Finding difficult to cum in the bag

[Punter115]

I was wondering if any other guys have the same problem I am having ........

When I am having sex with the Escort I really do not get much sexual sensation with the bag on and I can never get near to cumming.
I have to eventually get her to give me owo/ciim.

I have just started using Escorts for the last six months , before that I had no sex for nearly ten years ..plenty wanking only ....I am now 65 years old and I do use viagra.

Any constructive comments would be appreciated.

[davison]

We all have that feeling.  Your dick and brain kind of get used to it and it gets easier, but it's never quite as good, and the worst of it comes and goes.  I have not been able to cum my last two punts, which were really good.  (50yo and on the juice).

Only thing that helps for me is to definitely save up 3-4 days of cum.

[MoTToM]

I don't think it's that uncommon, and it's something I've experienced myself. Cutting out the wanking (and porn) made a huge difference and really helped me. Mostly inspired and assisted by this thread.

[JesWhoreSin]

Buy a pack of femidoms.... some girls are suss when punters take their own protection but if unopened they should be fine.
It MIGHT just help... its psychological as well as the lesser sensation because the restriction around your cock.
Might work worth a try?

[cueball]

I don't think it's that uncommon, and it's something I've experienced myself. Cutting out the wanking (and porn) made a huge difference and really helped me. Mostly inspired and assisted by this thread.

This ^^ is the best reply so far op

[hungrypunt]

I don't think it's that uncommon, and it's something I've experienced myself. Cutting out the wanking (and porn) made a huge difference and really helped me. Mostly inspired and assisted by this thread.

Heres you answer right there.
AND let me tell you the celery cum blast thread works for me too....

[mrhappypants]

Yep you are not alone OP.  I reached the age of sexual maturity in 1981 the year AIDs was first identified.  Condoms have been a blight on my sex life.

I am late to punting and the difference in sensation between BB (which I did extensively with civvie girlfriends) and condoms is enormous.  I suspect being uncircumcised exaggerates the effect, as does punting over an unpaid shag (psychological).

I don't use Viagra but regard CIM as an essential service.  The comments on abstinence are well advised but require a lot of self control.

By way of interest, I was involved in a trial of a male contraceptive pill in the early 00's that never achieved licence. In my view government of all shades of opinion has a strong vested interest in keeping the birth rate up by denying men an effective, reliable form of contraception and disease protection that does not totally interfere with the act - or why else are will still dependent on 18th century technology in such an important area of personal freedom and enjoyment?

[GreyDave]

  Yep me to this is I think an age thing with some of us over 40`s I am 55 and find the same yeah there are a few 70-80 olds out there who still get it up unaided But those as my GP (little horny Asian girl ) told me are the exception. The blue pills etc help but also delay.    Watch out for the girl who wanks you silly to get the pop in a hurry this happened to me at the ending of an hour punt a year or so ago trying to get the second pop out it made the uretha sore as hell I thought I`d caught something as it was like pissing glass  I went to local Gum and was tested for works all clear I explained to Male Dr what I`d been up to ease off on forcing the next one out and wanking was advice

[Horizontal pleasures]

I am 75. I hate the bags. Do not take my advice as to the best way out.

[MoTToM]

Ironically, I'm starting to appreciate condoms - to delay ejaculation. Been on NoFap/NoPorn for a little over three months now, and the amount of sensitivity I've regained is astonishing. So much so that cumming too quick is my main concern now. Figure if I keep practicing, the pendulum will swing back and eventually settle somewhere in the middle. Quitting the 'death grip' is key.

It's difficult going days or even weeks(!) without, but it does have the advantage of making nerves somewhat irrelevant, in the sense that a girl (professional or civilian) need only smile in one's general direction to instantly inspire a stiffie. Makes one eager as fuck. 

[dickdastardly14]

I used to have the same problem, but started to buy the very thin ( but stronger ) condoms made in Japan. They give far more sensativity than the cheap thick ones most girls supply and I've gone from hardly cumming at all for years to filling the bag the last 6 times in a row, so they seem to be working for me  . Haven't had a problem with the girls refusing to use them, but I tell them when I book.

[two20]

Personally I get a far more intense orgasm with OWO/CIM and just stick to that now. It certainly doesn't feel like second best to me.

[Horizontal pleasures]

I used to have the same problem, but started to buy the very thin ( but stronger ) condoms made in Japan. They give far more sensativity than the cheap thick ones most girls supply and I've gone from hardly cumming at all for years to filling the bag the last 6 times in a row, so they seem to be working for me  . Haven't had a problem with the girls refusing to use them, but I tell them when I book.

thanks
brand name?
source to buy them?
HP

[mrhappypants]

thanks
brand name?
source to buy them?
HP

+1

[rovingman]

+1

+2

[SJ772]

Same here, find it very difficult and have only cum in the bag a handful of times.  Last few punts I had I even found the bag was starting to kill my erection so back to more OWO.     I think some of that was in my head due to worrying if I was going to stay hard once the condom was on, last thing you want to start thinking about as it leads to a negative cycle of thinking.

[The Vicar of Dibley]

I used to have the same problem, but started to buy the very thin ( but stronger ) condoms made in Japan. They give far more sensativity.

On my last punt the lady said she was using one of these. Said they were very expensive Japanese ones and should feel like BB. Wrong, still felt like a marigold glove to me.

[godwulf7]

thanks
brand name?
source to buy them?
HP

Hi - do you mean the non-latex Sagami 0.01mm Japanese condoms?  I buy these over the Internet from Japan and they are excellent.  Definitely not cheap, but very good.  It helps that I am not hung like a donkey as well.  They are, in my experience at least, completely reliable and allow you to pick up the sensation of vaginal warmth and texture during sex.  Top drawer condoms.

I used the 0.02mm Premium ones for years, and they were about £4-£5 each, so I got into the habit of one shot in the bag, and one as OWO and CIM.  Worked well for me for years, but these days I tend to go one shot in the hour! 

[steve7458]

Got to say I have the same issues and I have restrained from porn etc.  I am fit and healthy and on the "once a year" with the wife I have no problem BB, but only 1 WG got me to cum with a condom on.  She wasn't as sexy as the girl i see now but her technique and resilience was particularly impressive.

I prefer OWO/CIM anyway, but I do like to also have some penetration, however I have to be really in the right mood for it to be worthwhile.

[GBF121]

I am sort of in the same situation as the OP.  Same age,but  a gap of "only" just under 2 years. I had a friend,sort of (!)and we did it for about 4 years,more often than not,I couldn't cum,either with or with out bag. Before that a couple of WGs,one a regular for a couple of years and it took me about 6-7 sessions spread over  several months (with bag ofcourse) that I started to cum.Think its down to relaxation and ofcourse laying off the HR before hand, pun not really intended !

Anyway the" friend " has now "moved on" and I hoping get one in over the next couple of weeks,before I reach that 2 year mark ,just hope it dont get too cold again  !

[dickdastardly14]

Sorry about late reply HP and others. Sagami Original 001 is the name. I bought them off Amazon !!
As another poster above has said, they're not cheap but do the job nicely. And if you're forking out £100+ for an hour an extra couple of quid to finish off is nothing really.

[the.economist]

Ironically, I'm starting to appreciate condoms - to delay ejaculation. Been on NoFap/NoPorn for a little over three months now, and the amount of sensitivity I've regained is astonishing. So much so that cumming too quick is my main concern now. Figure if I keep practicing, the pendulum will swing back and eventually settle somewhere in the middle. Quitting the 'death grip' is key.

It's difficult going days or even weeks(!) without, but it does have the advantage of making nerves somewhat irrelevant, in the sense that a girl (professional or civilian) need only smile in one's general direction to instantly inspire a stiffie. Makes one eager as fuck. 

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[bigbird]

I was wondering if any other guys have the same problem I am having ........

When I am having sex with the Escort I really do not get much sexual sensation with the bag on and I can never get near to cumming.
I have to eventually get her to give me owo/ciim.

I have just started using Escorts for the last six months , before that I had no sex for nearly ten years ..plenty wanking only ....I am now 65 years old and I do use viagra.

Any constructive comments would be appreciated.

A few tips from me...

1) One thing i always make sure of, if you have a foreskin, make sure its pulled back when you put the bag on, that way as you move in and out of the lady  it slides over your helmet as it would do without a rubber.. I once knobbed an escort and she put the bag over my dick while my foreskin was fully covering my shaft, couldn't feel a thing....

2) Also try and get the lady going naturally if you can  , some of them pump the lube in themselves by the gallon (and over your dick) and then also you cant feel anything.

3) Prob the most important IMO .....When paying for sex (and wearing a rubber of course) a general rule of the thumb i found, young small girls have tighter pussies than older bigger girls... Of course there are exceptions to the rule, but generally this is correct... Each to their own but i prefer girls in their 20's, and don't really consider the older "larger" ladies, they are not for me...

[Gordon Bennett]

I'm pretty sure that Viagra causes a loss of sensation..... It does for me anyway. Consider if you could get hard without the blue pill.i realise that when you're paying for a fuck you want the insurance of a guaranteed stiffy to play with but, like I say, you could be desensitizing your cock as well as stiffening it. If you have a regular you fancy and are comfortable with, it might be worth trying her without Viagra and see how you get on?

[howrude]

I don't find i get a good an orgasm cumming in a condom. For a while, I've preferred to be jerked off.

[agent47]

I don't think it's that uncommon, and it's something I've experienced myself. Cutting out the wanking (and porn) made a huge difference and really helped me. Mostly inspired and assisted by this thread.

This ,This is all you need to know. After my first 5 or 6 punts i noticed a pattern where i could only bring myself off and spit a load in the girls face or tits. Then i realised i needed to restrain from porn and the hand shandy's. Now i find it euphoric holding onto a woman and finishing inside her, sometimes it just feels better then the mucky stuff. The Brain upstairs and downstairs are both basically muscles that need training.

[Hungarian Lover]

Yes I have the same problem, I think it's partly the lack of sensitivity wearing a condom and also an age problem, I'm heading towards 63 years old. I'm in no doubt that to much porn has dulled my brain and the dreaded death grip has robbed the old man of much feeling. I once lay off any porn for two months but didn't last more than three minutes when a girl was giving me a blow job. Also when using an ED pill this definitely has a severe delaying effect which is ok if you want to pound away for half an hour. Might see about buying some of those super thin condoms and this week might try a punt without taking a blue pill.

[Jumping Jack Flash]

I'm the same as others, never liked condoms & always struggle to cum in one. However I won't bare back so I've tended to visit FBSM providers with a HE.

There is big plus point though. I use Seeking Arrangement and have several regular meets off that site. I find that the combination of condoms, a couple of glasses of wine and a little blue pill means that it can take hours to cum. If I'm on an overnight meting with a SB she thinks I'm some sort of sexual marathon runner and I love being able to fuck all night! Now some might say that the aim is to cum and of course it is. But fucking a fit twenty something until she can take no more is wonderful. Particularly when they beg you to cum over them!

[wilson1962]

One thing that I have found is for the girl to put plenty of spit or KY jelly on your cock before putting on the condom. Give iy a try and report back please.

[mediumjoe]

Very good chance it will come off during sex , probably not a good idea .

   Sorry no experience of it but it's what  i've heard .

[mash]

Sorry about late reply HP and others. Sagami Original 001 is the name. I bought them off Amazon !!
As another poster above has said, they're not cheap but do the job nicely. And if you're forking out £100+ for an hour an extra couple of quid to finish off is nothing really.

My dong is v v average and I cant get those things on me! Do they come in different sizes cos I havent bothered with them since!

BB feels so much better but never ever with a prossie!