How Often Do You Walk Away

[south_fifty]

Met a well reviewed on here escort recently expecting a regular GFE experience, when I walked through the door the lady was no where near as pretty as her AW profile pics which looked well made up but fairly genuine and her figure was a fair 'chunkier' that I expected.

Anyway I pay and get about business but my heart is not really in it and get my usual number of cums in.  I leave totally underwhelmed thinking I wish I walked and gone back to work and saved the cash.

(I'll do a  review once a few AW reviews have gone through to make sure my identities remain disconnected if that makes sense)

[David1970]

When in doubt walk out...that's my punting motto.

Done it quite a few times.

Even had a a hefty Brazilian SP ( profile said size 10 ), sit on the floor infront of the door refusing to move until I paid, I did not pay and left.

[GingerNuts]

Anyway I pay and get about business but my heart is not really in it and get my usual number of cums in.

What's the usual number?

Going by your review history you've cum once, twice and once.

[peter purves]

It is something you will have to learn to build up S_F if you haven't done so already.

There's no way around it except to keep practising until it becomes second nature to walk - if not happy.



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[pewpewpew]

I've never walked away and I've regretted that many times. I find the whole turning up to a strangers house in a strange neighbourhood very stressful so once I'm there I'm there, no matter how ugly she is. I don't want to repeat the stress for a plan b and I'm always super horny so worst case I get in, shag a monster, get out and regret it later.

Not helping myself or anyone else I know but this is how I'm wired

[peter purves]

I've never walked away and I've regretted that many times. I find the whole turning up to a strangers house in a strange neighbourhood very stressful so once I'm there I'm there, no matter how ugly she is. I don't want to repeat the stress for a plan b and I'm always super horny so worst case I get in, shag a monster, get out and regret it later.

Not helping myself or anyone else I know but this is how I'm wired

No! You have to keep trying to walk and eventually, you can hold up the banner as well





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[jeanphillipe]

No! You have to keep trying to walk and eventually, you can hold up the banner as well





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So off topic  is  banned and you sneaked in a liverpool reference here eh 

To OP,

I have walked once on a b&s, although I dont punt very often. If my b&s turns out to be fit , I prefer to stay.

[south_fifty]

Going by your review history you've cum once, twice and once

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Very good GN, you did some reading. I saw Jemma Jacobs 5 times in fairly quick succession just before she stopped on AW so reviewing her is of little benefit or am I wrong?. 

Do not paid for cums count? And I'm not talking about not self inflicted ones 

[GingerNuts]

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Very good GN, you did some reading. I saw Jemma Jacobs 5 times in fairly quick succession just before she stopped on AW so reviewing her is of little benefit or am I wrong?. 

Do not paid for cums count? And I'm not talking about not self inflicted ones 

A skim through your reviews didn't provide the answer so I asked the question. It's still unanswered.

[wristjob]

Met a well reviewed on here escort recently expecting a regular GFE experience, when I walked through the door the lady was no where near as pretty as her AW profile pics which looked well made up but fairly genuine and her figure was a fair 'chunkier' that I expected.

Anyway I pay and get about business but my heart is not really in it and get my usual number of cums in.  I leave totally underwhelmed thinking I wish I walked and gone back to work and saved the cash.

(I'll do a  review once a few AW reviews have gone through to make sure my identities remain disconnected if that makes sense)

I've had a couple that looked TGTBT and arrived 90% expecting to walk - that made it easier to get my mindset around accepting walking and I have done so 6 or 7 times.

I recently had a similar experience to yours. When I went in the door I seriously thought about walking but chose not to. It ended up really knocking the stuffing out of me - the punt was crap and I was almost ashamed of myself for not walking right at the start. Paying to fuck a girl you probably wouldn't fuck for free is so demoralising.

[south_fifty]

It's still unanswered

The answer you are looking for is once in an hour, twice in 2 hours.

Is it normal to declare ones performance?

New here as you can see but trying to contribute.

[Hobbit]

I remember seeing a girl which was advertised as late 30s and when she turned up she was over 60+. I should have said no I'm not interested, but due to it being an Outcall it was extremely difficult. Anyway, I gritted my teeth, closed my eyes and got on with the deed and only had one round. It still haunts me 2 years on.

Has anyone ever walked away from an Outcall and if so what would be best practice for it?

[Bonker]

Looking back over the years - not often enough.
I would guess that I should have walked away 80% of the time for the following reasons :

Ugly hooker
B&S
Dirty house /room
Dirty hooker
Felt uneasy

Plus the many times that the punt didn't go as expected/promised. Wouldn't it be nice if the same principle applied as with restaurants - pay at the end according to the quality of what you got.

Yeah. Dream on.

[RedKettle]

Like many on here I think my answer would be not often enough!!

However it is tricky - in my last review the woman was nothing like her profile suggested, much older and much heavier.  Like a generation older and twice as wide!  I probably should have walked - or whatever the saying is for an outcall to your hotel - but actually it turned into a very good punt. 

[simon07]

I have walked from the Chinese bait and switch from Viva street. Quite easy as the fake model gal is never the one on offer.

Even done this with Annabellas, Milton Keynes as they lure punters with fake or photoshopped gals that look nothing like reality. Mostly English gals than EE.


If it does not look like what it says on tin, keep on walking.

[jeanphillipe]

When in doubt walk out...that's my punting motto.

Done it quite a few times.

Even had a a hefty Brazilian SP ( profile said size 10 ), sit on the floor infront of the door refusing to move until I paid, I did not pay and left.

how to move a brazillian orca ?

[David1970]

how to move a brazillian orca ?

In this case told her that I wasn't paying and she was wasting her own time, she got up and swore at me, I left.

I once went to a well know flat in Glasgow who has a Madame, who told me she had a hot milf on. I turned up and this female in her late 60s and size 18 walked into the room in a school uniform. I just laughed and walked, the granny just excepted it.

I lost the number of times I have walked from B&S or misleading description.
It's my money and I choose who I spend it on, no pressure on me.

[TheMurloc]

Has anyone ever walked away from an Outcall and if so what would be best practice for it?

Not done an outcall walk (eviction?) but have had only one outcall without having seen the girl previously and that was an agency that sent a skinny unattractive flat chested girl who was described as a curvy DD stunner I should have but it’s a risky move as if the girl makes a scene you’re gonna be outed to the hotel/neighbours at the very least. Would be good to see info from someone that has done it

[Everhard115]

I have only punted a few times over the years but I would say I have walked out more than I punted! Learnt the hard way on the very first punt that it is my hard earned money so any misleading stuff and I am out of the door. Went in to see a polish girl once pics wise she looked a perfect size 8 in reality she was a proper apple shaped size 12 or above. Just told her your pics are misleading and calmly walked out. Its easier to walk out if its an incall location like a hotel or apartment as the working girl in all likelihood would not want to create a scene either.

[Home Alone]

Like many on here I think my answer would be not often enough!!

Aye. I can think of a few times when I really should have turned round as soon as I saw the British Indie SP who'd opened the door to me. One in particular was less of the Milf she advertised herself to be than one of the 'Grab a Grannie' from the Grafton Rooms, Liverpool on Wednesday nights [?] nearly 50 years ago!

[BoroPool]

good post. Had an outcall who was a b and s difficult to get out of that one.

[MrMatrix]

When in doubt walk out...that's my punting motto.

Done it quite a few times.

Even had a a hefty Brazilian SP ( profile said size 10 ), sit on the floor infront of the door refusing to move until I paid, I did not pay and left.

Bloody hell thats a strange one. So how did you negotiate yourself around her then?
I too have walked many times. At the end of the day I'm paying for my pleasure not her housekeeping.

[David1970]

Bloody hell thats a strange one. So how did you negotiate yourself around her then?
I too have walked many times. At the end of the day I'm paying for my pleasure not her housekeeping.

I explained it was her time and money she was wasting, just kept my cool and waited. After about 5 to 10 mins she got up and swore at me as she opened the door.

[Toddjones]

I always walk if I feel the need to but a outcall would be difficult as the wg has your address

[tynetunnel]

I always walk if I feel the need to but a outcall would be difficult as the wg has your address

Nope! I don’t live at Premier Inn! 

[MrMatrix]

I always walk if I feel the need to but a outcall would be difficult as the wg has your address

For that one reason alone I never do outcalls. Far too risky.

[brandonpete]

As the question is how many time s have you walked,I'm guessing it means without paying...roughly (in 30 odd years) 10 or 12 times. If is have I walked after paying I'd say at least 10 or 12 times( and twice after I was bollock naked once during an hours session,when the Wg was about to mount my precious 'gristle' with no nodder on him and she hadn't got any.but I'd already shot my lot with OWO earlier,so I didn't see it as a problem. The second time was a bit more frightening and in the early days of my punting...Scenario...picked up a well known (in the early '80's) street prostitute in Raglan St Coventry...back to her place in the flats on King William St...as I was new to the punting game I was not aware as I am now of the obvious,,"get out now" signs....Front door with holes punched in it,stink of dope,sounds coming from another room (I just thought it was the telly)...put into a bedroom with just a bed and mattress and junk all around.left for more than five mins while she pissed off with £20..came back and said "get your stuff off quick,I'm just going to check on the baby" (the, not my). Take my kegs off except my pants ...oh and lo and behold in comes a Black guy demanding that I give him the £20..well after nearly pissing myself.my youth as a street kid came back and just shouted back at that "she's taken my wallet"...out of the room he goes,on go my jeans,trainers and T shirt...pushing past him to get to the door,turning and facing saying "come on then mate" etc shit scared...out of the door and ran down about 4 flights of stairs nearly crying with fear ( At the time I was 31 yrs old,marrried,2 baby children). yep I'd count that as a walk.
But an overall comment about walking is that,most of my walks have taken place over the last 5 or 6 years.

[MME]

.....lo and behold in comes a Black guy demanding that I give him the £20..well after nearly pissing myself.my youth as a street kid came back and just shouted back at that "she's taken my wallet"...out of the room he goes,on go my jeans,trainers and T shirt...pushing past him to get to the door,turning and facing saying "come on then mate" etc shit scared...out of the door and ran down about 4 flights of stairs nearly crying with fear ( At the time I was 31 yrs old,marrried,2 baby children). yep I'd count that as a walk......

Sorry for your misfortune there but that's the maddest thing I've read all week - what a bad day you were having.! What a great anecdote.

[BogBog1]

Paying to fuck a girl you probably wouldn't fuck for free is so demoralising.

THIS. I've only fallen into this trap a couple of times, earlier on in my punting career, and I hated myself for weeks afterwards. I'm a lot more selective about who I punt these days (plus I'm a Seeking Arrangement user so that also cuts down on bona fide SPs I see), so generally I don't need to walk as the girl is well reviewed and great. But on occasion I've been faced with a munter and I've immediately retreated.

[jame75]

If the pics of the woman are clearly fake, price increases or their place stinks, i make my excuses and walk.

[wristjob]

If the pics of the woman are clearly fake, price increases or their place stinks, i make my excuses and walk.

Looks like you do that a lot!

[dickhon]

walked away twice now due to really cold welcomes..always found that a warm welcome equalled a cracking punt and the dissasters always kicked off with a rude or cold welcome. Wish I d done it before on the bad punts i endured after a bad start. The best escorts stand out  a mile right from the word go ..and so do the worst. One was romanian and I could tell it was going to be like shagging a corpse and the 2nd was English and immediately I could tell her profile was a con trick from her initial attitude. Their loss not mine. I kept the money for escorts i knew would be worth the trouble because our money is very hard earned.. well I know mine is !

[David1970]

walked away twice now due to really cold welcomes..always found that a warm welcome equalled a cracking punt and the dissasters always kicked off with a rude or cold welcome. Wish I d done it before on the bad punts i endured after a bad start. The best escorts stand out  a mile right from the word go ..and so do the worst. One was romanian and I could tell it was going to be like shagging a corpse and the 2nd was English and immediately I could tell her profile was a con trick from her initial attitude. Their loss not mine. I kept the money for escorts i knew would be worth the trouble because our money is very hard earned.. well I know mine is !

Could you post a link of the ladies you walked from please

[Bonker]

Any tips on how to walk away guys?
Make an excuse (e.g.left my wallet in the car) or just turn on your heel and walk out?

I've felt uncomfortable every time I've walked away, however justified.

Reactions from the wg have ranged from mild abuse "must be queer" to threats of violence and outing. Ignored them all but still felt unhappy.

[getsbettereverytime]

Any tips on how to walk away guys?
Make an excuse (e.g.left my wallet in the car) or just turn on your heel and walk out?

I've felt uncomfortable every time I've walked away, however justified.

If you are in London and meeting for the first time you have to be ready to leave on arrival - loads of B&S, scruffy, miserable fat WG that are nothing like their profile on AW - just leave and tel them its not what you were looking for. If you want to leave and end up staying you will feel a lot worse than if you had just said good bye!

[horsa]

leave as soon as your at the door or do you wait a couple of minutes? 

[BogBog1]

leave as soon as your at the door or do you wait a couple of minutes? 

As soon as the door opens and you realise the reality is too far from the promise. That could mean either the girl is uglier/fatter/older/whatever than her profile pics, or (2) the welcome is frosty rather than cheerful. I totally agree with the comment above that a cheerful, friendly welcome almost always leads to a great punt. And a silent, unsmiling welcome generally means it's going to be a shit punt. You can get that first impression within a few seconds of arriving. And, it's much easier to leave when you're standing in the doorway, than 2 or 3 minutes later when you're in the room, possibly not near the door, and possibly partially undressed (or even worse, having already handed over money).

[DanHardy]

From memory, only the once did I walk but there should have been more times than that. There are other times that I wanted to run but I stayed and I regret that looking back.

[MrMatrix]

As soon as the door opens and you realise the reality is too far from the promise. That could mean either the girl is uglier/fatter/older/whatever than her profile pics, or (2) the welcome is frosty rather than cheerful. I totally agree with the comment above that a cheerful, friendly welcome almost always leads to a great punt. And a silent, unsmiling welcome generally means it's going to be a shit punt. You can get that first impression within a few seconds of arriving. And, it's much easier to leave when you're standing in the doorway, than 2 or 3 minutes later when you're in the room, possibly not near the door, and possibly partially undressed (or even worse, having already handed over money).

Agreed- The next opportunity to leave is when you confirm the services you are expecting, only to find she doesn't do OWO or FK and what ever else you want isnt on the cards. Thats the next time to walk- done it many times, even with very attractive SP's. If I'm not happy 4/5 times I walk.
And dont feel bad about as she wont feel bad about taking your money under false pretences.

[hermanmunster]

Agreed- The next opportunity to leave is when you confirm the services you are expecting, only to find she doesn't do OWO or FK and what ever else you want isnt on the cards. Thats the next time to walk- done it many times, even with very attractive SP's. If I'm not happy 4/5 times I walk.
And dont feel bad about as she wont feel bad about taking your money under false pretences.

Whilst I agree with you, I have never ever discussed services with a girl before going ahead.  I am nervous that the whole experience will become too mechanical.  I take the view that if you do enough research you should hopefully be able to know - with confidence - about the services you will receive.  A slightly risky strategy I know but it usually works - possibly 20 visits since the last occasion it didn't.

[yandex]

Having read through other people's more confident approach - I have to say, I'm with PPP on this one.

I've never walked away and I've regretted that many times. I find the whole turning up to a strangers house in a strange neighbourhood very stressful so once I'm there I'm there, no matter how ugly she is. I don't want to repeat the stress for a plan b and I'm always super horny so worst case I get in, shag a monster, get out and regret it later.

Not helping myself or anyone else I know but this is how I'm wired

I get so little opportunity that the hassle of walking and then trying to sort something else becomes more dominant in my brain than staying and lying back and thinking of England. The only thing is that thanks to UKP, I'm becoming more determined to get what I'm expecting and will walk the next time it's reasonable (or so I say now)

[hermanmunster]

I have never walked away during an incall visit, but did once during an outcall visit.

I had an upmarket hotel in Westminster booked as a day room for works purposes.  I invited a girl along for the last couple of hours it was available.  She turned up late and wasted so much time. Eventually she got changed into something more inviting but put this stupid sun visor hat thing on - the type that is more of a band around her head with a plastic filter type peak.  Eventually the situation became more intimate and I gently leaned forward to lift the sun visor off her head - she flew into a massive rage (I have absolutely no idea why), she was ranting and raving in broken English and probably Romanian (although she claimed to be from Italy).  I had really had enough and told her so.  I could not be bothered to stay in the room any longer with this obnoxious creature.  I just got up and left with my briefcase.

Subsequently I realised that she had stolen £500 from my wallet.  I phoned her several times with no answer, eventually the phone was answered, some "chav" who threatened to track me down and "sort me out".  A VERY expensive lesson learnt - but one I often think of when judging how honest or sincere a girl seems (because this girl seemed nice and genuine - what a fool I was)!

It was in hindsight a good experience to help me understand these girls.

[Hobbit]

I have never walked away during an incall visit, but did once during an outcall visit.

I had an upmarket hotel in Westminster booked as a day room for works purposes.  I invited a girl along for the last couple of hours it was available.  She turned up late and wasted so much time. Eventually she got changed into something more inviting but put this stupid sun visor hat thing on - the type that is more of a band around her head with a plastic filter type peak.  Eventually the situation became more intimate and I gently leaned forward to lift the sun visor off her head - she flew into a massive rage (I have absolutely no idea why), she was ranting and raving in broken English and probably Romanian (although she claimed to be from Italy).  I had really had enough and told her so.  I could not be bothered to stay in the room any longer with this obnoxious creature.  I just got up and left with my briefcase.

Subsequently I realised that she had stolen £500 from my wallet.  I phoned her several times with no answer, eventually the phone was answered, some "chav" who threatened to track me down and "sort me out".  A VERY expensive lesson learnt - but one I often think of when judging how honest or sincere a girl seems (because this girl seemed nice and genuine - what a fool I was)!

It was in hindsight a good experience to help me understand these girls.

Stealing £500 from a punter is no joke. Why did you not write a review for this? It would have saved a lot of punters from experiencing the same issue. It's really important that punters review negative instances otherwise these girls will keep ripping us off.

[hermanmunster]

I probably should have written a review immediately. Firstly, i knew that those on here that seem to mock innocent/foolish punters would go to town. Secondly, she disappeared very quickly and the review became pointless, unnecessary and a waste of time. Rest assured if she ever reappears i will have something to say.

[Hobbit]

I probably should have written a review immediately. Firstly, i knew that those on here that seem to mock innocent/foolish punters would go to town. Secondly, she disappeared very quickly and the review became pointless, unnecessary and a waste of time. Rest assured if she ever reappears i will have something to say.

If the review is genuine and honest then nobody will mock you and you shouldn't be worried about that when writing reviews. Even though she disappeared quickly, writing a review still would have helped others and prevented her from doing the same to many other people.

[hermanmunster]

Yes, i agree now, but wasn't confident or experienced enough at the time.

[king tarzan]

Yes, i agree now, but wasn't confident or experienced enough at the time.

Experience and growing self confidence will help you to deal with situations and be more savvy in this murky world.

[doughboy]

I have walked from the Chinese bait and switch from Viva street. Quite easy as the fake model gal is never the one on offer.

Even done this with Annabellas, Milton Keynes as they lure punters with fake or photoshopped gals that look nothing like reality. Mostly English gals than EE.


If it does not look like what it says on tin, keep on walking.

Re Annabellas, just look at this flagrant bit of bullshit.....

Grace - as she looks on the Annabellas website:

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Grace - as she really looks:

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[tynetunnel]

Re Annabellas, just look at this flagrant bit of bullshit.....

Grace - as she looks on the Annabellas website:

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Grace - as she really looks:

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The Twitter tits are a lot further south!