Chatting with the girls

[two20]

They are all "my girls" for the hour I pay them then guess what, they're someone's else's girl. Just the way I like it.

[Rochelle]

fuck off you daft bint

I asked a genuine question, a few people kindly answered. That's that.

I'll stay where I am, thanks.

[lewisjones23]

I asked a genuine question, a few people kindly answered. That's that.

I'll stay where I am, thanks.

you asked a stupid question - as confirmed by near enough total condemnation of the shit you posted

[vw]

Again, if I was touting I'd be banned by now. I'm allowed to be a member, get over it.
If anyone wanted to post a negative I'm sure they'd happily do so. I don't really care if anyone posts a true negative but I know I'll never get an honest negative review. It seems I don't see many forum members.

confused if it was fake admin marks them as fake as he has done many times before.  Yours still says negative.

[fredpunter]

It would seem the owner of the site rightfully doesn't share your view of the op getting challenged as reacting like angry toddlers.

Wabbit now banned 

It is possible to disagree with someone and to challenge them without having a tantrum and reacting as though they shat in your pint. It's not the fact he's challenged but the silly hysterical way he's challenged that I don't understand. For instance... I'm now disagreeing with you but I'm not going overboard in my tone or language. The fact I disagree with you doesn't mean I think you're pathetic or a twat or whatever other terms were used.
 
Whether he's banned or not is irrelevant to that point. 

[vw]

It is possible to disagree with someone and to challenge them without having a tantrum and reacting as though they shat in your pint. It's not the fact he's challenged but the silly hysterical way he's challenged that I don't understand. For instance... I'm now disagreeing with you but I'm not going overboard in my tone or language. The fact I disagree with you doesn't mean I think you're pathetic or a twat or whatever other terms were used.
 
Whether he's banned or not is irrelevant to that point. 

Cannot see the posts you describe, just noticed some primary school grade arse kissing of Charissa.  Seems the boss had no problems with any posts, just the happy couple were bothered.   

[NigelF]

It is possible to disagree with someone and to challenge them without having a tantrum and reacting as though they shat in your pint. It's not the fact he's challenged but the silly hysterical way he's challenged that I don't understand. For instance... I'm now disagreeing with you but I'm not going overboard in my tone or language. The fact I disagree with you doesn't mean I think you're pathetic or a twat or whatever other terms were used.
 
Whether he's banned or not is irrelevant to that point. 

Fucking hell mate, who gives a flying fuck? The internet isn't the place for you if you're so worried about tone and language. If anything you sound like a toddler.

On the flip-side, your avatar is hilarious.

[fredpunter]

 

[vw]

 

No need for self-harm bashing that head on the wall.   

[Cupid Stuntz]

I echo your sentiments..perhaps not as quite as succintly but the general premise is spot-on

If you want a friend, get a dog.

So you can give it a bone  ?

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[cueball]

It is possible to disagree with someone and to challenge them without having a tantrum and reacting as though they shat in your pint.

I'm not seeing that Fred, I'm seeing language that grown men use every day in normal life.

For me, I don't post in a different way to how I speak, it's what I would say face to face.

[pking_paul]

So you can give it a bone  ?

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Wish all WGs had their eye on the job in hand - this lot look dangerous 

[Zeusthedoc]

They are all "my girls" for the hour I pay them then guess what, they're someone's else's girl. Just the way I like it.

looking forward to see a few reviews of some of this 'hours'  buddy!

in any case, i think this thread has run its course useful replies - it seems like a matter of time before it gets locked

[sensualencounter]

So you can give it a bone  ?

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I'd like to know where I can get that chainsaw for $70! Oh and the birds are fucking hot too! 

[Chorley]

Punting is nothing more than a (hopefully  ) pleasant business transaction.

Why do some punters still not understand this? 

[adamza]

OP maybe you could clear something up for me.
If one of em licks my arse then drinks my spunk... will she still be  'your girl' ?
Many thanks
 

Just read this entire thread and amazed nobody quoted this gem. Absolutely howling 

[Lincs.man1]

 

[shagmore]

My Girls, WTF, get a life.
If they can not take a bit of criticism, then tough shite, the trouble with this world today is everyone is so concerned about not offending anyone else, bloody bubble wrap culture and politically correct crap.
To make it in life you have to take a few knocks. You fall over, get up and carry on.
Its called survival of the fittest
FFS what next.

 

[mexicola]

definately a good move banning Yorksrabbit as a white Knight.


Last year I posted a new review of a WG. A few days later he posted in that review about how he'd only had good meetings with her and the next day his (first review on the site) appeared giving her a positive. Very WK indeed!

[livingalife]

definately a good move banning Yorksrabbit as a white Knight.


Last year I posted a new review of a WG. A few days later he posted in that review about how he'd only had good meetings with her and the next day his (first review on the site) appeared giving her a positive. Very WK indeed!

I also note how in his comment on your thread, he'd said that the WG was annoyed by a comment in your review. Which was very similar to a comment he made that started this whole thread off. He discusses UKP with "his girls". Not cool.

[mrfishyfoo]

Last year I posted a new review of a WG. A few days later he posted in that review about how he'd only had good meetings with her and the next day his (first review on the site) appeared giving her a positive. Very WK indeed!

WTF !!!

I've just read that thread and there appears IMHO to be a considerable amount of WK fanboy bullshit posted on it.

[mexicola]

WTF !!!

I've just read that thread and there appears IMHO to be a considerable amount of WK fanboy bullshit posted on it.

Indeed. I've just read the thread again. Probably one of "his girls" and there is some other 1 post jackass piped up with a BS "review" which could be multiple identify for Yorksrabbit?

[NigelF]

WTF !!!

I've just read that thread and there appears IMHO to be a considerable amount of WK fanboy bullshit posted on it.

Yeah, it's like everyone in that thread didn't read the review! It was a well deserved negative and contained little that would make me want to book her above the many other better options out there.

Indeed. I've just read the thread again. Probably one of "his girls" and there is some other 1 post jackass piped up with a BS "review" which could be multiple identify for Yorksrabbit?

Could be but I'd imagine he'd have probably re-posted again by now if it was. If he does it may be worth getting admin to have a closer look.

Anyway, the WG in question said she offered you a free 15 min booking, which you accepted. Is that true? If so and it actually went ahead, you might want to update the thread with your experience. I don't really care though!

[mexicola]

Anyway, the WG in question said she offered you a free 15 min booking, which you accepted. Is that true? If so and it actually went ahead, you might want to update the thread with your experience. I don't really care though!

That's right she did offer a 15 min freebie but I didn't go for it, to much chance of a boyfriend etc turning up !

[NigelF]

That's right she did offer a 15 min freebie but I didn't go for it, to much chance of a boyfriend etc turning up !

I agree and it's probably too short anyway (and paying to upgrade to 30 mins seems like a mug's choice). Unsurprisingly it seems like she's full of bullshit. To be fair to her though, the picture she posted was not flattering so at least it was probably fairly accurate (even though the claim about losing weight is probably rubbish).

[Marmalade]

I have repeatedly said on here, and often received stick for it, that you do not owe the girls 'respect', you owe them politeness: which is what any human being owes another human being.

The basis of any interaction is your punting experience, the session time you pay for. Interacting with favourite prossies outside of that is up to you if it improves your paid-for experience (and you are aware of the dangers). It is a ridiculous suggestion, in my humble opinion, that the alternative to chatting is being horrible to someone. Simply be polite, no more, no less.

Prostitutes are often quite 'needy' people. They have few real friends except maybe one or two other prostitutes and live most of their life as a lie, unable to explain their income or job to anyone. They have a certain freedom that disposable income brings but that is not the same as human warmth. So sometimes they kid themselves (the way some fluffy punters do). They persuade themselves that a certain punter is 'more like a friend': but then they are having a birthday party and realise they cannot invite their 50 yr old friend to meet a house full of 20-yr olds with no convincing back up story as to why such a person is a close friend they have never heard of. That of course is the better scenario! The more probable one is that she sometimes unconsciously but usually consciously feel that it is 'good business' -- like a rather inept version of companies that send you personalised greetings by phone or email.

If you like GFE, just remember it is a temporary illusion, one that you are paying for. It's like a contractual arrangement where she pretends and you pretend in order to heighten a particular type of paid-sex encounter. Such a punter would be advised to enjoy it if he must, keep it fair and polite: but be ready to let go at a second's notice.

 

[Colston36]

Stop trying to suck up to pro$$ies, they only talk to you because they want your cash / bookings, ask one to spend time with you off the clock and you will quickly see what they think of you, "your girls" 

I'm not sure that's entirely true. There are two I see pretty regularly who I always spend at least twice the booked time with and one I spent all night with after paying for half an hour. Mind you I'm a very undemanding old fool and they ave nothing better to do so maybe what I say is irrelevant.

[Scotpunter]

I'm a fairly easy going guy and enjoy chatting with the girls too. I have had some join me for a drink in the bar after and have met others outside of business for a cuppa or a bite to eat.

[Jay189]

Bonding with them outside of punts seems bloody weird to me.

I be friendly with them and chat to them during, but it's like any line of work if you order a kebab you chat to the guy or in my line of work customers be friendly to me and chat...nothing wrong with that.

I had a fag with one after a 2am punt outside a hotel once, which is ok. But even I realised then chatting to her outside of the punting experience they're just wired wrong.

Cos of who they're, the line of work they're in and the fact we're paying them for sex...makes zero sense to bond with them outside of punts.

[Jay189]

I have repeatedly said on here, and often received stick for it, that you do not owe the girls 'respect', you owe them politeness: which is what any human being owes another human being.

The basis of any interaction is your punting experience, the session time you pay for. Interacting with favourite prossies outside of that is up to you if it improves your paid-for experience (and you are aware of the dangers). It is a ridiculous suggestion, in my humble opinion, that the alternative to chatting is being horrible to someone. Simply be polite, no more, no less.

Prostitutes are often quite 'needy' people. They have few real friends except maybe one or two other prostitutes and live most of their life as a lie, unable to explain their income or job to anyone. They have a certain freedom that disposable income brings but that is not the same as human warmth. So sometimes they kid themselves (the way some fluffy punters do). They persuade themselves that a certain punter is 'more like a friend': but then they are having a birthday party and realise they cannot invite their 50 yr old friend to meet a house full of 20-yr olds with no convincing back up story as to why such a person is a close friend they have never heard of. That of course is the better scenario! The more probable one is that she sometimes unconsciously but usually consciously feel that it is 'good business' -- like a rather inept version of companies that send you personalised greetings by phone or email.

If you like GFE, just remember it is a temporary illusion, one that you are paying for. It's like a contractual arrangement where she pretends and you pretend in order to heighten a particular type of paid-sex encounter. Such a punter would be advised to enjoy it if he must, keep it fair and polite: but be ready to let go at a second's notice.

 

A couple of months ago I was chatting to one about her regulars and she goes they're like her friends and whenever she has problems she texts them for advice.

Just lol.

[RX8 Racer]

I have a small group of regular girls with whom I exchange mails occasionally on Adultwork or Whatsapp.
From time to time one of them will complain that they have been 'negged' by a punter - sometimes deservedly, sometimes not.
Yesterday I made the mistake of reporting that one of my girls was furious after one accusation which the punter subsequently admitted was probably incorrect.
For this, I have been accused of consorting with the enemy and of being untrustworthy!
Sorry but I hadn't realised this was a war. I thought the idea was for us to have a good time and for the girls to make a good living. That is in all our interests.
Part of the enjoyment for me is chatting with these girls and I am not doing fellow punters any harm since I don't know who they are. My reviews are always honest but I don't turn nasty if I am let down occasionally. There are always going to be a lot of WGs with chaotic lifestyles who struggle to organise themselves and I don't feel any need to give them a kicking on UKP when they cause me some fairly minor inconvenience.
Am I wrong? Should I become Mr Nasty and never speak to my girls again?

Fucking pathetic!

[Yaffa]

I have a small group of regular girls with whom I exchange mails occasionally on Adultwork or Whatsapp.
From time to time one of them will complain that they have been 'negged' by a punter - sometimes deservedly, sometimes not.
Yesterday I made the mistake of reporting that one of my girls was furious after one accusation which the punter subsequently admitted was probably incorrect.
For this, I have been accused of consorting with the enemy and of being untrustworthy!
Sorry but I hadn't realised this was a war. I thought the idea was for us to have a good time and for the girls to make a good living. That is in all our interests.
Part of the enjoyment for me is chatting with these girls and I am not doing fellow punters any harm since I don't know who they are. My reviews are always honest but I don't turn nasty if I am let down occasionally. There are always going to be a lot of WGs with chaotic lifestyles who struggle to organise themselves and I don't feel any need to give them a kicking on UKP when they cause me some fairly minor inconvenience.
Am I wrong? Should I become Mr Nasty and never speak to my girls again?

"One of my girls..."??

Nope.
 

[The Owl]

I love a good chat. It can break the ice, it can give me a break for round two or it can run out the time when I feel like I'm physically done. However it's my choice as to how I spend my time with an escort I've paid to spend time with (within her work boundaries). Other punters want different things and again it's up to them to find the right escort for that kind of service.

[vw]

I love a good chat. It can break the ice, it can give me a break for round two or it can run out the time when I feel like I'm physically done. However it's my choice as to how I spend my time with an escort I've paid to spend time with (within her work boundaries). Other punters want different things and again it's up to them to find the right escort for that kind of service.

Chatting about other punters and forum members though would be pathetic.   

[Romney]

Prostitutes are often quite 'needy' people. They have few real friends except maybe one or two other prostitutes and live most of their life as a lie, unable to explain their income or job to anyone. They have a certain freedom that disposable income brings but that is not the same as human warmth. So sometimes they kid themselves (the way some fluffy punters do). They persuade themselves that a certain punter is 'more like a friend': but then they are having a birthday party and realise they cannot invite their 50 yr old friend to meet a house full of 20-yr olds with no convincing back up story as to why such a person is a close friend they have never heard of. That of course is the better scenario! The more probable one is that she sometimes unconsciously but usually consciously feel that it is 'good business' -- like a rather inept version of companies that send you personalised greetings by phone or email.

If you like GFE, just remember it is a temporary illusion, one that you are paying for. It's like a contractual arrangement where she pretends and you pretend in order to heighten a particular type of paid-sex encounter. Such a punter would be advised to enjoy it if he must, keep it fair and polite: but be ready to let go at a second's notice.

Totally agree.  I'm often surprised by how much some wg's share with me about their personal lives.  I used to feel "special" when that happened, convincing my self that they must really like me as a great guy, lol, but over time I've realized it's much more likely that they may feel lonely and isolated by their jobs, and that they don't have the opportunity to talk with their friends and family about some of the things they talk with clients about.

As far as GFE, the danger is that the better the wg is at giving you the illusion of being your GF, the more likely the punter will start to believe the illusion, and that almost always leads to bad situations...

[joe diddley]

Totally agree.  I'm often surprised by how much some wg's share with me about their personal lives.  I used to feel "special" when that happened, convincing my self that they must really like me as a great guy, lol, but over time I've realized it's much more likely that (1) they may feel lonely and isolated by their jobs, and that they don't have the opportunity to talk with their friends and family about some of the things they talk with clients about.

As far as GFE, the danger is that the better the wg is at (2) giving you the illusion of being your GF, the more likely the punter will start to believe the illusion, and that almost always leads to bad situations...

Partly 1 and 2 in my opinion.

Also (3) A good time wasting technique.

[Chorley]

 I'm still amazed that (some) punters don't get that it's paid sex; not a date or a fuck buddy or a relationship, just paid sex.

It's all very simple really. Find a girl you like, book time and confirm services. Arrive clean and on time. Pay the money, fuck the WG for the agreed duration, try not to be a creepy, needy weirdo. Leave, then rinse and repeat with  the same or a different WG.

And yet (some ) punters still seem to find this difficult. 

[Marmalade]

I'm still amazed that (some) punters don't get that it's paid sex; not a date or a fuck buddy or a relationship, just paid sex.

It's all very simple really. Find a girl you like, book time and confirm services. Arrive clean and on time. Pay the money, fuck the WG for the agreed duration, try not to be a creepy, needy weirdo. Leave, then rinse and repeat with  the same or a different WG.

And yet (some ) punters still seem to find this difficult. 

+1000

If she wants to talk and is interesting enough to hold a conversation, let her do it in her own time is my rule.

[midnightcowboy]

Prostitutes are often quite 'needy' people. They have few real friends except maybe one or two other prostitutes and live most of their life as a lie, unable to explain their income or job to anyone. They have a certain freedom that disposable income brings but that is not the same as human warmth. So sometimes they kid themselves (the way some fluffy punters do). They persuade themselves that a certain punter is 'more like a friend': but then they are having a birthday party and realise they cannot invite their 50 yr old friend to meet a house full of 20-yr olds with no convincing back up story as to why such a person is a close friend they have never heard of. That of course is the better scenario! The more probable one is that she sometimes unconsciously but usually consciously feel that it is 'good business' -- like a rather inept version of companies that send you personalised greetings by phone or email.

If you like GFE, just remember it is a temporary illusion, one that you are paying for. It's like a contractual arrangement where she pretends and you pretend in order to heighten a particular type of paid-sex encounter. Such a punter would be advised to enjoy it if he must, keep it fair and polite: but be ready to let go at a second's notice.

Agree. A lot of men just can't help themselves though. That's maybe because they are a bit useless at navigating the sex/love/warmth/friendship thing. Women often aren't. They've been playing with it for years, and we take a long time to learn, if ever. Hope that doesn't sound like bitter comment as it's not meant that way, but some men can get twisted into knots pretty easily.

I agree, just keep it simple.


OP - 'your girls' ? My advice - check your perspective.