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StevenLiverpool

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The desire to go with different women is very high and tempting for us guys, but for those in a relationship do you guys feel guilty afterwards?

Is it a case of what she don't know don't hurt? For me personally after I've released the load it's like shit what have I done. Then I'm guilty for a week, then it's like let's go with another one again

But I'm always on edge, when the missus rings my mobile when I'm working my heart misses beats, or if she is pissed off im thinking does she know something?

Just wondering if some of you guys in the same boat?

Offline hungrypunt

Been a few similar threads about it bud, my answer has always been no, (when I was together with the old bag) and sounds weird but at some points i used to think I hope she does catch me and fuck off...

But the other answer is youll soon get over it, and if you dont then maybe its not for you.


StevenLiverpool

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Been a few similar threads about it bud, my answer has always been no, (when I was together with the old bag) and sounds weird but at some points i used to think I hope she does catch me and fuck off...

But the other answer is youll soon get over it, and if you dont then maybe its not for you.

Too much too lose if I get caught, kids, house, car, bank balance, reputation, but do you know what? A tight juicy pussy is worth a gamble

Offline Mr long sausage

Been with the same girl for about ten years and I've never felt guilty when punting.

However I do feel guilty for chatting with birds on plenty of fish...

Chatting with real women = guilt

Shagging prozzys = no guilt

I've always assumed that on some level I know that speaking to 'real' women is more of a betrayal than having an emotionless shag with some tart who means less than zero to me

Offline bobbythedeal9

I think you should only be punting if your single. Definitely not if your married and have kids. I'm young and new to this, however if I found out my dad was cheating and punting on the side, I would disown him from my life.

Online frankc

I think you should only be punting if your single. Definitely not if your married and have kids. I'm young and new to this, however if I found out my dad was cheating and punting on the side, I would disown him from my life.

I'd be careful mate, once a punter, always a punter. Let's see where you are in 10 years time, maybe married with kids, the wife's gone off sex, what you going to do?

Offline Mr long sausage

I think you should only be punting if your single. Definitely not if your married and have kids. I'm young and new to this, however if I found out my dad was cheating and punting on the side, I would disown him from my life.

Fucking hell, you'll disown your dad just cos he wanted to get his nuts? If anything ur dads got more of a right to punt than you! Your young u should be out finding a wife. He's already got one an he's sick of her haha.

Ur dads probably done it anyway! isn't it something like 7 out of 10 uk men have been with a postitute?

Offline bobbythedeal9

You've been with the same girl for ten years yet you still punt?! If your not happy with the girl, I can't understand why you would still be together. Don't have kids with this girl because they will disown you too if your still shagging prossies on the side.

Offline Mr long sausage

You've been with the same girl for ten years yet you still punt?! If your not happy with the girl, I can't understand why you would still be together. Don't have kids with this girl because they will disown you too if your still shagging prossies on the side.

Your a hypocrite mate. Come back when u have been round the block a few times when you've got kids and your still punting. Like Frankc said, once a punter always a punter.

An for your information I'm extremely happy with my girlfriend, not that it's any business of yours

Offline bobbythedeal9

Who you trying to convince mate, shagging prossies and using plenty of fish haha. Your right though it's none of my business, but maybe you shouldn't post the information on a forum if you don't want someone to comment.

Obviously you can do as you like, I only punt because I'm single, when I want a girlfriend I'll get one and when that time comes Ill stop punting.

Offline Zeusthedoc

I think you should only be punting if your single. Definitely not if your married and have kids. I'm young and new to this, however if I found out my dad was cheating and punting on the side, I would disown him from my life.

interesting position to take.
comes down to the reason you punt really.

as long as you're an adult, punting with a consenting adult and are obeying the law, not anyone's to make a judgement really.

Offline ArtVandalay

I married and did feel guilty after my first punt... guilty and ashamed that I hadn't had the balls to do it earlier!

Markwillo1878

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I was punting for probably about 2 years and felt guilty every single time so have now completely stopped, haven't punted for about a year or so now and its the best thing i did for our relationship.

It isnt worth the chance of getting caught, as OP says, panicking off every phone call etc, much better relationship wise because of it.

I regret the couple of years of punting etc but still come on here for the banter, have a look at whats going on but i never go full hog anymore

Mancpunts

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Punting is a business exchange. You're just paying for a service. Think of it as getting your hair cut lmao

Offline Blue Moon

Punting has ensured I'm still happily married. I can separate the two situations easily - one is purely physical and the other is emotional. I enjoy having sex with multiple females so monogamy has never done it for me. If I didn't punt, I'd have affairs to get sex and that leads to emotional entanglement. Punting is much safer because it's a series of business transactions.   Bm

Offline lpopo

"when i want a girlfriend ill get one"
"id disown my dad for punting"

Someone has a lot of growing up to do. Quick glabce at your post history suggests bullshitter and tom pepper to me

How you expect to run with the wolves come night, when you spend all day sparring wit' the puppies?

Offline Zeusthedoc

"when i want a girlfriend ill get one"
"id disown my dad for punting"

Someone has a lot of growing up to do. Quick glabce at your post history suggests bullshitter and tom pepper to me

How you expect to run with the wolves come night, when you spend all day sparring wit' the puppies?

Is that yours or are you quoting from elsewhere?
I like that!

Markwillo1878

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Is that yours or are you quoting from elsewhere?
I like that!

Think its omar from the wire

Offline lpopo

It is omar.
I only need half a chance to quote him and im on it!

Offline Mr long sausage

I was punting for probably about 2 years and felt guilty every single time so have now completely stopped, haven't punted for about a year or so now and its the best thing i did for our relationship.

It isnt worth the chance of getting caught, as OP says, panicking off every phone call etc, much better relationship wise because of it.

I regret the couple of years of punting etc but still come on here for the banter, have a look at whats going on but i never go full hog anymore

you posted a review in April and you said you were looking for a punt in Liverpool for November just gone?

I'm not bothered, just saying... Why lie? Even if you haven't punted since April, your still looking for a punt so you haven't packed it in.

Who you trying to convince mate, shagging prossies and using plenty of fish haha. Your right though it's none of my business, but maybe you shouldn't post the information on a forum if you don't want someone to comment.

Obviously you can do as you like, I only punt because I'm single, when I want a girlfriend I'll get one and when that time comes Ill stop punting.

well I never actually punted when i was single? I think the majority of people who punt are attached as its easier to be discreet with an escort than have a full blown affair were you have to worry about another persons feeling an shit (other than your partner). Even fuck buddies come with strings.

I think if I was in your position, punting while single, I'd take a look in the mirror and worry if it was because of some deep underlying issues. Like no confidence with women or severe personality flaws that make you unable to form lasting relationships... something like that?   :thumbsup:
 
If I was single again I wouldn't be wasting my time with emotionless sex with emotionless whores. I'd be out finding mrs right.

Dunno why your not tbh.  :dancegirl:

Offline lpopo

I think if I was in your position, punting while single, I'd take a look in the mirror and worry if it was because of some deep underlying issues. Like no confidence with women or severe personality flaws that make you unable to form lasting relationships... something like that?   :thumbsup:
 

Typed out similar but lost it. Youre kidding yourself if you would rather punt while young and single. Spend your money at the gym and going out meeting real girls. Practice your skills on munters til you can get and please a bird you want to keep. Then get your brass on as often as you like without cheating yourself out of an important part your life

Offline rovingman

The desire to go with different women is very high and tempting for us guys, but for those in a relationship do you guys feel guilty afterwards?

Is it a case of what she don't know don't hurt? For me personally after I've released the load it's like shit what have I done. Then I'm guilty for a week, then it's like let's go with another one again

But I'm always on edge, when the missus rings my mobile when I'm working my heart misses beats, or if she is pissed off im thinking does she know something?

Just wondering if some of you guys in the same boat?

Be prepared  to dance to the tune of  the  music  should  she  find  out....

Or ....quit  punting......:-) 

Been punting  for  years. . Still  can't  quit...and I've had  some  stunning  gfs...

Baffles  me  why  I do it...must just  like variety  :-)

« Last Edit: December 05, 2016, 03:46:04 pm by rovingman »

Offline hungrypunt

Obviously you can do as you like, I only punt because I'm single, when I want a girlfriend I'll get one and when that time comes Ill stop punting.

Let s look into the future mcFly duh duh duuuuuuhhhh///// ahhh I see it now, your a bored old fucker and the wifes a shit shag / gone off sex / weighs as much as a fuckin baby rhino/ fanny like a clowns pocket/ more wrinkles than an old chip paper/ wont chew your meat anymore / never speak to each other/ shes shagged your next door neighbour and her milkman and big Leroy/ and your hung like Stuart Little////

youve worked hard for years, earned a few quid and can afford to let your sack down when you want .....even if that means paying for it, with some of our finest northern beauties completely NSA...every day every week if you want..... NOW tell me you wont punt....

Each to their own but your comments are misplaced in my opinion !!! :mad:
« Last Edit: December 05, 2016, 03:49:00 pm by hungrypunt »

Offline newcummer

There have been times around my early punting days a few years ago I would feel so guilty about it, and it affected our sex life.  But now I think its actually helping.  In the days-weeks after the punt my drive goes through the roof.  Its like it unlocks the dirty side of my mind!

I don't see it as cheating, as I have deep feelings for my other half and we have very intimate sex which doesnt happen with WG's.  But I do crave sexual contact with beautiful women and get such a thrill from the whole experience - the nervous build-up, the action itself and then the memories in the wank bank afterwards.  No emotional attachment to these WG's at all though.  It keeps my mind straight and I feel no need to have any kind of sordid life-wrecking affair.  But each to their own  :cool:

Offline Access

Whether you see it as cheating is irrelevant... would your wife/gf see it as cheating? I reckon the answer would be a resounding yes.

Online frankc

Let s look into the future mcFly duh duh duuuuuuhhhh///// ahhh I see it now, your a bored old fucker and the wifes a shit shag / gone off sex / weighs as much as a fuckin baby rhino/ fanny like a clowns pocket/ more wrinkles than an old chip paper/ wont chew your meat anymore / never speak to each other/ shes shagged your next door neighbour and her milkman and big Leroy/ and your hung like Stuart Little////

youve worked hard for years, earned a few quid and can afford to let your sack down when you want .....even if that means paying for it, with some of our finest northern beauties completely NSA...every day every week if you want..... NOW tell me you wont punt....

Each to their own but your comments are misplaced in my opinion !!! :mad:

Now there speaks the voice of experience... :D... great post mate

StevenLiverpool

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I married and did feel guilty after my first punt... guilty and ashamed that I hadn't had the balls to do it earlier!

Seriously? You must have felt some guilt?

StevenLiverpool

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I was punting for probably about 2 years and felt guilty every single time so have now completely stopped, haven't punted for about a year or so now and its the best thing i did for our relationship.

It isnt worth the chance of getting caught, as OP says, panicking off every phone call etc, much better relationship wise because of it.

I regret the couple of years of punting etc but still come on here for the banter, have a look at whats going on but i never go full hog anymore

Good on you, but what's not full hog? What's the limit you would go to?

StevenLiverpool

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Sometimes bad habits are hard to get rid off

I'd be absolutely gutted to see my wife's tears if she ever found out,not to mention the shame I would have bought to the family and how could I look at my kids? They're teenagers now

I'm seriously thinking of quitting cheating but it's hard, too hard especially when you can go with a fit girl and your wife is overweight with stretch marks bearing the marks of 3 kids


Offline leeds_lad

Been with the same girl for about ten years and I've never felt guilty when punting.

However I do feel guilty for chatting with birds on plenty of fish...

Chatting with real women = guilt

Shagging prozzys = no guilt

I've always assumed that on some level I know that speaking to 'real' women is more of a betrayal than having an emotionless shag with some tart who means less than zero to me

Id go with this mate. I'm Married with kids, still have sex with the wife but never as much as my sex drive needs though.  Seeing WG's is a good way of not hassling the fuck out of her and better than cheating with another woman and having a relationship with them! Funnily enough my wife is liberal and says how prostitution should be completely legal for this situation. Although I'm sure if I got caught it'd be a different story. No guilt, you're doing your marriage a favour!

Offline webpunter

Can't figure how chatting with civvies should make you feel guilty
Likewise how shagging civvies / hookers is gonna make no difference if the OH finds out ! 
IMO the chances of getting caught increases exponentially with civvies as opposed to hookers.  The reasons why is a very very long list

Chatting with real women = guilt
Shagging prozzys = no guilt

Offline hungrypunt

Sometimes bad habits are hard to get rid off

I'd be absolutely gutted to see my wife's tears if she ever found out,not to mention the shame I would have bought to the family and how could I look at my kids? They're teenagers now

I'm seriously thinking of quitting cheating but it's hard, too hard especially when you can go with a fit girl and your wife is overweight with stretch marks bearing the marks of 3 kids

YOu need to get outta this game then mate, its not for the faint hearted, plus your early ejac is pissing you off too isnt it, (ooops your mates i mean)  :lol: :lol:
https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=121956.msg1387615#msg1387615
« Last Edit: December 05, 2016, 08:08:57 pm by hungrypunt »

StevenLiverpool

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YOu need to get outta this game then mate, its not for the faint hearted, plus your early ejac is pissing you off too isnt it, (ooops your mates i mean)  :lol: :lol:
https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=121956.msg1387615#msg1387615

If it was easy as clicking your fingers and getting out I think quite a few would, but man doesn't think with his brain, he thinks with his willy, that's why we are all on this forum

Markwillo1878

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Good on you, but what's not full hog? What's the limit you would go to?

Basiclly i dont punt any more, i lurk on here and read everyones opinions and keep an eye on the scene, but never actually take the plunge and see anyone

Offline hungrypunt

keep an eye on the scene,  actually take the plunge and see anyone
Am I right in assuming a rough translation MW ?, "I dont at the moment but probably will soon"

Markwillo1878

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Am I right in assuming a rough translation MW ?, "I dont at the moment but probably will soon"

Nope

krediton

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Let's be clear this is an addiction like it or not and for some it's easier to quit than it is for others in the same way as if you had an addiction to alcohol or drugs
Believe me if you feel any guilt and I for one did then give it up , I didn't think I could and always thought just one more time it feels good and no one will find out etc etc but it is a risk and for me I have now managed to stop and feel much better about myself and who I am , yes am married with kids so always knew the risk but it took me some tie to realise that I actually had a sex addiction and needed to do something about it and glad I did , even went to see a therapist to get it right in my mind
So if you have any twinge of guilt take my advise and stop the habit otherwise it will just continue , for me it took 5 years to realise I had a problem but each to their own 😊

Offline ItalianJoey

Someone once said to me 'if it was good enough for the Greeks and the Romans then it's good enough for me...they fucked whatever they wanted!'  :D

In all seriousness, I'm very happy with my other half. I have my own reasons why I punt and in a weird way, as I'm sure others can empathise, it's helped our relationship.

Offline rovingman

Let's be clear this is an addiction like it or not and for some it's easier to quit than it is for others in the same way as if you had an addiction to alcohol or drugs
Believe me if you feel any guilt and I for one did then give it up , I didn't think I could and always thought just one more time it feels good and no one will find out etc etc but it is a risk and for me I have now managed to stop and feel much better about myself and who I am , yes am married with kids so always knew the risk but it took me some tie to realise that I actually had a sex addiction and needed to do something about it and glad I did , even went to see a therapist to get it right in my mind
So if you have any twinge of guilt take my advise and stop the habit otherwise it will just continue , for me it took 5 years to realise I had a problem but each to their own 😊

Good points... planning on starting up again? Why else would you be on here???

Offline rovingman

Id go with this mate. I'm Married with kids, still have sex with the wife but never as much as my sex drive needs though.  Seeing WG's is a good way of not hassling the fuck out of her and better than cheating with another woman and having a relationship with them! Funnily enough my wife is liberal and says how prostitution should be completely legal for this situation. Although I'm sure if I got caught it'd be a different story. No guilt, you're doing your marriage a favour!

Good to hear.... it should be made easier and safer etc...
Perhaps her liberal nature was due to first hand experience or knows a WG?

Hopefully not....but it happens apparently!

Offline leeds_lad

Good to hear.... it should be made easier and safer etc...
Perhaps her liberal nature was due to first hand experience or knows a WG?

Hopefully not....but it happens apparently!

maybe so, but can imagine much negative feedback due to how Vanilla she is!

I think anyone who on here is saying 'I have given up now' but still logs in to see what's going on the scene is in denial. It's like being a non-smoker who hates it, but hey, they'll smoke on a night out!

Offline rovingman

lol.....  ;)

I agree..  I came out of punting retirement after a full 5 days.... didn't log onto or browse any punting related sites... the only way to quit  :lol:

Offline eggbutty

Variety is the spice of life
just don't tell the wife :thumbsup:

StevenLiverpool

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Some good points lads, the bottom line is we are all b**stards

If our other half found out that's what she would call us


Offline Taff

Always viewed it as a posh wank myself.  Many of us will watch porn and the bishop unbeknown to wife.  Having a punt is just the next level up from this.  The golden rules I follow are  Take the necessary precautions, don't do it your own doorstep and tell absolutely no one. 

StevenLiverpool

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Always viewed it as a posh wank myself.  Many of us will watch porn and the bishop unbeknown to wife.  Having a punt is just the next level up from this.  The golden rules I follow are  Take the necessary precautions, don't do it your own doorstep and tell absolutely no one.


Nice one, some very good points that I would never have thought off  :D

Offline ISTS2005

Been with the same girl for about ten years and I've never felt guilty when punting.

However I do feel guilty for chatting with birds on plenty of fish...

Chatting with real women = guilt

Shagging prozzys = no guilt

I've always assumed that on some level I know that speaking to 'real' women is more of a betrayal than having an emotionless shag with some tart who means less than zero to me

Likewise!

Offline MrMatrix

I know where you are coming from OP, however a sexless relationship is not normal unless you've agreed celibacy. Therefore you need to do something.  If your OH valued your love and the values you hold, you wouldn't be considering this move in the first place, as I suspect it goes against every thing you believe in. But what choice do you have, councelling would be my first choice but if that doesn't work your left with punting. You've been forced to consider this as an alternative.  After your 20th punt you will feel a lot easier and it is addictive. make sure you have a punting phone to reduce your OH catching you out. best of luck.  :hi:

easynow

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If you could guarantee no STDs I would be fecking skint! Guilty hell no. Anxious about possibly getting an STD. Yeah nearer the mark but careful planning is key and dont be scared to walk lads.
When a real beauty is chomping on my meat up to my nuts I am happiest fella around. Whats 80 dabs? Its a pound a day since sex with the missus (misionary). Hey dont knock it daffs will be out next time I get any.  :D

Jaymantra

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I never punted until the sex dried up in my marriage. I initially felt guilty but 2 and a bit years into this I just accept that sometimes I'm going to fuck some girl. In my youth I had no problem separating sex and love and now I've accepted what this is about I don't feel guilty any more. I'm still careful though! She does not need to know.