So I have been married to my high school girlfriend for 15 years now, I am 40 very soon and we still get on brilliantly, and still have a reasonable sex life. All is rosy then? No need to punt?
I discovered inadvertently about a year ago that my wife was having late night Facebook chats with a work colleague. I didn't really have a problem with it, I mean the guy is a twat but clearly has decent taste in women.
It moved on to video calling, I would hear her chatting to him whilst I was upstairs in the bath, about the only time I am not around her or the livingroom.
From there, I cracked her FB password & was able to find out that she had been "performing" during her video calls with him, showing off her ample tits & playing with herself.
As things do, they seem to have moved on to getting physical with one another. Now from their chats I gather they have kissed frequently, she has gone down on him a few times & wanked him off some too. They haven't gone the distance. Yet.
I have been pretty relaxed about the whole thing so far, I didn't mind the video calls as 9 times out of 10 she would get herself horny as hell & I would reap the benefits. She has become a whole lot more sexual in the last year or so, like a breath of fresh air. I actually find it a little bit sexy too that my (usually pretty reserved) wife has turned into a webcam girl! I told her she should charge him! Didn't go down too well...
She knows I know about the video calls but she doesn't know much more than that, certainly not that I can monitor her conversations with this guy. She let slip while she was drunk one night that she had sucked him off but tried to pass it off as drunken ramblings the next day.
However as always there is a giant cloud on the horizon, they have started chatting about meeting at my house during the day (she only works 3 days & he is out & about quite often - plenty chance to pop in for a "cup of tea") and have actually met there twice, although from what I gather she has bottled out on both occasions as did he the 2nd time. Both of these chumps freely admit to each other that they love their wife/husband (me) dearly & wouldn't want to lose us!!! To be honest I will lose the plot if I do find out that they have been at it in my place, that is a line that should not be crossed.
Bizarre situation really.
So I keep on punting as it gives me some strange kind of release & keeps me thinking that I can do this as long as she has her fun. I don't usually go for penetration, normally just massage & HR, or occasionally a girlfriend-type punt that ends in some O or HR, rarely do I go the full monty.
Think I just wanted to get that off my chest really, no other reason for posting it I suppose. Sorry to bore...