Sugar Daddy

[Zola017]

Just browsing on AW and noticed that various vendors advertise that that are looking for Sugar Daddies, Cash Cows, Pay Pigs etc.

Does anyone actually do this?

[bristolqwerty]

Yes buddy I have.  I’ve quit escorts.  As I work in London mostly now I’ve found myself a beautiful South Korean student 25yrs.  It’s £300 per meet but that’s either an evening out, cinema, hotel overnight (done 3) or at least 7 hrs.
Much more satisfying sex.  Build up too.  Met six times, once a month. 
Had no luck last year on Seeking arrangement but have met 2 nice Asian girls (another a student nurse) this time around.
Not sure I’m going back to regular escorts. 

[tantric talents]

How did you find her?

[bristolqwerty]

On seeking arrangement.
Got very lucky mate after achieving nothing on there last year. 

[JimmySW]

On seeking arrangement.
Got very lucky mate after achieving nothing on there last year.

Thought you had gone a bit quiet! Good luck with that one!

[bristolqwerty]

Thought you had gone a bit quiet! Good luck with that one!

Yeah hence the lack of reviews 
Received an extended ball licking session from her last night. 

[AVFC1982]

Do you have any contact in between meets? Or is it just a transaction?

[bristolqwerty]

Do you have any contact in between meets? Or is it just a transaction?

No, quite a lot of messaging regardless.
I got very lucky with this one as she’s very committed.  Some of the chancers I hear about that want to grab your money fuck you and fuck off aren’t really for me.  Plus she’s a good looking Asian lady.

[funtimes88]

Jammy so and so

[AVFC1982]

No, quite a lot of messaging regardless.
I got very lucky with this one as she’s very committed.  Some of the chancers I hear about that want to grab your money fuck you and fuck off aren’t really for me.  Plus she’s a good looking Asian lady.

Sounds like a good deal. Finding the right person key for me

[Zola017]

Does she see other people inbetween your meets?

I've never quiet understood the whole set up of how it works or is meant to work tbh.

Have seen random requests from girls for just a deposit to their account with no services offered.

[bristolqwerty]

Does she see other people inbetween your meets?

I've never quiet understood the whole set up of how it works or is meant to work tbh.

Have seen random requests from girls for just a deposit to their account with no services offered.

I’ve honesty no idea mate.  I get the distinct impression she’s not but who really knows?

I didn’t really get it either but have had 5/6 different Asians offering to meet with sex straight away.  Only one wanted to meet for about 6 meets for no money then she would discuss intimate meets.

I’ve had offers for quick shags.  Actually met an Asian nurse twice in hotels.  Mostly looking for a few hours for £100 to £150, mostly Thais to be honest.
My SK girl is however looking for a more longer “relationship” right through to July 2020, maybe longer.
There’s quite a bit of success on the SA thread board.  It seems though it’s mostly shag n’ go which I wasn’t really after.  This arrangement suits me better.

[jeanphillipe]

Yes buddy I have.  I’ve quit escorts.  As I work in London mostly now I’ve found myself a beautiful South Korean student 25yrs.  It’s £300 per meet but that’s either an evening out, cinema, hotel overnight (done 3) or at least 7 hrs.
Much more satisfying sex.  Build up too.  Met six times, once a month. 
Had no luck last year on Seeking arrangement but have met 2 nice Asian girls (another a student nurse) this time around.
Not sure I’m going back to regular escorts. 

I actually had a similiar arrangement a while back which ended when she went abroad. I think price/time helps when they are attracted to you. You don't need to be head pitt, but if your in shape and easier on the eyes, it does make it easier for them.

It's pretty much a case by  case basis tho , right place right time , how desperate they are , there's a fair few factors I would say.

[anonymouse72]

Does a guys SA profile require a photo? I'm guessing it probably does which puts me off and makes it a no no. Love to know if this isn't the case and a photo isn't required.

[JamesFD]

Does a guys SA profile require a photo? I'm guessing it probably does which puts me off and makes it a no no. Love to know if this isn't the case and a photo isn't required.

Well, you wouldn't message a girl that didn't have a photo would you? Someone I know did a Tineye/Google search of a photo of him & it came back with loads of pictures of blokes that looked very similar to him so he used the one that was closest.

[Priapus4u]

On seeking arrangement.
Got very lucky mate after achieving nothing on there last year.

I'm quite interested in this, where is the listing for this on AW-I can't find it. Is it listed elsewhere perhaps?.

[anonymouse72]

It has a separate website. Just Google it.

[SWfunGuy]

Don't get too excited - membership fees are extortionate, and it's slim pickings in Devon & Cornwall

[Priapus4u]

Don't get too excited - membership fees are extortionate, and it's slim pickings in Devon & Cornwall

Yea, I found-a fare few decent ones for Cornwall/Devon, I could be tempted. How much are the fees!??.

[jamescornwall]

like $60 for 3 months i think. so you can read their message and reply

[dunbusy]

I think it’s £70 a month, less if you buy multiple months in advance

[tynetunnel]

Correct, the one month (with auto renew although simple to cancel this) membership fee is £70

[bristolqwerty]

Correct, the one month (with auto renew although simple to cancel this) membership fee is £70

I got on, grabbed about 8 Asian students WA details, then fucked off. 
Oh, was banned for god knows what at some stage too. 

[funtimes88]

What sort of money do you pay the ladies?
Or is this something disscussed on a case by case basis?
Cheers

[colincollins]

It's completely case by case and is also location defined aswell. It's a bit of an art and tbh most of the girls in London now are requesting significantly higher allowance than they used to. The potential for good value is always there though.

[luv2kiss54]

I think it’s £70 a month, less if you buy multiple months in advance

Sorry to be an amateur but can you advise how to pay without revealing your identity as using a Debit/Credit Card can obviously be traced back.? Thanks.

[h34]

You could previously pay by paypal which made things easier as you could create a 2nd 'fake' paypal account and use that.

But they no longer accept paypal, which leaves 3 options as I see it.

1) Use the iphone app and buy an in-app purchase for 1 month.  For added complexity, don't have your credit card linked to Apple, but instead link Paypal to Apple.

2) Use a virtual credit card.  I've recently signed up to revolut, which seems to be the only UK service offering this.

3) Use a prepaid credit card from a supermarket.

Option 1 is more expensive - £89 instead of £70.  And they can still trace you in theory, but I figure someone has to get though the security of SA, Apple AND Paypal in order to do this - so many hoops to jump through.

I haven't tried option 2 yet, but thinking of doing soon.

Has anyone tried option 3 and can confirm if real address details need to be given?

[luv2kiss54]

You could previously pay by paypal which made things easier as you could create a 2nd 'fake' paypal account and use that.

But they no longer accept paypal, which leaves 3 options as I see it.

1) Use the iphone app and buy an in-app purchase for 1 month.  For added complexity, don't have your credit card linked to Apple, but instead link Paypal to Apple.

2) Use a virtual credit card.  I've recently signed up to revolut, which seems to be the only UK service offering this.

3) Use a prepaid credit card from a supermarket.

Option 1 is more expensive - £89 instead of £70.  And they can still trace you in theory, but I figure someone has to get though the security of SA, Apple AND Paypal in order to do this - so many hoops to jump through.

I haven't tried option 2 yet, but thinking of doing soon.

Has anyone tried option 3 and can confirm if real address details need to be given?

Thanks very much for your reply. I did think about the prepaid CC but they still seem to want your real address to verify which defeats the object of the exercise.

[paul_tall_]

The iPhone App has been withdrawn seemingly due to no longer conforming to Apples dating app policy

You could previously pay by paypal which made things easier as you could create a 2nd 'fake' paypal account and use that.

But they no longer accept paypal, which leaves 3 options as I see it.

1) Use the iphone app and buy an in-app purchase for 1 month.  For added complexity, don't have your credit card linked to Apple, but instead link Paypal to Apple.

2) Use a virtual credit card.  I've recently signed up to revolut, which seems to be the only UK service offering this.

3) Use a prepaid credit card from a supermarket.

Option 1 is more expensive - £89 instead of £70.  And they can still trace you in theory, but I figure someone has to get though the security of SA, Apple AND Paypal in order to do this - so many hoops to jump through.

I haven't tried option 2 yet, but thinking of doing soon.

Has anyone tried option 3 and can confirm if real address details need to be given?

[h34]

Indeed.  No longer seems to be on the app store.

More bad news - I tried the Revolut virtual card thing - got a message back to say that retailer wasn't supported.

So that leaves the option of (1) a real credit card or (2) a supermarket/prepaid card.

They say they are not an escort site, so it's (in theory) no different to signing up to POF or Tinder, so nothing illegal going on.

So up to the reader whether they want to go down the real credit card route....

[dg01]

Method of paying has always held me back. It’s seems inevitable there will be a hack at some point.

So if anybody has had success with a prepaid card that would be great to know.

[Zola017]

The payment to site option does appear frustrating.

Another item which holds me back, as mentioned earlier, is the occasions when the service provider requests a deposit to their account prior to meeting !

There's no opportunity to walk once this happens if you don't like them.

[bristolqwerty]

The payment to site option does appear frustrating.

Another item which holds me back, as mentioned earlier, is the occasions when the service provider requests a deposit to their account prior to meeting !

There's no opportunity to walk once this happens if you don't like them.

I’ve always insisted on payment in cash afterwards.  Always done it this way.   Never been an issue.

[h34]

In true TOFTT fashion, I can confirm a prepaid Mastercard works.

Bought a £100 "One Vanilla PrePaid Mastercard" from WHSmith using cash.  It actually costs £104.95.

Tried it on SA and works like a charm.

Trouble is you're then left with £30.05 on the card.  I guess I'll buy myself an Amazon voucher.

A slight pain, but at least it works.

[tigger245]

On seeking arrangement.
Got very lucky mate after achieving nothing on there last year.

To share my experience of SA - Spent around a year on there and had around 15 dates ( all staying overnight and ranging from 18-38) so works well. However and this for me was the biggest downside the woman expect a long term "date" I was just in it for the sex and move on, was a nightmare of constant texts/phonecalls from previous dates. Lost track of the amount of new numbers I had to get.
So if you want a long term great if not then just be prepared for the aftermath.

[jingjing]

All sounds very positive BUT
Logging onto SA site seems to mean I HAVE to join BEFORE  I even know what its all about!!
???

[ExiledRed]

No. Joining is free and you can browse all the women. But to send them a message (other than allowing access to private pics) you have to become a "premium" member and pay the required amount to do so.

[lonn]

No. Joining is free and you can browse all the women. But to send them a message (other than allowing access to private pics) you have to become a "premium" member and pay the required amount to do so.

Bit like the Masons then. 

[lovemeyellow]

Hi, could someone post a link as how to access this ‘seeking arrangement’ as there are many coming up online ?

[jingjing]

Hi, could someone post a link as how to access this ‘seeking arrangement’ as there are many coming up online ?

Try this:
External Link/Members Only

I tried a few different sites last year - and used a prepaid card... Got a few possibles but did not pursue any as none close enough. Maybe you'll get lucky!

BUT>>>>    make sure you use a "Spare" email address - I got so much spam I had to close the email address !!

[lovemeyellow]

Try this:
External Link/Members Only

I tried a few different sites last year - and used a prepaid card... Got a few possibles but did not pursue any as none close enough. Maybe you'll get lucky!

BUT>>>>    make sure you use a "Spare" email address - I got so much spam I had to close the email address !!

Thanks for the info and tips!! Really appreciate it

[hamchang]

^

It's Seeking.com now

that website looks like a scam website!

[mikeb]

Yep no SSL on External Link/Members Only so dont go close to it if I were you!

External Link/Members Only looks fine with a DigiCert SSL certificate....