I've never been on the site, but the problem seems to be this.
Seeking arrangement is based on a tacit, unspoken agreement. That if you give them money, they'll give you sex (and attention etc). Pay per meet does happen, but it's technically not allowed
As it's not money per hour or in an envelope on arrival, this means you can con the system.
If you're a girl and you're cunning enough, you can basically keep meeting up, dragging the dates to expensive shops, asking for money for rent and hinting that you'll "put out" eventually, and in the end make £££ for little or no sex.
if you're a guy, and again, good enough at manipulating people, you may get a free shag under the promise of potentially helping out with the rent later on. There's a guy on here who basically does this and boasts about how he never pays on Seeking Arrangement and has sex all the time. There was also a documentary on the telly recently about a guy who perfected an even worse type of scam and used it on dozens of women
External Link/Members OnlyAside from not having the time for this crap, I do wonder if regular punting is a more honest game. Even with the Bate and Switches and no shows, it's essentially "here is a list of my services, here are my rates, please shower and wear a condom, thank you"
