

I can't see what different sexes arousal has to do with this,it's a mindset which women are more able to deal with.

I would say the physical difference make it “more able” for women to have sex with whoever whenever. Mindest can not compensate for reliability and performance issues with the male hydraulic equipment. Even blue pills have limitations, first you need to be aroused.
Women can get a wide on with a bit of lube and a finger or two. Nothing to do with mindset.

Having said that I’ve never gone to bed with an ugly woman but woken up with more than I care to remember

[SamOmar]

Had one brazilian sp who I saw a couple of times told that she only slept with attractive men and didnt answer the door to unattractive men and she said she still made a fair whack.

Maybe what she considers attractive is a broad spectrum. I can't see SPs making good money if they discriminate against a majority

[SamOmar]

In my experience most punters are quite young Asian lads.

The past two I've bumped into in East London at least.

Haha, Maybe because east London does have a large Asian community but punters come in all age groups, ethnicities, wealth the only category you can put them in is that their punters.

[teddyking]

In my experience most punters are quite young Asian lads.

The past two I've bumped into in East London at least.

I guess if you are in east London that would be the case but from my experience , most punters I’ve bumped into were white men in their 30s and 40s

[SamOmar]

I guess if you are in east London that would be the case but from my experience , most punters I’ve bumped into were white men in their 30s and 40s

Did you bump into them on the way in or the way out