Is bareback ever safe?

[cotton]

OK shall i’ll post the thread here so others know what you are referring to yeah ? because that’s clearly what you are referring to not the bs you are spilling now ? Actually no I won’t bother posting the thread I’m sure people can find it for themselves.

Your very happy being sarcastic and not giving straight replies yourself but your clearly not so happy when the boots on the other foot 

[daviemac]

No Its not BS - i just thought it was a bit shitty you being sarcastic to Colston when he had honestly and openly shared his experiences.

You haven’t addressed your comment about me being on a BB thread? come on speak up!

I think this has gone on long enough.

cotton what has any of this got to do with you? Colston36 was happy with Lou2019's explanation and he has been online since it was explained, why are you getting involved on his behalf if not to just shit stir.

Lou2019 best to ignore people like cotton, they tend to want to push SPs so they get banned.

Your very happy being sarcastic and not giving straight replies yourself but your clearly not so happy when the boots on the other foot 

I must have missed where she was sarcastic towards you, can you point it out please?

[cotton]

I think this has gone on long enough.

cotton what has any of this got to do with you? Colston36 was happy with Lou2019's explanation and he has been online since it was explained, why are you getting involved on his behalf if not to just shit stir.

Lou2019 best to ignore people like cotton, they tend to want to push SPs so they get banned.
I must have missed where she was sarcastic towards you, can you point it out please?

Forgive me Davie but if i see a fellow member being wrongly treated, or put down or belittled when they have posted openly and honestly i sometimes feel the need to speak up.  But i will say no more. 

[Lou2019]

I think this has gone on long enough.

cotton what has any of this got to do with you? Colston36 was happy with Lou2019's explanation and he has been online since it was explained, why are you getting involved on his behalf if not to just shit stir.

Lou2019 best to ignore people like cotton, they tend to want to push SPs so they get banned.

ok daviemac sorry but thanks for your understanding obviously you know what I’m referring to and it’s a very upsetting issue for me still a year on

[daviemac]

Forgive me Davie but if i see a fellow member being wrongly treated, or put down or belittled when they have posted openly and honestly i sometimes feel the need to speak up.  But i will say no more. 

Like I said why do you need to speak up for anyone who was happy with the explanation given. If he had said he wasn't happy then fair enough back him up but he didn't. The thread had moved on from that.

[cotton]

Like I said why do you need to speak up for anyone who was happy with the explanation given. If he had said he wasn't happy then fair enough back him up but he didn't. The thread had moved on from that.

We have no positive way of knowing how colston felt - maybe colston can enlighten us how he felt.
But i felt bad for him , hence i spoke up , hes an old guy and i dont like to see old people get disrespected here or wherever , if that dosnt sit right with you or anyone then i take my punishment.
I dont see why you have to come in on Lou2019 side tho 

[lamboman]

We have no positive way of knowing how colston felt - maybe colston can enlighten us how he felt.
But i felt bad for him , hence i spoke up , hes an old guy and i dont like to see old people get disrespected here or wherever , if that dosnt sit right with you or anyone then i take my punishment.
I dont see why you have to come in on Lou2019 side tho 

You're making an issue when there isn't one.

[daviemac]

We have no positive way of knowing how colston felt - maybe colston can enlighten us how he felt.
But i felt bad for him , hence i spoke up , hes an old guy and i dont like to see old people get disrespected here or wherever , if that dosnt sit right with you or anyone then i take my punishment.
I dont see why you have to come in on Lou2019 side tho 

I have come down on the side of the forum, not any individual and you are the one who wants to create an issue about it.

Colston replied to Lou2019 at 1.30 today and he was last active at 5.46, plenty of time for him to come back to this thread and comment.

There are now 4 mods, 1 admin and 1 owner who are all available to deal with any issues between members, the thread doesn't need to be derailed by one person acting on behalf of another. If Colston has an issue with anything that has been said and makes his feeling known the it will be dealt with.

[cotton]

I have come down on the side of the forum, not any individual and you are the one who wants to create an issue about it.

Colston replied to Lou2019 at 1.30 today and he was last active at 5.46, plenty of time for him to come back to this thread and comment.

There are now 4 mods, 1 admin and 1 owner who are all available to deal with any issues between members, the thread doesn't need to be derailed by one person acting on behalf of another. If Colston has an issue with anything that has been said and makes his feeling known the it will be dealt with.

Yes Davie quite clearly i thought there was an issue about it insofar as i asked Lou about the necessity of her sarcarstic reply to coulston. As i see it i wasnt acting on behalf of coulston i was acting on behalf of myself because i thought it was a bit unecessary.

[lillythesavage]

We have no positive way of knowing how colston felt - maybe colston can enlighten us how he felt.
But i felt bad for him , hence i spoke up , hes an old guy and i dont like to see old people get disrespected here or wherever , if that dosnt sit right with you or anyone then i take my punishment.
I dont see why you have to come in on Lou2019 side tho 

That is not true though is it ,I replied and I think quoted you on another thread where it was obvious you were trying to pick a fight with Lou2019 over this exact subject, even though she took the time to explain that a review had been removed with good reason, it would not have been removed otherwise, as you stated, on that thread, a review removal is very unusual.

Fair enough, you do not like her obviously, but picking up on her posts at every opportunity on a subject she has told you is upsetting and dealt with by Admin/ mods is getting boring.
Reading so many threads on joining, yes I used info from you, lou2019 seems to be one of the few Sp,s who survive here, and I have not read anything offensive and she gives a view from the other side and helps with punters queries. Always politely.

[Kev40ish]

That is not true though is it ,I replied and I think quoted you on another thread where it was obvious you were trying to pick a fight with Lou2019 over this exact subject, even though she took the time to explain that a review had been removed with good reason, it would not have been removed otherwise, as you stated, on that thread, a review removal is very unusual.

So you have decided to bring this up on another thread, when it is obvious that Daviemac is dealing with it? 

[daviemac]

Yes Davie quite clearly i thought there was an issue about it insofar as i asked Lou about the necessity of her sarcarstic reply to coulston. As i see it i wasnt acting on behalf of coulston i was acting on behalf of myself because i thought it was a bit unecessary.

I'll try and explain it a way you might understand, if anyone thinks another member is out of order then report it and one of the mods, Admin or owner will look at it.

It is blatantly obvious you have an issue with Lou but this thread is not the place for you to air your grievances.

Last time I will say this, it has nothing to do with you, if Colston has an issue he can report it or comment on the thread about it, he doesn't need you to be getting upset on his behalf.

Have you noticed he's online now? This is between him and Lou, stay out of it.     

[cotton]

I'll try and explain it a way you might understand, if anyone thinks another member is out of order then report it and one of the mods, Admin or owner will look at it.

It is blatantly obvious you have an issue with Lou but this thread is not the place for you to air your grievances.

Last time I will say this, it has nothing to do with you, if Colston has an issue he can report it or comment on the thread about it, he doesn't need you to be getting upset on his behalf.

Have you noticed he's online now? This is between him and Lou, stay out of it.   

Thanks Davie , tbh i try not to report anything but in future if anything crops up i will be less reluctant to do so.  And yeh understood , i will stay out of it.

[Watts.E.Dunn]

Scientific? This is not a bloody outpost of academia. I am 84. I lost count years ago. I have not kept records thinking any loopy person would ever be interested. But since I have lived with/married five different women, had a child with another and worked in over 50 countries I would have to have a memory like a laptop to know.

But theres so many varaibles in that i'd take a Fugaku supercomputer to evaluate the risks!

Might be easliet to state that you are a randy old git!

Hats off to you Sir!..

[Bonker]

It's not absolutely safe.
But relatively safer in some cases than others. e.g.
crossing the road can mean running across a busy motorway or walking across a country lane.

[Colston36]

Thanks Davie , tbh i try not to report anything but in future if anything crops up i will be less reluctant to do so.  And yeh understood , i will stay out of it.

What a storm in a teacup! I am more than old enough to look after myself. Lou had a slightly unsuccessful go at being sardonic. I wasn't bothered. We exchanged cordial messages. You could hardly be called reluctant. Just illiterate.

[ToggyD]

What a storm in a teacup! I am more than old enough to look after myself. Lou had a slightly unsuccessful go at being sardonic. I wasn't bothered. We exchanged cordial messages. You could hardly be called reluctant. Just illiterate.

[Charlie Chalk]

What a storm in a teacup! I am more than old enough to look after myself. Lou had a slightly unsuccessful go at being sardonic. I wasn't bothered. We exchanged cordial messages. You could hardly be called reluctant. Just illiterate.

Ooooffftt! All that’s missing is a mic drop pic 

[ToggyD]

Ooooffftt! All that’s missing is a mic drop pic 

It’s bloody hilarious!

[CoolTiger]

It’s bloody hilarious!

Are you planning to post anything sensible on this forum??

Or better still, any reviews?

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[ToggyD]

Are you planning to post anything sensible on this forum??

Or better still, any reviews?

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Don't expect to last long on this site given your attitude and your posts.

Sorry are we not allowed to have a laugh now either? My attitude has not been in anyway negative

[myothernameis]

Sorry are we not allowed to have a laugh now either? My attitude has not been in anyway negative

Think whats being said, and with new members, if you have seen an escort with in the last 12 months, this is with in the time frame to post a review

[norwichfunseeker]

Are you planning to post anything sensible on this forum??

Or better still, any reviews?

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Don't expect to last long on this site given your attitude and your posts.

Gutted we will never see his reviews now. ;-)

Respect to the mods  for having so much patience and assisting the newbies. 
 

[contentguy]

Sorry are we not allowed to have a laugh now either? My attitude has not been in anyway negative

May my next forum be my best forum, see you guys on Mumsnet

Missing him already!

[innateimmunity]

I bareback civvies & sugar babies but always protected with escorts. Never caught an STD so far (touch wood).

What are civvies/sugar babies? Do you mean normal ladies (not hookers, basically)?

[daviemac]

What are civvies/sugar babies? Do you mean normal ladies (not hookers, basically)?

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[Bornslippy]

I never bareback. Had one lady (filthy faye?) who basically asked if she could fuck me without whilst I was banging her balls deep. I must confess, although slightly shocked, I was tempted as she was pure filthy punt from the moment we met. She ended up swallowing my cum. It's only after the deed, when I had calmed down and on the drive back to the office, I thought about STIs.
How many guys would crumble to her free BB offer? How many guy have/would CIP or pull out and CIM?
She snogged for england and I almost had my whole face buried in her pussy at one point.
Felt rather fortunate I didnt catch anything, if I'm being honest.

[Barclay Spank]

Assuming the writer is focusing on sex with prostitutes;

Be aware that they can get 'Prem' (?) or is it 'Prep', at their GUM clinic visits these days, so (and I'm no medic) they can do UTC Bareback if they want, and there are for sure those WG's that do, for their 'selected regulars', but they can pass HIV on to others perhaps avoiding it themselves.

As for all the other STDs that are around, i think you can get quite a few of them from various permutations of oral sex. If she's a busy/ conveyor belt provider then when you snog her on arrival she may have had another mans cock cumming in her mouth ten minutes earlier. If she's a barebacker, UTC or otherwise, then your are not that removed from giving that previous client a blow job when you give her oral sex. Whatever lurks in her mouth is soon on your cock when she gives you OWO.

Of course Bareback/  unprotected sex with a prostitute is not 'safe'. Using condoms for penetrative sex will go a long way to controlling the risks of getting an STD. If you want to fully control those risks then don't go to a prostitute.

PReP can be got free if you are part of a 'trial'. It's not really a trial, they just monitor your kidney function at the clinic. You can either take a tablet every day (although my doctor said the evidence is not there for heterosexuals) or take it according to instructions before and after unprotected sex. I think that if a sex worker and her client both take PReP, both have hepatitis and COVID vaccinations then it can be worth the risk. Of course, you also have to think about other STDs. The clinics are used to helping some gay men who run the same risks.

[salparadise]

I went on a date, last summer, with a medic who runs my local hospital's GUM clinic and she told me that because of PrEP and the drugs that can suppress HIV levels to be undetectable they are estimating HIV to be 'beaten' within the next 5 years.

[val33]

I had a mate who quit his job and went on a 12 month round the world trip after divorcing his wife, and barebacked every girl he met - over 100 girls in multiple countries. We couldn't believe his stupidity when he boasted about it coming back - especially as he'd spent 3 months in Africa, being a hotbed for HIV and all that. He got tested twice back in the UK and didn't have anything, not even chlamydia.

So can it be safe... no! He was just incredibly lucky (but also very stupid).

[Watts.E.Dunn]

I had a mate who quit his job and went on a 12 month round the world trip after divorcing his wife, and barebacked every girl he met - over 100 girls in multiple countries. We couldn't believe his stupidity when he boasted about it coming back - especially as he'd spent 3 months in Africa, being a hotbed for HIV and all that. He got tested twice back in the UK and didn't have anything, not even chlamydia.

So can it be safe... no! He was just incredibly lucky (but also very stupid).

So a BB girl on average every 3 days?..

[val33]

So a BB girl on average every 3 days?..

Yep, mostly civvies picked up at clubs/bars but loads of prossies thrown in the mix also.

[hullad]

I have made mistakes years ago in my youth, in the RAF and shagging my way through Lincolnshire. Not a bit of anything and one weekend we had this great looking blonde in the barrack block. Well about eight of us had a bash over the Sunday, not a gang bang all separate and in private, we shared a lot back then. Anyway seven of us got the clap and we got put on a charge as well, the one who didn't get it had used a johnny. No greater  demonstration of that using protection was a good idea, thank god it was pre HIV.

[Whiteknight]

Bareback is only safe with people you can trust and with limited sexual partners.

Most escorts do get health check as a routine, been offered BB and taken up on a few occasions with a couple of regulars.  Won't do it again, if they offer you that, they will offer to most of her regulars anyway.

But it's definitely safer with an escort than someone from a Nightout or Seeking Arrangement ladies IMO.