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intruder1978

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I've met an absolute doozy lads.

She wants to be kidnapped.

Anyone in the East Midlands area familiar with this sort of scenario? Any pointers?


Offline badsin

Ridiculous, avoid avoid avoid  :hi:

Offline Whore Master

Sounds like a load of bollocks.
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Offline KBW1999

Are you fucking crazy? This will only end one way and that's badly for YOU!!! Don't do it, just don't have anything to do with it

Offline monkeybucket

Let me know where you end up. I'll send you a cake with a file in it.

Offline mr.bluesky

I've met an absolute doozy lads.

She wants to be kidnapped.

Anyone in the East Midlands area familiar with this sort of scenario? Any pointers?


Wasn't  there a model (chloe ayling) who claimed she was kidnapped last year or so. Ends up she knew the so called kidnapper and it was all a scam for her have her 5 minutes of fame. :unknown:

Offline ulstersubbie

There are some Dommes who offer kidnap scenarios. In this case however I would stay well clear, not worth the risk OP!

Offline Hanna Lorde (Service Provider)

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Hope it’s ok for me to respond to this?

I’m friends with a submissive who trusts her Dom implicitly, a kidnapping scenario is something they had discussed previously and without her knowledge he had asked me to get involved with this.  It was an instant no from me. 

Where do they go from that, to get the next high? They had already experienced hanging her with a noose (the pics were terrifying) he had spent many hours researching the safety aspects of the hanging.  However, there are so many unforeseen things that could go wrong in both of these scenarios.  I would leave it to those who feel they have the trust and safety of those who know (or at least believe they know) what they’re doing 
« Last Edit: June 08, 2021, 01:48:43 pm by Hanna Lorde (Service Provider) »

Offline Hanna Lorde (Service Provider)

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Also if it’s someone you don’t know well, you can’t guarantee their intentions are honourable.  You could end up in very deep water

Offline RedKettle


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Hope it’s ok for me to respond to this?

I’m friends with a submissive who trusts her Dom implicitly, a kidnapping scenario is something they had discussed previously and without her knowledge he had asked me to get involved with this.  It was an instant no from me. 

Where do they go from that, to get the next high? They had already experienced hanging her with a noose (the pics were terrifying) he had spent many hours researching the safety aspects of the hanging.  However, there are so many unforeseen things that could go wrong in both of these scenarios.  I would leave it to those who feel they have the trust and safety of those who know (or at least believe they know) what they’re doing

Sounds like stellar advice.

Who the fuck gets off on hanging?! Crazy!
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Offline mr.bluesky

Sounds like stellar advice.

Who the fuck gets off on hanging?! Crazy!

A Sicko that's who.

Online myothernameis

She wants to be kidnapped.


A few years back on AW, there was an escort, who had a role play, which involved rape, and she would leave the door unlocked

Offline Hotpocket

Surely this has to be a wind up ? And if it ain't i can think of so many things that can go wrong with this scenario.

Offline Bigwilts


Wasn't  there a model (chloe ayling) who claimed she was kidnapped last year or so. Ends up she knew the so called kidnapper and it was all a scam for her have her 5 minutes of fame. :unknown:
That would be news to him as he’s currently in prison for it

Offline haggiaxxx

Hope it’s ok for me to respond to this?

I’m friends with a submissive who trusts her Dom implicitly, a kidnapping scenario is something they had discussed previously and without her knowledge he had asked me to get involved with this.  It was an instant no from me. 

Where do they go from that, to get the next high? They had already experienced hanging her with a noose (the pics were terrifying) he had spent many hours researching the safety aspects of the hanging.  However, there are so many unforeseen things that could go wrong in both of these scenarios.  I would leave it to those who feel they have the trust and safety of those who know (or at least believe they know) what they’re doing

This person knows what's they're talking about and you should listen to them. Kidnapping scenarios and deep roleplay like that would only be okay in a kink relationship with TOTAL SSC and RACK. You literally should not get involved with anything at this level unless you have a professional level risk assessment with everyone's signature on it and only then if you know these people very,very well.
« Last Edit: June 08, 2021, 10:09:30 pm by haggiaxxx »

Online Fac51

I've met an absolute doozy lads.

She wants to be kidnapped.

Anyone in the East Midlands area familiar with this sort of scenario? Any pointers?

You are using the incorrect noun fella....

Please replace 'doozy' with 'dement'

Offline Jamesbattersea

Sounds like stellar advice.

Who the fuck gets off on hanging?! Crazy!


Michael Hutchins
Didn't do him much good either!!!

Offline Mutinyonthecounty

A few years back on AW, there was an escort, who had a role play, which involved rape, and she would leave the door unlocked

I went out with an escort around 1998, who had a major rape obsession/fetish. Every time we had sex she would would go on about it. It was quite uncomfortable really. She even told me that she had deliberately put herself in vulnerable situations. For example, walking through a park late at night, in order to get a thrill from the possibility of rape. I found that quite disturbing if I’m honest. I could never get to the root of it either when talking about it. But it wasn’t something which sat comfortably with me.

Offline Dodgelad

We need an update from the OP, if he's on remand for kidnapping then we may have to wait a while!

Offline HailWood

I went out with an escort around 1998, who had a major rape obsession/fetish. Every time we had sex she would would go on about it. It was quite uncomfortable really. She even told me that she had deliberately put herself in vulnerable situations. For example, walking through a park late at night, in order to get a thrill from the possibility of rape. I found that quite disturbing if I’m honest. I could never get to the root of it either when talking about it. But it wasn’t something which sat comfortably with me.
For you to find something disturbing given your proclivities, it is must indeed be a thing of horror for the rest of us  :P

With regard to rape fetish, I have twice been asked by SPs who wanted to act out a CNC sex role play. I have to say it was fun but it was just role play and I knew the girls well enough to trust this wasn’t any form of set up.

intruder1978

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Thanks for your input guys.

It's a civilian not an SP but I take your points.

My downstairs brain clearly overrode my upstairs brain.

It's the second time I've had a CNC on the table, the first time I had to rearrange at short notice and she got cold feet (that was from Seeking.. this one from Fetlife).

Offline EUGENE TACKLEBERRY

Id stick with a kiss and a cuddle, maybe a titty fuck on birthdays or Christmas. Not for me that, could easily go belly up

Offline hairymonster

Its all looking good till your in a court room trying to explain why you got the wrong impression.

Offline Hotdogboy88

As long as there clear evidence that this is a fetish fantasy can’t really see there being legal issues with it I’m presuming it would be just the thrill for her of a fake kidnap. I’m sure there companies that offer this service.

Offline haggiaxxx

I’m sure there companies that offer this service.

I'm pretty sure they're not!

Offline haggiaxxx

But even if there was a company that did this, how would they operate?

You'd have to do site inspections for safety and privacy, get signed waivers from all participants, videos of statements of consent, first aid. Are you bundling people into a a big dirty van? Class 2 license and it'd have to be fake painted on dirt to make the van road-worthy. You'd have to Health & Safety your sex life.

Offline Hotdogboy88

I'm pretty sure they're not!

I had a quick look round and found a few companies that offer the service, however not in the UK.

Offline Dodgelad

As long as there clear evidence that this is a fetish fantasy can’t really see there being legal issues with it I’m presuming it would be just the thrill for her of a fake kidnap. I’m sure there companies that offer this service.

The legal issues come when as previously mentioned you find yourself in front of a jury...when the fun n games ends, she's halfway through and screams stop but you think it's part of the game, suddenly you become the rapist and the paper you signed accounts for fuck all once a hot shot lawyer rips into you, you're life's fucked, ya mates think you're a twat, your family disown you, you no longer have a job and you are sat in a cell with probably an actual rapist....no legal issues to be had?

But hey, I'm not one to judge...if anyone is wanting to partake then good luck

Offline Hotdogboy88

The legal issues come when as previously mentioned you find yourself in front of a jury...when the fun n games ends, she's halfway through and screams stop but you think it's part of the game, suddenly you become the rapist and the paper you signed accounts for fuck all once a hot shot lawyer rips into you, you're life's fucked, ya mates think you're a twat, your family disown you, you no longer have a job and you are sat in a cell with probably an actual rapist....no legal issues to be had?

But hey, I'm not one to judge...if anyone is wanting to partake then good luck

You seem to be judging.  :lol: :drinks:

Offline HailWood

she's halfway through and screams stop but you think it's part of the game, suddenly you become the rapist

This is why you should always agree a safe word which puts an immediate stop to any activity during any type of risky role play.

Online myothernameis

when the fun n games ends, she's halfway through and screams 

Another concern here, the female wants it to be as real as possible, so you act out the role play of rape, and you liked it, but at this point you have gone beyond what would be classed as normal.   

The role play now goes out the window, and you return to her flat, knock on her door, and rape her for real, seeing she wanted it to be as real as possible

Offline Hotdogboy88

Maybe I misunderstood the OP I thought it was just a kidnap fetish. Didn’t read into a rape Scenario being part of it. Or anything sexual at all.  :unknown:

intruder1978

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The scenario is that she & her hubby want her to be kidnapped for a weekend.

They've sent video of her being fucked in bondage by apparently strangers.

Offline RedKettle

The legal issues come when as previously mentioned you find yourself in front of a jury...when the fun n games ends, she's halfway through and screams stop but you think it's part of the game, suddenly you become the rapist and the paper you signed accounts for fuck all once a hot shot lawyer rips into you, you're life's fucked, ya mates think you're a twat, your family disown you, you no longer have a job and you are sat in a cell with probably an actual rapist....no legal issues to be had?

But hey, I'm not one to judge...if anyone is wanting to partake then good luck

You should always have safe word or traffic light system for any role play that involves one person being dominant over the other.

Offline badsin

The scenario is that she & her hubby want her to be kidnapped for a weekend.

They've sent video of her being fucked in bondage by apparently strangers.

Might be worth naming this couple so others don't get drawn into their peculiar antics?

Online myothernameis

Maybe I misunderstood the OP I thought it was just a kidnap fetish. Didn’t read into a rape Scenario being part of it. Or anything sexual at all.  :unknown:

I think its the role play bit, be it kidnapping or rape, its  a dodgy thing to do, as to much can go wrong

Offline Jamesbattersea

Fuck n hell this is all a bit deep!! i'm not sure i could do this role play thing without bursting into laughter (that's what used to happen in drama lessons at school)

You're all speaking in another language as well, what is SSC, RACK and CNC??!!??
Sorry to be the dumb one but there is nothing on punting wiki!

Offline HailWood

Fuck n hell this is all a bit deep!! i'm not sure i could do this role play thing without bursting into laughter (that's what used to happen in drama lessons at school)

You're all speaking in another language as well, what is SSC, RACK and CNC??!!??
Sorry to be the dumb one but there is nothing on punting wiki!
CNC is Consenting Non-Consensual ie rape role play.

Dunno about the others, I hope others will enlighten me too.

Online myothernameis

CNC is Consenting Non-Consensual ie rape role play.

Dunno about the others, I hope others will enlighten me too.


Google is your friend

Rack = Risk Aware Consensual Kink
SSC = Safe, Sane, and Consensual

Offline ir34

Hope it’s ok for me to respond to this?

I’m friends with a submissive who trusts her Dom implicitly, a kidnapping scenario is something they had discussed previously and without her knowledge he had asked me to get involved with this.  It was an instant no from me. 

Where do they go from that, to get the next high? They had already experienced hanging her with a noose (the pics were terrifying) he had spent many hours researching the safety aspects of the hanging.  However, there are so many unforeseen things that could go wrong in both of these scenarios.  I would leave it to those who feel they have the trust and safety of those who know (or at least believe they know) what they’re doing

This is correct. I know a few from Fet who are fine with kidnapping as a role play. ( it does nothing for me personally. ) but in this instance I'd advice the OP same thing as others suggested. Stay away.

Offline Picti

I've met an absolute doozy lads.

She wants to be kidnapped.

Anyone in the East Midlands area familiar with this sort of scenario? Any pointers?

In an escorting context, just don't do it. Too many variables that could go badly wrong.

In personal life I've done a few abduction scenes within BDSM circles and what you need is a group of guys who know each other well and can communally monitor and respond to a situation; not the random strangers you propose. You also need to agree and document consent, boundaries, etc and a stop sign that the whole group will recognise and enforce. For some women the reality may not match the fantasy so you need a group guys who are prepared to stop immediately.

Eveif it goes well you need guys who will respect the woman and the situation as they're completely responsible for her. The primary attraction for her is feeling helpless and used, but still safe, boundaries observed, etc. You won't get that from a "who's up for it" recruitment approach and I wouldn't do this with guys I couldn't trust. Any offences committed involve the group, not just the individual and you could face prosecution.

Then there're practical considerations of "abducting" someone in public. I've a couple friends from the States who found themselves at gunpoint from two off-duty cops! Also remember the UK has the highest concentration of cctv cameras per population. And of course we have a responsibility not to traumatise the general public.

These scenes can be done but they require a lot of planning and organisation. I doubt any WG would invest the time involved. I think perhaps your "doozy" has a fantasy that should stay at that level where punters are concerned.
« Last Edit: June 13, 2021, 07:51:52 pm by Picti »

Offline Nottsguy69

Wtf,   This is a joke right ?

Offline Dodgelad

You seem to be judging.  :lol: :drinks:

Absolutely not Hotdog it was one version of how I think it could go.
I'll balance it up...."crack on kid this role play sounds mega"  :D

Offline haggiaxxx

To be fair, we've had a lot of good advice on how to handle a RP like this, and all the steps that are needed to do it safely.

Offline Stickitin

To be fair, we've had a lot of good advice on how to handle a RP like this, and all the steps that are needed to do it safely.

Am amazed people actually know stuff like this tbh, wouldn’t even cross my mind!