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Offline DDKK18

Right so this is something which I thought was more pointless oriented due to how its filmed and the stresses put on the bloke. But I have noticed it time and time again in reviews ect.

Why wank yourself to completion when you have a Woman there which you have paid to do this??  Now I understand if your in her and its a last second pull out whip the condom off and soot up her body or its a domination thing. But any other time I don't understand. Last thing I could ever think of doing would be to pull my cock out of her mouth and wank off over her.

Curious more than anything

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If it does nothing for you then don't do it.

But to answer your question, everyone's different, some punters don't cum at all in bookings, some only oral, some only by masturbation, the list of what gets a bloke off is endless, sometimes the bloke can do a better job on himself than the escort.   

Offline Payyourwaymate

Right so this is something which I thought was more pointless oriented due to how its filmed and the stresses put on the bloke. But I have noticed it time and time again in reviews ect.

Why wank yourself to completion when you have a Woman there which you have paid to do this??  Now I understand if your in her and its a last second pull out whip the condom off and soot up her body or its a domination thing. But any other time I don't understand. Last thing I could ever think of doing would be to pull my cock out of her mouth and wank off over her.

Curious more than anything

Because a lot of them are shit at giving handjobs. Pulling on your dick like a tug of war  :dash: :dash: :dash:.

Online Dipper

Because a lot of them are shit at giving handjobs. Pulling on your dick like a tug of war  :dash: :dash: :dash:.

Hate that. When they batter it like a rubber hose :thumbsdown:

Then at the other end of the scale when it’s a limp wristed tickle :lol:

Offline Thephoenix

For some of us ol'codgers who occasionally have difficulty cumming, it's either finishing off yourself or watching the poor lady collapse with severe wanker's cramp and exhaustion.

Offline Payyourwaymate

Hate that. When they batter it like a rubber hose :thumbsdown:

Then at the other end of the scale when it’s a limp wristed tickle :lol:

Ah man that is shit too. I swear when I've experienced that I just looked at them like really? or I have to grab their hand to show what I want 😫😫😫. You would think giving handjobs would be easy but nooo  :lol:

Offline Steely Dan

Did you ever wank watching porn or even girly pics?  Wouldn't it be better if instead of being a pic or video, she was in the room with you moaning?  And you just fucked her, so you know she is tight and wet?  And when you do cum, you can do it on her tits or maybe somewhere else you like?

Nope, can't think of any reason a guy would like that, makes no sense.

Offline LLPunting

Very few SPs have any inclination to edge a guy unless asked to, fewer know how to do it.  Similarly few are inclined to make your orgasm last as often one cum is all you get (or can manage within the time purchased) and they're already thinking of the next wad of cash to walk in the door.  For those reasons doing the job yourself makes sense to get the best cum for your money, including using up the time you paid for or if things are really dire to end things as quickly and pleasurably as you can whilst you regret spending any money on the skank she proves to be.

On the other hand if you're with a quality SP (or civvy) and you're both enjoying each other then wanking off over her is just part of the fun, she understands she's responsible for driving you to that nut and you're showing her how much she can get out of you, if she's watching she may learn how you like it and then she may well deliver one later or at another encounter.

Loads of other reasons based on the kink in the wanker's head.

Offline Stevelondon

Right so this is something which I thought was more pointless oriented due to how its filmed and the stresses put on the bloke. But I have noticed it time and time again in reviews ect.

Why wank yourself to completion when you have a Woman there which you have paid to do this??  Now I understand if your in her and its a last second pull out whip the condom off and soot up her body or its a domination thing. But any other time I don't understand. Last thing I could ever think of doing would be to pull my cock out of her mouth and wank off over her.

Curious more than anything

So judging by your remarks. Your the "Pays your money for a blow job n shag" kinda guy.

Where as a lot of others on here might be in the "Lets have a bit of variation" group of punters.
Over the years I have had lots of different punts, including finishing myself off by my own hand.
Last thing I would ever think of doing would be to be boring.

Offline Sam182

Quite like wanking myself off while a girl got her tongue up my arse and then get her to take over just at the right time

Offline alabama1

Quite like wanking myself off while a girl got her tongue up my arse and then get her to take over just at the right time
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Offline DDKK18

Because a lot of them are shit at giving handjobs. Pulling on your dick like a tug of war  :dash: :dash: :dash:.

Hahah yeah I will give you that. Do think I got bruised cock once  :scare:

Offline DDKK18

So judging by your remarks. Your the "Pays your money for a blow job n shag" kinda guy.

Where as a lot of others on here might be in the "Lets have a bit of variation" group of punters.
Over the years I have had lots of different punts, including finishing myself off by my own hand.
Last thing I would ever think of doing would be to be boring.

Nope quiet the opposite.  Generally go for overnight meets with a lot of variation in it.

Offline DDKK18

Quite like wanking myself off while a girl got her tongue up my arse and then get her to take over just at the right time

Will have to remember that one!

Offline DDKK18

Very few SPs have any inclination to edge a guy unless asked to, fewer know how to do it.  Similarly few are inclined to make your orgasm last as often one cum is all you get (or can manage within the time purchased) and they're already thinking of the next wad of cash to walk in the door.  For those reasons doing the job yourself makes sense to get the best cum for your money, including using up the time you paid for or if things are really dire to end things as quickly and pleasurably as you can whilst you regret spending any money on the skank she proves to be.

On the other hand if you're with a quality SP (or civvy) and you're both enjoying each other then wanking off over her is just part of the fun, she understands she's responsible for driving you to that nut and you're showing her how much she can get out of you, if she's watching she may learn how you like it and then she may well deliver one later or at another encounter.

Loads of other reasons based on the kink in the wanker's head.

That makes sense I guess. My punts are normally over nights with lots of edging and teasing to both of us . Which I guess is a different  set up to alot of others.

Offline tynetunnel

Any chance of a contribution to the site in the form of a review  :unknown: You should be due for one after over 6 years a member.

Be fair mate, he did a two line review nearly four years ago. Surely cut the guy a little slack?  :unknown: :sarcastic:

Offline Joball87

I sometimes quite like to finish myself off over face, tits etc - just a bit of variety and with me in control sort of fun aiming the shot rather than the SP do it. In the bag also nice of course. Variety is the thing for me.

Offline Stevelondon

Nope quiet the opposite.  Generally go for overnight meets with a lot of variation in it.


But your review says first time with a WG.

But I do see you like variation. I particularly liked the part where you said,

"We kept mixing it with me fingering or kicking her whilst also lots of kissing and gentle caressing"

Must admit i've never done that before  :D


I'm only joking mate.....good on yeh !

Offline Marmalade

Yeah that was some review!
Always good to preview a review for typos and weird autocorrects before posting it.

Otherwise he could find himself a bit too close to ‘rusty spoon’ territory!  :scare:

Offline PumpDump

If I feel like I'm not going to get over the finish line when fucking I will finish myself off by hand and cum over some part of her body. Reason being if I can't cum from fucking her there is little chance she will be able to do it with her hand. Nothing kills a boner faster than looking down and seeing the pain in her face as her arm cramps up.

Offline JPin

If I feel like I'm not going to get over the finish line when fucking I will finish myself off by hand and cum over some part of her body. Reason being if I can't cum from fucking her there is little chance she will be able to do it with her hand. Nothing kills a boner faster than looking down and seeing the pain in her face as her arm cramps up.

Haha too real.


Online Colston36

If it does nothing for you then don't do it.

But to answer your question, everyone's different, some punters don't cum at all in bookings, some only oral, some only by masturbation, the list of what gets a bloke off is endless, sometimes the bloke can do a better job on himself than the escort.

I have yet to meet a woman who could do it better than me.

Offline Zen calm

My last two punts (both reviewed) ended with me wanking and then covering the girls faces with my cum. I don't do it all the time though. I think watching a lot of porn influences it as many scenes end that way.



Offline itk

Right so this is something which I thought was more pointless oriented due to how its filmed and the stresses put on the bloke. But I have noticed it time and time again in reviews ect.

Why wank yourself to completion when you have a Woman there which you have paid to do this??  Now I understand if your in her and its a last second pull out whip the condom off and soot up her body or its a domination thing. But any other time I don't understand. Last thing I could ever think of doing would be to pull my cock out of her mouth and wank off over her.

Curious more than anything

My last punt I did exactly this at the end of the punt. Was second pop and I knew if I was to cum a second time it would have to be me finishing myself off.  I do it quite a bit at the end of a punt, wanking off over her arse, tits or face.

Offline itk

If I feel like I'm not going to get over the finish line when fucking I will finish myself off by hand and cum over some part of her body. Reason being if I can't cum from fucking her there is little chance she will be able to do it with her hand. Nothing kills a boner faster than looking down and seeing the pain in her face as her arm cramps up.

Very true.

Offline boardyhell

meg from maxes wanked me onto her tongue and then swallowed
much preferred her doing it
I suppose wanking onto a girl is a power thing

Offline Stevelondon

I have yet to meet a woman who could do it better than me.

Yeh….. women are ok but you can’t beat the real thing  :lol:

Offline pa5151

It's a sad state of affairs when you pay a woman for sex, made worse when you end up jacking off to completion yourself.

Offline Payyourwaymate

It's a sad state of affairs when you pay a woman for sex, made worse when you end up jacking off to completion yourself.

What's so sad about it? If one is paying from a place of loneliness, desperation and trying to replace intimacy I get that but if they just want to have stress free sex how is it sad?

Are we all sad then since we pay  :lol:.

Offline Steely Dan

It's a sad state of affairs when you pay a woman for sex, made worse when you end up jacking off to completion yourself.
What's so sad about it? If one is paying from a place of loneliness, desperation and trying to replace intimacy I get that but if they just want to have stress free sex how is it sad?

Are we all sad then since we pay  :lol:.
Agree with PYWM.  Not sad at all.  You have the experience you want in your session, and I (and others) will have the experience we want.  Next you will say it is sad if a guy wants to meet a BBW. FFS, just review and stop judging.
« Last Edit: August 28, 2021, 01:57:40 pm by Steely Dan »

Offline SamOmar

Right so this is something which I thought was more pointless oriented due to how its filmed and the stresses put on the bloke. But I have noticed it time and time again in reviews ect.

Why wank yourself to completion when you have a Woman there which you have paid to do this??  Now I understand if your in her and its a last second pull out whip the condom off and soot up her body or its a domination thing. But any other time I don't understand. Last thing I could ever think of doing would be to pull my cock out of her mouth and wank off over her.

Curious more than anything

Dude, how people enjoy their bookings is their prerogative / their money and most of all none of your business as you are not paying for any of us to punt.
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Offline Stevelondon

WTF !!!!

I can't remember ever feeling sad when going out for a punt. Exactly the opposite.

Mind you. I never like buying the first round so handing over money to anybody for anything makes me shed a tear or two.  :lol:

Offline punter6199

If I'm giving a girl a facial I need full control over my dick so I can blast her full face

Offline Joball87

Exactly this - decent facials need control which from experience is best not done by the SP, unless you have 2 SPs with you and one of them knows how to aim.

Offline lamboman

Jesus I'd never do this only a fool would pay +£100 ph to have a wank.
Imo.
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Offline daviemac

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Jesus I'd never do this only a fool would pay +£100 ph to have a wank.
Imo.
So you think everybody should punt in exactly the same way as you and only enjoy the same things as you.   :wacko:

I pay over £100 per hour and sometimes I don't cum at all, so by your reckoning what does that make me.   :unknown:

FWIW Like the majority of punters I punt so I can do what I enjoy doing with a woman and only an idiot can't grasp the concept of that.

Offline Punterperson1971

When I pop and see this lady I have oral and then sex as I can pop quick first time,then a bit of chat and ready for Round 2 as I can’t always get it back up quick enough she gives me more oral then wank off into her mouth.
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Offline Joball87

As they say, ahem, different strokes for different folks.

Offline Marmalade

I think paying to w.t.c. must be quite common. Paying to watch her eat, less so.  :D

Offline webpunter

When on mates trips abroad after a few days punting [every day] & drinking etc tiredness sets in

In the early hours having drunk quite a bit it can be difficult to get it over the line

No chance shooting in a nodder, a HJ oilyTW usually does the trick

When struggling to shoot i've taken over & bashed the living days out of littleWP

The key is then the 'baton change' with the finish line in sight with the burd taking over for the final sprint

Think 4 * 100m relay & you don't wanna have a poor change / drop it  :scare:

Edit:  as for me still bashing it going over the line - no way jose.  Even if the burd takes over in the final couple of secs mission accomplished
« Last Edit: August 29, 2021, 11:55:58 am by webpunter »

Offline Henchmanlet95

Half the time I genuinely can't nut from just sex alone no matter how hard I try so have had to wank myself off to finish quite often. Then again I have quite a desensitized penis due to being circumcised and wanking to porn with a 'death grip' for a long time although I've cut back on it now.

Combine all that with wearing a condom and having performance anxiety I think it's quite a big achievement when I do cum from just shagging alone tbh.

Offline Stevelondon

Jesus I'd never do this only a fool would pay +£100 ph to have a wank.
Imo.


It’s not just a wank though is it. It’s a punting experience and as such it’s about what makes it more enjoyable. :D

I’d be bored to fucking tears if every punt was a hand over cash, she lies back and I shag her kind of experience.
Saying that. There’s nowt wrong with that from time to time.

Offline JohnsonSchlong

I agree - and this is one of things I don't get about porn - 99% of the time you end up watching a bloke having a wank while a woman is nearby. Weird.

Offline Thephoenix

I agree - and this is one of things I don't get about porn - 99% of the time you end up watching a bloke having a wank while a woman is nearby. Weird.

I think I must be watching different porn sites mate. :unknown:

Offline Payyourwaymate

I agree - and this is one of things I don't get about porn - 99% of the time you end up watching a bloke having a wank while a woman is nearby. Weird.

You know porn shoots take all day right and male studs take performance drugs too. They have to be able to buss when the director tells them too, deal with performance anxiety, maintain an erection, think about angles for the camera, deal with work colleagues etc. It's really hard to buss a nut on call via someone else, especially if you are having an erection for majority of the day and have to perform plus having multiple cameras and lighting on you. For pornstars, it's not sex. It's work, a performance. Completely different kettle of fish from normal sex. It's no surprise they have to wank themselves till completion, they probably have to get in a zone to be able to do it after hours of on and off boners, photoshoots, angles etc. I would never be a pornstar. I would end up hating sex.
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Offline Troydor69

Each to their own. Also different situations call for different endings. I’ve quite recently discovered that girls feet turn me in while I’m on the job. I’m not suggesting that everyone else should jam a girls foot into their mouth to get them off, but I’d be a bit pissed off if I was judged for doing it.

Offline Marmalade

The classic is waking over her face.

Offline Thephoenix

The classic is waking over her face.

Really! :unknown: I'll have to remember that next time I fall asleep on the massage table. :thumbsup:

Offline Home Alone

Really! :unknown: I'll have to remember that next time I fall asleep on the massage table. :thumbsup:

It's a common problem for us Silver Punters, isn't it, Phoenix?!!  ;)  :D  :lol:

Offline unclepokey

It's a common problem for us Silver Punters, isn't it, Phoenix?!!  ;)  :D  :lol:
Certainly one for me and these days the only way but, to be fair, I plead that my tongue is usually employed giving the lady concerned in the congress really good workout and vibratory action upon her most sensitive bits.