Old thread I realise but I thought might make sense just posting my experience on here rather than open a new thread. If I have violated any rules I apologise in advance.
I'm always keen on trying out different ways to meet ladies beyond the normal punting route. I've tried Seeking, Tinder, Bumble PoF. Been successful in all of them. The drawback in all of them being the time required to move from initial conversation to getting them to bed. On Seeking it is usually quite easy, and my experience ranged from being scammed by a British 20 year old who took money and ran to a tumultuous relationship with a stunning Somali where no cash exchanged, great sex but was in a position where if I didn’t have my wits would have been emotionally abused. On Tinder and Bumble, got a few but they always ended up wanting far more, relationship wise. Using Tinder abroad I did strike gold when I met a married but very fit Middle Eastern lady. Simple arrangement she wanted where we would meet for sex. Great company it turns out, extremely risky but hey, we have carried on now for over a year, but the pandemic has put a spanner in the works.
This led me to want to try IE. Registered but didn’t pay at first until I got an offer for £99 for 3 weeks. Decided why not. For the cost of an hour Rom punt.
Within 3 days I got a few messages, views and virtual kisses. Would respond to most of them. No pictures by default, so it is a very different form of getting to connect. The response to sent mail ratio is extremely low. Most would read and not bother replying. Then chatted with 3 profiles that were all keen to move to email. Very similar approach. Didn’t take long to suss they were scam profiles before they started asking for me to join a site and register to chat further.
By end of the first week I had settled on 4 profiles. All gave me their private picture passwords. The quality of the photos is nothing like SA. Almost 90s internet style. Site needs very much to be updated. All 4 also gave me off platform contacts, 3 WhatsApp, 1 KiK.
All the ladies were married of course. but most of them were women I would not give the time of day in real life. Even on Tinder I can imagine they would be easily rejected. The common factor was that they all said they were looking for intimacy while maintaining their marriages.. Ok, speaking the same language as me. I'll give a run down on 4 them:
Lady 1: Nurse in London. Asian, 40s. WhatsApp conversation. Only sent a face picture and I could see she was no less than a size 16. Possibly more. Not her first time on there, only recently ended previous relationship as she fell in love and he didn’t reciprocate. Wanted to meet as soon as possible just for sex. Decided she was facially cute enough to give it a go. After chatting first night we said we would continue next day. Then she went silent, didn’t respond to my messaged. 2 days later I messaged to tell her that as an adult would just need to know she isn’t interested rather than playing immature games. She responded saying Sorry. I deleted number and ended that.
Lady 2: Social Worker in South East, 40s. Conversations on KiK were very stilted. She would not make any effort. I think she was looking to be wooed. We did discuss what we wanted. But she only ended up parroting everything I said. We fixed to meet but as the date approached, I wasn’t feeling enthusiastic. Her picture also showed a size 16+, hiding behind face pictures only. I wasn’t going to waste my time so told her I didn’t think it was going to go anywhere. She just repeated what I said, saying she too wasn’t feeling it was going to work. That ended too.
Lady 3: Nurse in South East, 40s. Conversation flowed from the start. Got on very well. Found out we had mutual interests which made it better. Husband also away so possibility of a meet very soon after first conversation was already set. Cute facial picture though like the others I could see was a 16+. Arranged to meet a few days after we started chatting. During the interval we would talk on the phone, long nice conversations. And she was really very very naughty, telling me all she liked and what she would want us to do. Then she sent pictures, explicit pictures, unsolicited. That’s when I realised what I was up against. She wasn’t a size 16, not a size 18. Fuck me, she was LARGE. I didn’t get to see a full nude pic but what I saw, huge tits. and the view of her pussy, clearly an SSBBW, the sort connoisseurs of the body type would salivate about. I'm not, but felt, ok, free sex, something different, will give it a try. Day we met, she sorted out accommodation, and we planned a whole afternoon of fun.
She arrived before me. I got in. JESUS! The pictures did not prepare me for what was presented. I have punted all sizes. I wouldn’t say I have a particular type but enjoy a bit of each body type. BUT THIS. I'll give it to her. She was facially cute. But MY GOD WAS SHE HUGE!!!!!
Like a proper trooper and gentleman though I wasn’t going to back down. She was horny I'll admit. But DAMN. Let me just say in the end I felt used. I felt like the 19-year-old university student who ends up sleeping with the obese 70-year-old millionaire with a tiny dick just for the money. For the first time in a long time I felt really disgusted with myself, and in my years of punting have had a lot of negative experiences where I felt annoyed with myself in this hobby of ours. This beats all of them combined. I didn’t want her to feel bad so I must confess I put in quite some effort to make her enjoy it. BUT DAMN!!! The effort!!! Maybe it’s from being so big. Getting her to cum, which she was insistent on, took AGES!!! I won’t go into details to spare myself the trauma. Later that night she called to ask me how I think it went. She said she was going to give me 10 stars for my passion and effort. Fuck me, I deserved 10 stars for not running away on sight! I couldn’t bring myself to rate her but just said it was a good experience. I think my lame response upset her, but she didn’t say anything. Next day she sent several messages saying should arrange another meet soon. I responded I would be quite busy over the next few weeks. She got the hint after a few more attempts at conversation. I just couldn’t. That ended.
Lady 4: Admin in London, mid 30s. Now this conversation was going on in parallel with above. French lady. On WhatsApp. First night she was also clear she wanted sex, also out from a relationship, married though. Size 12, tall, and pretty, though not stunning. Also, very eager to send nude pictures and arrange a meet. A few days after my whale of an experience we met. Just as pictured. Great figure. We met at a park for a walk. Great conversation and by the time we left had a lovely snog fest. Problem was, where to meet. With hotels in lockdown being a pain we decided to wait a bit. If things were different, we would have had sex very soon, if not on the first day. But conversations following started to show we were in very different places emotionally. She is looking for someone to romance in a particular way. And I found out that while she was ready to explore sexually, could be extremely rigid when it came to other views on other matters. This would lead to her either attacking me for things I had said or defensive to an extreme. For a situation where given her married status and we were supposed to just have a sexual relationship, she was acting like bitter wife. In the end she decided that based on a conversation we had where I had talked about something I had done over 10 years ago, we weren’t a match. Just said no problem, deleted number and ended that. The stress wasn’t worth the effort.
In summary. I don’t think IE is worth the effort. The women are real, but seem to be mostly out of shape, problem filled women looking for a shag. And they will make you work for it.
I've not been on AW for a while but must now, just to cure myself from the self-loathing of what I put myself through with lady 3
