Kiss let me hold it for longer

[speedygonzal]

I’m coming to the conclusion that when I have a snog fest I am one of the best lovers around. On the other hand, if the lady  is cold and distant, I'm usually the worst one can’t control my self and can’t last very long

Are SW able to control this?  I would agree if they are in a dominant position like cowgirl or something, but this also happens in Doggy or Missionary when I have full control. I'm not sure if it's because my brain is focused on two things at the same time

[daviemac]

You've got that the wrong way round mate, the quicker you cum the better for the SP, less work for her, especially those who have a cum once policy.

You aren't a 'lover' on a date, it's paid for sex.

[Stevelondon]

You've got that the wrong way round mate, the quicker you cum the better for the SP, less work for her, especially those who have a cum once policy.

You aren't a 'lover' on a date, it's paid for sex.

You are of course correct Davie. But in the world of punting. Some of us have more vivid imaginations about what is actually happening. 😂

[daviemac]

You are of course correct Davie. But in the world of punting. Some of us have more vivid imaginations about what is actually happening. 😂

Don't get me wrong I'm massively into the GFE in a punt, in fact I normally start by massaging them, having said that whatever I do is for my pleasure and for me to get the best I can out of the experience. If the escort actually gets pleasure out of it instead of going through the motions then that's a bonus for her, when I cum isn't really relevant.

Sex with a GF or partner is different, they expect to be considered and expect the bloke to keep going until they are satisfied.

[speedygonzal]

You've got that the wrong way round mate, the quicker you cum the better for the SP, less work for her, especially those who have a cum once policy.

You aren't a 'lover' on a date, it's paid for sex.

A few service providers are so good on what they do that almost makes you feel they are enjoying it. For the doubt, compassion or maybe self esteem I really enjoy when I can last as longer as possible. It also feel good to enjoy the actual act longer.

[Atlas1957]

I am the complete opposite OP, kissing and sex at the same time makes me finish faster, which is sometimes too fast.

You've got that the wrong way round mate, the quicker you cum the better for the SP, less work for her, especially those who have a cum once policy.

This would depend on the SP's business model.

If their goal is to turn a 30 minute booking into a 10 minute booking (for whatever reason) then great.

If their goal is to turn a 30 minute booking into a 2nd 30 minute booking into a 3rd 30 minute booking and so on, then they may be looking to maximise punter enjoyment.

So, if a repeat custom focused SP could work out that the OP wanted more kissing to last longer during sex, they would provide that. I am not sure they would realise this, but they may just naturally combine kissing and sex as part of trying to give a good service.

[Billy no mates]

You are of course correct Davie. But in the world of punting. Some of us have more vivid imaginations about what is actually happening. 😂

I agree with this, in the world of punting I have a massive cock, I know because they all tell me 

[Stevelondon]

I agree with this, in the world of punting I have a massive cock, I know because they all tell me 

There was me thinking I was the only one 😂😂

[Crockers]

Only one escortl has told me I have a nice cock.

And she genuinely meant it.

The others said nothing.

A medium term partber said I was big.

Another said mine looked Black even though I was Brown!

[KatieEdinburgh]

And she genuinely meant it.

I’m interested to know how you can determine for sure she genuinely meant it. Did you get the lie detector out?

[Crockers]

We came to an arrangement and I met her at her place a few times.

Just a moment in time.

Was never gonna happen as we were both still fucking others at the same time.

[DW93]

Only one escortl has told me I have a nice cock.

And she genuinely meant it.

The others said nothing.

A medium term partber said I was big.

Another said mine looked Black even though I was Brown!

I get told quite often I have a great dick or a big dick. Or I really know how to fuck. I just thought it was part of the act but starting to think there is something in it.

And about five years ago I saw a girl in Stafford for a car meet. She literally gushed all over her bonnet as I was banging her from behind. Once she finished she was all over me and said call me anytime

I got a message a week later asking if I wanted to go see her and fuck her in stoke. For free. It was about 10pm in the evening.

I thought not sure about this. But my dick had other ideas so ventured up to stoke and ended up having a three hour fuck marathon with her.

Turns out she was on fab swingers and loved sex. She even recommended me to some of her friends on fab swingers. So had the pleasure of sleeping with some of them also. Even ended up escorting one woman to a swingers meet.

Ended up seeing her every couple of weeks for months before she moved to Bristol.

Happy days.

[alabama1]

We came to an arrangement and I met her at her place a few times.

Just a moment in time.

Was never gonna happen as we were both still fucking others at the same time.

Yeah, but you were paying ! 

[WelshClipper]

I don’t think there are any set rules that I can predict how a booking will go.

I have had brilliant SP’s where I have struggled and others where I’ve been orgasming quickly.

I have had useless SP’s where the two above situations have also occurred.

I saw horny teen Bella years ago. Yes I just wanted to fondle the tits. Despite terrible feedback on here I still went. Her worst act was trying to push the guy away during sex and very mechanical service. So I had zero expectations. Yet as luck would have it, I smashed it with no kissing or anything, just pounded away with her tits flying. Brilliant.

Who’d a thunk it 

[JonasG]

Only one escortl has told me I have a nice cock.

And she genuinely meant it.

The others said nothing.

A medium term partber said I was big.

Another said mine looked Black even though I was Brown!

That's surprising only one has mentioned you have a nice cock lol.

Most escorts either compliment your looks or your cock it seems like, it's really irritating and pointless. Just provide a good service, I'll come back regardless.

I love how one of my regulars has never complimented me on the above in like 4 years and she prob gives the best service out of anyone, that's all you need to do.

[Crockers]

That's surprising only one has mentioned you have a nice cock lol.

Most escorts either compliment your looks or your cock it seems like, it's really irritating and pointless. Just provide a good service, I'll come back regardless.

I love how one of my regulars has never complimented me on the above in like 4 years and she prob gives the best service out of anyone, that's all you need to do.

A long term reg who provides an over and above service has never complimented my cock.

Only thing she said about cocks is that when men boast to her about their cocks, she just replies:

'You know how many cocks I've seen?'

[Punterperson1971]

I’ve had the pleasure of a threesome with a very good regular and her mate who i did see on her own few times(blonde milf big natural boobs)and first threesome we had,her mate rode me cowgirl while my regular sat on my face and I heard my regular say “he’s good isn’t he” which is a confidence booster,also got a video of my regular saying how gorgeous my cock is as she’s sucking it and that it’s going up her arse later.
Whether she meant it I don’t know but it’s an ego booster at least.

[JonasG]

I’ve had the pleasure of a threesome with a very good regular and her mate who i did see on her own few times(blonde milf big natural boobs)and first threesome we had,her mate rode me cowgirl while my regular sat on my face and I heard my regular say “he’s good isn’t he” which is a confidence booster,also got a video of my regular saying how gorgeous my cock is as she’s sucking it and that it’s going up her arse later.
Whether she meant it I don’t know but it’s an ego booster at least.

Yeah it's human nature for a man when getting complimented to get boosted especially if given by a FAF WG.

But it's always good to keep some perspective and not get carried away.

I think only once I got carried away for a minute cos a FAF WG said I was handsome but then you just gotta think it's just a tactic to hook you in.

[Punterperson1971]

Yeah it's human nature for a man when getting complimented to get boosted especially if given by a FAF WG.

But it's always good to keep some perspective and not get carried away.

I think only once I got carried away for a minute cos a FAF WG said I was handsome but then you just gotta think it's just a tactic to hook you in.

I agree although I’ve known her for almost 20 years give or take and we get on really well,she has complimented me in past as well before we’ve even started a session

[JAYZ]

Yes, it is paid for sex, but some women have given the impression of enjoyment on their part. one young Russian SP told me she really liked me after the paid hour had passed and said I could stay with her for the rest of the afternoon/evening if I wanted to. Another lady who was English told me I knew how to be sensual and she appreciated it. She even asked three times throughout our 2 hours if I would marry her. Of course I've had the other extreme where the women have been disinterested, mechanical and keen to see me leave. Unless it's someone I've met before I always hope for the better experience and this site helps with narrowing down the field, although I haven't been able to punt for a while now.

[hendrix]

The only compliment I accept is that I smell good, because I objectively do at any given time

The rest is bullshit, and regs don't even try to come out with the usual as they know that I'll know it's bs.

[RandomGuy99]

I think the OP's experiences vary because with the kissing you get into "the zone" and lose yourself in the booking because the SP has got you relaxed and engaged.  With distant SPs you don't get engaged and you don't get in "the zone" at all. I have similar experiences. It's the difference between a P&D and a good booking. In my experience 30 minute bookings are often P&D style and in 1 hr or longer bookings the SP makes more of an effort or I just relax into the booking more.

It takes 2 to make a good booking.

[alabama1]

I think the OP's experiences vary because with the kissing you get into "the zone" and lose yourself in the booking because the SP has got you relaxed and engaged.  With distant SPs you don't get engaged and you don't get in "the zone" at all. I have similar experiences. It's the difference between a P&D and a good booking. In my experience 30 minute bookings are often P&D style and in 1 hr or longer bookings the SP makes more of an effort or I just relax into the booking more.

It takes 2 to make a good booking.

In my opinion, 15 minutes is P&D, not 30.

[speedygonzal]

I think the OP's experiences vary because with the kissing you get into "the zone" and lose yourself in the booking because the SP has got you relaxed and engaged.  With distant SPs you don't get engaged and you don't get in "the zone" at all. I have similar experiences. It's the difference between a P&D and a good booking. In my experience 30 minute bookings are often P&D style and in 1 hr or longer bookings the SP makes more of an effort or I just relax into the booking more.

It takes 2 to make a good booking.

I think you decode the mystery

[JonasG]

In my opinion, 15 minutes is P&D, not 30.

Yeah definitely. I only ever do 30 minute bookings and more often than not have no issues with the effort a WG puts in or that it feels P+D.