Being ambushed or vetted?, please help

[Hubert40]

Hello,

Not sure of this one guys.

Rang the escort (on AW) booked a time slot, got postcode, and brief description of address. She said street name, and then Tesco carpark. She explained on phone as I got near her, that her flat has no entrance on the street. And the only entrance is at the back, basically in a little Tesco carpark. (I think she is correct on the entrance point)

So, on the phone she wanted to see me in the carpark before she gave no. of flat / allowed entrance.

She wouldn't give flat number, so I didn't see her, and called it off.

So was I going to be ambushed? Vetted on my appearance?

Thank you very much.

[Tig101]

Vetted more likely. Reminded me of this.
https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=19353.0

This girl had a rep for doing this on a local forum.

[Poopster]

Maybe not necessarily being vetted for your attractiveness to her, it might be she gets let down a lot and wants to make sure someone is actually there before she goes to open the door.

On a more sinister front, maybe she's been the victim of an attack herself and wants to make sure you're alone and that if any shit does go down then at least you and your car are on the Tesco carpark CCTV. 

I'd tend to give the girl the benefit of the doubt in this sort of situation, it's ass-cover for her rather than something nasty in store for you.

[smiths]

Hello,

Not sure of this one guys.

Rang the escort (on AW) booked a time slot, got postcode, and brief description of address. She said street name, and then Tesco carpark. She explained on phone as I got near her, that her flat has no entrance on the street. And the only entrance is at the back, basically in a little Tesco carpark. (I think she is correct on the entrance point)

So, on the phone she wanted to see me in the carpark before she gave no. of flat / allowed entrance.

She wouldn't give flat number, so I didn't see her, and called it off.

So was I going to be ambushed? Vetted on my appearance?

Thank you very much.

Probably vetted but who knows, advice on here which I agree with is to park where you choose and make it away from the WGs place, in fact no need to even say you have driven, if asked say you got a cab or public transport.

[RedKettle]

I agree that the girl is probably genuine and in a way you cannot blame her - however I would not agree!  This has happened to me in the past (pre UKP) and I did go into the car park etc.  Got away with it that time but now older and wiser and would not agree again. 

Never park where they suggest.

[vw]

Have had this once before, I don;t drive and sill cow wouldn;t give me the fina destination until I parked.

Seems like a paranoid coke head to me and the coke phenominon of window walking.

Either way

1 You missed getting done over

2 Missed out spending time with a paranoid coke head

3 Or finally missed time with someone so paranoid it would have ruined the punt !

Think on the balance of things you come out on top with budget intact

[Jimmyredcab]

I have had a similar experience, arrived outside the block of flats, made the phone call only to be told that she can't see me, I told her to forget it and aborted the punt ------------- I refuse to jump through hoops to shag a prostitute. 

Most unlikely you were going to be mugged or ambushed.   

[Diehard]

Hello,

Not sure of this one guys.

Rang the escort (on AW) booked a time slot, got postcode, and brief description of address. She said street name, and then Tesco carpark. She explained on phone as I got near her, that her flat has no entrance on the street. And the only entrance is at the back, basically in a little Tesco carpark. (I think she is correct on the entrance point)

So, on the phone she wanted to see me in the carpark before she gave no. of flat / allowed entrance.

She wouldn't give flat number, so I didn't see her, and called it off.

So was I going to be ambushed? Vetted on my appearance?

Thank you very much.

The golden rule of punting is never do what a hooker requests. If she says park at place X, park a mile away in place Y. If she insists on you standing somewhere she can see you, check before you go there to see if others are milling about, if it is secluded then simply turn your phone off and walk away. If it is obvious you won't get done over then make sure you cover your face up so if she is recording you it is of no use. That is if you are ready to explode in your pants..if you can go another day without a fuck my advice would be to walk away, there is no reason at all for a hooker to ask you to be visible before the punt.....we punt for discretion not to be advertising ourselves on the way up.

Never ever take your wallet or anything that can identify, check and check again your pockets are empty Of all but her payment. Do not wear a nice watch. As you will have your phone use that to time the punt, set the alarm from the time you start physical contact in earnest to ensure you get the full allotted time.

Do not accept the massage. Do not engage in chit chat save for hello and goodbye. If she asks how you are say very well thank you, and leave it at that....don't ask how she is as that could illicit a ten minute response!

Basically manage your time effectively, you are there to fuck.....so fuck for the duration of the punt.

And finally, always research every potential punt on here. This site has saved me close to 5k thanks to the brilliant reviews guys leave. Never go in blind to a punt and never trust the pictures.

You did the right thing not going ahead with your punt, well done.

[Roth]

The golden rule of punting is never do what a hooker requests. If she says park at place X, park a mile away in place Y. If she insists on you standing somewhere she can see you, check before you go there to see if others are milling about, if it is secluded then simply turn your phone off and walk away. If it is obvious you won't get done over then make sure you cover your face up so if she is recording you it is of no use. That is if you are ready to explode in your pants..if you can go another day without a fuck my advice would be to walk away, there is no reason at all for a hooker to ask you to be visible before the punt.....we punt for discretion not to be advertising ourselves on the way up.

Never ever take your wallet or anything that can identify, check and check again your pockets are empty Of all but her payment. Do not wear a nice watch. As you will have your phone use that to time the punt, set the alarm from the time you start physical contact in earnest to ensure you get the full allotted time.

Do not accept the massage. Do not engage in chit chat save for hello and goodbye. If she asks how you are say very well thank you, and leave it at that....don't ask how she is as that could illicit a ten minute response!

Basically manage your time effectively, you are there to fuck.....so fuck for the duration of the punt.

And finally, always research every potential punt on here. This site has saved me close to 5k thanks to the brilliant reviews guys leave. Never go in blind to a punt and never trust the pictures.

You did the right thing not going ahead with your punt, well done.

Good advice.  Nine times out of ten it's just the prossie being careful or weird but there just a chance that it could of been a fit up.   Plenty more prossies out there that don't have a daft pre-visit routine. 

[DickDiver]

Do not accept the massage. Do not engage in chit chat save for hello and goodbye. If she asks how you are say very well thank you, and leave it at that....don't ask how she is as that could illicit a ten minute response!

Some fluffies have just had an aneurysm at this advice. Well said.

[NelsonH]

Back in the days of the local-paper ads it was quite common to get told "call me from the phone-box at the end of the road". Yeah Right, I'll do that then.

Didn't fall for this then and won't now.

I booked a local girl on AW once and got told where to park. Of course I didn't do it.

As I walked past the address, on the wrong side of the road, going in the unexpected direction, there was a burly bloke hiding just inside the door-way. I clocked him but he didn't clock me.

I just cleared off and the phone rang a few minutes later. I followed the advice given by HMQ, "never complain - never explain".

[Hubert40]

If it is obvious you won't get done over then make sure you cover your face up so if she is recording you it is of no use.

I wasn't thinking about this point, is this a real worry?

And to all: thanks guys! most helpful.

[pierrot]

She might want to check she doesn't know you before letting you in.

[Hertsgent]

Best to be safe than sorry, given plenty of choice. Agree on car parking - I never park where told.

Other one that gets me is when for hotel incalls they won't tell you the room until you are on the floor - always walked on those ones, however frustrating.

[cueball]

This is back to the real old days of pre mobile phones punting, it were a lot more James bond back in the day, call from so and so phone box and I'll give you the house number etc etc

That were many years ago with indies, to be honest I kind of got where they were coming from, they could get eyes on you before accepting the booking, I never had any bother with that old method but some of the lasses that opened the doors I wished I'd got eyes on before calling 

The mono brow bbw will live in my memory for the rest of my life 

[Blackpool Rock]

I'm sure that some girls do want to vet potential punters to try and avoid a nutter though simply clapping eyes on someone from a distance is hardly a scientific approach.
However the last time I let a girl come to my car to check me out "for her own safety" she jumped in then asked me to drive down a narrow side street then robbed me.
I've vowed not to fall into the same trap again so personally i'd call it off if I was asked to stand / park somewhere specific as it's frankly akin to putting a sign above your head saying "victim / human ATM ripe for mugging"

Some good advice in the previous posts and like JRC says don't jump through hoops for a prossie

[SophieScott]

In my honest opinion I think she's probably just wanted to see you were there before she gave out her address - there are 'address gatherers' who just phone every ad to try to find out where WGs are, strange I know but it goes on.  So I reckon she wanted to make sure you were there before directing you to her place.

But, I believe that your gut instinct is rarely wrong so if something felt wrong you did the right thing by walking.

[Jimmyredcab]

In my honest opinion I think she's probably just wanted to see you were there before she gave out her address - there are 'address gatherers' who just phone every ad to try to find out where WGs are, strange I know but it goes on. 

If you see two men a day, Monday to Friday ------------ by the end of the year 500 punters will know your adddress. 

[EnglishRebecca121]

i wont give my flat number till there in my road, way to many fucking oddballs about as the case of little katies stalker and mine proves , as escorts we do have to be picky!

[vw]

i wont give my flat number till there in my road, way to many fucking oddballs about as the case of little katies stalker and mine proves , as escorts we do have to be picky!

But do you get people to park in certain spots before giving them the number, not mentioned on your reviews.

Not sure you could know what a stalker looks like anyway by doing this sort of thing ?  Stalkers and nut jobs look like regular people they don;t have signs or special look about them !

[Diehard]

i wont give my flat number till there in my road, way to many fucking oddballs about as the case of little katies stalker and mine proves , as escorts we do have to be picky!

And how do you know they are in your road? And how are you picky exactly? Or do you not charge for sexual services?

I may be wrong, but I am inferring from your post that you sit at your window spying on clients, take down their car registration, take photographs perhaps, basically flouting every rule of obeying the punter requirement for discretion.

The point is, as has already been made by another poster, you cannot tell fuck all by looking at a bloke from your window, he won't be wearing a balaclava in all probability.

Let's make this clear, hookers have no reason, or right, to demand a punter do anything.

What is your profile name? I would refuse to risk seeing you given your admission.

[raylondoner]

What is your profile name?

Don't tell him, Pike 

[Jimmyredcab]

as escorts we do have to be picky!

More cobblers.   

[Escort 1]

You'd be surprised on how many weirdos just ask for the address and never turn up.. Not that reassuring for a prozzie thinking it might be a potential robber or stalker.

Secondly, some genuine clients might lack common sense and discretion and will knock on the girl's door 15 mins early than planned, or decide to park in the drive and wait in the car for 15 mins.

Most girls I know only give detailed directions at the last minute and provide a landmark nearby instead.

[Jimmyredcab]

You'd be surprised on how many weirdos just ask for the address and never turn up.. Not that reassuring for a prozzie thinking it might be a potential robber or stalker.

If someone is determined to rob you they will simply jump through all the hoops you put to them --------- and then rob you.

At some stage you have to give out your full address or you would get no business. 

[Malvolio]

If someone is determined to rob you they will simply jump through all the hoops you put to them --------- and then rob you.

At some stage you have to give out your full address or you would get no business.

Too right.  More to the point, as punters we need the address so we can plan our journey, judge how long it will take, where to park etc.  I tend not to drive to punts, and don't appreciate hanging around in the dark and cold waiting for a text to tell me which door to knock on.

[Michelle Independent]

If something is suppose to happen- it will. Why not install CCTV instead of playing James Bond (park here than make 6 steps and call me)?
Than if something happen You have a clear face shot. I have a see thru doors and if somebody is wearing a hoodie I won't open it.

[Sonny Crockett]

Too right.  More to the point, as punters we need the address so we can plan our journey, judge how long it will take, where to park etc.  I tend not to drive to punts, and don't appreciate hanging around in the dark and cold waiting for a text to tell me which door to knock on.

+ 

[Poopster]

I have a see thru doors and if somebody is wearing a hoodie I won't open it.

Are you real??

[rg41]

i wont give my flat number till there in my road, way to many fucking oddballs about as the case of little katies stalker and mine proves , as escorts we do have to be picky!

Very wise

[Michelle Independent]

Are you real??

Yes I am for real. Half of the doors is glass. So in the evening you can't see a face of somebody that is wearing a hoodie.
My safety comes first. Whatever you think of it.

[bensonhedges20]

Hello,

Not sure of this one guys.

Rang the escort (on AW) booked a time slot, got postcode, and brief description of address. She said street name, and then Tesco carpark. She explained on phone as I got near her, that her flat has no entrance on the street. And the only entrance is at the back, basically in a little Tesco carpark. (I think she is correct on the entrance point)

So, on the phone she wanted to see me in the carpark before she gave no. of flat / allowed entrance.

She wouldn't give flat number, so I didn't see her, and called it off.

So was I going to be ambushed? Vetted on my appearance?

Thank you very much.

Reminds me of a girl who i met late. Just didnt want to provide flat number as they anticipated you may be a timewaster


Asked me to meet at a flat and told me the house number but when i called for the flat number it was across the street. I seen her standing and she welcomed me in.

As for vehicles, never say you drive. Say taxi or public transport. Having a car at x place is risky especially as she may feel you left vakuables in a car for someone to break into as she could have an accomplice

[azrael]

Most of the time its a wg making sure your not a relative or a stalker, i used to see a wg who initally when i started seeing her would ask if i could stand infront of the cameras on the intercom so she could varify who i was

[raylondoner]

Most of the time its a wg making sure your not a relative or a stalker, i used to see a wg who initally when i started seeing her would ask if i could stand infront of the cameras on the intercom so she could varify who i was

Not a relly, never heard that one before!

I would have thought family discount more apt 

[azrael]

Not a relly, never heard that one before!

I would have thought family discount more apt 

Seriously i had a wg say no to me after a phone call, her excuse was i sounded like her uncle, even after i told her im asian and she was white, still wouldnt see me. I left it at that, her loss another wg's gain 

[jsparky]

Seriously i had a wg say no to me after a phone call, her excuse was i sounded like her uncle, even after i told her im asian and she was white, still wouldnt see me. I left it at that, her loss another wg's gain 

I think you provided the answer yourself - you sound like an 'Asian' not her uncle.

[raylondoner]

And if Bob's your uncle it doesn't bear thinking about!   

[Poopster]

Yes I am for real. Half of the doors is glass. So in the evening you can't see a face of somebody that is wearing a hoodie.
My safety comes first. Whatever you think of it.

What if they're wearing a normal jumper but a parka?  Worst of both worlds there.

[ramrodronnie]

Have had this once before, I don;t drive and sill cow wouldn;t give me the fina destination until I parked.

Seems like a paranoid coke head to me and the coke phenominon of window walking.

Either way

1 You missed getting done over

2 Missed out spending time with a paranoid coke head

3 Or finally missed time with someone so paranoid it would have ruined the punt !

Think on the balance of things you come out on top with budget intact

Avoid paranoid coke heads at all costs. 

[azrael]

I think you provided the answer yourself - you sound like an 'Asian' not her uncle.

Would you like to clarify? Since we haven't spoken to each other on a personal level, how did you reach that point?

[Jerboa]

Most of the time its a wg making sure your not a relative or a stalker, i used to see a wg who initally when i started seeing her would ask if i could stand infront of the cameras on the intercom so she could varify who i was

I've heard that too, a girl I've known for years told me her uncle turned up for a appointment at her working flat, she only realised who it was at the front door intercom, hasten to say she didn't let him in. 

[Diehard]

If someone is determined to rob you they will simply jump through all the hoops you put to them --------- and then rob you.

At some stage you have to give out your full address or you would get no business.

Way too logical reasoning for the average hooker though JRC.

[Hubert40]

Am now starting to think it was because of the time, 8.30pm and it was dark. She may of been worried about attackers, where we're worried about being scammed!