My initial experience of Seeking.com v escorts

[Niggledebits]

Right, now I have found the wonderful world of escorts a right mixture of fantastic to unbelievably shite.

Thought I would give seeking.com a try. Could not believe the quality of girls on there, at first I was overwhelmed. Choose not to post my photo on there but did receive plenty of interest form here and around the world.

My preference was a pay per meet rather than monthly allowance. Time being my greatest enemy. After email interchange with a few it became evident that they all wanted a substantial allowance (circa £1000 per month upwards).

The final straw was when a reasonably good looking girl wanted platonic meets initially for example meals out, cinema etc in exchange for £1000 to £2000 a month allowance. Sod that.

So punting for me from now on. No drama, no pissing about, on the whole the escorts are as good looking but it is at arms length with no commitment whatsoever.

So unless you are rich or guilable, stick with escorts especially with those well reviewed.  By the way a call out for punters who make the effort to put postings up.  It helps me sort the wheat from the chaff.

Admin - hope this posting is ok.

N

[king tarzan]

I find hotties from agencies, the superior physical quality is very well evident, would i want them on an allowance per month?
Hell no..
Just pay and fuck and move on to the next one..
Just PAY AS YOU GO

very simple/tension free...

Fly in like a bird pick and eat the seeds and fly off till next time.

[cunningman]

My preference was a pay per meet rather than monthly allowance. Time being my greatest enemy. After email interchange with a few it became evident that they all wanted a substantial allowance (circa £1000 per month upwards).

The final straw was when a reasonably good looking girl wanted platonic meets initially for example meals out, cinema etc in exchange for £1000 to £2000 a month allowance. Sod that.

With you on that, but I'm flirting on whatsyourprice.  Had a date with a woman who's lovely and it resulted in a PPM that was more than I would normally pay but I was there a lot longer.  Older, curvier lady than many would go for, but great company: instant EAS concern really because she can flirt for England on WhatsApp and is just nice to be with.  But its hard work and it does seem that some believe the BS that its just dating.  OTOH there are plenty that don't and it seems that if you stick to banging in cheeky offers the cost in credits isn't disastrous and you can have a bit of banter and try to work out if they are casual prossies or not.

I do find that its actually a lot easier to have a great time with a woman when the will-she-won't-she is taken away and you aren't playing a game trying to get her there - you just talk about stuff with less pressure and less ulterior motive and you can both be more open.  Its a bit like the dinner-and-we-see: I'd rather have a venal sex-for-fun fuck and suck and then have the dinner and drinks and decide whether we want to repeat sometime.  You can imagine my success rate on proposing that though.  Some things are better with a clear head and empty stomach.

[shagbambi]

Seeking has worked very well for me but has been hard work as I pay sane rates. Lots of part timers, you will get lucky but it takes time, especially in London. 

[puntingpumping1920]

Its more expensive in comparison to prostitutes in London

USA, its cheaper to visit sugar-babies than a independent escort in NYC/ LA

Plus in this country many of them don't have a pro attitude like prostitutes, so its like bareback heaven for some punters

[king tarzan]

Its more expensive in comparison to prostitutes in London

USA, its cheaper to visit sugar-babies than a independent escort in NYC/ LA

Plus in this country many of them don't have a pro attitude like prostitutes, so its like bareback heaven for some punters

Who knows how many more they have on the go at the same time?

[monstar]

It's time consuming and hard work but the rewards can be much better than an escort punt - some will consider it worthwhile and others won't or don't have the time required.

Payment is often per meet and can range vastly, from free to a small gift to hundreds to thousands but the upper end are reported as deluded and passed over (including the girls who want only or payment for platonic dates) for more reasonable girls who know the score.

[king tarzan]

It's time consuming and hard work but the rewards can be much better than an escort punt - some will consider it worthwhile and others won't or don't have the time required.

Payment is often per meet and can range vastly, from free to a small gift to hundreds to thousands but the upper end are reported as deluded and passed over (including the girls who want only or payment for platonic dates) for more reasonable girls who know the score.

The big tree of prostitution and it's different branches..

Let's not delude ourselves like them.

[puntingpumping1920]

The big tree of prostitution and it's different branches..

Let's not delude ourselves like them.

That's true, but for Black British girls there is just more options in SA

If you're just strictly into Black British girls then SA is the better option.

[king tarzan]

That's true, but for Black British girls there is just more options in SA

If you're just strictly into Black British girls then SA is the better option.

Over the years  via escorts I have been very fortunate in timings and  seen the most beautiful lovely black ladies..
Been very sparingly but managed to happen..

[BigBoi1955]

If you want someone to open their legs and let you fuck them and you can leave after doing the deed and paying the money then go to a pressure.
If you are looking for hot passionate sex that can last for hours sign up for SA.
I don't find a great difference between them financialy but SA certainly takes up more time before and after the meet.

[jlike]

If you want someone to open their legs and let you fuck them and you can leave after doing the deed and paying the money then go to a pressure.
If you are looking for hot passionate sex that can last for hours sign up for SA.
I don't find a great difference between them financialy but SA certainly takes up more time before and after the meet.

I tend to agree with this. I sign up to SA for a month a couple of times a year when OH goes abroad on holiday. I am supprised with the women who can approach you on SA, I am generally looking in the 35 to 45 age bracket. I had two good hits last month with another that I have not got around to meeting waiting in the wings. These women tend to have part time jobs, often low paid, and just want some fun and a little extra cash in their lives.
I always go for PPM, normally offer £100 for a few hours or £200 for overnight, just meeting for a coffee I will not pay anything apart from buying the coffee. A few hours means, to me, coffee and/or lunch and fun time, I don't expect 3 - 4 hours of constant shagging. Same with overnight, meal, drinks, fun time, sleep, wake in the morning for a bit more fun and then goodbye. I find also that a bit of affection and a few compliments always go a long way as well. Yes, you could call these women closet prossies but I find they have a different attitude to the escorts I see.
Yes, there are overpriced prima donna's on SA, normally the younger ones, I had one tell me a few years ago that I would not get anyone to sleep with me for £100, well you are wrong darling, but with a bit of time and patience there are rich pickings on SA.
Be warned though, there are also out and out scammers on there as well, but that is another story.

[stampjones]

That's true, but for Black British girls there is just more options in SA

If you're just strictly into Black British girls then SA is the better option.

Thats my experience too - and they dont tend to be as deluded about what they can expect in return. Craigslist is also good for this in my experience

[allroadboy]

The big difference is that when a girl on seeking agrees to sleep with you, they are normally soaking wet with desire, as opposed to a prossie lobbing a bit of lube up there. If you like longer dates seeking is best, I have two regulars and pay them £300 for a meeting which is either noon till 18.00 or overnight, you don't get those rates with a pro. One is 26 the other 36, OWO, CIM, A levels, passionate DFK and both squirt like crazy. But yes it takes time !!!

[Carl Adams]

Tough shout - SA is hard work at times but sensational when you get one that works - I think it helps if you are single as a lot of the SBs want time in person or via WA even if not meeting.  ANd the ones who dont are probably AW refugees? :-)

But all the negatives still apply above - it can take ages, some SBs are worse than prostitutes and or are scammers, some will be shagging more guys than you could believe and some are fairly light on STI precautions.

Id see an escort more regularly for the ability to fuck and go without any comeback

As the old saying goes - you pays your money and take your choice. 

[Niggledebits]

Thanks for the responses thus far.

I agree that it is best if you are single, looking at the interest I have had it would be a viable alternative to escorts

[theoldmaggot]

Thanks for the responses thus far.

I agree that it is best if you are single, looking at the interest I have had it would be a viable alternative to escorts

Good thread Niggledebits 

I'm still curious into how people who have OH's are managing to use SA? Sounds like a lot of work and need to have a SA persona surely?

It is something that I would like to try for next year.


TOM

[puntingpumping1920]

Good thread Niggledebits 

I'm still curious into how people who have OH's are managing to use SA? Sounds like a lot of work and need to have a SA persona surely?

It is something that I would like to try for next year.


TOM

It really depends on your relationship

It's more risky than visiting an escort.

They are strategies to manage and mitigate the risk but will never eliminate it.

So it comes down to your willingness to take on that risk

[HoraceWimp$9]

Some of the risk in using SA while you are in an existing relationship can be managed - usual separate phone/virtual sim and only going on-line on mobile - but it is a challenge - often people will want to use WhatApp etc for chat as the messaging system on SA is poor (and expensive unless you publish your photo in your profile).

Other risk is actually meeting the girl.
WGs operate a lot more discreetly that meeting someone on SA for a meal/coffee/night in a hotel.

Maybe better suited to larger cities (or just London)

One bonus is the possible international reach - so if you are planning an Asian holiday .....

[sublimetoridiculous]

Other risk is actually meeting the girl.
WGs operate a lot more discreetly that meeting someone on SA for a meal/coffee/night in a hotel.

It doesn't have to be a hotel. There are women on SA that can accommodate for meetings, though fewer in number, and tend to be the single mum/MILF types.

[stampjones]

It really depends on your relationship

It's more risky than visiting an escort.

They are strategies to manage and mitigate the risk but will never eliminate it.

So it comes down to your willingness to take on that risk

I dont think its neccessarily more risky unless you are referring to meets in public but I mostly avoid those though being in london makes it easier. Its mostly time involved I guess and how to do that while around the house. I usually solve that by doing most comms at work or at night after the missus has gone to bed. I never do calls or anything like that.

[shyboy1]

I have dabbled with SA a few times in the past but not anymore. I just find it too much like hard work and far too time consuming.
Don’t fool yourselves, it’s still just prostitution.
Give me the simple and honest WG and Punter arrangement every time.
Pick a good quality experienced girl/woman pay your money have your fun and both leave happy.
Simples 
SB

[stampjones]

I have dabbled with SA a few times in the past but not anymore. I just find it too much like hard work and far too time consuming.
Don’t fool yourselves, it’s still just prostitution.
Give me the simple and honest WG and Punter arrangement every time.
Pick a good quality experienced girl/woman pay your money have your fun and both leave happy.
Simples 
SB

Dont think there’s anyone in here who doesnt think its prostitution - but a lot of the girls dont and if you dismiss that fact you’re likely to have a lot less success.

To address your more general point, I’d say personally its no bettet or worse than AW - its just different. Its just another option in the way TCMs, agencies, indy ads, streetwalkers etc are all different ways of punting. They all have different pros and cons and everyone will have there preferred ways of doing it. Not much more to it than that

[Justanotheruser]

I gave up on sa ages ago now. Met a girlfriend on there and still keep in touch with a few people. Maybe met 40 or so people.

For me the quality of meetings was head and shoulders above anything on aw and I've never enjoyed seeing escorts in the same way since. But as many have said, the effort needed was huge and in the end I couldn't sustain it. There's also far more likelihood of things getting messy if you're attached.

[badsin]

I have used SA on and off for a couple of year's. I have shagged some stunning birds in that time. I've met an screwed 50+, invariably at my own home.
It takes time, and effort to get in their knickers. I have 10 day's or so left of my current subscription, and have shagged three in the last couple of weeks. Most recent being Saturday afternoon. I stick to 150/200 for a few hours of fun. Although I have gone higher for particular individuals. I'm certainly no oil painting, so everyone has a chance, if you can chat on the site nicely before getting them into WhatsApp or Kik.
I still shag escorts, masseuses, and civilians

[Niggledebits]

I have been able to invest more time now on seeking.com

My initial view was based a the first set of comms from a very greedy girl. I showed up as a new member so probably easy pickings for them.

I have got access to the seekingarrangement thread on here and the posts provide wonderful advice.

My approach now is to suggest a first meet with perhaps a hint of future meets which in my case is a possibility.  I try and get on Whatsapp and I am finding a call weeds out potential flankers. Also, from advice on the sa thread it is better to target the good looking uni students!

I have my first meet on Tuesday with a no nonsense girl who hasn’t beaten around the bushes!

Others lining up.

The downside is I am hardly looking at what’s on Adultwork. These girls might be putting out for financial reward but I have no problem with that.

Trouble is after seeking my favourite girl (who ragged me around like a rag doll yesterday) I can’t see anyone getting close to that level of service 🤓

Loving life at the moment!

And once again thanks to you guys for the contributions to this thread, nothing like advice from experienced chaps.
n

[Niggledebits]

Predictive text, flankers should read flakers!

[Jumping Jack Flash]

I find SA to be a fantastic hunting ground. I’ve had so much fun with SB that I’ve hardly had a traditional punt with a WG for about 3 years. Before that I was a weekly punter.

The thrill of the chase is half the fun for me and to get inside the knickers of a SB who may not have had sex for a few weeks and is soaking wet is awesome. This opposed to a WG who may have fucked four other guys that day. I’ve no problem with WG seeing several guys a day, but their jaded view of life and of men in general really annoys me. A fresh SB wins hands down every time.

[Niggledebits]

Jumping Jack

I am starting to love this site. Got my first meet with a 22yr old next Tuesday for an afternoon session.

Really fit by the way.

Loads of others being lined up. Wish I was single😳

[Rez77]

Sod it. I'm going to give this SA a go. Although it does sound too good to be true (shagging hot uni students, cheaper than prossies, etc).

[badsin]

Sod it. I'm going to give this SA a go. Although it does sound too good to be true (shagging hot uni students, cheaper than prossies, etc).

Time, and effort required. I would strongly recommend joining the closed / private thread on this site. Some very useful information on there.
Be cautious of whatever seems to good to be true, and never ever pay any cash upfront

[pamplona]

Time, and effort required. I would strongly recommend joining the closed / private thread on this site. Some very useful information on there.
Be cautious of whatever seems to good to be true, and never ever pay any cash upfront

+1

When it works, sa is brilliant. You'll get a gut feeling about the bad ones and who to avoid.

[Jumping Jack Flash]

Enjoy it guys.

Don’t treat them like WG’s and remember they want to be pursued like a traditional dating situation. They don’t think of themselves as hookers but of course we know different!

[Rez77]

Thanks for the tips. I've signed up and will upgrade to premium for a month in January and see how it goes. I'm waiting until then as I suspect many of them will be a little more desperate for quick cash post-Christmas/New Year. (Yeah, I'm a tight sod.)

[BingoHJ]

From my experience, I would not say it is cheaper. You will need to pay a sub of £70 to Brandon. Most girls cannot host so you will probably need a hotel.

However it is different and addictive - I am booked for all the reasons people have stated above.

[Greg1]

Quick question guys, to increase your chances of hooking up with SBs, is it a given you have to pay for the premium membership to use the increased facilities. It seems the free standard membership is very limited in what you can do in terms of communications wuth the SB. Could anyone confirm? Don't want to blow £70 for membership for no reason. Cheers

[BingoHJ]

I would say so otherwise you cannot read any replies! You can wait and see if you get the app trial offer for one week at £20 otherwise sign up for the month.

[Kirtlands]

 
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Quick question guys, to increase your chances of hooking up with SBs, is it a given you have to pay for the premium membership to use the increased facilities. It seems the free standard membership is very limited in what you can do in terms of communications wuth the SB. Could anyone confirm? Don't want to blow £70 for membership for no reason. Cheers

Having lurked on SA a couple of days without paying and then recently upgrading I can confirm you get far more attention once you are premium as well as needing it to communicate.

[Greg1]

« Reply #35 on: Today at 11:56:21 am »

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Quick question guys, to increase your chances of hooking up with SBs, is it a given you have to pay for the premium membership to use the increased facilities. It seems the free standard membership is very limited in what you can do in terms of communications wuth the SB. Could anyone confirm? Don't want to blow £70 for membership for no reason. Cheers

Having lurked on SA a couple of days without paying and then recently upgrading I can confirm you get far more attention once you are premium as well as needing it to communicate.

Many thanks for your advice guys!
Loos like Premium membership is the way to go.
Cheers Greg

[Greg1]

I would say so otherwise you cannot read any replies! You can wait and see if you get the app trial offer for one week at £20 otherwise sign up for the month.

Sure its damn annoying not been able to read the replies. I wasn't sure if all the replies I was getting were bots trying to entice me to sign up for the premium memebership. Well at least I can read them now when I sign up. Cheees!

[Foxy77]

Really interesting and great insight!  Will give SA a shot!

[badsin]

Really interesting and great insight!  Will give SA a shot!

I wish you great success on SA, as your punting history seems particularly poor