I've been known to shag just for something to do instead of because I've got the horn, but then again, I am a man, so I have the horn most of the time anyway.
I want more quality shagging instead of quantity.
I am with you on this part. Last year I too often ended up with a mediocre punt because I went with whatever the available options were when horny (which is most of the time). Will be aiming for more planning, more discipline, more patience for a quality punt rather than a 'now' punt.
And I'm going to focus more on giving myself pleasure than getting distracted and confused about trying to give the SP pleasure. Let's face it, it's paid sex and I'm not good at it, so I'm never going to be able to give an SP a real orgasm. Next year I'm not even going to try giving an SP an orgasm and I might just skip RO completely. I'm focusing solely on enjoying myself. If by chance I give the SP a real orgasm, then it's a bonus but I'm not going to set myself up to constantly fail and disappoint the SP by repeatedly trying to make an SP come. I just don't have the required level of skill to achieve it and I'm better off spending the cash enjoying myself rather than trying to make an SP orgasm.
I am way ahead of you on this part, LOL. That has been my philosophy from my first punt. I definitely aim to make it a generally enjoyable meeting for the SP but worrying about them cumming seems like a total fools errand to me, based on my experience of women's sexuality (from civvies).
And I'm going to try to shag more long haired brunettes, which is what is my normal type.
Are you sure we're not long lost twins or something