Forgetting to pay

[Neal69]

I usually hand over the money at the beginning of a punt saying something like " before I forget".

On my Third visit to a WG tonight I was just being seen out of the door after another most enjoyable hour and a bit I put my hand in my back right pocket where I only keep my comb and punting money, checking I had picked up everything before I left, and sure enough the money was still there.
 
I obviously handed it over with a bit of an embarrassed smile but it was a close run thing.

As She is a fair distance away from me it would have been a pain going back another time just to hand over The Cash.

Had She been a proper regular I may have just phoned or texted her and said " I will pay you next time" but as I said a third visit only.

She had either forgotten herself or was too embarrassed to ask.

How do others deal with this or do You never forget?

N

[stampjones]

I have a really shit memory and if I dont pay up front Im always in danger of forgetting. I really dread that "excuse me..." Its the most embarassing thing in the world and makess me feel like a total cheap shot. Fortunately I usually pay up front so its only happened a few times. I think Thai Zizzi used to get a perverse kick out of seeing if she could distract me into forgetting so she could laugh at my red face when she "reminded me".

[Neal69]

I have a really shit memory and if I dont pay up front Im always in danger of forgetting. I really dread that "excuse me..." Its the most embarassing thing in the world and makess me feel like a total cheap shot. Fortunately I usually pay up front so its only happened a few times. I think Thai Zizzi used to get a perverse kick out of seeing if she could distract me into forgetting so she could laugh at my red face when she "reminded me".

Maybe that is what she was up to. 

N

[milo]

Here is a similar thread from the past you may enjoy looking at again while waiting for more responses.
https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=67543

[stampjones]

Maybe that is what she was up to. 

N

Maybe but I certainly wasnt complaining about the distractions

[Home Alone]

I usually hand over the money at the beginning of a punt saying something like " before I forget".

N

As I get out of the car, I check that the notes are in the trousers pocket; and as soon as the SP's shut the front door behind us, I hand them over, saying, "Pop these in your purse."

It's another part of my 'punting routine', and ensures I never forget to pay.

[MrMatrix]

As I get out of the car, I check that the notes are in the trousers pocket; and as soon as the SP's shut the front door behind us, I hand them over, saying, "Pop these in your purse."

It's another part of my 'punting routine', and ensures I never forget to pay.

I always ask them to count it as well. Some time ago there was one guy here who got scammed for another 20 after they had finished. He was convinced there was the full amount when he handed the money over. Its just good practice IMO. Only once was I short uninentionally and luckily I asked her to check it as I do, so I was still left with my credibility.

[James999]

Follow the pro$$ie line and say "I'll make it up to you next time" and then just forget it totally 

[MrMatrix]

Follow the pro$$ie line and say "I'll make it up to you next time" and then just forget it totally 

Granted James its a tempting option. 

[The Outsider]

I have the right money counted out and folded in half so it's separate from any other cash I have in my wallet.  I usually hand it over as soon as we're in the bedroom but in the event of an early "distraction", I can always identify which notes are/were intended for the lady. 

I did once get half way down the stairs on the way out of a booking before being asked if I'd "forgotten something".  I confess I checked for my car keys and phone before realizing what she meant! Haven't made the same mistake since as I was very embarrassed. 

[Tommy_73]

I used to see an SP regularly and forgot to pay her on a few occasions. I turned up without any cash once too.

I'd always pay up next time I saw here though.

[stayer]

It's happened to me once or twice, not a problem as I paid just as I was leaving when she reminded me.

[fatboy]

If the girl is new to me I always hand over the money first. Of the regulars I frequent most do not bother until after and there is one where we frequently almost forget. There was one who always got the paperwork ' out of the way' but I suspect that was just her routine not my dodgy persona. Like others I have the exact money in my pocket and I have a post punt check list of money, glasses, phone and most importantly, flies. I am more likely to not do my flies up than forget to pay.
What's the comb for Neal ? Giving Nana a tidy up before you get down there ?
Cheers, FB. 

[sparkus]

I've forgotten once or twice in post-orgasm elation, but she blocked the door.

[PleadInsanity]

Only once for me. I went to hand her the money at the beginning and she insisted to do it at the end of the meet. Just as she was closing the door I felt the money in my pocket and quickly stopped her closing it fully to give her the cash, she did'nt seem that bothered
I would have returned to pay it even if I was half way home.

[dudezilla]

Not forgetting to pay... but on my second ever punt, I got so 'excited' that I grabbed the card from the cash point and walked off without the cash. Realised and cut back to find no cash. Realised I'd been a twat, so withdrew some more and carried on.
Checked the account the next day - the cash point had snatched it back in before someone grabbed it - lucky bastard.

[kefcseries]

the cash point had snatched it back in before someone grabbed it - lucky bastard.

Didn't know that cash points did that, not that I ever plan to test it out   

[Lizzie_Lockhart]

I've had a client pay at the start but then go for extras mid booking.  Rather than stop the fun I said we'd sort it out at the end and we both ended up forgetting.  He got to the car before remembering, he said he came back but I must have been in the shower. 

He's offered to double it when he comes to see me next, but since we both forgot I've told him there's no need and the original price agreed is good enough for me.

When I was a newbie had a client confess mid booking that he spent the money meant for me on coke and he'd happily split that with me instead... he was shown the door in short order and learned my lesson to get the cash up front.

On the other hand I've had a semi-regular decide to go from a 15min session to a 30min but wanted to go for a drive around the block in between ( ) he paid for 30mins as it's cheaper than 2 x 15mins but ended up getting called into work and hasn't been back since.  I've put a private note on AW saying I owe him so it'll work itself out lol.

xxx

[Quagmire]

Didn't know that cash points did that, not that I ever plan to test it out   

They do and whatever amount you were trying to withdraw is instantly transferred back to your account.
...thats if tramps, gypos, other opportunists etc don't get it first of course....

[mrdiamond77]

I always pay at the beginning of the punt to get it out of the way, just in case I forget.  Several years ago, after a booking in a busy parlour in Newport City Centre I accidently forgot to pay and the boss ended up shouting at me in the street afterwards to pay up, most embarrassing.  She was fine about in though, and she let me back next time.

[latecomer]

Didn't know that cash points did that, not that I ever plan to test it out   

When I was at an ATM recently, a rather sad old gentleman told me that you had 9 seconds (at that particular bank anyway) to grab the cash before the machine grabbed it back for you.  He had learned that the hard way.

[Alvin]

I have come close to forgetting once, I was doing my check that I had everything (after having left my phone before that I remembered after walking out the front door, luckily it was a house) when I found the money in my back pocket.

Since then I like to hand over the money up front but with a couple of regulars they only want the money at the end.  One of them has when I handed it over just placed on the side in full view until the end when she picked it up.

[munterhunter]

Done this 2 or 3 times with a wg I saw regularly usually because we were having a laugh about something or a conversation.  No embarrassment involved.  I've also had a situation where a wg I knew texted me and said "Do you want to meet?" I replied "Wouldn't mind but will have to wait a few days for payday. She said "It's ok I'll see you today and you can pay me on payday. I had known her for years and done some IT work for her so I got laid and she got paid.

[Dreamweaver1]

Usually pay up front on arrival before shower, but with one regular forgot to pay before the action several times. Never forgot before leaving though, always remembered as getting dressed. Used to leave phone wallet and car keys in same pocket as a fail safe.

[DrConners]

Happened to me once, got to the door & was let in - she was standing in front of me all dolled up in REALLY sexy lingerie - every coherent thought quickly exited my brain. Staring at her arse as we made our way to the bedroom it wasn't until we were on the bed & I started kissing her she said something like "Aren't you forgetting something ?"

Felt like a right prick TBH but she was fine & I had a great time , since then I've been putting my punting cash in an envelope & hand that over at the beginning or during any small talk, it reminds me that I've got it as I would never normally carry an envelope of cash round with me 

[TomR]

I always used to hand over the envelope immediately and then we could both forget about it. However, I remember on one occasion forgetting to do that and after we had finished in the bedroom got so engrossed in conversation that I left with the envelope still in my pocket. About 2 minutes after I had left I got a text from the agency about it so went back. Everything was fine as I used the agency regularly at the time and had built up a good rapport with the owner so we had a laugh about it but if it had been with a someone for the first time I imagine that it could have caused trust issues.

[Gatchaman]

I prefer to get the payment out of the way at the start so I don't forget, but a few girls have said don't worry about it until later.

I did actually leave without paying recently (the first and hopefully last time) and didn't realise until I had a text about it.  Bloody embarrassing, but she was fine about it and I was seeing her again the next day for a duo, so thankfully easy to rectify.

[myothernameis]

Sexy Sami Glasgow, first time I met her mid Aug, and very warm out side, the min I stepped into her flat she was all over me, and this is seemingly was the norm, and ended up paying at the end as I was leaving

[dudezilla]

When I was at an ATM recently, a rather sad old gentleman told me that you had 9 seconds (at that particular bank anyway) to grab the cash before the machine grabbed it back for you.  He had learned that the hard way.

That would have been me then!! 

[Diehard]

I never hand any money over until they ask for it. In every other trade or service they ask for payment so I fail to see why it's different with hookers.

[nervous1]

When I first started punting it would always be the first thing I did accompanied by a 'how much do I owe you?' just incase.  There were a couple of times later on which I had to be asked for the money which I personally hate but it just slipped my mind as we just started chatting as soon I entered and got distracted.  One of those times I added an extra tenner such was my embarrassment but was acknowledged by her to be fair.

[Diehard]

When I first started punting it would always be the first thing I did accompanied by a 'how much do I owe you?' just incase.  There were a couple of times later on which I had to be asked for the money which I personally hate but it just slipped my mind as we just started chatting as soon I entered and got distracted.  One of those times I added an extra tenner such was my embarrassment but was acknowledged by her to be fair.

An extra tenner? For what?

[nervous1]

Embarrassment.  Also a little penalty so I don't do it again.

[MrMatrix]

Embarrassment.  Also a little penalty so I don't do it again.

Genuine over sight Nervous1, it can happen to any of us. And in most cases have. Personally I would have only paid the right money and thats it.

[nervous1]

Genuine over sight Nervous1, it can happen to any of us. And in most cases have. Personally I would have only paid the right money and thats it.

It just happened in a matter of seconds.  Don't really regret it but I doubt I'll do it again unless escort goes above & beyond.  Sometimes it's nice to be nice.

[Neal69]

If the girl is new to me I always hand over the money first. Of the regulars I frequent most do not bother until after and there is one where we frequently almost forget. There was one who always got the paperwork ' out of the way' but I suspect that was just her routine not my dodgy persona. Like others I have the exact money in my pocket and I have a post punt check list of money, glasses, phone and most importantly, flies. I am more likely to not do my flies up than forget to pay.
What's the comb for Neal ? Giving Nana a tidy up before you get down there ?
Cheers, FB. 

She is tidy enough down there as you well know 

I usually do the spectacles, testicles, wallet and watch check before I leave as I am also inclined to leave my flies undone as well. I suppose I had better add the back right pocket check to my routine now as well.

N

[Oxfordswing]

I always leave it in an envelope and leave it very obvious for them to pick up but i did have a slightly embarracing time where she forgot to take it.

In a hotel and had an amazing 4 hours (should have been 2) with a full on booze fueled sex binge, It was a ground floor room with an exit via patio doors into the ground and we had gone out for a cig several times durig the evening.

After she left at about 3am, I was total bolloxed and hit the bed and was out like a light, not realising she had forgotten the envelope

I woke up to a huge ammount of banging on the patio door. Opened it to find her outside. Turned out she had been knocking for about 20 minutes after first waking up the two room occupants along the row because she couldn't remember my room.

Luckilly I didn't know them but if she had gone the other way along the row, there were several work colleagues staying in the same place

I was so drunk I didn't even really register what was ging on and even the next morning I wasn't sure if I had dreamed it or not until she emailed me the next day to appologie for waking me up

[Mark1]

I only forgot once, but it was with a girl that I saw regularly at the time. Luckly I remembered just before I got to the tube station. I phoned her and she was ok about it and she had forgot herself. We were too busy talking: we had know each other for about two years then. And we were (or at least I was) having a really good time. I have been very close a couple of other times.

[CityTillIDie]

I always pay in an envelope as soon as the WG goes into the lounge - I have the envelope on the table ready for when she arrives. No uneasiness on her part that way. I encourage her to count while I make drinks.

One girl I had seen a few times stayed for a while for coffee and a chat and we were looking at local properties on the internet- she forgot her envelope. She rang an hour later and popped back.

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[Jas1975]

It is the first thing I do.. Make sure I hand over the booking fee...